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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have made the decision to start blocking people that don't fit what we are looking for or that we would not like to meet. We do not intend to cause any offence by this but figure that it's the easiest way to narrow down and better target those that would be a preferred meet. Does anyone else do this?

Please know that if we have blocked you, it's nothing personal, we are just here to arrange meets, Facebook is for socialising.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's how a lot of people use the block tool.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I use blocking in exactly the same way ... amongst others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have made the decision to start blocking people that don't fit what we are looking for or that we would not like to meet. We do not intend to cause any offence by this but figure that it's the easiest way to narrow down and better target those that would be a preferred meet. Does anyone else do this?

Please know that if we have blocked you, it's nothing personal, we are just here to arrange meets, Facebook is for socialising."

That's how we see it too

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

A bit time consuming isn't it, going through the entire site and blocking everyone ya don't want to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have made the decision to start blocking people that don't fit what we are looking for or that we would not like to meet. We do not intend to cause any offence by this but figure that it's the easiest way to narrow down and better target those that would be a preferred meet. Does anyone else do this?

Please know that if we have blocked you, it's nothing personal, we are just here to arrange meets, Facebook is for socialising."

The features are available to use as you wish I don't see an issue with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's up to you how you use the feature

You don't have to explain yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care who blocks me. Feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see any real reason to block someone, ignoring works equally well and is less time- consuming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have made the decision to start blocking people that don't fit what we are looking for or that we would not like to meet. We do not intend to cause any offence by this but figure that it's the easiest way to narrow down and better target those that would be a preferred meet. Does anyone else do this?

Please know that if we have blocked you, it's nothing personal, we are just here to arrange meets, Facebook is for socialising."

Same here.

It's a site tool to be used to help you run your profile.

Happy hunting.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No I don't,it sounds far too time consuming to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block men who contact me asking to meet,who I don't want to meet. Saves any future correspondence.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

is this something we have to announce? ... errrrm, I block peeple toooo

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"A bit time consuming isn't it, going through the entire site and blocking everyone ya don't want to meet "

We don't go through the site, but we do block those who contact us and have not read our profile and are not for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mass block people, I just couldn't be bothered with that. I just don't reply to emails if I don't want to interact with them.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area


"That's how a lot of people use the block tool. "

Yep - just helps with the filtering process.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've blocked a load of people who live close to me. It's just easier than replying to a couple of messages a day requesting meets and having to explain they are too close and no I don't want to drive 30 minutes to a distant layby and so on

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Block em, don't block em, it's up to you how you make the site work for you. I just set every filter so they can't contact me.

I rarely block based on just a profile unless it's bareback. Even then im likely to make a private note. I block the majority from forum posts. That's how I use the site

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We use the block tool the same too. How other people interpret that is down to them, you can't do anything about it, so don't worry about it.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

Agree with many, block those that are not in criteria and also very local people who we have no wish to run into in course of normal life. Just blocked a straight guy who made me blush with what he wanted me to do to him while Kitty was watching( )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's up to you how you use the feature

You don't have to explain yourself "
oh I think they do what would firumites do without the opportunity to import their wisdom and critical eye on the goings on ,I hate the block button ,sorry but that's my view

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By *izzyRascalWoman
over a year ago

North Hants


"I block men who contact me asking to meet,who I don't want to meet. Saves any future correspondence."

Yes same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We don't trawl the site looking for people to block but as many have said, those that show interest or contact us that are not suitable, "SOMETIMES" we will block

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By *sianmale89Man
over a year ago

Stockport

block's a block really, think the important thing for people like me to remember is not to take it personally/to heart and just leave it be at that..

also I don't really message people much except if we have prior conversation with one another.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's up to you how you use the feature

You don't have to explain yourself oh I think they do what would firumites do without the opportunity to import their wisdom and critical eye on the goings on ,I hate the block button ,sorry but that's my view "

You don't have to apologise for hating the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do exactly the same...way I see it, it's just a way of tailoring the site for your preferences. Plus there was one woman who'd post a different object inside her daily, I don't wanna see that on the updates page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None taken as I'm not sure who you are even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if I find a face unattractive, someone annoys me or wastes my time.

I know others that block because of stupid things like fat or not manly looking but since I used to me 16 plus stone of flub in my early 20's and now I'm... Not those things don't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do exactly the same...way I see it, it's just a way of tailoring the site for your preferences. Plus there was one woman who'd post a different object inside her daily, I don't wanna see that on the updates page."

Do you remember the username? that sounds fascinating lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do exactly the same...way I see it, it's just a way of tailoring the site for your preferences. Plus there was one woman who'd post a different object inside her daily, I don't wanna see that on the updates page.

Do you remember the username? that sounds fascinating lol "

Hahaha...come to think of it she could of come in handy for a game of hide & seek!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit time consuming isn't it, going through the entire site and blocking everyone ya don't want to meet "

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"A bit time consuming isn't it, going through the entire site and blocking everyone ya don't want to meet "

only for picky sods like us, those that will shag anything it doesnt take long at all lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It's a site tool, why wouldn't you use it how you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you don't block single women lol

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I often offend ..apologies...if I've senlt youmy face picture .. often results in a block.. onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely block someone. Usually a courteous reply saying thanks for the interest but prefer not to pursue this does the trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cheers for sharing

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't see the point in apologising for using a site tool. Don't see the point of wasting time on preemptive blocking either...but as all things: each to their own!

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