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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We learned an important lesson this evening. Don't swing with people who badmouth other swingers. It won't be long before they're badmouthing you.

Our rulebook as a couple is so small that it's a rule-sentence, but the sentence just got slightly longer and remains open-ended! (Yeah, I know it's not a sentence if it's open-ended!)

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend

I happens to us all the time, the trick is to be awesome like us so you can transcend it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did they say about you specifically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We learned an important lesson this evening. Don't swing with people who badmouth other swingers. It won't be long before they're badmouthing you.

Our rulebook as a couple is so small that it's a rule-sentence, but the sentence just got slightly longer and remains open-ended! (Yeah, I know it's not a sentence if it's open-ended!) "

I'm afraid it's a bit like a school playground on the scene, I find it very sad, but just avoid the negative people, there's still the diamonds to find, and loads of fun to be had.

Some people's mentality baffles me at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a decent rule for life in general tbh. Negativity breeds negativity.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did they say about you specifically "

Can't help thinking that you've missed the point, there. We don't badmouth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the sentiment & apply it to people in general, it's all just negative energy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I happens to us all the time, the trick is to be awesome like us so you can transcend it "

We are! xxx

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"I happens to us all the time, the trick is to be awesome like us so you can transcend it

We are! xxx"

I don't know, if you need a profile . . .

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Im finding a similar situ with an ex friend here who,having hooked up with a controlling guy ( history repeating itself for her here) now just cant but help always be chatting shit about me .. and it is shit.

The thing is,I never judged her despite all the d*unken and drug induced bizarre behaviours and causing scenes outside my house!

I could go on but its just so depressing and the last thing i wanna do is get myself to the point where i feel i need confront her at work and have it out in the open ,as its the only place i know to get hold of her.

I think the moral of the story is,when you have loads people telling you someone is a loony;

a)Listen to them

b)Be prepared to move on,and quickly no matter how fond of them you are.

They are like a cancerous cesspool,just spreading shit to anyone stupid enough to believe them otherwise

Onwards and forwards as,there are certainly enough nice people here who arent total fuckwits ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's a decent rule for life in general tbh. Negativity breeds negativity."

Totally agree with this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did they say about you specifically

Can't help thinking that you've missed the point, there. We don't badmouth! "

Well no you started a whole thread to badmouth.

I was just curious what they said that lead you to the point of publically putting them on display to be torn apart.

You know so I knew if it was right to engage in the daily hate or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What did they say about you specifically

Can't help thinking that you've missed the point, there. We don't badmouth!

Well no you started a whole thread to badmouth.

I was just curious what they said that lead you to the point of publically putting them on display to be torn apart.

You know so I knew if it was right to engage in the daily hate or not."

Troublemaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im finding a similar situ with an ex friend here who,having hooked up with a controlling guy ( history repeating itself for her here) now just cant but help always be chatting shit about me .. and it is shit.

The thing is,I never judged her despite all the d*unken and drug induced bizarre behaviours and causing scenes outside my house!

I could go on but its just so depressing and the last thing i wanna do is get myself to the point where i feel i need confront her at work and have it out in the open ,as its the only place i know to get hold of her.

I think the moral of the story is,when you have loads people telling you someone is a loony;

a)Listen to them

b)Be prepared to move on,and quickly no matter how fond of them you are.

They are like a cancerous cesspool,just spreading shit to anyone stupid enough to believe them otherwise

Onwards and forwards as,there are certainly enough nice people here who arent total fuckwits ..

"

Seem to have crossed paths with a few of these the past few months, and it's been such an eye opener, swinging is a great education in human behaviour, met some fantastic people (you know who are) and met some right arseholes ( you know who you are) but I'm so enjoying the ride....

..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What did they say about you specifically

Can't help thinking that you've missed the point, there. We don't badmouth!

Well no you started a whole thread to badmouth.

You know so I knew if it was right to engage in the daily hate or not."

That's exactly what I didn't do. And once again, despite your obvious knowledge of mental manipulation a la 1984, you still miss the point. Let's not say bad things about each other, eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We're enjoying the ride, too!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If they'll bad mouth someone to you they'll bad mouth you to someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just so.

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By *ecretspankerCouple
over a year ago

Colchester

Over the years we have been lucky with whom we have met. But as with real life we have made mistakes too and had our fingers burnt. Luckily for us those who we counted as friends didn't believe the rumours and lies about us. We hope it's a lesson learnt for us but ....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"those who we counted as friends didn't believe the rumours and lies about us."

These are the only people who matter.

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