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Women who dislike having their pussy licked

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By *eifer2010 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole

Quick query really ladies.

My long term partner has this real issue with having her pussy licked and receiving oral in any way. She says she does cum from it but is rarely in the mood...is this as strange as I find it?

Is it a case of not enjoying it, or feeling unhygienic or something..? 99 percent of the time she tells me not to eat her out and just wants me inside her filling her up.

I think most guys would be happy never having to do foreplay but I love licking a woman out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not my favourite. I much prefer fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a novel idea....ask her? How would we know. Every woman has their own reasons for disliking something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an ex who was like that. The relationship was doomed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not my favourite. I much prefer fingers."

Same here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marc loves licking...but to be honest it isn't something I usually enjoy. He, and a few women, have been really good at it, but on the whole it isn't my thing. I always ask men on meets not to do it to me.

*shrugs* I can't explain my body, sometimes.

-Courtney

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I'm not into it. It feels nice but I feel left out as I like to be kissing.

Or looking up at his face while I do what I enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don't. It's the way of the world OP.

Just do the things you know that drive her wild communication is key.

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Thank goodness my beloved loves it as do I and if my ears are disfigured you now know why!

L2

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By *eifer2010 OP   Man
over a year ago

Poole


"Marc loves licking...but to be honest it isn't something I usually enjoy. He, and a few women, have been really good at it, but on the whole it isn't my thing. I always ask men on meets not to do it to me.

*shrugs* I can't explain my body, sometimes.

-Courtney"

Thanks Courtney, good to have nice genuine answer than the usual sarky trolls. I just assumed it was a clear favourite for ladies from past relationships but obviously not. Fingers and other toys much preferred then across the board always good to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't enjoy receiving oral sex.

I don't know why, it's nothing in particular, I just don't really enjoy it. There must be things you don't like?

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

What a revelation. I assumed the same too,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it...only if its done right though!...nothing sexier than a man inbetween my legs and looking up at me while in the act...i love it so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marc loves licking...but to be honest it isn't something I usually enjoy. He, and a few women, have been really good at it, but on the whole it isn't my thing. I always ask men on meets not to do it to me.

*shrugs* I can't explain my body, sometimes.

-Courtney

Thanks Courtney, good to have nice genuine answer than the usual sarky trolls. I just assumed it was a clear favourite for ladies from past relationships but obviously not. Fingers and other toys much preferred then across the board always good to know "

Not across the board. There are plenty of women who love and prefer oral. But its not that unusual not to, either.

-Courtney

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Maybe Your Just Not Doing it Right..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe Your Just Not Doing it Right.. "

Maybe his partner just doesn't enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marc loves licking...but to be honest it isn't something I usually enjoy. He, and a few women, have been really good at it, but on the whole it isn't my thing. I always ask men on meets not to do it to me.

*shrugs* I can't explain my body, sometimes.

-Courtney

Thanks Courtney, good to have nice genuine answer than the usual sarky trolls. I just assumed it was a clear favourite for ladies from past relationships but obviously not. Fingers and other toys much preferred then across the board always good to know "

I shall assume that comment was aimed at me and i was by no way being sarcy nor trolling. I just think that other women's reasons for not liking something will not necessarily have anything to do with your partners reasons. Mind you, you assumed that all women like oral in the first instance so i see the problem. Communicating is key in any relationship. Not assumption.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay I am weird as hell on this.. I can enjoy it for as long as Mr is willing to give it.. And totally enjoy it.. Relaxed and lost in the pleasure.

On a meet I kinda tolerate it.. Sometimes its okay. Other times I just enjoy it for their enjoyment and then there are times I cant bare it and have to stop them.

My ex used to tell me I smelled.. and it was so ugly down there. So It took me a while to relax and for most of my swinging life I didnt allow men to do it. So its a relatively new thing.

If I am really relaxed in the situation then I find it better.. and do like to enjoy it while watching Mr with another lady. But if I met one on one ( which I dont) It wouldnt be on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I am weird as hell on this.. I can enjoy it for as long as Mr is willing to give it.. And totally enjoy it.. Relaxed and lost in the pleasure.

On a meet I kinda tolerate it.. Sometimes its okay. Other times I just enjoy it for their enjoyment and then there are times I cant bare it and have to stop them.

