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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? " Yeah you want to be careful. You might catch gay if you lick a woman out after another man has put his tongue there. | |||
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"Just be glad she had only been "tasted" in that case.....it could have been worse for you as I'm sure you know what I'm talking about without going into detail....but it is a club situation after all.... Many women in those situations will have a number of partners during a night! . It is what it is....it is to be expected surely?" I love licking and sucking a hot used pussy it's such a hot thing to do..... | |||
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"Yeah you want to be careful. You might catch gay if you lick a woman out after another man has put his tongue there." Too late, the ghay will be growing in the OP from the first lick  | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she?" "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach? | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she?" If you were that worried about it you should have had some wipes to hand and cleaned before you licked | |||
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Would you have been so upset if she was wet from another woman gong down on her before you...?   | |||
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"Would you expect her to brush her teeth between kisses. "  | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? Yeah you want to be careful. You might catch gay if you lick a woman out after another man has put his tongue there." haha | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach?"
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"You could carry dental dams with you OP. Then you wouldn't have to risk it." Been lol to all your posts,your on fire tonight hun To OP What the issue,club, swingers It not really a shock horror | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach?" He's from Scotland, wire brush and Dettol | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? " What?!! You went to a club and a woman had the temerity to let men lick her pussy?!!
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she?" Buy her a haz mat suit! | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach?"  ...I know: seriously?!! | |||
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"OP, its not something that would bother me personally, but I always respect other peoples preferences. If you are worried about it, perhaps clubs aren't the best environment for you to play in? "
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"I wish I was licking a cum filled pussy right now even if five guys came in her :P "Don't you not deserve to be in a club!! | |||
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"I wish I was licking a cum filled pussy right now even if five guys came in her :P
Don't you not deserve to be in a club!! " | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? " Im not sure your ready for this swinging lark  | |||
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"Well a lot of abuse hurled at the OP but I think he has a point to a degree. If a guy was going around a club playing with various people and didn't freshen up or at least tell people what to expect I suspect the response would be very different! I think it's only fair that he knew what to expect, then he could make his own decision whether to proceed, of course I've never been to a club so don't know the etiquette in such situations but don't think what the OP has said is hugely unreasonable to be honest! " I wouldn't tell someone at a club that I'd kissed another man or that another man had sucked my boobs, and I certainly wouldn't 'clean up' inbetween those things. Why is a clit any different? | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she?" Seriously??? Let alone the "moral responsibility". In a swingers club. LOL. You can hold on to your own morals for yourself, but leave any judgement of anyone else at the door on the way in. | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? Yeah you want to be careful. You might catch gay if you lick a woman out after another man has put his tongue there." hehe yes the dreaded gay | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she?" No! Be careful about going to one of these places again - you might encounter one who grabs you both hands round the back of your head, pulls you into her cunt which has already been copiously spunked into several times and makes you clean it up for her!!! | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? No! Be careful about going to one of these places again - you might encounter one who grabs you both hands round the back of your head, pulls you into her cunt which has already been copiously spunked into several times and makes you clean it up for her!!!" . I would be ok with that I would actually do that today if I could | |||
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"Well a lot of abuse hurled at the OP but I think he has a point to a degree. If a guy was going around a club playing with various people and didn't freshen up or at least tell people what to expect I suspect the response would be very different! I think it's only fair that he knew what to expect, then he could make his own decision whether to proceed, of course I've never been to a club so don't know the etiquette in such situations but don't think what the OP has said is hugely unreasonable to be honest! " The op also wants to meet couples: how is that going to work for him? If you're in a club environment you're going to expect sloppy seconds. People don't brush their teeth, scrub down after every encounter. I don't play in clubs because I don't want fingers that have been elsewhere near my bits. Wouldn't go then complain about it. | |||
