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By *s_4_u OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

There is a couple on here that don't wAnt to be contacted If you have more than 10 verifications ???? Wot is that about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they looking for new and not used version of swinger .... good luck to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems to me that some couples have a ridiculous number of rules on their profile - not more than ten verifications is yet another I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a couple on here that don't wAnt to be contacted If you have more than 10 verifications ???? Wot is that about. "

People will simply hide their verifications before contacting them, forward thinking don't you just love it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"There is a couple on here that don't wAnt to be contacted If you have more than 10 verifications ???? Wot is that about.

People will simply hide their verifications before contacting them, forward thinking don't you just love it lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think admin should seriously consider a new forum named “discussing members profiles” it would be a bit hit

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"There is a couple on here that don't wAnt to be contacted If you have more than 10 verifications ???? Wot is that about.

People will simply hide their verifications before contacting them, forward thinking don't you just love it lol"

Yep then add the couple to the other 224 verifications afterwards..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they could hide them but why should they. If you have ten verifications that may mean being seen on cam or meeting for a coffee or just having a chat at a party for half of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well they could hide them but why should they. If you have ten verifications that may mean being seen on cam or meeting for a coffee or just having a chat at a party for half of them.

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I agree now stop typing and get ya knickers off, I want more verifications lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a couple on here that don't wAnt to be contacted If you have more than 10 verifications ???? Wot is that about. "

Thats stupid, Ive got no hope cos ive got way more than 10 lol but Ive collected those over 5 years of being on this site lol. Surley your more likely to want to meet someone with a lot of verifications than none at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well they could hide them but why should they. If you have ten verifications that may mean being seen on cam or meeting for a coffee or just having a chat at a party for half of them.

I agree now stop typing and get ya knickers off, I want more verifications lol"

lmao

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Of course its their choice but maybe they prefer newbies rather than experienced swingers.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We have loads of verifs, but only about a third are actual play ones, most are from socials etc. We put all ours up as it gives people a chance to make an informed decision about if they want to get to know us.

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs

There's another what's the point of verifications from socials or cams? Just means you know how to have a conversation...probably already been asked! ......

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

well proves the person or people are real and not just a fake profile .also in my book gives a flavour of what the person is like too if its from a social

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy


"Well they could hide them but why should they. If you have ten verifications that may mean being seen on cam or meeting for a coffee or just having a chat at a party for half of them.

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yep i have loads of veri's but more than half are from attending socials or meeting newbies for coffee and chat to help them with profiles and questions about the site or swinging in general. guess i'm ruled out from that couple - i'm sssssssssssso disappointed

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By *lscmnmytngMan
over a year ago

J13 of the M5

I went to a house party with my regular partner and 7 other couples. If they all verified me that would be 8 in one night. I could over run the OP's quota in one night.

Coupled with Chams on Friday, where I went to a birthday party, and I met Four new friends. Oops thats me gone!

Long and the short, you go to parties to have fun and if you get verified along the way then so be it. If they want intimate one on ones with other couples its their choice but losing out because people attend the odd party well, thats just a little closed minded.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"There's another what's the point of verifications from socials or cams? Just means you know how to have a conversation...probably already been asked! ......"

I can certainly put up a decent case for why social verifications are useful! It shows that people do turn up, and can show that people know how to behave in company, and as good as any other for being able to get across peoples personality.... It is not all about sex sex sex you know

For me it is the social side that keeps me here and chatting, the playing side is a bonus and not the be all and end all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... social verifications are useful..."
I prefer social verifications. I would much rather be complimented for my personality and sense of humour than for my skill in bed. Some verifications are so sexually explicit that I cringe when I read them. I really do not want to know intimate details of what a prospective meet has done before, with other people - I'd rather go on a mutual journey of discovery LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... social verifications are useful... I prefer social verifications. I would much rather be complimented for my personality and sense of humour than for my skill in bed. Some verifications are so sexually explicit that I cringe when I read them. I really do not want to know intimate details of what a prospective meet has done before, with other people - I'd rather go on a mutual journey of discovery LOL "

totaly agree with you on this much prefer to keep what i do on a meet between me and that person have lots of veris wont show as lots from socials and was told by some put ppl off cos doesnt look like i play and the ones that show i play would rather keep to myself cant win me lol

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By *lscmnmytngMan
over a year ago

J13 of the M5


" I could over run the OP's quota in one night."

