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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi there

My girlfriend had a fuckbuddy for a couple of years a while back before we met. She told me about him early on in our relationship, during one of those "I want to know everything about your life before me" conversations you have when falling for someone. She's always said she had no feelings for this guy, just used him for sex as he was very hot, a few years younger than her and the sex they had was pretty hot and filthy. She even did with him something I wanted to do and, as she didn't enjoy it then, it won't be happening with me now.

Well, the thing is that for a few months now we've talker about me seeing her fuck someone. The thought turns me on massively. A couple of weeks ago I dreamt she fucked her old fuck buddy while I watched...and I liked it!! I told her about it and left it there.

Yesterday, she told me that if I wanted to experience my fantasy of watching her fuck another guy, she would only be comfortable if it were her old fuck buddy. She gave me some rational explanation as to why it makes sense and it'd be easier with him as it had always been sex NSA.

I'm in 2 minds. I love the thought but also hate thinking he could try to repeat it on their own (though that also kind of turns me on)

Anyone gone through something similar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi there

My girlfriend had a fuckbuddy for a couple of years a while back before we met. She told me about him early on in our relationship, during one of those "I want to know everything about your life before me" conversations you have when falling for someone. She's always said she had no feelings for this guy, just used him for sex as he was very hot, a few years younger than her and the sex they had was pretty hot and filthy. She even did with him something I wanted to do and, as she didn't enjoy it then, it won't be happening with me now.

Well, the thing is that for a few months now we've talker about me seeing her fuck someone. The thought turns me on massively. A couple of weeks ago I dreamt she fucked her old fuck buddy while I watched...and I liked it!! I told her about it and left it there.

Yesterday, she told me that if I wanted to experience my fantasy of watching her fuck another guy, she would only be comfortable if it were her old fuck buddy. She gave me some rational explanation as to why it makes sense and it'd be easier with him as it had always been sex NSA.

I'm in 2 minds. I love the thought but also hate thinking he could try to repeat it on their own (though that also kind of turns me on)

Anyone gone through something similar?"

That wouldn't be for me. If I wanted to see that it would have to be with a stranger there are less chances if feelings and emotions being involved.

Ok they may have been meeting for nsa but there was obviously something that attracted both of them to continue to do it with any length of time.

Personally I think your playing with fire. Would she want to see you with one of your ex's.

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Would she want to see you with another guy off here?

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

playing with fire don't do it

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I let a lady friend pick a guy for a 3 sum but I'm glad she picked him cos he obviously did not like my lady as he could not get it up . But I was never so turned on in my life before as then it was very kinky . I think ur lady friend must have feeling for her fb cos I don't care what people say when u see people regularly u feel about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to be cynical but this sounds like it has got recipe for disaster written all over it!

How would you feel if they were meeting behind your back!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to be cynical but this sounds like it has got recipe for disaster written all over it!

How would you feel if they were meeting behind your back!?

"
I agree with this guy

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By *renaaJirkaCouple
over a year ago

Prague and New York

Well, if its first time for here to have sex with someone in front of you, then I can understand that its for her unknown, grey zone and she would like to start with someone that give here feeling of secure environment (it means she know that that guy is not strange freak on dope, but someone known to her).

And remember that your gf decided that she would like to be your gf and although she had lot of possibility to decide to be with him. For her you have definitelly more qualities then her ex fb.

So, I personally will not be afraid of it.

Fulfill your fantasies.

(BTW - it seems acording your many validations that you are fullfiling some your other fantasies as well )

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By *igmatt82Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Don't do it pal...feelings will get involved as it's an old sex partner..it would have to be done with someone with no emotional ties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she still has feelng for him then they'll fuck anyway.

If you want to watch her fuck another guy you can't pick the guy. It's her body and she can pick whoever she likes.

I guess the moral of the story is be careful what you wish for...

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Playing with fire fingers get burnt

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Play it wise Op. It could be down to simple trust & sexual awareness of her ex FB. In contrast it could be down to something beyond the NSA you mention.

Btw Op, are you on here with your GF, her awareness or is she a GF outside of Fab unaware your here ?

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