FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

How do you know when

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do you know when both people in a couple are into it. I remember watching the Louis theroux BBC thing on swingers and it kind of seemed that one of the couples only the Mr was into it and the wife was playing along but maybe she was just nervous

How would you tell?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Body language, what she says and how she says it. Ask her outright when she's alone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are thinking about how good a swing was and she asks when is the next one.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normally obvious. Although I have had someone think I wasn't into it, the reality was they had annoyed me but I didn't think it fair to just stop play and leave .... But I guess it showed in my body language..

I enjoy it most when the couples are still very Much into each other and making little touches And glances as that to me makes me feel like they share it equally x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One couple I met gave me that feeling, she wasn't into it. I was wrong, turns out she had been swinging long before they got together, she was just a very quiet person.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Flik nagged me incessantly to take her to Chams....think this was kind of a signal that she might be interested.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How do you know when both people in a couple are into it. I remember watching the Louis theroux BBC thing on swingers and it kind of seemed that one of the couples only the Mr was into it and the wife was playing along but maybe she was just nervous

How would you tell? "

It's usually obvious in their body language even if their verbal language is saying the opposite. We have met people socially where one or the other was just doing it to please the other and its very sad that one of them feels unable to say no, one of them is unable to read signals that are loud and clear to a stranger and both of them think that we would want to have sex with them under those circumstances.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks folks

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top