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"Well a lot of abuse hurled at the OP but I think he has a point to a degree. If a guy was going around a club playing with various people and didn't freshen up or at least tell people what to expect I suspect the response would be very different! I think it's only fair that he knew what to expect, then he could make his own decision whether to proceed, of course I've never been to a club so don't know the etiquette in such situations but don't think what the OP has said is hugely unreasonable to be honest! " I really wouldnt expect a guy to 'clean himself up' between blow jobs - esp if the only fluid involved is saliva. Just imagine the lack of fun in a group play situation if everyone took time out to wipe saliva off of themselves when moving to another.... | |||
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"Well a lot of abuse hurled at the OP but I think he has a point to a degree. If a guy was going around a club playing with various people and didn't freshen up or at least tell people what to expect I suspect the response would be very different! I think it's only fair that he knew what to expect, then he could make his own decision whether to proceed, of course I've never been to a club so don't know the etiquette in such situations but don't think what the OP has said is hugely unreasonable to be honest! I really wouldnt expect a guy to 'clean himself up' between blow jobs - esp if the only fluid involved is saliva. Just imagine the lack of fun in a group play situation if everyone took time out to wipe saliva off of themselves when moving to another.... "Happy memories .... those were the days | |||
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" Be careful about going to one of these places again - you might encounter one who grabs you both hands round the back of your head, pulls you into her cunt which has already been copiously spunked into several times and makes you clean it up for her!!!" Where do I sign up for this please?  | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach?" All the above followed by a pressure wash | |||
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"If you were that worried about it you should have had some wipes to hand and cleaned before you licked " Oh no! Have you tried the taste of baby-wipes? Disgusting! Hang on . . . have we identified a new perversion here? | |||
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"Not really an issue for me as I don't often play with more than one guy - and sometimes don't play at all! Was she definitely wet from the guy's saliva though op? Was it not just her juices because she was horny? " Thats what I wondered too. Not sure I could distinguish between a wet pussy that had been licked or not. | |||
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" Be careful about going to one of these places again - you might encounter one who grabs you both hands round the back of your head, pulls you into her cunt which has already been copiously spunked into several times and makes you clean it up for her!!!" So many men will groan with pleasure reading that | |||
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"Hmmm, think most of you are with me on this x " Seriously? Have you read the same thread as me | |||
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"Hmmm, think most of you are with me on this x " Not me. I'm after someone who will lick creampies off my pussy. | |||
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"Not really an issue for me as I don't often play with more than one guy - and sometimes don't play at all! Was she definitely wet from the guy's saliva though op? Was it not just her juices because she was horny? " Im with u on that. I go to clubs n usually play with 1 guy in private room n always shower afterwards. I dont go jumping on another guy straight away, Id wanna be clean n fresh again if I fancied another play even if its with same guy. However if Im hoping to play with more than 1 guy n in an open room then there are chances a guy or 2 will go down on me in turns theres no time to freshen up. It does depend on situation...ie gangbang or 1-1 | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach?" All of those twice. Can never be too careful! | |||
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"I love going down on a lady but do think a modicum of hygiene is in order " Sorry OP, I don't think many people agree with what you describe as hygiene. | |||
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"I love going down on a lady but do think a modicum of hygiene is in order " What about kissing someone after they have kissed someone else? | |||
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"Well a lot of abuse hurled at the OP but I think he has a point to a degree. If a guy was going around a club playing with various people and didn't freshen up or at least tell people what to expect I suspect the response would be very different! I think it's only fair that he knew what to expect, then he could make his own decision whether to proceed, of course I've never been to a club so don't know the etiquette in such situations but don't think what the OP has said is hugely unreasonable to be honest! " I get the feeling you and the OP should give group fun/gangbangs a body swerve!! I don't think you boys are up to it! | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? " You may want to change your profile if that puts you off mate as you are obviously neither unshockable nor ready to meet couples yet. I'm not sure a threesome would go well if the lady had to break off for a shower after every bit of contact with the other guy so as not to put you off. | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? " no wouldn't be my thing the club or after someone else sorry ,happy Xmas though  | |||
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"Hmmm, think most of you are with me on this x " No; very, very few are with you on this one In a club, I will play with multiple men and sometimes, I just want a "filler" which is where I'd choose another guy like you for just a few minutes What are you "open-minded" about? Would love to know what "open-minded" means to you? You really need to find a nice homely girl, get married and settle down with her and forget about all this swinging malarkey | |||