My ex used to tell me I smelled.. and it was so ugly down there. So It took me a while to relax and for most of my swinging life I didnt allow men to do it. So its a relatively new thing.

If I am really relaxed in the situation then I find it better.. and do like to enjoy it while watching Mr with another lady. But if I met one on one ( which I dont) It wouldnt be on the cards. "

I'm sorry if you liked your ex.....but he sounds like a dick.

-Courtney

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Quick query really ladies.

My long term partner has this real issue with having her pussy licked and receiving oral in any way. She says she does cum from it but is rarely in the mood...is this as strange as I find it?

Is it a case of not enjoying it, or feeling unhygienic or something..? 99 percent of the time she tells me not to eat her out and just wants me inside her filling her up.

I think most guys would be happy never having to do foreplay but I love licking a woman out! "

I don't enjoy it, that's all.

Oral isn't the only foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I am weird as hell on this.. I can enjoy it for as long as Mr is willing to give it.. And totally enjoy it.. Relaxed and lost in the pleasure.

On a meet I kinda tolerate it.. Sometimes its okay. Other times I just enjoy it for their enjoyment and then there are times I cant bare it and have to stop them.

My ex used to tell me I smelled.. and it was so ugly down there. So It took me a while to relax and for most of my swinging life I didnt allow men to do it. So its a relatively new thing.

If I am really relaxed in the situation then I find it better.. and do like to enjoy it while watching Mr with another lady. But if I met one on one ( which I dont) It wouldnt be on the cards.

I'm sorry if you liked your ex.....but he sounds like a dick.

-Courtney"

No I dont know why I stayed even for the kids.. but he is an ex for good reason X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If oral was important to her and she wasn't enjoying it with you then i reckon she'd be teaching you how she likes it, especially if you've made it an issue.

If you really need to give her more oral then tell her that, am sure she'd want you both to have a good sex life and not just do what she enjoys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a bit boring after a minute or too. And no its not who or how its being done i just prefer to be fucked.

I love giving oral tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it a bit boring after a minute or too. And no its not who or how its being done i just prefer to be fucked.

I love giving oral tho "

Pen btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when the man enjoys doing it.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

My orgasm is very different from being licked. Really tickly and I'm over sensitive straight after.

I don't mind someone going down on me as a stand alone activity but I hate it as foreplay or after play. Before sex, I feel too sensitive and soaked in saliva so it makes sex less enjoyable.

I way prefer other things ahead of receiving oral.

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By *isdirtygirlCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

I am so thankful that DG loves oral - giving and receiving. I'm not hung like a swamp donkey so I have to utilize other talents! In any case I love being down there. The taste, the view, the scent...... Mmmmmm I'd be gutted if I couldn't spend time between her thighs!

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

So every day's a school day You live and learn. I thought all women loved it...At least all my previous partners have or did some of them just let me because I like doing it?

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I am so thankful that DG loves oral - giving and receiving. I'm not hung like a swamp donkey so I have to utilize other talents! In any case I love being down there. The taste, the view, the scent...... Mmmmmm I'd be gutted if I couldn't spend time between her thighs! "

Says it all really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just for the record - i love it - i also love to be filled up as well with a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not hung like a swamp donkey so I have to utilize other talents!)"

FWIW - big penises aren't the be all and end all. I actually prefer one of my partners small penis to anything bigger. It's perhaps 5" and it feels better than bigger penises to me.

Don't correlate small penises with not as much fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didnt like it when I was married because the one and only time my ex husband went there I could tell he didnt want to be there and it made me feel so uncomfortable :-/

But now after years I do love it, it doesnt make me cum, but it does make me feel desired....

Every woman is different in what she finds arousing...

Chat with her as it maybe that she feels a little embarrassed :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a number of others have said already it does nothing for me. Prefer fingers or cock down there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I am weird as hell on this.. I can enjoy it for as long as Mr is willing to give it.. And totally enjoy it.. Relaxed and lost in the pleasure.

On a meet I kinda tolerate it.. Sometimes its okay. Other times I just enjoy it for their enjoyment and then there are times I cant bare it and have to stop them.

My ex used to tell me I smelled.. and it was so ugly down there. So It took me a while to relax and for most of my swinging life I didnt allow men to do it. So its a relatively new thing.

