FabSwingers.com forum: Why don't women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just tell us what they like in bed.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We do, try looking at profiles to get the hint

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I do. When I'm in bed with someone. Not on here

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

And a good man will go all out to find out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do, try looking at profiles to get the hint

not every woman i meet has a fab profile

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What are you saying man... Are you suggesting they take responsibility ?

Whatever next.....

Some will

Others won't, then rant about it.

Reverse roles, repeat my words.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the fun and mystery of exploring and seeing what works.

Don't really want a users manual thanks

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

Serious answer? Women of my age at least were raised in a time when nice girls didn't like sex, certainly didn't express any pleasure in it and were expected by society to publicly be very demure. This made it quite difficult to behave differently privately so some need a little encouragement.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"It's all about the fun and mystery of exploring and seeing what works.

Don't really want a users manual thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 110% confident a woman is going to be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

Exactly! Then if the guy isn't hitting my GSpot how like, I tell him what I do like. Generally turn me over, slap my butt hard whilst Pulling my hair and biting the back of my shoulders whilst fucking me hard. Oh ding dong in heaven

lol.

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By *ancyDrewWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

The best men try things and judge from my reactions, and if I make the right noises, they repeat, or y'know we talk before during and after!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

but if you don't ask them then a thread gets started to ask why we don't just ask them. so to cut all hassel out they should just tell us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make sure i get what i want. What's the point otherwise?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I always make sure i get what i want. What's the point otherwise?"

You'll be wanting the vote next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always make sure i get what i want. What's the point otherwise?

You'll be wanting the vote next

Damn....thought I'd already secured that demand

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I always make sure i get what i want. What's the point otherwise?

You'll be wanting the vote next

Damn....thought I'd already secured that demand

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

I'm more than happy to discuss what I like in bed. With people I intend to have in my bed.

*Her*

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

"Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

but if you don't ask them then a thread gets started to ask why we don't just ask them. so to cut all hassel out they should just tell us. "

I like different things at different times. It depends on mood, chemistry, trust, time and other factors. It's not an a, b, c list

It varies hugely with each person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's all about the fun and mystery of exploring and seeing what works.

Don't really want a users manual thanks"

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Serious answer? Women of my age at least were raised in a time when nice girls didn't like sex, certainly didn't express any pleasure in it and were expected by society to publicly be very demure. This made it quite difficult to behave differently privately so some need a little encouragement."

This is so true! I liked it but had to pretend I didn't, being a 'nice girl'

I'm still nice but I can say I love sex now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

lol. "

Lick you how you like suck you how you like . Slap and tease you how you like . Stroke the backs of yr legs how you like and fuk you hard with a rhythm you could set yr watch to :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont come with instruction manual that u can skip the introduction n diagram. Dont see why we have to give u do's n dont's so u can just target the do's. It varies with different people, the mood, the setting n of course the effort u guys put into it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont come with instruction manual that u can skip the introduction n diagram. Dont see why we have to give u do's n dont's so u can just target the do's. It varies with different people, the mood, the setting n of course the effort u guys put into it too

i like to find out a womens boundaries . If she dont like anal i wont bother embarrassing her by asking . I get more pleasure from pussy anyway . If she asks for it then no problem .

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By *elsh n wildCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff area

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

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I l like a man to take control then I help him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

Also they then like to moan about how shit you guys are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why?

dnt you think that its part of the excitement in finding out?

tho i do state some preferences in my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

lol.

Lick you how you like suck you how you like . Slap and tease you how you like . Stroke the backs of yr legs how you like and fuk you hard with a rhythm you could set yr watch to :p

LOL we get asked how we like it, we tell you and yet you end up doing your own thing anyway! Little wonder us girls don't bother saying anything in the first place lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

lol.

Lick you how you like suck you how you like . Slap and tease you how you like . Stroke the backs of yr legs how you like and fuk you hard with a rhythm you could set yr watch to :p

LOL we get asked how we like it, we tell you and yet you end up doing your own thing anyway! Little wonder us girls don't bother saying anything in the first place lol."

fantastic pics

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

If you have to ask that question, then I think you are missing the point;

That's the fun of it;

And they do tell you: by reacting to what you do: and you react to their reaction:

Some, of course, will actually tell you directly;

But really; how dreadfully boring and frankly awful to get a " list" and perform it.

