FabSwingers.com forum: Block Law

By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there a need to block someone that dont reply ?

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"is there a need to block someone that dont reply ?"

Well it's easer for us to move on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't block for a non-reply as we don't reply to all messages ourselves.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"We don't block for a non-reply as we don't reply to all messages ourselves. "

Why not? Xx

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Block happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some days we simply get too many to respond to all, or we don't reply if someone clearly hasn't read our profile.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

If someone hasn't read my profile and is nothing like my preferences I dont reply... I don't have time to reply to junk mail that is mass posted through my letter box either.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

thats you blocked by OP dude haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

me neither , i get guys message me and i chat even tho im straight , its nice to be nice

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Block happy

Block wars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone hasn't read my profile and is nothing like my preferences I dont reply... I don't have time to reply to junk mail that is mass posted through my letter box either. "

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

thats you blocked by OP dude haha"

Aren't we all

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

thats you blocked by OP dude haha"

...and they would confuse me with someone who gives a shit...

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

me neither , i get guys message me and i chat even tho im straight , its nice to be nice

BOOOOMMMM!!!! blocked

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

thats you blocked by OP dude haha

...and they would confuse me with someone who gives a shit...

Double blocked if its possible in fact I reckon they are starting a new profile just to block you on that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"

I don't.

There's been times where eve read a message but then got distracted and it's been days before I've got back to it.

I accept that others may be as forgetful as me.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I block people I have no interest in meeting or talking to. Simple really.

It's a tool on the site like any of the other filters.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx"

It's no skin off my nose that you think I'm a loser. I know I'm not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx"

Wait so people who don't reply fast enough to your messages are losers?

I get the feeling there's a lot of people who've dodged the entitled bullet here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block people I have no interest in meeting or talking to. Simple really.

It's a tool on the site like any of the other filters. "

But the question was how long after someone has read your message and not replied do you block them?

Or are you saying you're messaging g people you have no interest in?

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I block people I have no interest in meeting or talking to. Simple really.

It's a tool on the site like any of the other filters. "

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx"

WOW

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of b(ol)locks

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Oe4vGam2zxI

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a huge block list this is because i dont want to hassel any one that is not interested in me.

So if i get a no not type reply i will block.

Or if i look at a profile which really does not do it for me then i block it.

It makes my life easier when hunting lol.

But if i do not get a reply i may send another message in no fewer than few weeks and if its read and not replyed then it will be a block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What a load of b(ol)locks

Agreed

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx

It's no skin off my nose that you think I'm a loser. I know I'm not

Never said that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find being blocked says more about the person that blocks than it does about the recipient.

I can understand why people block, presumably due to their previous experiences, but it shows a wee lack of class in my opinion.

Just don't reply to the message or say "no thanks"?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I find being blocked says more about the person that blocks than it does about the recipient.

I can understand why people block, presumably due to their previous experiences, but it shows a wee lack of class in my opinion.

Just don't reply to the message or say "no thanks"?"

thats a blocking

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx"

Certo scio, occisam saepe spaere plus multo suem.

imo

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx

Certo scio, occisam saepe spaere plus multo suem.

imo

Ya what he said

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"I block people I have no interest in meeting or talking to. Simple really.

It's a tool on the site like any of the other filters.

But the question was how long after someone has read your message and not replied do you block them?

Or are you saying you're messaging g people you have no interest in?"

Sometimes after messaging a while, it goes cold. So I say thanks, good luck and block.

I delete all my sent messages so don't check... but use the private notes when I initiate contact. If I go to message someone, see I've messaged before and no follow up note, it's obvious they aren't interested so I would block then to avoid hassling anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've read messages and,for whatever the reason I haven't had the time to reply soon after reading.

Tied up with work,called away from pc,illness and,offline for a while.

As with most of us,it doesn't make us bad people? that warrant blocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx"

Pot kettle black

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"If you've got a blacklist I wanna be on it"

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

""If you've got a blacklist I wanna be on it"

Call me Raymond Reddington

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx

Pot kettle black

Why is it? Xx

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"We just don't have time for losers, sorry peeps xx

Pot kettle black

Why is it? Xx"

It's implying that you are losers oh how horrid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha, ha, ha, ha. Yes!! I did get blocked.

That is so funny

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Ha, ha, ha, ha. Yes!! I did get blocked.

That is so funny

building a castle with all the blocks I reckon

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"

What about the people you haven't messaged? How long does it take you to decide they're losers and block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy for someone to block me before they've even spoken to me/messaged me before. I get very few blocks.

I just love this site!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

[Removed by poster at 18/12/15 01:34:08]

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx

What about the people you haven't messaged? How long does it take you to decide they're losers and block them?

