FabSwingers.com forum: 100s of messages

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do ppl get so many messages?do they not use filters? I do,and am glad I only get a dozen or so a week.i couldn't cope with too many

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm sure people do but we've never had anywhere near that many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get excited if there's a couple in the "in box " sad, I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do ppl get so many messages?do they not use filters? I do,and am glad I only get a dozen or so a week.i couldn't cope with too many

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we probably get 3-4 unsolicited a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The "we get hundreds of messages a day" brigade are probably lying!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked everyone, might as well while it's school holidays.

Single women tend to be more sought out on here i reckon, if i upload pics or get verified my inbox gets a fair amount of attention despite my having filters.

Doesn't help i get London guys and Scottish guys finding me somehow as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No filters and barely any messages here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I show my fat body I get more. Maybe they think I'm desperate

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've seen a lady get a new 'wanna fuck?' type message about every 5 minutes. Constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No filters and barely any messages here

I'd message you anytime lol.

I get happy if I get one message lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It the "ohh i forgot to sign out,loads of messages to go through" i dont like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get excited if there's a couple in the "in box " sad, I know

A couple, i'm over the moon if i get one,even if its not what i'm looking for, means someone has noticed me lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get excited if there's a couple in the "in box " sad, I know

A couple, i'm over the moon if i get one,even if its not what i'm looking for, means someone has noticed me lol."

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"No filters and barely any messages here

Ditto. And am happy to keep it that way

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I don't get that many either, but then I think I pi** to many people off in my local area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No filters to speak of, but still very little - hopefully being nice and having a reasonable profile will pay off one day! Patient!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No filters and barely any messages here

I'd message you anytime lol.

I get happy if I get one message lol"

But you haven't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have filters up most of the time and get 1 or 2 a week x I'm more than happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People not getting many and got no filters, are you just not on here much and that's maybe why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do ppl get so many messages?do they not use filters? I do,and am glad I only get a dozen or so a week.i couldn't cope with too many

Can I send you some please xxx

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By *helsea_PowellTV/TS
over a year ago

Bradford

I get at least 10 a day, usually from 'straight' guys lol even the occasional lad I went to school with! If only they knew :p x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I chat so much I got a warning that I'd have to upgrade from Silver site membership to Gold!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"People not getting many and got no filters, are you just not on here much and that's maybe why?"

I'm on here pretty much all the time. Granted, I've recently hidden my profile but I find the amount of time I spend on here in no way reflects the number of messages I get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No filters and barely any messages here

That probably shows that people are actually reading your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The "we get hundreds of messages a day" brigade are probably lying!

i think u could be right,it seems they like to brag maybe to get more attention.100s is just silly.you wouldnt want the aggro.filters all the way for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a few but all depends if we've added pocks or commented on here.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

"I don't get that many either, but then I think I pi** to many people off in my local area

Haha snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get around 20 a day if I don't post. But if I do a fun post I get around 45 if I post for a meet then I get around 60 a day but I think it's the fact that I'm the only black woman for miles where I live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "we get hundreds of messages a day" brigade are probably lying!

Not all and especially not when still fairly new. Also depends on the pics I reckon.

I met a "lady" who shall remain nameless for now back in the summer on my previous profile! Saw her a few times...on the Tuesday we looked at her profile...she deleted all messages from a rather full inbox. I saw her again on the Thursday night....she had over 400 messages. So yes it does happen!

Not to me I may add.....half a dozen a week is doing well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't post I'd say I'd get about 100. If a status probably around 100-200 if I'm in hot pics of a meet then I can easy get up to 500 in a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People not getting many and got no filters, are you just not on here much and that's maybe why?

I'm on here pretty much all the time. Granted, I've recently hidden my profile but I find the amount of time I spend on here in no way reflects the number of messages I get."

Yeah i don't see you a lot in the forums, so wasn't sure if you're on much or not, and a few of the other people saying as well.

I'm expecting a big influx of mail after the holidays when guys will presume i'm gagging for a fuck, little do they know i'm still getting some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got filters on and think I've had 1 day where I had 25 messages. Generally get one or two a day. I'm happy not to be bombarded much prefer to find what I'm looking for X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres is an obvious response to this question but i suspect it would get a suspension for being mean lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People not getting many and got no filters, are you just not on here much and that's maybe why?"

Nope. I'm undesirable....or guys read profiles. One of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres is an obvious response to this question but i suspect it would get a suspension for being mean lol.

I can't see the obvious response?

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We got just over 100 messages in our first 24 hours on the site. When Rach had a singles account, she got about 50% more in her first 24 hours. It died down though after a week or so when the accounts fell off the 'New' sections. With our filters set we barely get anything now but much prefer it that way.

Hundreds a day when you're established... scary thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres is an obvious response to this question but i suspect it would get a suspension for being mean lol.

I can't see the obvious response?

