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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just after a little advice. When is the best time to send a friends invite? I never know if i should after the first contact or to wait a while. What do people think ?

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"Just after a little advice. When is the best time to send a friends invite? I never know if i should after the first contact or to wait a while. What do people think ?"

dont push it, ask after the 3rd or 4th message sent. Pushy isn't good as so many blokes are its a turn off i guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If after someone has read.. understood and then met or chatted on the phone with.. we happily add, same with most we know.. A few exceptions when we know they are real...

Those with a long list of friends who have been on site a week are just a little obvious eh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like to have a chat first and find out if we are going to get along,then do the invites

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By *orkduoCouple
over a year ago

york

we like to invite first to see if we are attracted to one another ,as face pics in private gallery.if we all find each other attractive then we take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Don't like to chat for too long before exchanging pics in case they are'nt what we're looking for......and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't like to chat for too long before exchanging pics in case they are'nt what we're looking for......and vice versa

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Fussy git...... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 'friends' on here is pretty irrelevant and meaningless i find. You can send pics with messages if necessary and if you are messaging them you can keep track of their profile that way or in your hotlist (guess this may be different for people who get alot of mail but you are a single guy, lol).

Different people rate it differently anyways. Some will add you without a message whereas some won't until you have sent a few.

I say it is meaningless only because we are all really trying to make freinds for real. Being friends on here doesn't mean you really are friends, and friendships don't need a tag on a website. Although I'm sure facebook would beg to differ!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Don't like to chat for too long before exchanging pics in case they are'nt what we're looking for......and vice versa

Fussy git...... x"

Hehehehe

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Whenever we receive an approach from a couple we fancy then we always send a friend invite along with our reply... simply as a way of sharing our private pics with them and hopefully seeing more of them in theirs too.

If we were making first contact then we would send a friend request if the other couple reply positively, together our second message.

These methods seem about to work well for us.

xxx

j&r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely... No rights or wrongs in how. We send the pics along with the reply and live in hope we get some back lol...

Just we try to avoid a long long friends list..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just relax and you will know when to send and invite. I personally am very very careful as my face pics are on profile, dont wanna frighten em to death lol first, also dont want someone to recognise me if they a neighbour or work colleague lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just relax and you will know when to send and invite. I personally am very very careful as my face pics are on profile, dont wanna frighten em to death lol first, also dont want someone to recognise me if they a neighbour or work colleague lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

The way we handle it is to look at profiles, if we like what we see, then we send a message to them. If their profile asks for face pics, then we include a friends link.

This is only because we have our faces in private pics, not on the front profile page.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats great thank you everyone for you help and advice have a great weekend all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love friend invites, i wait till there off line, accept, perv there pics, then delete , its brill ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess everyone's opinion is different .... I only send/accept friends invites from people I have met, who I'm really friends with. I don't have any private pics, so there's nowt to perv LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't appreciate friends invites without chatting. I prefer people to message first.

Estee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only have people on our friends list who we have actually met either socially or through playing

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

Its an interesting issue whether to add or not. does it set a precedent or are we all just perving at friends pics! Well i suppose we are all different. I tend to add friends, people i have chatted with but not always met.

Now you have to decide if to hide or not now lol.

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By *eavensg84uCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

Our profile is quite clear about not wanting friends requests or winks - yet we keep getting them. Our 'friends' list is mostly people we've met or intend to meet - not people from 300 miles away who want to perv our pics!

If we've exchanged a few messages and it seems promising, then we'll send a friends request or reply to one, but only if we get a sense of the other people being for real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are new to this but dont think we would add a friend on here unless we had met.

Its always annoying when you log in and you have five requests from folk youve never heard from before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are big winkers though! I guess thats a bit annoying for folk but we just cant help winking at sexy folk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no winners please nice to get far better to recieve a sexy message though cmon show some effort LOL

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