"
m

We message everyone we think could be match xx

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I'm more than happy for someone to block me before they've even spoken to me/messaged me before. I get very few blocks.

I just love this site!"

Don't need to message some people, their account does the work for them xx

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

...and besides, would you block someone you've never spoken to or who has never contacted you?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

AH ok enough fun sorry OP enjoy your forums be good and best of luck x x x xx x x x x x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this thread really is very very bizarre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this thread really is very very bizarre "

I think the op is d*unk lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"this thread really is very very bizarre "

The Doors "People Are Strange"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRAr354usf8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this thread really is very very bizarre

I think the op is d*unk lol"

off the scale d*unk lol

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"this thread really is very very bizarre

I think the op is d*unk lol

off the scale d*unk lol"

Nahh, sadly stone cold sober :/

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

Sorry couldn't resist

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

Sorry couldn't resist "

Tune!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVTf5EpIItQ

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.

I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.

However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line...

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

Sorry couldn't resist

Tune!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVTf5EpIItQ"

feeling the Bromance growing now thats a win in my book

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx

What about the people you haven't messaged? How long does it take you to decide they're losers and block them?

We message everyone we think could be match xx"

That wasn't the question though..

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

Sorry couldn't resist

Tune!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVTf5EpIItQ

feeling the Bromance growing now thats a win in my book

You're on

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

Sorry couldn't resist

Tune!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVTf5EpIItQ

feeling the Bromance growing now thats a win in my book

You're on

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YgSPaXgAdzE

Sorry couldn't resist

Tune!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVTf5EpIItQ

feeling the Bromance growing now thats a win in my book

You're on

LOL

Careful now!

I have form!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"
yes but its really sad that you are constantly being negative and burning bridges but hey Ho whatever floats your negative boat ,I personally avoid blocking anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.

I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.

However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line..."

Yep single guys are totally to blame here.

Couple complains that people aren't replying to them so they block them

This is clearly the fault of single males flooding their inboxes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx yes but its really sad that you are constantly being negative and burning bridges but hey Ho whatever floats your negative boat ,I personally avoid blocking anyone

Where did all your emoticons go dude?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.

I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.

However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line...

Yep single guys are totally to blame here.

Couple complains that people aren't replying to them so they block them

This is clearly the fault of single males flooding their inboxes....

Kinda missed my point there. Not bashing anyone, just those getting their knickers in a whimsy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I hear blocking well sometimes it is a great tool to save trying to remember those that sent you abuse or you have tyred being nice by saying no thank you to but they keep trying but me I will chat to anyone only happy to get the odd reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.

The need to declare blocks, it baffles me

I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.

The need to declare blocks, it baffles me

I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.

No I think this is a first on the forums. I've never heard of someone being blocked because they didn't answer fast enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.

The need to declare blocks, it baffles me

I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.

No I think this is a first on the forums. I've never heard of someone being blocked because they didn't answer fast enough.

10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 opps to slow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've seen it a few times now on the forums and I still don't quite understand it.

The need to declare blocks, it baffles me

I can only come up with the idea that it gives some people a bit of an ego boost or provides closure.

.. or something....

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

How does it burn bridges if there wasn't a bridge to start with? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block and I expect to be blocked.

Blocking is just a tool on here that's all.

Nobody has to explain why they've blocked someone.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.

I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.

However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line..."

What would make you change your mind? Xx

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"I block and I expect to be blocked.

Blocking is just a tool on here that's all.

Nobody has to explain why they've blocked someone."

Your right, they don't, just always curious as to why xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"

I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next

It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway

If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look

also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.

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By *etzPlay OP Couple
over a year ago

Southend

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx

I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next

It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway

If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look

also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.

I know what your saying, but would you want to be contacted by someone who had ignored you for two months and decided to contact you because their bored one day? Xx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

ok i see just pressing a button to block is easy..but why not send a no thanks message ..its the season of good will///connie xx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

I dread to think how many are on your block list,me included

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

A word of advice.....if people keep breaking forum rules and then putting " see you in 48 hours" you may find you are totting up too many bans and end up with a permanent one.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"...and besides, would you block someone you've never spoken to or who has never contacted you?"

It appears so!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"would you want to be contacted by someone who had ignored you for two months and decided to contact you because their bored one day? Xx"

That's how I use the site. If I'm in the mood I'll message them. If they are, they message me. If we're both available then we arrange something.

That's how I run my off-Fab life too. I do not like to be pestered constantly by people.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

Where did all your emoticons go dude?

