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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we have a private meet always start on neutral ground pub ect ,before any play ensures or agreed makes it no pressure all must be happy with situation

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Prefer a social meet. If connections are there.. move forward which ever way feels fit

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? "

We do but it isn't for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of you seem to agree. We're not really happy to go into details about sex etc as we don't want to send out the wrong signals. How do others feel about this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely, I certainly can't tell if I want to be intimate with someone without having met them and enjoying their company!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Most of you seem to agree. We're not really happy to go into details about sex etc as we don't want to send out the wrong signals. How do others feel about this? "

When we meet socially we generally just chat as we would with anybody. The talk will move on to general experiences and likes and dislikes etc but nothing specific.

The thing is to do things how you want to if others don't agree then you aren't suited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? "

Nope , not in the slightest .

We are here to meet people for sexual fun .

Nothing more , nothing less .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like to have a casual hi first but then mostly due to my situation I don't meet at the drop of a hat n get to know someone first...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea, we like a club for first meet as well, if it doesn't work out plenty more options

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? "

Absolutely, we make it clear that there will be no play without a social meet first and there will be no play on that first meet either.

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

I always meet at a neutral place like a pub for safety for a 1st meet. an also not the pressure to play. I feel safer meeting in a neutral place. I always insist in it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Likewise. Best policy Shelbee. There shouldn't be any pressure just a mutual understanding and maturity should either party decline the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

The thing is to do things how you want to if others don't agree then you aren't suited. "

This... always...

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

There are people who love the excitement of the unexpected.

There are those who would probably do pretty much anything with anybody and good luck to them.

We will not meet for sex without a social first and then play on another meet. If there is no connection then for us the sex is crap and there is more than enough crap in life with out generating more.

L2

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Social first.

I'm toying with timing my socials (new men) being in the same pub as a female friend. We both went out to separate pubs to meet socially the other week. We could have planned that better.

Just worried a single bloke might not want to meet 2 ladies or rescue the other should there be a no show or it not go great

Be nice to know I'm on hand should she need me or vice versa though and worse case us girls always have a giggle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately usually costa

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

This is the only way for me.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Definately usually costa "

I use Costa too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pint and a good chat for a good social!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad I'm single...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee/lunch or a social sit down, stand up or dance for sure before you tango

Depends horses for courses

Blue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social first.

I'm toying with timing my socials (new men) being in the same pub as a female friend. We both went out to separate pubs to meet socially the other week. We could have planned that better.

Just worried a single bloke might not want to meet 2 ladies or rescue the other should there be a no show or it not go great

Be nice to know I'm on hand should she need me or vice versa though and worse case us girls always have a giggle x"

This sounds a good idea. If there's a no-show (or 2), you still have a fun evening out with a friend. If everyone turns up, there's a more interesting dynamic for the evening - conversation might flow better with 4 instead of 2. Less likelihood of awkward lack of conversation.

I'd imagine 2 chatty girls would be twice the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definately usually costa

I use Costa too "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I like my socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've done both, met for socials and met to play,sometimes it works ,sometimes it doesn't.. it's been a learning curve .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like to have a social meet at a neutral venue before we commit ourselves to the bedroom. Generally we lime the to be non pressurised light hearted occasions. Anyone else share our sentiments? "
yes I like social meets to ,I just enjoy meeting people so no problem for me even if it doesn't go any further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes sense to me. Nobody wants to meet an axe murderer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to meet for social first....adds to the build up if it then turns to fun!

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