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"Hmmm, think most of you are with me on this x No; very, very few are with you on this one In a club, I will play with multiple men and sometimes, I just want a "filler" which is where I'd choose another guy like you for just a few minutes What are you "open-minded" about? Would love to know what "open-minded" means to you? You really need to find a nice homely girl, get married and settle down with her and forget about all this swinging malarkey" or a nicely homely guy as you would almost certainly have caught gay!!i think your gp has a tablet to cure it,so dont worry | |||
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"OP, its not something that would bother me personally, but I always respect other peoples preferences. If you are worried about it, perhaps clubs aren't the best environment for you to play in? yes I agree surely this is what clubs are all about.love licking a wet pussy especially after someones made her have a nice orgasm.mmm
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent." I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!! | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she?If you were that worried about it you should have had some wipes to hand and cleaned before you licked " Haha, what a picture that paints, can just imagine a guy carrying a packet of wet ones around....... | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach?" Well said, love it ! | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? " It a club, what would you expect, if she was a squirter, would you expect her to clean up before you went down on her too, for us, theres nothing we like better than going down on each other between sessions with couples, but we don't like the club scene. | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she?" Clean up what her own juices? | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? Clean up what her own juices?" Maybe he is looking for a cuntortionist..........now that is something different.... | |||
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"Sheesh! From your post it was just a mix of his saliva and her juices - big deal! I can understand if she'd fucked someone bareback and was full of cum and you found out by going down on her - but when it's just her taste and someone's saliva what is the problem?
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"Take some wet wipes with you next time ... Or don't go to clubs.. "Some guy approaches me with wet-wipes in a club and his chances will plummet from the usual 2% to 0% in less than a pico-second | |||
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"Take some wet wipes with you next time ... Or don't go to clubs..
Some guy approaches me with wet-wipes in a club and his chances will plummet from the usual 2% to 0% in less than a pico-second"Even alo baby wipes. | |||
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"Take some wet wipes with you next time ... Or don't go to clubs..
Some guy approaches me with wet-wipes in a club and his chances will plummet from the usual 2% to 0% in less than a pico-second
Even alo baby wipes."EVEN those | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent." Nope! If a fem posted that on here I reckon the reaction would be pretty much the same! Same daft post no matter what the sex of the OP! | |||
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"yeah but she surely has a moral responsibilty to clean up between guys!! Doesnt she? "Clean up" How would you like her to "Clean up"? Do you clean your cock after putting it in different women's mouths? How do you clean it? A tissue? A dip in some water? A shower? Some antiseptic spray? Dettol? Bleach?" Exactly what I was going to ask. Xx | |||
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"LOOOOL " you might catch gay " I like that LOOL" Good one | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? Yeah you want to be careful. You might catch gay if you lick a woman out after another man has put his tongue there." OMG - I think this is happening to mee. No, no, no  | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!! "And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters. | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. Nope! If a fem posted that on here I reckon the reaction would be pretty much the same! Same daft post no matter what the sex of the OP! "I highly doubt it. And I really dont mind people critising. Infact ive heard women complain about even dafter things on here with the majority in support. | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters. "Then you wash up with water or something between encounters | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters"And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry. Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters
And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry.
Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S"I fail to see your point apart from that you seem to be lecturing others You have showers in clubs each time after you kiss someone or have oral sex or sex with someone then so be it and top marks to you | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters
And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry.
Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S"Have you ever been to a club and played there ? Are you aware of the way it works ? Some ( most ) clubs don't have showers ! And when a lady is having a great night , she may play with a multitude of guys ( if they're lucky ) . Some will have full sex with her , some mutual oral , some just a snog . But one thing is certain , she won't be cleaning herself up after oral . There could be three or four guys with her at any given time , and they sure as hell are gonna be grateful she isn't running off to the sink after each guy licks her ! On another note , if you guys full swap and get into playing together , does the female go for a wash after she has been licked , before someone else joins in ? I think not ...... | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters
And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry.
Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S
Have you ever been to a club and played there ?
Are you aware of the way it works ?