If I am really relaxed in the situation then I find it better.. and do like to enjoy it while watching Mr with another lady. But if I met one on one ( which I dont) It wouldnt be on the cards.

I'm sorry if you liked your ex.....but he sounds like a dick.

-Courtney"

I'm glad he's your ex what a knob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral does nothing for me either - other than to give me time to relax and think about my shopping list for Morrisons....

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By *emaleinthedarkWoman
over a year ago

London


"Oral does nothing for me either - other than to give me time to relax and think about my shopping list for Morrisons....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oral does nothing for me either - other than to give me time to relax and think about my shopping list for Morrisons....

"

I'm shocked! Morrisons, you should try Aldi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oral does nothing for me either - other than to give me time to relax and think about my shopping list for Morrisons....

I'm shocked! Morrisons, you should try Aldi. "

Yes, I've laid there and thought that as well, but Aldi is another 10 miles away.....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Thanks Courtney, good to have nice genuine answer than the usual sarky trolls. "

Trolls? Where?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oral does nothing for me either - other than to give me time to relax and think about my shopping list for Morrisons....

I'm shocked! Morrisons, you should try Aldi.

Yes, I've laid there and thought that as well, but Aldi is another 10 miles away.....

"

That's understandable then

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By *eamperveCouple
over a year ago

South West

I'm so pleased to hear other women don't like it too-

I honestly thought I was the only one! !

A dick head ex once told me I smelt too and that has seriously stuck with me-

My gorgeous partner has tried to reassure me I don't and smell and taste delicious but I just get too tense thinking I might. I can't even play unless I've showered beforehand- silly that an evil comment can stick more than all the loving ones I've received!

Thank you for the ladies responding to this- it's given me a little confidence that I'm not weird like I thought.

I enjoy it more when fingers are used at the same time- otherwise I just don't feel anything -and sadly start to think about walking the dog or shopping- oooops!

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a little bit or oral on me. But hate it when I get a message," I can do oral for hours" 1, I get board as they don't hit the right spot. 2, after hours their stubble can make things quite sore.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"I am so thankful that DG loves oral - giving and receiving. I'm not hung like a swamp donkey so I have to utilize other talents! In any case I love being down there. The taste, the view, the scent...... Mmmmmm I'd be gutted if I couldn't spend time between her thighs! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral, I can happily spend hours munching until she comes on my face, love it when a woman forces my head into her before covering me in her juices as she comes.

Having said that I am not one for receiving myself does little or nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not a big fan of a guys face there, but thats because of my body size issues mainly.

Its nice but ive just never really enjoyed it that much xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Okay I am weird as hell on this.. I can enjoy it for as long as Mr is willing to give it.. And totally enjoy it.. Relaxed and lost in the pleasure.

On a meet I kinda tolerate it.. Sometimes its okay. Other times I just enjoy it for their enjoyment and then there are times I cant bare it and have to stop them.

My ex used to tell me I smelled.. and it was so ugly down there. So It took me a while to relax and for most of my swinging life I didnt allow men to do it. So its a relatively new thing.

If I am really relaxed in the situation then I find it better.. and do like to enjoy it while watching Mr with another lady. But if I met one on one ( which I dont) It wouldnt be on the cards.

I'm sorry if you liked your ex.....but he sounds like a dick.

-Courtney"
exactly what I was going to say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not hung like a swamp donkey so I have to utilize other talents!)

FWIW - big penises aren't the be all and end all. I actually prefer one of my partners small penis to anything bigger. It's perhaps 5" and it feels better than bigger penises to me.

Don't correlate small penises with not as much fun. "

The size doesnt matter as long as it stimulates the right spots(and most of them are quite near the entrance)...I know a lot of ladies are put off by 'swamp donkey' cocks as a bruised cervix isn't fun...and what is the use of having something that big when you can't fit it all in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving oral, I can happily spend hours munching until she comes on my face, love it when a woman forces my head into her before covering me in her juices as she comes.

Having said that I am not one for receiving myself does little or nothing for me."

It's good that you love it... but I'm not sure that this thread - a thread mostly full of women who don't like oral - is the best place to declare that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving oral, I can happily spend hours munching until she comes on my face, love it when a woman forces my head into her before covering me in her juices as she comes.

