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How did you convince them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was here for about 2 years as part of a couple and originally it was my than-partners idea to try this on a d*unk night. 2 years later and I'm still at it! I had another partner a few not he ago and it ended because we just didn't have the same ideas sex wise. So it got me thinking, how did you bring the subject up or convince your other half to have a go? Because let's face it, to the unknowing it's a huge step and could make or break a relationship, even suggesting it.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

C and I are different as we're not a 'real' couple, but when we met I was rather inexperienced and probably vanilla. He had 20 years experience, and it was his suggestion to take me swinging.

Since then I haven't looked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was open with my (nesting) partner right from the start. I told him that I enjoyed swinging and if he wanted to be with me then that was something he would have to accept.

He was fine.

My new girlfriend is also fine. And is keen to head to clubs with me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I met my other half here!

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm actively looking for a swinging partner. Would rather have it all out in the open from the off.

Many single folk I meet say they're happy to swing as a single but would never do it in a relationship. That couples should be utterly faithful to each other. Reeks of hypocrisy

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

OP didn't stay long to get the replies!

I agree MISTARess it's hypocritical. I'd like to find a kindred spirit here!

One can hope!

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

OP, where have you gone????

Lack of staying power?

OP?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"

OP didn't stay long to get the replies!

I agree MISTARess it's hypocritical. I'd like to find a kindred spirit here!

One can hope!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh? Who was the op? Anyone know? X

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"Oh? Who was the op? Anyone know? X"

Must have been having another d*unk night when he started the thread haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Because let's face it, to the unknowing it's a huge step and could make or break a relationship, even suggesting it. "

It didn't go well then

Or maybe they are both going to set up a couples account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 3sums before but seeing as I'm single the opportunity to swing just eludes me for now,but I couldn't think of anything better than being in a totally honest relationship with all the cards on the table.I'm very open about what I like,just need to meet the person who is gonna be open with me.then grow&explore together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in quite a new relationship and he knows about fab ect. I included it in a conversation about fantasies. Went down well. He's even debating trying it with me in the future

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

His OH caught him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont think you should have to convince them - they want to or not - talk about it instead

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