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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx"

Some people like it, some people don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well that's for you to answer, do you have a trusted play friend or FB?

Take it slowly and with lots of lube, if you like it, then keep going if not just say no not for me!

Nothing ventured nothing gained

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks x what lube is best to use xxx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If you feel like trying it you are probably half way there. Personally I find the idea repulsive and a total turn off, so nothing would ever make me want to try -even with someone I totally trusted to be gentle.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't no what to do now x lol

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I don't no what to do now x lol "

If you are uncertain about anything in swinging - don't do it. That would be our advice. You will know when the time is right, and therefore enjoy it far more.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"If you feel like trying it you are probably half way there. Personally I find the idea repulsive and a total turn off, so nothing would ever make me want to try -even with someone I totally trusted to be gentle."

I agree,it just makes me wince

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would advise you to let a woman do it first. as they are more gentle, and have smaller hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.

It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.

It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks x what lube is best to use xxx"

Silicone + by Give Lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust is the key and you should never so anything unless you feel confident.

Its something we've done but won't be rushing back.

Old scholl KY is what we use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time the thought of being fisted seemed so shameful to me. But I'm an adventurous kind of girl willing to try most things so try it I did. At first I was embarrassed to even say the word never mind admit I'd done it. As time went by I got over it and now shout from the rooftops how much I really enjoy this activity. But not with everyone... I have to trust them and have a special connection beyond that of a casual encounter.

Don't overthink it. One day it may just happen because it feels right. Or one day it might not. Have fun either way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like this but it's only something I've done with someone I've trusted and known a long time. You need to be really relaxed, take it really slowly and LOTS of lube, it's incredibly intense but soooooo good! X

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By *reakish DesireCouple
over a year ago

Bisexuals

Mrs. kinkysouls, loves it. We had to build things up slowly. Don't be disheartened if you can't take it straight away, some times it take a fair few sessions, lots of lube and patience.

I love doing it because its a whole different set of sensations for me, plus I can relax a bit and watch her face. She loves me doing it, because she says it a whole different sensation, to fucking, oral, and the numerous toys we use.

Just remind your play partner to trim their nails for obvious reasons, or make them wear suitable medical gloves...

Hope you have fun...

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By *aughtyYorkGentMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I've only done it with one woman, a meet through this site, and the first time it came rather out of the blue. I was fingering her, replaced one finger with two and found she was particularly wet and thrusting her crotch forward enthusiastically. I enquired whether she would like to try three fingers and got a keen response. Before we knew it, my whole fist was inside her. We didn't need any lube other than her own. I even have a photo to mark the occasion!

I imagine some women find it easier to take a whole fist than others, and it could be very painful and uncomfortable if the lady wasn't aroused enough, or sufficient lube used.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If you're not sure, then be careful. If you do try it as the receiver, ensure it is with someone experienced.

Some people love it, some don't mind and some hate it. Some women take to it easily while others need gently stretching, possibly over several sessions...and some may find they cannot be fisted at all.

I was taught how to fist at an adult party more than 10 years ago. I had an idea what to do, but a lady who enjoyed being fisted spent some time teaching me properly and I am grateful to this day. It's vital that a first timer plays with someone who knows what they are doing otherwise they can really hurt you and might make you bleed.

I find it incredibly sensual and erotic, often the lady has very powerful orgasms and writhes around, her pelvis moving up and down...and I have to go with that, while all the time feeling her muscles clench around my fist and feeling the waves of her orgasm through those muscles. It's quite amazing.

But if you're not sure, then go easy. You can always see what three fingers or an inflating dildo feel like. Indeed I recommend an inflating dildo too.

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By *amagustaMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.

If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.

If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first."

My solar powered watch lost half an hour

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.

If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first."

My solar powered watch lost half an hour

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By *urlyshirleyCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol


"Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx"

Oh this is interesting! I've never tried, because C has big hands and I'm on the narrow side but now I'm interested! I LOVE fingers, have managed to take 3 before now.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never tried it and have no intention of doing so, reminds me of a glove puppet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking for that first person to try it with x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Thanks x what lube is best to use xxx"

liquid silk - though the knuckles are one of the most important bits to cover. There's more to it than just sticking a bunch of fingers in. Imagine sex and imagine good sex, it is either good, crap or shit as hell.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.

It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.

It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing. "

can you not relax with a man? You never met someone decent that can turn you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never took a while fist it gets to painful before it gets to that point

To be honest the idea does not appeal to me but I have tried, always had to stop due to the discomfort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come and find out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favorites but lots of lube and take your time. It is amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.

It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.

