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Jealousy/guilt when sharing wife pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do other guys regret showing wife pics later on, or does the thrill exceed the emotion?

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

Guilt should only be because you do it without her knowledge or permission.

Sometimes people find it a turn on to know their pics have been shared.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically your question seems to be... "should I feel guilty about non-consensually showing other men intimate pictures of my wife that she thought I wouldn't show anybody or should I just keep doing it without feeling a bit shitty about it?"

I suppose you have to ask yourself... is non-consensual sexual activity ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would feel bad if I was you op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're here pretending to be single behind her back then you shouldn't be sharing pics or anything else in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without her knowledge or consent? You're probably justified in feeling like an untrustworthy shit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We used to cam together, but haven't for a while. I still have pics.

I no longer show pics with her face in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to cam together, but haven't for a while. I still have pics.

I no longer show pics with her face in "

That doesn't make it ok.

You should tell her and find out how she feels about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to cam together, but haven't for a while. I still have pics.

I no longer show pics with her face in "

What matters is whether she knows and is ok with what you are doing now

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Think you know the answer ....not good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she know you share them? What would her reaction be if she found out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it too early for popcorn?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's also worth considering that sharing these kinds of images is now actually illegal in many circumstances. See the new 'revenge porn' laws.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Never had regrets or guilt, for obvious reasons.

Him

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Without her knowledge or consent? You're probably justified in feeling like an untrustworthy shit."

agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Basically your question seems to be... "should I feel guilty about non-consensually showing other men intimate pictures of my wife that she thought I wouldn't show anybody or should I just keep doing it without feeling a bit shitty about it?"

I suppose you have to ask yourself... is non-consensual sexual activity ok?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be mortified if someone shared pictures of me

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"Do other guys regret showing wife pics later on, or does the thrill exceed the emotion?"

Let's be honest here ...if you were doing this with her knowledge then there would be no guilt !

Nothing lower than abusing the trust of person you reportly love .But hey as long as you get a cheap wee thrill from it then that's great isn't it !! No only are you risking these other guys sending and posting her pictures anywhere on the Internet ,but your relationship too!

If you getting a cheap thrill is more important than your wife's self respect and feelings then you clearly have far bigger issues .

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I would be mortified if someone shared pictures of me "

Same here and I'd be hacking off the guys bits with a wooden spoon for doing it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would be mortified if someone shared pictures of me

Same here and I'd be hacking off the guys bits with a wooden spoon for doing it!! "

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials


"It's also worth considering that sharing these kinds of images is now actually illegal in many circumstances. See the new 'revenge porn' laws.

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^^^^^ this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't this against site rules??

And that's just for starters,moral implications and legal.

I hope you feel guilty because you bloody well should if it's without her permission.

If it is then you should have a couple's profile.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We used to cam together, but haven't for a while. I still have pics.

I no longer show pics with her face in "

oh dear.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Op, does others disapproval heighten the sexual tension for you? I can't believe that you honestly think it's ok as long as her face can't be seen.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

If you feel guilty, its probably because you did something wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you get found out and she reports you to the police.

I have seen lots of posts asking to swap wife/gf pics from single guys.

We do everything on the site together we have no reason to feel guilty.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I would be mortified if someone shared pictures of me

Same here and I'd be hacking off the guys bits with a wooden spoon for doing it!! "

hell noooo a spoon be too sharp for it would make it not painful enough lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Oh and if you're feeling jealousy there's a really easy way to stop experiencing that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This has escalated into something else, without further information.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I would be mortified if someone shared pictures of me

Same here and I'd be hacking off the guys bits with a wooden spoon for doing it!!

hell noooo a spoon be too sharp for it would make it not painful enough lol "

Hence a wooden spoon ..

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"This has escalated into something else, without further information.

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Then please make it crystal clear ... does she know you are sending the pics or not ???

You've had opportunity to say she has full knowledge and all you done is say you just make sure her face ain't in the pics !! I'm damn sure if you had her permission you would of said right away and as I said you then not have anything to feel guilty about !!

So please enlighten us all what possible information has been missed by you that can put your actions in to a posative light ????

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

I'd be furious if my hubby or my lover shared pictures of me without my ok first.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"This has escalated into something else, without further information.

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Oh well. If you put vague posts up then counter any replies with further vagueness it will continue. If it has escalated in a way you feel is unfair you have opportunity to tell us what your actual intention was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This has escalated into something else, without further information.

Oh well. If you put vague posts up then counter any replies with further vagueness it will continue. If it has escalated in a way you feel is unfair you have opportunity to tell us what your actual intention was."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone got some pictures to share with me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Has anyone got some pictures to share with me lol"

Only of my imaginary husband.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Has anyone got some pictures to share with me lol"

I've got a lovely scenic view of Beachy Head lighthouse.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It's also worth considering that sharing these kinds of images is now actually illegal in many circumstances. See the new 'revenge porn' laws.

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Was about to say the same thing.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I took pics of the candles I made today

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