It's the ones who have fucked minging men hehehe...all the other men think they're in with a chance then.

That's what i reckon the answer was.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

5-10 a day, manageable. I'm an acquired taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "we get hundreds of messages a day" brigade are probably lying!

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a couple of my friends have showed me their phones with 300 odd messages

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By *ohnjones3210Man
over a year ago

Chester

I get about 1-3 (from different women) per day - sometimes "can I suck you" messages from men too. The most I've ever had was 30 (different people) in and that was after I messaged loads of ladies.

Ladies can get hundreds of messages in a day. A lady who I met up with several times, used to easily get 100 within a few hours. If she uploaded pics, it would go mental...

I was a lucky guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here a while and a year or so ago the quoted number was 80 a day. It's now gone up to a 100. Women are competitive with each other in relation to looks, desirability etc. God forbid that some women may be getting more messages than others.

How you use the site will have an affect too. If you get your kit off on cam or go into chat etc then the messages will reflect that. The type of pictures you have reflect it.

A pic of a shoe versus a close up pussy pic, which is likely to gain more attention from men.

If your filters are on and you ignore silly messages, then you will find quality over quantity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "we get hundreds of messages a day" brigade are probably lying!

Or not. I don't filter single men. Because I'm looking for them. When I'm really active and put a lot of new pics on I've received over a 1000 in a few days.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a status that is posted to stimulate a reaction

new pics

high chat/forum activity

little or no filters

profile that asks people to contact them

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"How do ppl get so many messages?do they not use filters? I do,and am glad I only get a dozen or so a week.i couldn't cope with too many

I'm convinced that some don't use the filters as they like the attention.. their profile their choices.

When I want to cut down on the messages I use my face picture... It's better than filters..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky if I get 3 or 4 ..... Unless I've instigated the convo

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I uploaded my Xmas pics about an hour ago and I've gone from zero messages to 97

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gets tons,i,delete most,,ive 43 unread ones at the mo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course we like attention...i wouldn't want an empty inbox, and it actually feels a little weird not getting random messages now i've blocked everyone, but idk why people don't believe that some people get loads of messages or think they're complaining for attention when they've already got that attention?

I used to moan about messages coz it is hard to chat to the guys you wanna chat to if there's loads of messages heading to your inbox, didn't know about filters but learned from the forums and got my inbox manageable because of it.

It also pisses me off how people on this site think people can't complain about something, or are stupid for doing so. Venting sometimes can be the one thing that makes you able to deal with something.

If you're not popular then tough, some people are so just accept it. And yeah they aren't your conventional beauties either but this isn't your conventional site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have filters on and get around 3-5 a day, around 10-15 if we put up new pics. All of them are too many as obviously not reading our profile.

Without filters we got around 25 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The "we get hundreds of messages a day" brigade are probably lying!

When we advertised for guys for a hotel meet with a couple of ladies we had over 300messages. When I had a singles profile. Every time a new photo went up I would get loads of messages ...And If I was going somewhere.. again it would often be high double and sometimes easily 3figures. It wasnt even local guys all the time either.

I couldn't filter either as at the time I used it to organise things for others too and for club enquiries... .

So it is easily possible. I'm just thankful now it's not so bad.

We will meet and play with single guys... But we have them blocked purely because I soon get fed up with the idiot messages... The other day I took them off... I lasted less than an hour before I blocked again... The messages were so bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My filters are set tight but i still get between 50 to 150 messages a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My filters are set tight but i still get between 50 to 150 messages a day."

yeah same I feel your pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My filters are set tight but i still get between 50 to 150 messages a day.

yeah same I feel your pain "

I don't have pain. The amount of messages doesn't bother me. I can't reply to all of them but the ones that interest me get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank the lord I don't ,happy Christmas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I've literally had a 100 messages this whole year!!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I get 1 or 2 mostly, the very rare occasion I might rich the busy heights of 4.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no filters set as far as I know, and I'm having an exceptionally busy day if I get a dozen messages. That will mean I've had the site open in a tab all day and I've been in the chat room for a few hours.

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By *ongleggedfemaleWoman
over a year ago

Bucks

I'm a single lady. I do not get 100s of messages a day so those saying they do is bullshit. Only time I loads of messages is when I have a well fabbed pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a single lady. I do not get 100s of messages a day so those saying they do is bullshit. Only time I loads of messages is when I have a well fabbed pic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People get messages ????

Must be cool

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By *orty-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

Id say on average we get 10 a day. 85% are "wanna fuck" type mindless messages. 9% are the copy paste copy paste copy paste same message sent to everyone. 5% "Hows yous"

1% are worth a eitherway reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Filters on and profile is hidden and I still get 3-4 messages a day. With public photos of my face and boobs I easily get 150+ messages a day.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We have our filters on, so we rarely get any...which is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know when you suddenly start to feel deeply unattractive.

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