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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They make me so horny love to fantasise and chat about them or with them xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck "
big is good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck "

Gawjuss lady.. Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meow hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Busty, curvy, great fun here....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Busty, curvy, great fun here.... "
hello x

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

was there a point to this ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"was there a point to this ?"
no just simply showing my love for the hot

curvy women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's loads of us fatties here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love all of them"
me 2

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's loads of us fatties here "
love them all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck "

Very nce indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and have boobs but if that's all your interested in, I'm not for you and you are definitely not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both Love a curvy busty lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They make me so horny love to fantasise and chat about them or with them xx"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They make me so horny love to fantasise and chat about them or with them xx

Thanks "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to hear OP. Thank goodness for you guys I say .

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Lots seem to like us on here

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

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By *urvy hotwife 4 Black MenCouple
over a year ago

Essex

My wife is busty mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think that i fit in2 this category

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah you found me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both love them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!! "

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fat and have boobs but if that's all your interested in, I'm not for you and you are definitely not for me."

Ha agreed

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By *ainaldoMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

All the ladies in this thread so far are beautiful!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All the ladies in this thread so far are beautiful! "
agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They make me so horny love to fantasise and chat about them or with them xx"

With you there my man, so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta love those Curves....

Ginge

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Big, busty but not curvy. Rather an odd shape (big belly, no arse) but you know what..that's fine

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore? "

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By *.TaylorMan
over a year ago

london

Love em very much very very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore? "

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!! "

It's the use of the word "real" that I hate.

The real women have curves comments. I find it patronising and rude. I have friends who are slim with small boobs and friends who are fat with big boobs and they are all definitely real

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They make me so horny love to fantasise and chat about them or with them xx"

Same here, can't beat the feeling of a fuller figured woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just saw it as a nice thread. I don't think any women really need more reassurance on here. I'm not BBW, but I get plenty of nice comments. I see Peach's point about the number of BBW threads vs. the number of slim threads, but I guess it just doesn't bother me. Slim women get plenty of love from the guys too.

As long as a thread extolling the virtues of larger women don't simultaneously insult slim women, then I don't see the issue, personally.

-Courtney

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


" I just saw it as a nice thread. I don't think any women really need more reassurance on here. I'm not BBW, but I get plenty of nice comments. I see Peach's point about the number of BBW threads vs. the number of slim threads, but I guess it just doesn't bother me. Slim women get plenty of love from the guys too.

As long as a thread extolling the virtues of larger women don't simultaneously insult slim women, then I don't see the issue, personally.

-Courtney "

Neither do I Courtney,I don't have big boobs far from it. It was a nice thread to begin with people really shouldn't turn things around in a negative way,it's not pleasant at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!! "

Perhaps there's an inequality of threads in favour of slim women because there's less guys (who post in the forums) who prefer them? There were no skinny bashing or 'real women' comments, and yours was the stand alone snide post and the first to reference BBWs.

Everyone is entitled to their preferences - and you can't force an even ratio of opinions in an open forum - so rather than get a bee in your bonnet next time you see an admittedly repetitive BBW/Curvy/Big Boobs appreciation thread, why not think 'not relevant to me' and just ignore? Or if it bothers you that much start a 'Who likes slim/athletic women?' topic yourself?

And bear in mind that all the lovely ladies with hourglass curves, big boobs and well-proportioned figures who posted comments here might not appreciate being lumped together as BBWs...just as not all slim, athletic, straight-up-and-down women are skinny minnies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I just saw it as a nice thread. I don't think any women really need more reassurance on here. I'm not BBW, but I get plenty of nice comments. I see Peach's point about the number of BBW threads vs. the number of slim threads, but I guess it just doesn't bother me. Slim women get plenty of love from the guys too.

As long as a thread extolling the virtues of larger women don't simultaneously insult slim women, then I don't see the issue, personally.

-Courtney "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a thread last week where a guy posted that he was looking for slim women. No one lambasted him and no one made any "real women" "bag of bones" "skinny minnies" comments. But a load of people assumed that's how it was going to go and posted that you can never post these threads because that's how they always end up. And more people jumped in without even reading the posts and assumed that all of those things would have been said. And then there was a side argument about how size 14 wasn't slim.

