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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered what people use the most on here when looking for interesting playmates? The chat looks very busy but it demands a lot of your day to keep up I think? I quite like reading the forums and might follow through to people from there but what do you lot think?

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


".... The chat looks very busy but it demands a lot of your day to keep up..."

I agree to an extent - however, if you go on regularly at the same time of day oyu will start to see the same faces. You only really need 20-30 mins a day to start getting recognized.

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!"

lol, no me either mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!"

pmsl so true... full of blokes whacking off... zzzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".... The chat looks very busy but it demands a lot of your day to keep up...

I agree to an extent - however, if you go on regularly at the same time of day oyu will start to see the same faces. You only really need 20-30 mins a day to start getting recognized."
Do you find the chat is the best way?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!

pmsl so true... full of blokes whacking off... zzzzzzzzzzz"

U know what, I just had another look and really it's not getting me in the mood. Plus I type with both hands. Doh!

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By *lgernonMan
over a year ago

cupar


".... The chat looks very busy but it demands a lot of your day to keep up...

I agree to an extent - however, if you go on regularly at the same time of day oyu will start to see the same faces. You only really need 20-30 mins a day to start getting recognized.Do you find the chat is the best way?"

I mostly use it to chat to folk I already know.

However, it does get your name out there and my get you word of mouth recommendations.

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!

pmsl so true... full of blokes whacking off... zzzzzzzzzzz

U know what, I just had another look and really it's not getting me in the mood. Plus I type with both hands. Doh!"

Im left handed, type both but mouse is right so im feked for whacking and typing. But hey at least my mouse dosnt get sticky.

Anyway i think what you do with someone you like is send them a message. An interesting one, an individual one and non of the "do you fancy a shag" type. Effort brings rewards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!

pmsl so true... full of blokes whacking off... zzzzzzzzzzz

U know what, I just had another look and really it's not getting me in the mood. Plus I type with both hands. Doh!

Im left handed, type both but mouse is right so im feked for whacking and typing. But hey at least my mouse dosnt get sticky.

Anyway i think what you do with someone you like is send them a message. An interesting one, an individual one and non of the "do you fancy a shag" type. Effort brings rewards."

Yeah I'm with you on that, I actually prefer that approach too, I just wonder if that's the best method in terms of getting something back, or if people in general prefer to meet & chat in the chatrooms, then message afterwards. I dunno, I think I'll stick with what I like.

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone


"Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!

pmsl so true... full of blokes whacking off... zzzzzzzzzzz

U know what, I just had another look and really it's not getting me in the mood. Plus I type with both hands. Doh!

Im left handed, type both but mouse is right so im feked for whacking and typing. But hey at least my mouse dosnt get sticky.

Anyway i think what you do with someone you like is send them a message. An interesting one, an individual one and non of the "do you fancy a shag" type. Effort brings rewards.

Yeah I'm with you on that, I actually prefer that approach too, I just wonder if that's the best method in terms of getting something back, or if people in general prefer to meet & chat in the chatrooms, then message afterwards. I dunno, I think I'll stick with what I like."

I only mail people i like the look of and the drift of there profile. I will give my all and try and say something about me, but i am genuinely interested in them. If i get a reply im pleased to do so. But if its no reply, well that there choice so i don't pester. I do understand some get lots of mail and can't answer all. But above all be polite with people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Chat? its full of blokes whacking off! You cant type and nock one out or i cant. Donno how they do it. I presume its a skill like discus or pole vaulting!

pmsl so true... full of blokes whacking off... zzzzzzzzzzz

U know what, I just had another look and really it's not getting me in the mood. Plus I type with both hands. Doh!

Im left handed, type both but mouse is right so im feked for whacking and typing. But hey at least my mouse dosnt get sticky.

Anyway i think what you do with someone you like is send them a message. An interesting one, an individual one and non of the "do you fancy a shag" type. Effort brings rewards.

Yeah I'm with you on that, I actually prefer that approach too, I just wonder if that's the best method in terms of getting something back, or if people in general prefer to meet & chat in the chatrooms, then message afterwards. I dunno, I think I'll stick with what I like.

