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"might be a floppy joe" it was big but certainly not the hardest I've encountered so I think you could have a point. | |||
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"It's not a bad thing " Not BAD, just a bit unusual! He must keep it in his pocket at all times 'just in case' as up to that point we'd never even kissed so he wouldn't have any reason to think he was on a promise | |||
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"I've seen pics of guys in em but never had guy use one. Bf stays hard well so wouldn't dream of it but guess if guy needs it to stay hard fair enough" Doesn't have to be in order to keep hard - I'll sometimes wear one just for the feel and look of it. Plus, it can intensify orgasm. Have only had positive comments from women when I've worn one at Chams. Mind you, it does seem slightly odd that he didn't mention it and seemed to want to hide it... | |||
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"I've seen pics of guys in em but never had guy use one. Bf stays hard well so wouldn't dream of it but guess if guy needs it to stay hard fair enough Doesn't have to be in order to keep hard - I'll sometimes wear one just for the feel and look of it. Plus, it can intensify orgasm. Have only had positive comments from women when I've worn one at Chams. Mind you, it does seem slightly odd that he didn't mention it and seemed to want to hide it... " Yes that was the weird bit! I'm fully aware of the purpose of cock rings, and have had partners use them in the past, but never on a first time. If it was someone from fab I maybe wouldn't be so surprised but this was a very vanilla thing, he had no idea that I was anything other than a 'nice' girl | |||
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"Some men need a bit of help. One of my partners for example is pretty well endowed (about 8" I guess?) and loves sex. But he's talking drugs that thin his blood and sometimes send his body out of balance. When he's slightly out of balance he can struggle to maintain an erection. It could easily be something similar - and it's quite a personal thing to discuss with a stranger. I'm sure that the guy is just pleased that you didn't bring him up and you let him get on with it. " He did seem quite relieved! It was a relief for me when it was over tbh | |||
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"Some men need a bit of help. One of my partners for example is pretty well endowed (about 8" I guess?) and loves sex. But he's talking drugs that thin his blood and sometimes send his body out of balance. When he's slightly out of balance he can struggle to maintain an erection. It could easily be something similar - and it's quite a personal thing to discuss with a stranger. I'm sure that the guy is just pleased that you didn't bring him up and you let him get on with it. He did seem quite relieved! It was a relief for me when it was over tbh " You were relieved when it was over because of the cock ring? | |||
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"Some men need a bit of help. One of my partners for example is pretty well endowed (about 8" I guess?) and loves sex. But he's talking drugs that thin his blood and sometimes send his body out of balance. When he's slightly out of balance he can struggle to maintain an erection. It could easily be something similar - and it's quite a personal thing to discuss with a stranger. I'm sure that the guy is just pleased that you didn't bring him up and you let him get on with it. He did seem quite relieved! It was a relief for me when it was over tbh You were relieved when it was over because of the cock ring?" No just because it was generally a bit crap | |||
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"Was hoping someone could clear this up for me. I met someone on a dating site and on the third date we slept together. I realised whilst we were at it that he was wearing a cock ring. He must have put it on very sneakily because I hadn't noticed him doing it. I thought maybe I was imagining it at first, never in all my years have I encountered this on a first shag, let alone a vanilla one. He noticed that I noticed, and was quite self conscious about it, putting his hand over it so I wouldn't see it in certain positions etc. I'm baffled. He was well endowed, so I can't think it's because he was paranoid about being too small. Can anyone shed any light on why he might have done that? I guess I could have asked him but as he'd seemed quite embarrassed when I'd noticed I didn't want to say 'so why ARE you wearing a cock ring?' Anyhoo, I have no plans to see him again (he got a bit weirdly over keen and I ran a mile), but the cock ring thing is still troubling me " I don't often wear cock rings, but when I do... I can think about how much the dog walker costs, investigating the mis-fire in cylinder one, the weekly shopping list, Sunday gym opening hours, Epicurus, why two currencies of equal worth can have different attributed values, and many, many other things.... And when I look down I'm still hard as a rock. | |||
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"Was it a haribo ring? I'd have been made up to find that mid blow job " No...and wouldn't have been much good to me anyway as I'm a vegetarian | |||
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"Maybe it wasn't a cock ring... Maybe he'd rolled onto the Slinky during the night " HAHAHA He could have had a birdhive up his arse, that would have been worse. | |||
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"I too Find it odd that he wanted to hide it. I wear one for several reasons. It tends to give you a more defined lunchbox. It does help maintain an erecting but more than anything else, I love the intensive orgasm I have when I'm wearing one." I guess as he still wasn't particularly hard even with it he must have problems in that department. The cock ring thing didn't really fit in with everything else about him, so I guess it was a necessity for him. I feel kind of bad for him now. Not bad enough to want to see him again though | |||