Oops, sorry.... I meant the OP's comment on the couple with the quota, not the OP. Sorry if this was insensitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just want to meet other relaxed swingers, they are asssuming the ones with over 10 verifications are hardcore swingers and will pressure them when they just want relaxed times... but verifications mean nothing, from our small experience it seems more experienced couples can actually be the most understanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well they could hide them but why should they. If you have ten verifications that may mean being seen on cam or meeting for a coffee or just having a chat at a party for half of them.

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yeah. its a strange one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know people on here got loads of Feed-backs but just show 2 why because thay can and alot dont like people knowing who thay meet as think there friends may go after same people ..Some do hide thinking it puts people off meeting them ... its each to there own here and we are all looking for diffrent things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what u show on your profile is your buisness if people don't like it then ignore the profile rather then being huffy about it we all put things on our profiles for a reason and it's not up to us to question it

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By *john121Man
over a year ago

staffs


"There's another what's the point of verifications from socials or cams? Just means you know how to have a conversation...probably already been asked! ......

I can certainly put up a decent case for why social verifications are useful! It shows that people do turn up, and can show that people know how to behave in company, and as good as any other for being able to get across peoples personality.... It is not all about sex sex sex you know

For me it is the social side that keeps me here

and chatting, the playing side is a bonus and not the be all and end all"

Sorry my mistake I completely forgot that this is Facebook! Here's me thinking I was on a site dedicated to meeting people for sexual gratification, how daft am I? lol

Still better go and start verifying every conversation I have and collect as many friends as possible so I can show I know how to interact and that I will turn up...of course I understand why socials are important (have been) it's called Net working in the real world and hopefully will leed to more contacts who are a 'warm' contact! Don't try a kid me the sex is important, still you made me chuckle and I thank you for that...isn't there a web site out there Facebook for swingers? In conversation some one is always going to try and portray their best side esp as they are generally trying to get in each others pants wether it be on web sites or in a pub/night club when they are on the pull as it used to be called.....I don't cam on here because I've found it to be a clique especially by the crowd who believe this pastime is only for couples and was invented by couples, so to me verifying that I've seen some one on the end of a cam means diddly squat! And if at a social I won't if asked unless we've been 'intimate' but that's my choice and view and I understand that others will differ. Doesn't mean mines any less important or valid just mine as it is the request of the couple in question to make their own choice just don't see how in reality they will qualify it with any certainty when you think how easy it is not to show verifications and how dishonest people can be on sites like this.... But each to their own...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on here for sex nothing more and I'd say most on this site are here for the same yep you will get the timewaster who thinks it's funny to mess you around. But I'm here for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree entirely! We tend to find that those with more verifications know more about what they are doing, and how to do it! Bring it on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont judge a book bi it's cover,we have met 2 couple's off here great people very nice cant say nothing bad about them.both couple's had been into swingging befor did'nt put us off at all we new this befor we got intouch with them (it's called a profile read it first if you dont like the sound of it move on) SIMPLE.xx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a couple on here that don't wAnt to be contacted If you have more than 10 verifications ???? Wot is that about. "

seems a stupid idea

how many verifictions you have is no indication at all as to how many people you have met

i've met far more people than i have verifications for

so someone could only had 2 verifictions but have met far far more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is a couple on here that don't wAnt to be contacted If you have more than 10 verifications ???? Wot is that about.

seems a stupid idea

how many verifictions you have is no indication at all as to how many people you have met

i've met far more people than i have verifications for

so someone could only had 2 verifictions but have met far far more"
I said same thing i know people who have loads of verifications shag loads from this site have 2 or 3 on profile ..... I did ask them why not show thay say it puts people off meeting if thay see thay meet most weeks ....and dont like others to know as can get some being nasty .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We havent had any verifications yet but that doesnt mean we are newbies we've been swinging 5yrs and met people off other sites and at clubs and partys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on this site for years had dozens of verifications, social and more explicit ones. I choose not to show them, if that upsets anyone or makes them suspicious of me I care not a jot.

Those who have seen me on cam, met me at socials and arranged meets with me don't seem to care either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Think admin should seriously consider a new forum named “discussing members profiles” it would be a bit hit "

I've just made a similiar point on another thread. What is it with people disecting and commenting on what other members have on their profiles?!! I don't get it!

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