I was thinking the same,it made a nice change though

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I dread to think how many are on your block list,me included

Every forum user no doubt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I get a polite message off a random I reply if it's a sorry not interested .But if it's rude off a random I generally block .And I love blocking .Local who's updates get on my nerves I block as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't block people either, seems a little pointless to me. If I don't want to talk to someone that's messaged I just don't open the message and it goes in the bulk delete. Which is probably why I've been blocked by the OP...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I dread to think how many are on your block list,me included

Every forum user no doubt

Those not been blocked by the op please step forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block and I expect to be blocked.

Blocking is just a tool on here that's all.

Nobody has to explain why they've blocked someone.

Your right, they don't, just always curious as to why xx"

Ok, why did you block me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don;t block anyone. Ever.

1/ I want to hear it all

2/ It's pointless blocking people

3/ I view it as a failure

Enjoy blocking people. It changes nothing.

thats you blocked by OP dude haha

...and they would confuse me with someone who gives a shit...

Double blocked if its possible in fact I reckon they are starting a new profile just to block you on that one

Pmsl

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I've only blocked one person in four and a bit years...Yep they were / are very special...

And no it wasn't cos they didn't reply to my message.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I dread to think how many are on your block list,me included

Every forum user no doubt

Those not been blocked by the op please step forward

Just checked.... I'm not..,

.. I might be in a special clique..

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I dread to think how many are on your block list,me included

Every forum user no doubt

Those not been blocked by the op please step forward

Just checked.... I'm not..,

.. I might be in a special clique..

Thinking about it I'm not sure that's a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx

I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next

It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway

If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look

also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.

I know what your saying, but would you want to be contacted by someone who had ignored you for two months and decided to contact you because their bored one day? Xx"

I do it all the time it's no big deal .

I don't use this type of lifestyle for friendship

If they were a friend in my friends Facebook rather than my causal acquaintances Facebook then it would be different

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I dread to think how many are on your block list,me included

Every forum user no doubt

Those not been blocked by the op please step forward

Just checked.... I'm not..,

.. I might be in a special clique..

Thinking about it I'm not sure that's a good thing

Should I send myself a message not reply and block the op just to be on the safe side ?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx

I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next

It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway

If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look

also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.

How do you 'have a look' when your blocked?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I dread to think how many are on your block list,me included

Every forum user no doubt

Those not been blocked by the op please step forward

Just checked.... I'm not..,

.. I might be in a special clique..

Thinking about it I'm not sure that's a good thing

Should I send myself a message not reply and block the op just to be on the safe side ?

No he seems a pretty decent guy

. Unlike someone who loves to block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally we'll only block if someone keeps messaging us. It gets a little tedious saying 'no thanks' over and over again to the same person.

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Why block ?

This is suppose to be a sex dating site not membership to the local golf course.

I find the blockers are usually the ones who never meet, or chat, want to become friend then block.

I only block offensive messengers, otherwise just move on and find the real member of here who do want to enjoy the site rather than playing silly games, like blocking because you do not reply in 1 seconds etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't.

It just seems mean.

A lot of negativity for no reason really.

Seems like an ego trip 'you weren't fast enough replying to us'

seems a bit up ones own bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx"

I never block people that don't reply to me. Don't see the point.

Someone did that to myself and my partner this week. We were having a chat, he asked us a question, we were waiting until we had the time to discuss it - i.e. the next day, and when we'd discussed it and gone back to him later to say 'yes, when can we meet?' he'd already blocked us.

Dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, I'm unsuitable or a timewaster. :D

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By *taffs_hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I only use the block facility if someone hasn't read our profile properly or they come across as irritating on the forums.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Lots of single chaps jumping on the offensive here. Forum regulars know what a ball ache women and couples have with messages, from a handful a day to the princesses who get hundreds. It's a filter.

I'm no bombarded hotty but get enough to get trigger happy with it on occasion.

However, I'd never block if someone hasn't replied. Might change my mind later down the line...

What would make you change your mind? Xx"

Mood and timing. There are days when I have time to consider someone's profile, days when I feel shitty and others where I simply scan and delete.

I've had a few reappear and I've felt differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't block for a non-reply as we don't reply to all messages ourselves.

Why not? Xx"

Have you seen the inbox of a tgirl? Believe me, there are not enough hours in the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We love blocking timewasters or unsuitable people.

How long to you leave it before you block someone who has read your message and not replied?

*please note we leave some time so both partners can read message xx

I find the whole block a bit controlling and silly as what you fancy one day is not what you want the next

It's also pointless as most people have two accounts anyway

If I look at a girl or couple and am blocked by them I think . They know me I wonder who they are and quickly go on and have a look

also when you are not a sofa swinger and meet people and swap fab names it saves the oh I can't find you.

I don't think most people have two accounts

I think that's more just the creepy stalker types.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

[TOXIC THREAD ALERT]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not even bothered to check the sent email folder lol.

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