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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only occasionally play with couples - so it's hot single guys that get me into clubs! Without them I wouldn't go!

For that reason I rarely go to clubs on 'couples and single ladies only night'!

If couples don't want single males around there are plenty of clubs with couples/single fems only nights!

Simple!

Oh - and The ones I play with are the ones who chat to me at the bar - not the 'cock conga' who follow me around!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Make a sudden stop the cock conga will become a train

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Some couples like to have a dig at single guys whenever possible. They have a 1960's wife swap idea of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single guy you're sorta dammed if you do and dammed if you dont...

take away the female half of a couple and you'd be left with the male halves...acting like single men!- fact!

I know what its like to be a couple, swingwise and not...so I lack the elitist nature some couples think they have over singles.

I give respect and want that equally back, regardless of my marital status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? "
they've paid a fortune to get in they are just wanting value for money ,let's face it the club wouldn't exist without them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? they've paid a fortune to get in they are just wanting value for money ,let's face it the club wouldn't exist without them "

If they are talking about the club in Leeds I think they are talking about then I don't think the entry price for guys is that crazy. It is one of the fairer ones for single guys.

As for the ratio, I dunno. We enjoyed it when we were last there, though we didn't end up playing with anyone in any case. People who complain should just pick their nights better. In my opinion.

-Courtney

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? "

My thoughts having been to clubs and seen single men with my own eyes is 'horse apples'.

Sick of single male bashing from couples who have "heard" this n that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts?

My thoughts having been to clubs and seen single men with my own eyes is 'horse apples'.

Sick of single male bashing from couples who have "heard" this n that. "
so am I ,let's hear it for the boys xx clubs just wouldn't exist without them ,equality certainly gone out the window on charging front

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? they've paid a fortune to get in they are just wanting value for money ,let's face it the club wouldn't exist without them "

I'd stay at home cam wanking if I knew there was no chance of having sex in a swing club...so while I'm at the club and in an open environment where people are having sex..I'll end up wanking if I can be bothered.

I paid to get in on a sexual basis, thats not expecting to get sex...but I can do what I like with my body while I'm in the club, as long as it isnt against the clubs rules.

False hierarchy from couples and females does my tits in...quite happy to say so, as I meet enough who do not have that mindset.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? they've paid a fortune to get in they are just wanting value for money ,let's face it the club wouldn't exist without them "

As we originally said we don't have a problem with it but the talk of value for money makes us wonder in your opinion what are single men paying for

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"let's hear it for the boys xx clubs just wouldn't exist without them ,equality certainly gone out the window on charging front "

Can you explain the success of Fun4two then, usually lauded as the best club in Europe, which is couples and single women only? It seems to exist ok without single guys.

On the exorbitant pricing, can you say which clubs you've been to that were so outrageously priced, you seemed to have got it wildly wrong about Chameleons prices so would be interested to hear the clubs you've been to that are so dear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? they've paid a fortune to get in they are just wanting value for money ,let's face it the club wouldn't exist without them

As we originally said we don't have a problem with it but the talk of value for money makes us wonder in your opinion what are single men paying for "

as I said above...we all pay to get into a sexual environment...its not like I'd be sitting next to someone whos just having a nice night chatting away and I'm sitting next to them wanking...

when there is play happening in an open environment, I'm wearing a towel..and my cocks getting hard...I might manage to ask to join in...if I dont shall I just wait till I go home and have a wank?-I bloody think not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

without single guys, you would have no clubs,

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"without single guys, you would have no clubs, "

The smiley means you're joking right?

Just in case you aren't, without single guys there certainly won't be as many clubs, but there are enough couples who aren't interested in single guys to keep a few clubs open. The number of couples who attend couples only nights in the Manchester area would keep at least one of the clubs up here going for a few nights a week.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

all this stuff about clubs wouldn't exist without single guys is bollocks.

I know of a club that charges each sex the same price and they do ok.