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"Erectile dysfunction and hes embarrassed by it. Probbaly too embarrassed to ask the doctor for pills so after googling for somutions he found out about and bought a cock ring Simples" Mystery solved. Case closed | |||
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"And it can also make you last longer.." It lasted too long that's for sure | |||
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"Was hoping someone could clear this up for me. I met someone on a dating site and on the third date we slept together. I realised whilst we were at it that he was wearing a cock ring. He must have put it on very sneakily because I hadn't noticed him doing it. I thought maybe I was imagining it at first, never in all my years have I encountered this on a first shag, let alone a vanilla one. He noticed that I noticed, and was quite self conscious about it, putting his hand over it so I wouldn't see it in certain positions etc. I'm baffled. He was well endowed, so I can't think it's because he was paranoid about being too small. Can anyone shed any light on why he might have done that? I guess I could have asked him but as he'd seemed quite embarrassed when I'd noticed I didn't want to say 'so why ARE you wearing a cock ring?' Anyhoo, I have no plans to see him again (he got a bit weirdly over keen and I ran a mile), but the cock ring thing is still troubling me I don't often wear cock rings, but when I do... I can think about how much the dog walker costs, investigating the mis-fire in cylinder one, the weekly shopping list, Sunday gym opening hours, Epicurus, why two currencies of equal worth can have different attributed values, and many, many other things.... And when I look down I'm still hard as a rock. " Ha ha ha. This has to be my forum post of the year! | |||
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"But on the other hand, I make my other (sub) partner wear one at all times when we're out in public. A thick, metal one. It looks good and pushes his cock and balls out from his body, which looks really sexy. Apparently it feels good too." It does | |||
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"And it can also make you last longer.. It lasted too long that's for sure " Haha sorry to hear that! | |||
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"And it can also make you last longer.. It lasted too long that's for sure " *roll eyes* | |||
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"And it can also make you last longer.. It lasted too long that's for sure *roll eyes*" Missed those rolling eyes Mr _lovis x | |||
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"I've never had a guy use a cock ring but if he put one tbh i'd be put right off. " But why? | |||
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"I've never had a guy use a cock ring but if he put one tbh i'd be put right off. But why? " Because it suggests he can't get hard for me and if he can't get hard for me i don't want to do it. I like my sex full of passion for each other. I don't want Viagra or cock rings or that cream that makes you hard involved at all. | |||
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"I've never had a guy use a cock ring but if he put one tbh i'd be put right off. But why? Because it suggests he can't get hard for me and if he can't get hard for me i don't want to do it. I like my sex full of passion for each other. I don't want Viagra or cock rings or that cream that makes you hard involved at all. " But what if he has a problem in getting it up which might not be related to you? | |||
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"I've never had a guy use a cock ring but if he put one tbh i'd be put right off. But why? Because it suggests he can't get hard for me and if he can't get hard for me i don't want to do it. I like my sex full of passion for each other. I don't want Viagra or cock rings or that cream that makes you hard involved at all. But what if he has a problem in getting it up which might not be related to you?" Then i still don't want to sleep with him. Sex is my downtime. I don't want issues. I want to have have fun and stress free hard and horny sex. | |||
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"I've never had a guy use a cock ring but if he put one tbh i'd be put right off. But why? Because it suggests he can't get hard for me and if he can't get hard for me i don't want to do it. I like my sex full of passion for each other. I don't want Viagra or cock rings or that cream that makes you hard involved at all. But what if he has a problem in getting it up which might not be related to you? Then i still don't want to sleep with him. Sex is my downtime. I don't want issues. I want to have have fun and stress free hard and horny sex. " I agree. Life's too short for crap sex! | |||
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"I've never had a guy use a cock ring but if he put one tbh i'd be put right off. But why? Because it suggests he can't get hard for me and if he can't get hard for me i don't want to do it. I like my sex full of passion for each other. I don't want Viagra or cock rings or that cream that makes you hard involved at all. But what if he has a problem in getting it up which might not be related to you? Then i still don't want to sleep with him. Sex is my downtime. I don't want issues. I want to have have fun and stress free hard and horny sex. I agree. Life's too short for crap sex!" like that | |||
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