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Tips for good anal sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've tried it a few times with a girl as she knows I find it sexy. However she says it feels uncomfortable and I want her to enjoy herself and not just do it for my sake. I use lube and ease into it usually after vaginal sexy and go slow and take my time. She tells me she will get more use to it but is there any tips people would like to share so I can enhance hey experience X thanks all and merry Christmas x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've tried it a few times with a girl as she knows I find it sexy. However she says it feels uncomfortable and I want her to enjoy herself and not just do it for my sake. I use lube and ease into it usually after vaginal sexy and go slow and take my time. She tells me she will get more use to it but is there any tips people would like to share so I can enhance hey experience X thanks all and merry Christmas x "
yes helps if your hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What position are you trying? I find doggie uncomfortable. I much prefer it on top or on my back with my legs over his shoulders.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Start off with a well lubed finger with a latex glove obviously. Gently till her sphincter relaxes. Then a second finger till the sphincter is totally relaxed and then you are fine. It works with me anyway lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try letting her push back onto you at least initially. It may be more of a turn on for her and you will know how much of you she is comfortable to take.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more I did it the easier it became. I really wanted it so I used toys in myself to get used to something big in me. She has to have her anal sphincter gently relaxed by your fingers or a toy and plenty of lube.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I hate fingers if you stick a finger in there for more than a few seconds then we ain't having sex as you've basically made the shutters come down.

A small toy designed for anal is better in my experience smoother, no nail and doesn't flex about so much.

For me I've found rotating your hips around and generally moving till you find the spot where it's comfortable (this is as the receptive partner) staying still while the person penetrating you does all the moving just doesn't work and makes it uncomfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I hate fingers if you stick a finger in there for more than a few seconds then we ain't having sex as you've basically made the shutters come down.

A small toy designed for anal is better in my experience smoother, no nail and doesn't flex about so much.

For me I've found rotating your hips around and generally moving till you find the spot where it's comfortable (this is as the receptive partner) staying still while the person penetrating you does all the moving just doesn't work and makes it uncomfortable.

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I agree with you on the latter point,I move to get the comfortable position. I prefer fingers to toys because I have more control with my fingers,I can feel where I'm going-in me and him-and I can get more movement inside. I'd still like to know if it feels different for a man and a woman something I will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found it different with all types of women. Succeeded with doggy and just go slow. After awhile of getting use to it it does get easier. In porns they make it look so easy. Just turn up and your in but just takes time and lube

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the advise so very good points that I had not considered before. I do love doing it as it makes me feel especially naughty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I hate fingers if you stick a finger in there for more than a few seconds then we ain't having sex as you've basically made the shutters come down.

A small toy designed for anal is better in my experience smoother, no nail and doesn't flex about so much.

For me I've found rotating your hips around and generally moving till you find the spot where it's comfortable (this is as the receptive partner) staying still while the person penetrating you does all the moving just doesn't work and makes it uncomfortable.

I agree with you on the latter point,I move to get the comfortable position. I prefer fingers to toys because I have more control with my fingers,I can feel where I'm going-in me and him-and I can get more movement inside. I'd still like to know if it feels different for a man and a woman something I will never know. "

I tend to use my own fingers as he pops a condom on, two or three, just to make the initial entry easier. If he's spent time licking me I am usually pretty relaxed.

I love to move. Lying there as if he's stunned me with a brick just ain't my style

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha laying there like u have been stunned with a brick made me laugh x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Butt plug before play helps me loads, lots of lube obviously,relaxes the muscles & your good to go !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using toys like butt plugs before play can help relax her and stretch the anal passage too. I find that relaxation is massively important, if you think its going to hurt then you tense up so toys, lots of foreplay, lube all help. It can be amazing for both parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take good run up and slam it home.

Hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Take good run up and slam it home.

Hope this helps "

Haha oh my what good advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take good run up and slam it home.

Hope this helps

Haha oh my what good advice "

I do my best to help

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Start off with a well lubed finger with a latex glove obviously. Gently till her sphincter relaxes. Then a second finger till the sphincter is totally relaxed and then you are fine. It works with me anyway lol"

Yep. Don't be just ramming your wang in there, she needs warming up first.

Spunk is a good thick lube for anal (yes it's really called that) and if you're so inclined, use amyl/poppers which helps relax things.

Just get some before end of this year before they become illegal

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