Having said that I am not one for receiving myself does little or nothing for me.

It's good that you love it... but I'm not sure that this thread - a thread mostly full of women who don't like oral - is the best place to declare that. "

I suppose I was just trying to make the point that although some women don't like it that it can also be the same for a man to.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I never used to like it at all but then I met Paul and everything changed and I now can't get enough of it. He just somehow knows how to make things work for me.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love giving oral, I can happily spend hours munching until she comes on my face, love it when a woman forces my head into her before covering me in her juices as she comes.

Having said that I am not one for receiving myself does little or nothing for me.

It's good that you love it... but I'm not sure that this thread - a thread mostly full of women who don't like oral - is the best place to declare that. "

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"It's not my favourite. I much prefer fingers."

fingers are much more tactile so there are More pleasurable possibilities

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Omg I just adore oral.

But it has to be done right.. Otherwise it's a "move along" moment.,

I find it very difficult to find a guy that's really in to it.. If I feel he's doing it just out of duty then I won't enjoy it.,

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

When it's good it's very very good, but when it's bad it's just not worth it

In my personal experience women are better at giving but that's my experience

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By *nicorn hunterCouple
over a year ago

beccles

My ex hated it.

Lucky vetgirl loves it and carnt get enough of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't dislike it. There's just things I'd rather be doing.

I don't like it with someone new on the first meet. Find it too exposing and I can be quite uncomfortable trying to relax and enjoy. Give me a good old fucking instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't enjoy receiving oral sex.

I don't know why, it's nothing in particular, I just don't really enjoy it. There must be things you don't like?"
I love licking a nice smooth bald pussy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is quite a revelation to me as I and probably a lot of others thought it would be around 50 50 , that liked oral , but it seems more don't like than like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is quite a revelation to me as I and probably a lot of others thought it would be around 50 50 , that liked oral , but it seems more don't like than like"

Not surprising given the thread title really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes very true, nice pics scarlet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never really rated it (apart from my first girly fun back in the day at Uni). However I have been lucky enough to stumble across the occasional one or two who seriously know what they're doing and it can be 'scrape me off the ceiling' amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it. It does nothing for my sexually, and I feel completely uncomfortable 'going through the motions.'

Give me fingers and cock any day

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By *heggMan
over a year ago

South Brum


"Omg I just adore oral.

But it has to be done right.. Otherwise it's a "move along" moment.,

I find it very difficult to find a guy that's really in to it.. If I feel he's doing it just out of duty then I won't enjoy it.,"

There's a 2 way street there; I enjoy doing it if I think the lady is enjoying what I'm doing. As with most things sexual, it's most fun if the other person's enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love his excitement ..... I enjoy his hands at the same time .... I don't usually cum with it ..... Unless he has that beautiful technique X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Gf is the same. She will allow me to lick her pussy when i really want to, but isnt generally something she wants or will ask/crave for.

Its like anything, some women like anal some dont. Some guys dont necessarily enjoy blowjobs and prefer to give instead of receive.

Its all preference.

My gf prefers fingers to licking. That suits me as i am not massively keen on licking pussy but will do it.

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By *usicman1972Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

Different women like different things, and yes you should talk to her about it more. But it might be how it makes her feel after you've got her all wet, lets say she is a lady who is pretty wet when aroused anyway, perhaps being licked like that makes her uncomfortably wet, and that she prefers a less wet pussy when you screw her. It may also make her feel like she needs to go to the toilet, which is never a pleasant feeling during love making.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't cum off of head. I think I fake it for the most part. Rather have my ass licked or just gave sex. I don't know why??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different, personally it's one of my favourite things but only if the man (or woman) genuinely enjoys doing it....love it

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By *icurguycovMan
over a year ago

Leeds

My wife much prefers fingers - mine rather than hers. I love giving oral but I'm never sure I'm getting it right and I can't keep it going for long. Her favourite is to fuck herself with a dildo (we recommend glass) as I rub her clit gently. She fantasizes about another guy fucking her as she sucks my cock - it gives her the best orgasms she's ever had.

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By *rs and Mr BondCouple
over a year ago

Sussex

I used to find it awkward with my previous partner because I believed he wasn't really that into it. A whole lot of reassurance that you really enjoy giving may help. It helped me and now I can't get enough!

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