It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing.

can you not relax with a man? You never met someone decent that can turn you on? "

I get what she means

Lots of guys off here are just out for their own pleasure

Some are so rough, I love anal but will never do anal with guys off here as they just slam it in and bang away putting your head through the wall

For some things you need to know the guy, not all guys on here care about the woman's needs or if they are enjoying it

Don't get me wrong I've met many lovely guys off here who I have had a great time with, some very considerate and caring lovers even though we have never played before but untill you get to know them you have no idea what type of lovers they are so some things are left untill you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the greatest things I've ever experienced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no one ever said fisting is nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all your help and advice xxx and yes thay do just pound away lol xxxx

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Mainstream porn may "teach" that pounding away is the thing to do. Most women don't like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have done it with a lady, i made her wet with lots of foreplay. I did not use any lube, started with two fingers first and then inserted third and fourth. My hand is not big, and managed to insert my hand smoothly into her pussy. She has given birth, so her pussy was not tight.

If your pussy tight, begin with two fingers first."

Never given birth maybe that's why I find it so painful?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Me all so hun x

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By *upersexy SuperslutCouple
over a year ago

Glastonbury

We love it. Supersexy can be double fisted. Yes 2 whole fists. Girls fists that is. She absolutely loves it. She is the first person I managed to fist. My hands are massive! Supersexy would be very glad to meet for a girl on girl. She is very gentle and would give you great pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found girl fists a lot easier to take than man fists

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think that what I'm looking for hun x a nice sexy girl what no what's she is doing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx"

Id like to try. If you have small hands we can find out together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found girl fists a lot easier to take than man fists "

I have small fists... not shovels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I effing love a fist up my soaked slutty snatch its delectable!

My first time was hard... Took him about 45 minutes to get in but he persevered, that was also the fisrt time I squirted. I've been a lover of it ever since, I reach a much more intense orgasm.

I recommended a few orgasms, lots of lube and a brave heart before trying

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx"

It just happened, once - and my partner enjoyed it (and I enjoyed her continued pleasure).

Fisting is an ugly, violent word - this was a much gentler act as my fingers and then my hand worked inside her after some lovely, long foreplay.

Maybe I just have small hands and nimble fingers?

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

There are techniques to fisting, the most common often called "the duck" due to the shape made by the fingers. It's certainly not ramming a fist inside someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I effing love a fist up my soaked slutty snatch its delectable!

My first time was hard... Took him about 45 minutes to get in but he persevered, that was also the fisrt time I squirted. I've been a lover of it ever since, I reach a much more intense orgasm.

I recommended a few orgasms, lots of lube and a brave heart before trying

X"

I've never heard it described as delectable before...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm going to try this weekend xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to try this weekend xxxxx"

As long as your partner knows what they are doing, it's fabulous. If it hurts, as opposed to feeling full up and tight, they are getting it wrong. Good luck x x x

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By *rs DCouple
over a year ago

far


"If you feel like trying it you are probably half way there. Personally I find the idea repulsive and a total turn off, so nothing would ever make me want to try -even with someone I totally trusted to be gentle.

I agree,it just makes me wince"
ditto

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By *reakish DesireCouple
over a year ago

Bisexuals


"I'm going to try this weekend xxxxx"

Good luck OP. Hope you enjoy... Just take it slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going to try this weekend xxxxx"

Good luck - don't worry if it doesn't work, do worry if it is painful and not pleasant.

I'm a regular at the Holiday Inn, Barnsley if you fancy a 'helping hand' one night xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to add, latex gloves (saves damage from tough skin, nails etc) and loads of lube

Personally I've always found it better after a small orgasm when my insides have relaxed and I usually try to keep my hands under my hips, elevates to right position, and your far more likely to relax if your not waving your arms around when you get excited, lay back, relax and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got big hands. Nobody ever asked me to do it. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried it a few timed, ( giving, not receiving ). Always makes me feel like James Heriot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a go, it's armless

Lol.. Joking..

I actually never done that to anyone before but it looks like the woman has a lot of fun..