Some ( most ) clubs don't have showers !
And when a lady is having a great night , she may play with a multitude of guys ( if they're lucky ) .
Some will have full sex with her , some mutual oral , some just a snog . But one thing is certain , she won't be cleaning herself up after oral .
There could be three or four guys with her at any given time , and they sure as hell are gonna be grateful she isn't running off to the sink after each guy licks her !
On another note , if you guys full swap and get into playing together , does the female go for a wash after she has been licked , before someone else joins in ? I think not ......"I see your point and very valid, but if someone was really put off by this, i'm sure clubs do have taps. But i digress; I know that people in clubs don't clean during every encounter, I said however it would be a nice idea. I am not dictating or anything. An Idea is just an idea, nothing more. Also in a full swap if one person is bothered by this I'm sure they will have a precaution for this. I would like, people to rinse up however I will never complain about it as it doesn't bother me. I hope you see were i'm coming from On an off note. I respect the fact you actually gave points against my idea rather than me. :P | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters
And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry.
Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S
I fail to see your point apart from that you seem to be lecturing others
You have showers in clubs each time after you kiss someone or have oral sex or sex with someone then so be it and top marks to you"Since when was suggesting, "lecturing" . Again, i fail to see your point. I don't believe for a second you failed to see mine. This is exactly the attitude I was mentioning. You just making snarky childish comments because you are against the blatant idea of some people being wanting to be more hygienic. Instead of attacking the argument you attack the person or put words into my mouth. Opinions are not lectures. Like i said, There is nothing wrong with OP having an opinion. | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters
And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry.
Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S
Have you ever been to a club and played there ?
Are you aware of the way it works ?
Some ( most ) clubs don't have showers !
And when a lady is having a great night , she may play with a multitude of guys ( if they're lucky ) .
Some will have full sex with her , some mutual oral , some just a snog . But one thing is certain , she won't be cleaning herself up after oral .
There could be three or four guys with her at any given time , and they sure as hell are gonna be grateful she isn't running off to the sink after each guy licks her !
On another note , if you guys full swap and get into playing together , does the female go for a wash after she has been licked , before someone else joins in ? I think not ......
I see your point and very valid, but if someone was really put off by this, i'm sure clubs do have taps. But i digress; I know that people in clubs don't clean during every encounter, I said however it would be a nice idea. I am not dictating or anything. An Idea is just an idea, nothing more. Also in a full swap if one person is bothered by this I'm sure they will have a precaution for this.
I would like, people to rinse up however I will never complain about it as it doesn't bother me.
I hope you see were i'm coming from
On an off note. I respect the fact you actually gave points against my idea rather than me. :P"I think you're missing the point a bit, and why some of us thinks the op ridiculous. I'm with him 100%, I would find tasting the previous playmate off putting, so I don't put myself in that position because I know the environment I'm in. Joining in then complaining because others don't meet my "standards" would be silly. | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters
And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry.
Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S
I fail to see your point apart from that you seem to be lecturing others
You have showers in clubs each time after you kiss someone or have oral sex or sex with someone then so be it and top marks to you
Since when was suggesting, "lecturing" . Again, i fail to see your point. I don't believe for a second you failed to see mine. This is exactly the attitude I was mentioning. You just making snarky childish comments because you are against the blatant idea of some people being wanting to be more hygienic. Instead of attacking the argument you attack the person or put words into my mouth. Opinions are not lectures. Like i said, There is nothing wrong with OP having an opinion."In fairness I didn't view your post as lecturing per se, just naive. It's akin to joining this site, pick a username like dirtycumdump4u, then starting a thread complaining a meet treated you like a dirty cum dump. As I've said I wouldn't expect people to clean up between every sexual encounter so that "icky" thought stops me from playing in a club and my other half has to shower before coming to bed following a club visit. It's the going, knowing the environment and complaining that has me | |||
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"I think the lady knew the OP,,, shagged half a dozen blokes bareback , emptied out,,well most of it, then copped off with the him useing the excuse she was slightly damp from a quick lick. Enjoy...." mmmmmmm yes please xx | |||
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"Fucking hell you guys... When ever a guy complains about something on here you people jump at his neck and take the piss out of him tellig him to "get over it" but when a woman complains its brought with support and care. OP you have to be careful just where you stand on this site because some people are inconsiderate nasty people. Just proves that immaturity doesn't fade with age Honestly though. Thats your preference. Her preference might be to get as many lads to lick her out without washing. You should have asked or something if it affected you. I believe everyone should wash up after each encounter to some extent. I don't play at clubs because I don't want to kiss a guy and taste his last conquests or have him finger me after fingering someone else. I recognise not everyone is going to brush their teeth, gargle with Listeren, and wash their hands like a surgeon preparing for open heart surgery between partners: so I keep myself to myself and enjoy watching those more "liberated" than myself. My other half embraces it all and I like to watch. I wouldn't therefore complain about the "lack of hygiene" in such an environment. I mean: honestly?!!
