FabSwingers.com forum: Unshockable partner... ideas?

By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

I have a fab partner in crime and while we have the most amazing sex and have experienced many of our fantasies together there is one thing I'm needing help with...

He has (as I do) a pretty extreme job and is a bit of an adrenalin junkie. He can be very dom, wild, in between but he can also be very sub. He is bi too.

He wants me to test him to his limits of which I am more than happy to oblige lol and with each meet it gets more and more adventurous and, for some, extreme. We do have moments of pure passion of the non extreme type.

He gets off on pain in a huge way and loves to see how far it can go until he has to say the safe word. He's been tied up, shackled, verbally abused, whipped, caned, been fucked in every hole, abused in soooo many porn type ways lol.

I know I shock him every time and he loves it, loves the pain, loves the pleasure, but dear friends I am looking for something that will make him say "oh! [SAFEWORD]!!!". Short of putting razor blades in his eyes (his suggestion not mine) he thinks he's invincible! Ideas?

It has occurred to me that maybe I'm on the wrong site but I know there are loads of fetish type swinging lovers out there!!! Maybe there is someone more extreme out there that can oblige? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blindfold him

tell him to open his mouth

put a fag out on his tongue

watch him jump

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

"blindfold him

tell him to open his mouth

put a fag out on his tongue

watch him jump

love it! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get him to wank into a glass and Drink it ........... I make my dom friend do that drink his own warm cum x jo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Get him to wank into a glass and Drink it ........... I make my dom friend do that drink his own warm cum x jo xx"

is it possible to 'unread' something?

if yes,instructions...quick

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

maybe some CBT with killer heels and then shock him by rubbing his cock better after???

failing that try chatting to some peeps on collarme

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

done the drinking your own cum thing... maybe I need a gallon of the cum of a 1000 people lol

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

"maybe some CBT with killer heels and then shock him by rubbing his cock better after???

failing that try chatting to some peeps on collarme

CBT?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Get him to wank into a glass and Drink it ........... I make my dom friend do that drink his own warm cum x jo xx"

I enjoy doing this I must admit...licking my own come from a lady's skin while its still warm. I think there's just something so base and delicious about it...

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

oh yes he loves cum

maybe I need to find another dom woman and we both need to make him our sub slave???

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

cock and ball torture - carefully applied heel to shaft or scrotum causing pain.

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

" Get him to wank into a glass and Drink it ........... I make my dom friend do that drink his own warm cum x jo xx"

Kinky Jo. Like it.

To OP, I think it might be a case of diminishing returns-the more you do to shock him this time, the more you have to do next time.

Good luck to you both, hope your insurance covers your fun.

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

Dear MC I might need you to come round!

Diminishing returns might be true... I might just go out with a big bang!

PS Will make sure I have "adequate" insurance... lol

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

might be a bit tame for him, but stinging nettles, freshly picked when they are in season, used as a whip in the obvious places.

Just make sure you wear gloves when using them on him, also be aware he could have an allergic reaction to them

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

I LOVE that idea!!! hahahaha (she said with a sinister laugh)

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

you could also crush teh leaves up a little, then masturbate him with them in your gloved hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Urethral sounds..?

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

"I LOVE that idea!!! hahahaha (she said with a sinister laugh)

Starting to think he might have pissed you off and you are just getting ideas

There are some 'great'? Ideas though.

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

"Urethral sounds..?"

i so want those used on me.

its a fantasy i have had for such a long long time

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

"I LOVE that idea!!! hahahaha (she said with a sinister laugh)

Starting to think he might have pissed you off and you are just getting ideas

There are some 'great'? Ideas though."

Gawd no! I do have some sort of swinging morals! x

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

"Urethral sounds..?"

Ok you got me there? Just googled it! Could be an option... I like your thinking...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Spray some Deep Heat down his japs eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Spray some Deep Heat down his japs eye."

ad infinitum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"done the drinking your own cum thing... maybe I need a gallon of the cum of a 1000 people lol"
yes get some others in so he has a pint. lol x tell him its very good for vitmins and drink up x

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By *havenangel1Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Tenns rod down his willy and turn up full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask him to mail you,wait an appropriate amount of time and then reply to it.

that'll shock him to the core

apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thread wires with a painful yet non lethal electric charge passed through them around the tops of his thighs. Then command him to piss himself....

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Felching.

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Shoot him?...

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

tie him up and put a hood over his head. pour ice cold water over him while holding a rag soaked in lighter fluid under his nose. the smell and the cold water will make him think you have poured lighter fluid on him... then tease him with a candle or lighter threatening so set light to it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give him half a wank, that just fucks me right off.

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

I love you all... if this doesn't help the situation I have at least pissed my pants on a Friday night laughing!

You are all amazing...

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

"tie him up and put a hood over his head. pour ice cold water over him while holding a rag soaked in lighter fluid under his nose. the smell and the cold water will make him think you have poured lighter fluid on him... then tease him with a candle or lighter threatening so set light to it!

That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

I wish there was a facility on Fab forums to click "Like" to posts you like - just like on Facebook.

I think I've said too many likes, you know like? hehehe

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)..."

where do you think i learned it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

staples, maybe staple his balls to a table, or his cock, yes people do things like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

where do you think i learned it lol

Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

shackle and handcuff him to the bed and play him the birdy song 24/7 with the off button just out of reach

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

where do you think i learned it lol

Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity

you would be surprised what we do

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Unshockable you sa..

Tell him the price of a mulberry alexa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

where do you think i learned it lol

Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity

you would be surprised what we do

Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit...