The fun of sex is discovering what works: and it's different for everyone; ( and different depending sometimes day to day, location, mood , etc.)

But then I don't often meet without " corresponding " with the lady a little first; by message and so on; so we both start to get an idea of what flicks the other's switches. Plus if it seems appropriate, to get an idea of the other's boundaries and " no go" things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you have to ask that question, then I think you are missing the point;

That's the fun of it;

And they do tell you: by reacting to what you do: and you react to their reaction:

Some, of course, will actually tell you directly;

But really; how dreadfully boring and frankly awful to get a " list" and perform it.

The fun of sex is discovering what works: and it's different for everyone; ( and different depending sometimes day to day, location, mood , etc.)

I like your way of thinking!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

"If you have to ask that question, then I think you are missing the point;

That's the fun of it;

And they do tell you: by reacting to what you do: and you react to their reaction:

Some, of course, will actually tell you directly;

But really; how dreadfully boring and frankly awful to get a " list" and perform it.

The fun of sex is discovering what works: and it's different for everyone; ( and different depending sometimes day to day, location, mood , etc.)

I like your way of thinking!

Thank you: it just seems the normal way of going about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the first time youre with a person is so exciting - its all about reading body language and reactions - thats when you find out - if we told you and vice versa its not the same - tell you what i dont like easy enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do, try looking at profiles to get the hint

not every woman i meet has a fab profile"

If I meet a man outside of Fab I don't and have never discussed beforehand what I like in bed and I don't think people do; its up to you to find out when you are in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

Lets turn this back on its head. If I'm giving a man blow job, I don't ask how they like it. I READ THEIR BODY!. Just like a man should read a ladies.

Its not a chat show, and woman can't always talk (cock down throat to tell you) Your soon know if a lady dose not like something.Like the time I was tied and gagging and had a gangbang. Although I could not physically say anything, my "host" would have known and stopped play. Its like road signs there, there just read them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

We do not our fault if the guy thinks they know everything about pleasing a woman and chooses to ignore us

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

If they are clawing your back and/or suddenly turning religious due to what your doing ..then keep it up!! If they are reading a book or counting the patterns in the wall paper ect then change what you do lol!!

I'm sure at your age you can tell from a woman's reactions if she's on the edge from pleasure or going to doze off . If you don't know and she hasn't said then just ask what she wants .

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't think any of us want a man ticking off a check list of things to do, we want you to discover it for yourselves like we do, kiss us and touch us and see what happens, if we like to ten do it more, if we don't then move onto something else

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Maybe they want to test yr mind and immagination before they test yr blood flow

but if you don't ask them then a thread gets started to ask why we don't just ask them. so to cut all hassel out they should just tell us. "

Is it really that much hassle to ask someone what they like?

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

I tell them what i want and like and don,t like

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Maybe because they only have an idea of what they are like in bed based on comments from previous partners the only real person who can judge what they are like is you if you're lucky enough to bed them

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

Perhaps starting a thread like this, means you really won't need to know, because the offers, if any, might dry up if you are perceived as someone who doesn't know what he is doing

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've just like oral and shagging, yet some still manage to miss out the oral. No point in me telling people what I want if they're going to ignore me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

also different people do things differently to me - so its not a standard range of desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

I do like experimenting in the bedroom but sometimes it's nice to be guided as I was told the other night, "Would you like to come over my tits ?" My reply, "hell yeah!"

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"We do, try looking at profiles to get the hint

My notes on ladies' profiles inc any things I may have picked up from threads or conversation about their preferences..particularly if they match mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

Some men feel insulted if we tell them "not like that, like this"

Fingers straight up the bag and at it like a pneumatic drill may get results of squirting but ffs it frigging hurts. Pain then makes me dry up. But hey what does it matter what I want when they get what they want!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

Some men feel insulted if we tell them "not like that, like this"

I typed vag not bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just tell us what they like in bed.

Some men feel insulted if we tell them "not like that, like this"

I typed vag not bag

hahah bag sorta sounded ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching and listening to another person's response to what your doing to them tells you what you need to know.

Paying attention is what makes people great lovers

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