FabSwingers.com forum: Repeats meets?

By *awandOrder OP Couple
over a year ago

SW London

Had this discussion yesterday ... and not sure if our opinion has changed since we became a couple ... do you prefer repeat meets with a small social circle of regulars, one off meets with new playmates or a combination? As singles, we both prefer the latter, similarly we feel the same way as a couple ... something about repeat meets with the same people over and over that does not appeal to us ...

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By *awandOrder OP Couple
over a year ago

SW London

"Had this discussion yesterday ... and not sure if our opinion has changed since we became a couple ... do you prefer repeat meets with a small social circle of regulars, one off meets with new playmates or a combination? As singles, we both prefer the latter, similarly we feel the same way as a couple ... something about repeat meets with the same people over and over that does not appeal to us ..."

Forgot which order I put my list in (okay, am knackered, that's my excuse) .... we both prefer one off meets with new playmates, after that, familiarity breeds contempt and the thrill of the chase is gone ....

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

If they're good see again, if they're really good groom as a FB.

Otherwise I like turnover. Keeps it interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a few regular guys as well as the occasional new meet to keep the adrenaline going!

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

I much prefer repeats for a number of reasons, each to their own though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both. Meeting new people and sharing in those different experiences is awesome. But at the same time there are things we would like to try that aren't going to happen with people we have never met before.

So both works well for us.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind repeat meets if she was great fun, but unless I gotten into a relationship then I'm happy seeing new gals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to prefer one offs. It was difficult maintaining relationships with people I only fucked.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Fresh meat is great. Repeat meets you can really swing with though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a combination. If i meet someone that i click with and we have great sex i like to meet them more than once....but i also thoroughly enjoy the one offs.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

There isn't one person I have met that I wouldn't be happy to meet again, meeting new people always brings extra spice and variety.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the combination..I'd tend not to meet up with people specifically looking for repeat meets though, while I'm single I prefer doing my own thing...I'd never term my repeat meets as fb's to be honest..

and I have no jealousy issues if my friends are meeting other people, nor am I nosy in asking about their meets..with such things like "why was I not invited to that all girl fuck session!"

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants

Of the meets I've had most I wouldnt be worried about seeing again. However, there is a couple and a single girl I've made friends with. And of the single male meets, one I've met twice and would see again but not worried if I don't. Another I would definitely meet again socially if not naughtily. And another two I could happily see time and time again though sadly lost touch with one over a silly misunderstanding.

I think I'd like a mix of both really. Someone regular but mixing in newbies as well. Greedy haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like both

At the moment struggling to get any type of meet! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like both

At the moment struggling to get any type of meet! X"

awww that can't be true

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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

For me, I generally prefer repeats, as it lets us explore more and push some boundaries only comfortable once there is a trust level.

However, making new connections is always fun. Be it at a club or friends of friends.

With friends of friends they might not be completely new but are new to me/her/them. Oh dear, that sounds like a second hand pair of underpants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to establish some kind of ongoing connection. Seeing people regularly (be that once every three months, once every year, whatever) is nice because you aren't discovering them each time and you can build on what you have done in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Repeat meets all the way - we've been fucking the same couple for over 2 years now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the combination..I'd tend not to meet up with people specifically looking for repeat meets though, while I'm single I prefer doing my own thing...I'd never term my repeat meets as fb's to be honest..

and I have no jealousy issues if my friends are meeting other people, nor am I nosy in asking about their meets..with such things like "why was I not invited to that all girl fuck session!""

Yeah I'm pretty much the same apart from i approach it from the married perspective so there's no way i could deal with someone wanting more than the occasional great session

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I like meeting people again and again because each time is different each situation is different and I've had better experiences further on with some people than the first meet.

But I dnt rule out fresh meets either because variety id the fruit of life and given this is a nsa site it makes more sense to not get too hooked on one person

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

away

Had a few repeat meetings, a lot easier second time to relax and enjoy the mutual pleasure

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