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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so i have noticed that us men out number you women by like 10 million to 1 , why do you think that this situation is the way it is ? and what do you think can be done to change it if possible ? just wondering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so i have noticed that us men out number you women by like 10 million to 1 , why do you think that this situation is the way it is ? and what do you think can be done to change it if possible ? just wondering "

no i am not gready and of course sharing is caring :P

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I think this has been asked before and various theories put forward.

One being that men who shag a round are studs and women who do it are sluts

I was put on here by a friend and was shocked by the whole thing. I enjoy it now but I had some serious moral dilemmas about being a 'nice girl'.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I like it as i have a choice

just like being in a sweet shop an seeing what i can choose an unwrap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 million to one and I still can't find a shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like it as i have a choice

just like being in a sweet shop an seeing what i can choose an unwrap lol "

so bit like a mix bag lol

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I think this has been asked before and various theories put forward.

One being that men who shag a round are studs and women who do it are sluts

I was put on here by a friend and was shocked by the whole thing. I enjoy it now but I had some serious moral dilemmas about being a 'nice girl'."

it can be hard as i myself dont want to come across as a slut i just like nsa. an like the freedom an the choice as im single

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I like it as i have a choice

just like being in a sweet shop an seeing what i can choose an unwrap lol

so bit like a mix bag lol"

no so i have a variety to choose from all fems like a choice lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think this has been asked before and various theories put forward.

One being that men who shag a round are studs and women who do it are sluts

I was put on here by a friend and was shocked by the whole thing. I enjoy it now but I had some serious moral dilemmas about being a 'nice girl'.

it can be hard as i myself dont want to come across as a slut i just like nsa. an like the freedom an the choice as im single "

by whom men ? women or both ,,, i really dont see the problem if a women likes to be a ( slut as you put it ) , equal rights are equal rights , give and take kinda thing , i really think things need to change and you women need to take charge and change that view on things

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I think this has been asked before and various theories put forward.

One being that men who shag a round are studs and women who do it are sluts

I was put on here by a friend and was shocked by the whole thing. I enjoy it now but I had some serious moral dilemmas about being a 'nice girl'.

it can be hard as i myself dont want to come across as a slut i just like nsa. an like the freedom an the choice as im single

by whom men ? women or both ,,, i really dont see the problem if a women likes to be a ( slut as you put it ) , equal rights are equal rights , give and take kinda thing , i really think things need to change and you women need to take charge and change that view on things "

im straight an like men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It will never change until attitudes to women enjoying sex change.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

I'm bi.

Am I bovver'd?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It will never change until attitudes to women enjoying sex change."

if i came into office i would personally make sure it became illegal to bad mouth a womens sexual preference, i would also make it illegal to call her a tramp slut slag or all those other daft pathetic words some like to throw in yr faces

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It will never change until attitudes to women enjoying sex change.

if i came into office i would personally make sure it became illegal to bad mouth a womens sexual preference, i would also make it illegal to call her a tramp slut slag or all those other daft pathetic words some like to throw in yr faces "

Just changing the attitudes of some on fab would be a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because women have it easier to find a shag in reality, hence the ratio of almost no women lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would've been shagging about 18 years ago if my ex had had his kids or ever bothered with them. Make men responsible for their kids would help.

Luckily i had kids with someone else too and he's a big help, not had many nights off yet but planning to have more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would've been shagging about 18 years ago if my ex had had his kids or ever bothered with them. Make men responsible for their kids would help.

Luckily i had kids with someone else too and he's a big help, not had many nights off yet but planning to have more.

"

a factor i never considered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would've been shagging about 18 years ago if my ex had had his kids or ever bothered with them. Make men responsible for their kids would help.

Luckily i had kids with someone else too and he's a big help, not had many nights off yet but planning to have more.

a factor i never considered "

I was better looking and younger looking in those days too. Another bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would've been shagging about 18 years ago if my ex had had his kids or ever bothered with them. Make men responsible for their kids would help.

Luckily i had kids with someone else too and he's a big help, not had many nights off yet but planning to have more.

a factor i never considered

I was better looking and younger looking in those days too. Another bonus."

age gets us all lol ,,,,,,, how i miss my fringe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would've been shagging about 18 years ago if my ex had had his kids or ever bothered with them. Make men responsible for their kids would help.

Luckily i had kids with someone else too and he's a big help, not had many nights off yet but planning to have more.

a factor i never considered

I was better looking and younger looking in those days too. Another bonus.

age gets us all lol ,,,,,,, how i miss my fringe "

haha, yeah it does.

i made you a cuppa tea btw.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

It's because we live in a patriarchal society where male promiscuity is celebrated and encouraged, whereas female promiscuity is condemned and shamed.

Which is why women are much less likely to even want nsa sex, let alone join a site like this.

We've already had mention of "not wanting to look like a slut", but men never have this problem.

This is why.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"I would've been shagging about 18 years ago if my ex had had his kids or ever bothered with them. Make men responsible for their kids would help.

Luckily i had kids with someone else too and he's a big help, not had many nights off yet but planning to have more.

a factor i never considered "

You never considered that single parents were on Fab? No wonder the men outnumber the women. We're at home watching kids while our exes are out having fun.

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By *ripleXrateDWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think the reason is men (not all I know) are always looking for girls for sex.

Girls know this and it's not that hard to find a guy in a pub or club (not the right guy, but a guy non the less)

So when girls come on here and I know im not speaking for everyone but it tends to be for things that you wouldn't normaly do 8n front of your vanilla friends

Xxxx

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

I know not all but I think a lot of women struggle with the nice girl thing, numbers etc...

My ex wife went to a Catholic school and sometimes she had trouble having sext as it wasn't to create a new life... That was within a marriage... Funny didn't stop her running of with a co-worker....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I would've been shagging about 18 years ago if my ex had had his kids or ever bothered with them. Make men responsible for their kids would help.

Luckily i had kids with someone else too and he's a big help, not had many nights off yet but planning to have more.

a factor i never considered

You never considered that single parents were on Fab? No wonder the men outnumber the women. We're at home watching kids while our exes are out having fun.

"

Nooooooo , i never concidered that single women wouldnt have as much time to be able to meet etc

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