I only mail people i like the look of and the drift of there profile. I will give my all and try and say something about me, but i am genuinely interested in them. If i get a reply im pleased to do so. But if its no reply, well that there choice so i don't pester. I do understand some get lots of mail and can't answer all. But above all be polite with people."

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fancy a shag !!

dont do much for us,you cant go wrong with a nice message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We use the forums.. but not solely to meet peeps, though if that happened great.

We use the ads.. we get mailed and mail folk that interest.. Chat, exchange numbers.. meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use the forums.. but not solely to meet peeps, though if that happened great.

We use the ads.. we get mailed and mail folk that interest.. Chat, exchange numbers.. meet up.

"

nice profile...fancy a shag?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We use the forums.. but not solely to meet peeps, though if that happened great.

We use the ads.. we get mailed and mail folk that interest.. Chat, exchange numbers.. meet up.

nice profile...fancy a shag?"

Gee thanks LOL

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Can only say we have never ever used the chat rooms - but doesn't seem to cause a problem with getting meets

Posting on the forum seems to get you noticed (though sometimes for all the wrong reasons lol)

Other than that direct messaging is pretty good, and the 'looking to meet today' function has never failed us yet

xxx

j&r

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use the forums.. but not solely to meet peeps, though if that happened great.

We use the ads.. we get mailed and mail folk that interest.. Chat, exchange numbers.. meet up.

nice profile...fancy a shag?"

Like you'd even need to ask....

Its not do we fancy ... Its when can we lol..

Mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We use the forums.. but not solely to meet peeps, though if that happened great.

We use the ads.. we get mailed and mail folk that interest.. Chat, exchange numbers.. meet up.

nice profile...fancy a shag?

Like you'd even need to ask....

Its not do we fancy ... Its when can we lol..

Mwah xx"

Yeah..erm..that's exactly what I was erm..going to say (cough!). LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chatroom = now to be known as "whack off chat for the frustrated"

go for it............ahem !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the good thing about chat rooms even if you go on at a regular time after work each day or just now and then if you dont work is that ppl are very friendly and they organise damn good big social meets, where everyone gets to meet everyone and then you see who you like etc., and can organise fun meets good luck huns

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"the good thing about chat rooms even if you go on at a regular time after work each day or just now and then if you dont work is that ppl are very friendly and they organise damn good big social meets, where everyone gets to meet everyone and then you see who you like etc., and can organise fun meets good luck huns"

Kitten is spot on with this one. We chat a lot in the Wales chat room, and tend to find that you can out the ppl you might not want to meet from watching what they say, and to whom, over a period of a few days. You get noticed too, so long as you join in, the best introduction being "Hi all, new to all this, how does it work?" or words to that effect. Lots of ppl are friendly and helpful, you start to make friends, then you get told about social meets. Once you turn up at one, ppl are a lot more relaxed about you, as they know you are defo who and what you say you are. it then snowballs from there, you get invites to meet, your verifs list grows, and soon you are an experienced swinger!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i sit back and wait for them to find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i sit back and wait for them to find me "

snap works a treat

Going back to chat tho, wonder if the guys above would be more interested in it if it was mainly girls "whacking" off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i sit back and wait for them to find me "

Hmmm. Been there, done that ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid I have to say that I find the chatroom(Scotland) totally manic! The speed it moves at I really find it difficult to understand how anybody can have a conversation! Turn your head away for a second and the screen has moved on completely.

Regarding meeting, I haven't had much success so far, though the success I have had via browsing, quite frankly makes up for anything else I might have hoped to find, so I shouldn't complain too much!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met some lovely people just by taking the time to read their profile PROPERLY and matching what they are looking for with what I am. I take the time to send, what I think, is a polite, lighthearted message and explain that if I don't get a reply then I understand and hope they find what they are looking for.

As for chat rooms, don't use this 'whacking off' one but one on a different site which is very friendly and a good laugh. I have also met people off there so I think it works both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actively hunt out those that appeal, stalk them, lull them into a false sense of security, then pounce and devour...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish there were more girls like you about, Maybelline!!!

Being lured and devoured has an appeal!!! lol

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