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

where do you think i learned it lol

Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity

you would be surprised what we do

Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit..."

looking ally is half the battle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

where do you think i learned it lol

Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity

you would be surprised what we do

Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit...

looking ally is half the battle

Just what I'd expect from one of your funny lot

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By *ingleguy1973Man
over a year ago

peterborough

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

where do you think i learned it lol

Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity

you would be surprised what we do

Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit...

looking ally is half the battle

Just what I'd expect from one of your funny lot

yeah yeah yeah... i bet you have special coloured stickers to put on your maps for us

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Have we bumped into a crab air versus green boy discussion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That sounds like off limits techniques for prisoners of war! He would cotton on to that (if you follow me and what he does for a living)...

where do you think i learned it lol

Since when do your lot get your hands dirty with that kind of activity

you would be surprised what we do

Only cos you want to get your hands on their best kit...

looking ally is half the battle

Just what I'd expect from one of your funny lot

yeah yeah yeah... i bet you have special coloured stickers to put on your maps for us

Very sodding special........Ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have we bumped into a crab air versus green boy discussion?"

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

loving the staples and birdie songs...

didn't realise there was a crab air versus green mob... I think I need to check that thread out... maybe they should have a forum specially????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a lady whos 20/30 stone get them to sit on his face no pants on...... when he is tied down ....... and have her sitting on him . Was seeing this on tv some woman make money out of doing this , lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Ok, is it just me, or are other people now getting ready to hit the "block button" on certain profiles for fear of ever playing with them lol?

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

"Ok, is it just me, or are other people now getting ready to hit the "block button" on certain profiles for fear of ever playing with them lol?

Are you in the right thread mate?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Ok, is it just me, or are other people now getting ready to hit the "block button" on certain profiles for fear of ever playing with them lol?

Are you in the right thread mate?

Erm... lets recap, stamping on his balls, stapling them to something, stubbing a fag out on his tongue.. electric shocks, yup... just a tad too extreme for us lol!!!

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By *ig donkMan
over a year ago

northallerton

Tell him you want to go vanilla get married n have kids pmsl

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

You want an evening at the berni inn then come home and listen to dire straits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you really want to shock him, suggest that instead of sex, you'd just like to give him a sensual massage.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

.. Or why dont we just talk tonite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"staples, maybe staple his balls to a table, or his cock, yes people do things like that

hammer n nails are better

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Tell him you're in love with him.

And want to get married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have hurd of this being done several times, calv a but plug out of ginger and use it on him!!!!! that is ment to be rather intense

also while doing that if you want to go really extreme, have him lie down on nettles while the plug is in his arse and use a violet wand on his balls!!! not my cup of tea but i think it might work lol

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Feck me, I think the Marquis de Sade could learn a thing or two in here lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about tieing him down getting a peace of wood and nailing his ball bag to it small sharp nails ....lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Bring Katie Boyle to your next meet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bring Katie Boyle to your next meet....

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yes that should do the trick make her lick him all over , lol

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Bring Katie Boyle to your next meet....

yes that should do the trick make her lick him all over , lol"

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa!!! Run to the hills!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tie or handcuff his hands and feet to the bed...... then go shopping for a few hours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blimey!!!! You lot sound like you should be applying for jobs as scriptwriters for a new Saw film

Ouch is all I can say. Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"tie or handcuff his hands and feet to the bed...... then go shopping for a few hours lol"
yes with his Gold card ,, lol take it to the max .... that should do the trick too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post as made my day so so funny wonder if they'll take our advice?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Tie him up naked for a special birthday treat then invite all his friends and family around for a surprise party...once they are all there, open the door and 'ta-da!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Find a lady whos 20/30 stone get them to sit on his face no pants on...... when he is tied down ....... and have her sitting on him . Was seeing this on tv some woman make money out of doing this , lol

I saw that in a magazine! She was gross too, dirty heffer. They paid a fortune for it!

You could always tell him you're not in the mood but that 83 year old Mildred next door has offered so will be bringing her dusty fanny round in 20 mins for a damned good licking?

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

"Ok, is it just me, or are other people now getting ready to hit the "block button" on certain profiles for fear of ever playing with them lol?

Are you in the right thread mate?

I hope you found something suitably brutal for him and that he was happy with it. Some of the suggestions made bits of me draw up for protection and others jsut reminded me how mean you Ladies can be at times...all for his benefit, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell him you're in love with him.

And want to get married."

Now, there really are limits...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

find someone who can teach u how to use needles,after a rose through his cock,he might not feel so confident.

Oh and heresy here discuss not having a safe word.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Question, when does it stop being sex and just become plain pain endurance.

I'm not against a bit of rough, but quite frankly if my partner has just been whipped with nettles, I'm not going to be overly keen on having sex afterwards. And I'm sure once the adrenalin has left the body the continuing itching will be damn annoying.

If you really want him to say the safe word, just deny him any sex or fun and games until he says it. I'm sure a few weeks of no sex and he will be gagging for it. No need to deny yourself of course.

Just get one of those lock and key devices to make sure he does not releive himself.

If my missus was having sex whilst denying me, I'd read the dictionary to her in about 5 minutes if thats what she wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try bagging his cock and balls together before getting hard. They do look like chicken jiblets mind. And the tease him in whatever way you like. Binding with string would have the same effect.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

The only word I can thin of is ouch

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By *atine OP Woman
over a year ago

tayside

This has been one of the best postings I've ever had the pleasure of starting... I will let you all know how we get on over the coming weeks.

After that I'm gonna let him read this as he'll piss himself laughing...

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