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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

for those of us that have been around for a few years you'll probably agree this place isn't what it used to be. Is anyone on another site having more success?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off here for 5 years, I don't think its changed at all in that time and works very well for me.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"for those of us that have been around for a few years you'll probably agree this place isn't what it used to be. Is anyone on another site having more success?"

try bebo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just mean with the number of time wasters, fakes and pic collectors is much much higher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose success on here depends on how much effort you put in, like anything in life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just mean with the number of time wasters, fakes and pic collectors is much much higher"

They don't bother me in the slightest with the way I run my profile.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Still the best site in the UK.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I just mean with the number of time wasters, fakes and pic collectors is much much higher"

You don't have to worry about pic collectors

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I dont think its changed the site

an its still the same

fabs gives me the choice with nsa an met some nice guys of the site.

im happy with the site an you will get time wasters its part an parcel of the nsa world. Im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for those of us that have been around for a few years you'll probably agree this place isn't what it used to be. Is anyone on another site having more success?"

?? how do measure your successes - notches on bed post ? - number of meets ? - how many different people you have met ?

I am just being nosey - I have been here off and on for many many years, and whilst I do not meet as often I did, the ones I do meet are regular meets - male and female that is lol

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We "succeed" in the club and chat on here. Possibly a measure of your success is your lack of profile rather than other people?? Just a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can kind of see where the OP is coming from.

Last time I was on here under another username I had meets and veris which led to more meets etc. I recall fewer timewasters and didn't get bothered by half as many 'straight' guys as now.

After a break of a year, new username but same profile and photos...loads of 'straight' guys emailing daily (ladies you have my sympathy!) and despite having three social meets with the couples, none of them have bothered to offer a veri. Not even confirming I'm genuine.

I'm not losing sleep over it though. Patience is the name of the game.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I've been on and off here for 5 years, I don't think its changed at all in that time and works very well for me. "

same here, works perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on here for a few years and think there are too many people who behave in an off putting desparate manner and have huge senses of selfish entitlement

I just ignore them though and have lots of fun by finding what I want on my own,there are some absolutely gorgeous and lovely people here too

I believe it would be no different anywhere else,it hasn't been when I've looked at other sites in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive been on here for a few years and think there are too many people who behave in an off putting desparate manner and have huge senses of selfish entitlement

I just ignore them though and have lots of fun by finding what I want on my own,there are some absolutely gorgeous and lovely people here too

I believe it would be no different anywhere else,it hasn't been when I've looked at other sites in the past "
I agree with this I get out of it what I want their are lovely people and strange to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Third time on here and it works well for us

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

5 whole months OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just mean with the number of time wasters, fakes and pic collectors is much much higher

You don't have to worry about pic collectors "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's changed a little over the 2 yrs since I first joined but what I have found, is that the club scene is far more social than it used to be...it's a good thing but as I only play at clubs/parties ...it's gets a bit tedious at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only been here a couple of years but found as I've become a bit more savvy that the site's come to work well for me

It's down to the individual as to what kind of experience they have on here, not every other member.

You have filters, you have the tools provided by the site and a good instinct, then you have the extremely rare 'common sense' that despite it's name seems so rare.

Your a single guy on fab, to me, by far and away the easiest and best group to be in, go enjoy the place

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