Would love to try

Don't pick a goalkeeper or basketball player (big fuckoff hands) ha

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I LOVE receiving and giving! I've done it plenty of times on meets, without it being planned or using lube and never had a complaint so my 'technique' must be bloody brilliant! Haha! I don't have a technique at all, to anything really, I just go with the flow and when I say I've done it unplanned, it's usually when a woman is ridiculously wet and turned on and wants more...some women don't realise I've got my whole fist in until I tell them and that's usually when I feel them getting tighter because they tense up...it's all about being relaxed enough with whoever you're with and being super turned on...I don't have the most delicate/feminine/small hands in the world and actually think I have quite blokey/big hands but size has never been an issue because of the build up...if/when done right, it can be a VERY intense feeling and fabulously strong orgasm...the only bad experience I've had is when I was receiving once, she went in way too soon, way too fast and way too hard, took no consideration to how much natural lube I'd produced or in that case, not produced and just tried shoving her fist in!!! It was excruciating, completely killed the mood and well, it was just shit! I've not met many women that are willing to give it a go though unfortunately! It's one of my favourite things to do as nothing gives me an orgasm like fisting does...just a tip though, don't forget about the rest of the woman and just focus on the actual fisting as many do...I don't claim to be an expert on anything but hell yes, I'm fucking brilliant at it!!!! Barnsley isn't too far if you're hot!!!! Haha! I only do it with women though, no reason for that other than not really fucking men alone much!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

You need to be really seriously horny, take it very slowly and plenty of lube if you are not naturally very wet.....

It very much depends on the person as to their fist too - some have hands like shovels!

I would say if you are bi then try it with a lady first as we are more understanding.

I love it but not all the time - needs to be right person, time and place etc.....

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"I've got big hands. Nobody ever asked me to do it. Lol"

that's what I once said to a lady at an adult party, on her birthday no less. So she taught me a few techniques and thirty minutes later I was fisting her on the couch in the living room.

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"You need to be really seriously horny, take it very slowly and plenty of lube if you are not naturally very wet.....

It very much depends on the person as to their fist too - some have hands like shovels!

I would say if you are bi then try it with a lady first as we are more understanding... And right size hand:p

I love it but not all the time - needs to be right person, time and place etc....."

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

We've done, started with fingers and tongues and end up a fist. Relaxed and with a lube top up to be safe. Don't rush or force.

I'm wary of blokes fist being too big, so on the lookout for a lady to do instead

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By *uriousTwosomeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

There's actually a photo of us fisting in our images

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attempted to try but it was way too painful. I have no desire of trying again. Definitely not for me, didn't like it...

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By *ardleedsMan
over a year ago

Stafford

That's such a horny pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would never allow a meet from here to fist me, as most are one off meets or not that regular.

It needs someone who you trust, and you feel totally relaxed with.

It takes forever with me, lots of lube, loads of foreplay, and a guy who knows what he is doing.

can you not relax with a man? You never met someone decent that can turn you on? "

Yes I relax with men, and most of the men I have met are decent and turn me on while playing.

What I was saying is that as I don't do many repeat meetings then the trust needed for fisting or anal would not be built with a guy from here.

I do have a long-term FWB who I trust and adore anal and fisting with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been asked a few times if I could do it to some rather nice ladies. I too was nervous at first but once I got my hand in I found it fairly easy.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"There's actually a photo of us fisting in our images "

My pic of that was rejected by mods!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sounds painful

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East


"There's actually a photo of us fisting in our images

My pic of that was rejected by mods!! "
.. You have to upload it again:p

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By *orshamcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey / Sussex Border

I remember reading a book called "A Hand in the Bush: The Fine Art of Vaginal Fisting". Might come in handy

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"It sounds painful"

it should not be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've tried uploading a fisting pic a couple of times and they wouldn't allow it either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've tried uploading a fisting pic a couple of times and they wouldn't allow it either "

It's classed as forbidden by the government or something like that!

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

I've tried it a few times and great fun was had allround but have only managed the full fist once (I have big hands)

Barnsley is very close and I wouldn't mind giving you a hand

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston


"There's actually a photo of us fisting in our images

My pic of that was rejected by mods!! "

So was mine!!! And I've tried uploading it a few times just in case the mods were in a bad mood cos of having no sex that day! Turns out they're always miserable and it's been rejected every time!

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By *usthere4uMan
over a year ago

North East

Can pm me.. I like to see fist photos..

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Are you the fister or the fistee?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to ask is it nice or not iv been ask to do this lots of times???? Thanks xxxx"

Nah not feeling it

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"There's actually a photo of us fisting in our images

My pic of that was rejected by mods!!

So was mine!!! And I've tried uploading it a few times just in case the mods were in a bad mood cos of having no sex that day! Turns out they're always miserable and it's been rejected every time! "

Least I'm not alone!! You aren't far away, we should join forces and storm them! Protest boards at the ready!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are correct ans it goes both ways!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my G/F loves it. we did it for the first time not long ago, now she cant get enough.

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By *ilthy gentleman 4425Man
over a year ago

PONTEFRACT

debbies recently found she loves been fisted.... just the thought of it makes her wet

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