And I respect your choice. I wouldnt complain at it either... I just think its a good idea to wash up with water or something between encounters.
Then you wash up with water or something between encounters
And I will?!?... I fail to see your point here, sorry.
Some people have showers after sex its nothing abnormal :S
I fail to see your point apart from that you seem to be lecturing others
You have showers in clubs each time after you kiss someone or have oral sex or sex with someone then so be it and top marks to you
Since when was suggesting, "lecturing" . Again, i fail to see your point. I don't believe for a second you failed to see mine. This is exactly the attitude I was mentioning. You just making snarky childish comments because you are against the blatant idea of some people being wanting to be more hygienic. Instead of attacking the argument you attack the person or put words into my mouth. Opinions are not lectures. Like i said, There is nothing wrong with OP having an opinion."Yes, yes, yes; taking sonic showers (or even traditional water based ones) is a really great idea. But firstly, most clubs do not have these and secondly, doing so will be a complete passion-killer Your theory is sound; however, you need to keep on working on a practical solution. Until then, the OP may wish to stay clear of threesomes or moresomes in clubs Nobody is against the idea of hygiene; there are people who are miles more hygienic than you. However, certain situations do not lend themselves to leaping out of bed, sticking one leg on top of a wash-basin, doing a contortionist act and doing a 100m dash back at light-speed whilst still maintaining the tempo | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? Yeah you want to be careful. You might catch gay if you lick a woman out after another man has put his tongue there." Never knew you could catch gay! Terrible.. Just terrible lol | |||
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"I think this is the difference between those who know what swinging is and those who don't. If as others have suggested she had been fucked bb, then the op should certainly have been told. I certainly wouldn't want to 'clean up' as it's not my thing. If she had just been licked, the impression given, I would suggest the op seriously considers whether swinging is for him." You could be lynched for saying that; single as you are! Well, lets hope your hat saves you | |||
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"I think this is the difference between those who know what swinging is and those who don't. If as others have suggested she had been fucked bb, then the op should certainly have been told. I certainly wouldn't want to 'clean up' as it's not my thing. If she had just been licked, the impression given, I would suggest the op seriously considers whether swinging is for him." Exactly; with unprotected sex there are far reaching implications and not just some perceived 'hygiene' issues I know of people who do have unprotected penetrative sex and it is their choice Only a 'full body condom' can provide a degree of protection; with anything less than that, including condoms and dental dams, the degree of protection is lower than with a 'full body condom'. 100% protection can only be attained by abstaining from sex Showers, before after and during sex, do NOT provide protection against STDs. Just as ridiculous as the primitive idea than standing on one's head improves chances of pregnancy and douching prevents it | |||
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"So the concensus then is that having sex in clubs is very risky "No; having sex without condoms and dental dams is very risky, in clubs, hotel rooms, domestic bedrooms, on the far side of the moon and in zero gravity | |||
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"So the concensus then is that having sex in clubs is very risky
No; having sex without condoms and dental dams is very risky, in clubs, hotel rooms, domestic bedrooms, on the far side of the moon and in zero gravity "its more risky because their are more sexually charged people in the same place at the same time all with experience of multiple partners remembering not everyone is as strict as you | |||
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"I was in a club on friday with a lovely lady and I thought I was her first guy of the evening. turns out I was wrong - she'd been tasted and was still quite wet! Put me right off tbh. Anyone else had this and like it or not?? " maybe she was so aroused by you..? | |||
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"Showers, before after and during sex, do NOT provide protection against STDs. " The one time head of the fight against AIDS in South Africa and current President, Jacob Zuma was once on trial for raping a woman who was HIV+. He admitted to having sex with her and was asked by the judge whether knowing she was HIV+ he was scared of being infected. His reply in court was that since he took a shower afterwards he had cut the risk of contacting HIV....... Maybe he knows something the rest of us don't. | |||
