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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see on gay/bi guys profiles so many times a mention that they are specifically looking to meet married men

Whats that about?

Just seems odd when most couples/women on fab generally would prefer to avoid meeting someone who is cheating on their spouse.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I see on gay/bi guys profiles so many times a mention that they are specifically looking to meet married men

Whats that about?

Just seems odd when most couples/women on fab generally would prefer to avoid meeting someone who is cheating on their spouse.

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The wife might KNOW their husband is bisexual so not necessarily cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see on gay/bi guys profiles so many times a mention that they are specifically looking to meet married men

Whats that about?

Just seems odd when most couples/women on fab generally would prefer to avoid meeting someone who is cheating on their spouse.

The wife might KNOW their husband is bisexual so not necessarily cheating.

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Of course that is true although I suspect the guys advertising with the specific request for married guys are not bothered.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

I've known a few guys who've been in denial or whatever fir a long time. Maybe the gay guy offering is just trying to hit that market like the straight single fellas who look for the "unsatisfied wife" profiles?

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By *aneSmith5TV/TS
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I tend to prefer married men, they tend to know how to treat a woman properly.

Plus they like an alternative in bed for the pleasures the wife does not like doing

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I would just hazzard a guess that they may think if the guy is married he's more likely to be descreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would just hazzard a guess that they may think if the guy is married he's more likely to be descreet

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You are right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few guys have the 'turn a straight' fantasy. Always figured it was a fairly pathetic ego thing - the gay man's equivalent of the pulling a lesbian fantasy.

Putting aside the ethics (Don't kid yourselves, the wife not knowing is probably a big part of it for a lot of those guys), I don't understand it even on a sexual level. Most guys who are experimenting for the first time are actually pretty shit in bed by definition.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Quite a few guys have the 'turn a straight' fantasy. Always figured it was a fairly pathetic ego thing - the gay man's equivalent of the pulling a lesbian fantasy.

Putting aside the ethics (Don't kid yourselves, the wife not knowing is probably a big part of it for a lot of those guys), I don't understand it even on a sexual level. Most guys who are experimenting for the first time are actually pretty shit in bed by definition. "

Your last sentence made me laugh, I'm the female half of this couple and was tempted once only to try sex with a woman...the poor thing must have been really disappointed I was in a strange country without a map

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite a few guys have the 'turn a straight' fantasy. Always figured it was a fairly pathetic ego thing - the gay man's equivalent of the pulling a lesbian fantasy.

Putting aside the ethics (Don't kid yourselves, the wife not knowing is probably a big part of it for a lot of those guys), I don't understand it even on a sexual level. Most guys who are experimenting for the first time are actually pretty shit in bed by definition. "

Yea got to admit the ethics thing about it leaves me feeling nauseous.

Particularly because I suspect the guys looking to meet with married men are getting an extra kick out of betrayal thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are a number of reasons;

A) discreetness

B) they like the illicit nature of it all

C) it's almost certain to be NSA

D) The cunning ones have the option to blackmail when it doesn't go their way

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The strange thing is that if a single woman advertised looking specifically to meet married guys it would provoke a total shit storm of abuse from other women.

I have seen it happening.

However nothing seems to happen we a bi/gay guy does the same.

Political correctness maybe?

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