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By *andy muncher OP   Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I know some of you peeps on here would never think of doing this ive always wondered why and what do the single guys and fems think of this

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

lol most of my meets are last minute ones . a wee bit of chat enough to know i'll be safe meeting a person then go for it when the horn is rife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the spontanaity of it whats the point in endless emails if I want to fuck, I fuck simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with the ladies be spontanius but safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the spontanity of last minute meets. They tend to be with people we've chatted to previously but its definitely exciting

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

not for me im afraid .too meny times ive found out stuff just in general conversation that put a red flag up about the person . also people letting the mask slip and true nature comes out.i want to be meeting a person going in with eyes wide open.

i perfer the rapport you get from actually getting to know a person too . stimulate the mind and the body follows

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

spontanius is good but the build up can also be great life is for living * vatiety is the spice of life

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By *mf4BxJCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

We like last minute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out first mmf with single guy was last minute - best way as maybe one of us would have been too nervous and pulled out if had too long to think about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some of you peeps on here would never think of doing this ive always wondered why "

I live with my daughters. What kind of nut would I be to give someone off the internet my address and say come around without knowing anything about them?!!

I'm hardly likely to take their address and go to visit them either.

I've read posts of single fems arranging to meet men in hotel rooms only to be met by a group of men...the meet thought it appropriate to bring some of his mates along. Besides I don't meet in hotels: ever!!!

I like to know the name of the people I have sex with, and know something about them...that's how I have fun.

It wouldn't cross my mind to question someone who likes dogging, goes to clubs and takes on all comers etc...we each have our own way of doing things...wouldn't ask them why!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

A last minute meet with someone that I had'nt been in contact with before is not something that im interested in

I would be embarrassed to say just how long ive been in contact with some of the guys we know before we've met them

Im never in any rush and won't ever be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree there Sassy

would not do it without Daz my minder here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A last minute meet with someone that I had'nt been in contact with before is not something that im interested in

I would be embarrassed to say just how long ive been in contact with some of the guys we know before we've met them

Im never in any rush and won't ever be "

In some respects Honey, I think it's different for a couple. It's all part of the fantasy of playing with others I imagine, besides you have each other there for safety.

I just don't get why a single man would think it odd that a single woman wouldn't just hand out her address for a shag.

I've losing my marbles, but not completely taken leave of my senses!!!

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Most, if not all, of the meets I have on here are usually arranged at the last minute (or day before) but are with people I have at least had some contact with in the past.

The only things I arrange in advance on here is going to the Socials and can also say, I have never directly mailed someone asking if they want to meet me.

That's maybe why, though, tonight I will be in chat or on the forums on my own on a Saturday night yet again!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"A last minute meet with someone that I had'nt been in contact with before is not something that im interested in

I would be embarrassed to say just how long ive been in contact with some of the guys we know before we've met them

Im never in any rush and won't ever be

In some respects Honey, I think it's different for a couple. It's all part of the fantasy of playing with others I imagine, besides you have each other there for safety.

I just don't get why a single man would think it odd that a single woman wouldn't just hand out her address for a shag.

I've losing my marbles, but not completely taken leave of my senses!!! "

You're right about the couple thing Sassy,I was thinking that as I was typing the post but thought sod it ive nearly finished it now

If I was single then no way ever would I even consider it,but I know people that do...even non swinging friends that chat on the other "dating" sites and it scares me half to death for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had a few guys come help us out last minute..

Also had a few times where we have had some spare time but we find it not that easy to find single guys that can drop everything last minute. :D

I have yet to do it but would love to find someone and get them straight over.. :D

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done last minute meets on a number of occassions with good results.

It can work for some and not the others, of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the ones that build it up with constant messages tend to be the no shows but if it is a last minute thing they all tend to turn up go figure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you tend to find out that the men on these last minute meets are saying there single But R really married Arnt they? Or am I wrong biglad69

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"you tend to find out that the men on these last minute meets are saying there single But R really married Arnt they? Or am I wrong biglad69 "

Happily divorced here, so nope, not all men that only do these last minute meets are married.

I do have a life away from swinging and that always comes before a meet anyday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some of you peeps on here would never think of doing this ive always wondered why and what do the single guys and fems think of this "

Most of our meets are spur of the moment or last min,we dont have time for endless chit chat or email ping pong, at the end of the day we are meeting for nsa sex,were not looking for love or new best friends so this way works best for us x

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