Not all clubs charge ridiculous prices and membership fees for single men. Townhouse is a good example of this and the single men there are the best behaved that I've come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts? "

That's exactly why I don't really have time for couples, that attitude is apparent amongst the majority in my experience, like they're doing is single guys a favour

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"without single guys, you would have no clubs,

The smiley means you're joking right?

Just in case you aren't, without single guys there certainly won't be as many clubs, but there are enough couples who aren't interested in single guys to keep a few clubs open. The number of couples who attend couples only nights in the Manchester area would keep at least one of the clubs up here going for a few nights a week. "

I believe you are both correct. The amount and the quality of clubs would certainly diminish without the single guys money.

You may well have one club in eg Manchester doing ok. But those couples any distance away are less likely to attend. Especially on a cold winters night.

To the OP, As one of the single guys I can honestly say most of us behave very well. Don't believe the stories that you will be pawed or groped told by some couples or females. That is an exception rather than the rule, and is something ladies are guilty of as well when they have had too many sherbets.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"without single guys, you would have no clubs,

The smiley means you're joking right?

Just in case you aren't, without single guys there certainly won't be as many clubs, but there are enough couples who aren't interested in single guys to keep a few clubs open. The number of couples who attend couples only nights in the Manchester area would keep at least one of the clubs up here going for a few nights a week. "

Yeah because half the couples attending are not actually 2 singles together at all

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By *eepster69Man
over a year ago

Dumfries


"We've frequently heard a local club let's too many single men in, personally we don't think it's a problem as long as they respect people's boundaries but someone recently described them as horny zombies lurking a little too close or just outside the private rooms thinking they might get invited in. What's your thoughts?

That's exactly why I don't really have time for couples, that attitude is apparent amongst the majority in my experience, like they're doing is single guys a favour "

I disagree, Most couples I have met in clubs have been friendly and open. However I chat in social areas and try and guage where their interests lie. If they are only looking for couples I respect that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One reason I don't frequent clubs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some great single guys out there, and there are some idiots.

There are some great couples out there and there are some idiots.

There are some great single women out there and there are some idiots.

Sorted.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I have to add that in our experience, the singles are far more friendly than the couples .... many of them do indeed seem to have some sense of being better than ... because they are in a couple? Who knows?

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"Yeah because half the couples attending are not actually 2 singles together at all "

In our experience they're not - most couples we have seen at clubs have been married or in long term relationships. Parties arranged through websites probably have quite a few fb couples but the couples who go day in day out are usually partners.

We play with single guys, we find couples only nights cliquey and full of socialites, but, to suggest clubs will die or drop their standards without single guys is a total nonsense.

The present number of clubs will reduce if single guys left the scene, but there would still be enough custom to maintain at least one club in all the areas that are currently overpopulated with clubs.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Without single guys I nor my girl friends would attend

I like the variety of clubs we have now. Forcing everyone into one club per area is business suicide. Everyone would stop going.

Swingers travel. Even when I lived lower Midlands I went to bury as us ladies wanted single men on a Saturday night. That was the only club that allowed single men Saturdays back then.

I know more fb couples than I know of relationship couples on this scene

Admitted they don't volunteer this info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never go to clubs on couples nights .

Why ? Because we like to enjoy fun with all sorts of people from guys , to girls , to TVs and occasionally couples , but only if they aren't so far up their own arses that the sun never shines , and treat everyone the same .

A rarity unfortunately , but nonetheless a fact of life in the lifestyle .

Couples are not entitled to any more than anyone else in our opinion . They are no better than anyone else , and that's all I have to say about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...

take away the female half of a couple and you'd be left with the male halves...acting like single men!- fact!

..."

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Line the single men up for me then. But then I am a greedy girl....

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They do it cos they would cover the rent as its about £60 to get in most places, most clubs would go bust if they just rely on women and couples lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Line the single men up for me then. But then I am a greedy girl...."

And you're absolutely needed my lovely!

If all women actually swung as little as I do - even when I go to clubs - then the scene would die on its arse!!

Vive la greedy girls!

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