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"So the concensus then is that having sex in clubs is very risky
No; having sex without condoms and dental dams is very risky, in clubs, hotel rooms, domestic bedrooms, on the far side of the moon and in zero gravity its more risky because their are more sexually charged people in the same place at the same time all with experience of multiple partners remembering not everyone is as strict as you "And the same would apply in your private harem, unless you enforce exclusive rights to her body and her enjoyment | |||
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"So the concensus then is that having sex in clubs is very risky
No; having sex without condoms and dental dams is very risky, in clubs, hotel rooms, domestic bedrooms, on the far side of the moon and in zero gravity its more risky because their are more sexually charged people in the same place at the same time all with experience of multiple partners remembering not everyone is as strict as you
And the same would apply in your private harem, unless you enforce exclusive rights to her body and her enjoyment " harem ? Hey its hardly the same one on one with emotion involved, I don't have a problem with the club scene its not for me because of lack of emotion and the expense and the fact that single guys who support the club scene are frowned upon but in the earlier debates it was admitted that unless the people wore dental dams and condoms which some don't their was an increased risk I just highlighted that ,meeting a woman that I meet regularly who obviously I trust and she me is slightly different don't you think ? | |||
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"Is it just me that sees it or is there someone on this thread who is always posting along the lines of, ''WE do what we do anyway; if you don't agree / like it you can fuck off''? "that attitude applies to all threads and some people's opinions aren't flexible they are right and you are wrong ,you're not allowed to have an opinion if it doesn't fit the general consensus of opinion but that's kind of what I like about debating something not that it ruffles feathers which quite obviously in this type of thread it would but that people's generally sensible opinions are thrown to one side to suit something they love | |||
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"So the concensus then is that having sex in clubs is very risky
No; having sex without condoms and dental dams is very risky, in clubs, hotel rooms, domestic bedrooms, on the far side of the moon and in zero gravity its more risky because their are more sexually charged people in the same place at the same time all with experience of multiple partners remembering not everyone is as strict as you
And the same would apply in your private harem, unless you enforce exclusive rights to her body and her enjoyment harem ? Hey its hardly the same one on one with emotion involved, I don't have a problem with the club scene its not for me because of lack of emotion and the expense and the fact that single guys who support the club scene are frowned upon but in the earlier debates it was admitted that unless the people wore dental dams and condoms which some don't their was an increased risk I just highlighted that ,meeting a woman that I meet regularly who obviously I trust and she me is slightly different don't you think ? "Only if she has a monogamous relationship with you and you with her. Otherwise, she could have engaged in a 20 man gang-bang in a club 24 hours earlier over which you have no say or control | |||
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"Showers, before after and during sex, do NOT provide protection against STDs. The one time head of the fight against AIDS in South Africa and current President, Jacob Zuma was once on trial for raping a woman who was HIV+. He admitted to having sex with her and was asked by the judge whether knowing she was HIV+ he was scared of being infected. His reply in court was that since he took a shower afterwards he had cut the risk of contacting HIV....... Maybe he knows something the rest of us don't. "Ignorance, half-truths and mumbo-jumbo go hand-in-hand. At least he could die happy in the knowledge that he had showered after engaging in sex | |||
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"Question? When visiting a club with either another couple or going with someone who isn't in a relationship, would you expect them to be devoted to you only all night. This is why we wouldn't normally go to a club asa group. Maybe i will run this as its own thread." For this and other reasons, I don't go at all. | |||
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