So the thread ended up on a sour note, but none of it was because anyone had said that the OP shouldn't have that preference or said anything insulting about slim women. It was because it's been decreed that that's how all posts about slim women go. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman Is intelligent, attractive, funny and sexually stimulating, I don't care about her body.

Unless she doesn't wash of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a thread last week where a guy posted that he was looking for slim women. No one lambasted him and no one made any "real women" "bag of bones" "skinny minnies" comments. But a load of people assumed that's how it was going to go and posted that you can never post these threads because that's how they always end up. And more people jumped in without even reading the posts and assumed that all of those things would have been said. And then there was a side argument about how size 14 wasn't slim.

So the thread ended up on a sour note, but none of it was because anyone had said that the OP shouldn't have that preference or said anything insulting about slim women. It was because it's been decreed that that's how all posts about slim women go. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy."

I remember that thread. All the talk of popcorn and pulling up chair was out of order. The OP wasn't rude or insulting about bigger women at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a thread last week where a guy posted that he was looking for slim women. No one lambasted him and no one made any "real women" "bag of bones" "skinny minnies" comments. But a load of people assumed that's how it was going to go and posted that you can never post these threads because that's how they always end up. And more people jumped in without even reading the posts and assumed that all of those things would have been said. And then there was a side argument about how size 14 wasn't slim.

So the thread ended up on a sour note, but none of it was because anyone had said that the OP shouldn't have that preference or said anything insulting about slim women. It was because it's been decreed that that's how all posts about slim women go. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I remember that thread. All the talk of popcorn and pulling up chair was out of order. The OP wasn't rude or insulting about bigger women at all. "

And no one was rude or insulting about slim women either. But everyone assumed people on the thread had been.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"There was a thread last week where a guy posted that he was looking for slim women. No one lambasted him and no one made any "real women" "bag of bones" "skinny minnies" comments. But a load of people assumed that's how it was going to go and posted that you can never post these threads because that's how they always end up. And more people jumped in without even reading the posts and assumed that all of those things would have been said. And then there was a side argument about how size 14 wasn't slim.

So the thread ended up on a sour note, but none of it was because anyone had said that the OP shouldn't have that preference or said anything insulting about slim women. It was because it's been decreed that that's how all posts about slim women go. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I remember that thread. All the talk of popcorn and pulling up chair was out of order. The OP wasn't rude or insulting about bigger women at all. "

Popcorn and chair pulling perhaps has come to the point where, if it really detracts from the thread, something should be done by the mods .... its bad enough posting send dealing with people's reactions if you have been here a while, but that gets really silly at times ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They make me so horny love to fantasise and chat about them or with them xx"

They are the best women - adore women with lumps bumps and wobbles mmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was a thread last week where a guy posted that he was looking for slim women. No one lambasted him and no one made any "real women" "bag of bones" "skinny minnies" comments. But a load of people assumed that's how it was going to go and posted that you can never post these threads because that's how they always end up. And more people jumped in without even reading the posts and assumed that all of those things would have been said. And then there was a side argument about how size 14 wasn't slim.

So the thread ended up on a sour note, but none of it was because anyone had said that the OP shouldn't have that preference or said anything insulting about slim women. It was because it's been decreed that that's how all posts about slim women go. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy."

Unfortunately true of a lot topics ~ seems the 'it's always been this way so that's how it's going stay' tag is hard to shake off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They make me so horny love to fantasise and chat about them or with them xx"

I gotta agree with you love em to bits especially the regular lady I see she's amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This could be me I guess

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore? "

Bustyosity jealousy,pure and simple !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!! "

We live in a society where every single day, wether it's the media or other your body type (slim) is glorified and praised. Slim is beautiful (and I won't disagree I appreciate slim women as well as bigger ones ). Slim is what everyone should aspire to be. Your body type is plastered on billboards, in magazines, all over the telly, in movies, on adverts. Out culture glorifies slim women. And yet you feel the need to bash on every bbw thread that gives a bit of attention to fat women. Like you're not told in every aspect of your life every day that slim is beautiful. Give it a bloody rest woman and let us fatties have some attention for a few measly threads!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!!

We live in a society where every single day, wether it's the media or other your body type (slim) is glorified and praised. Slim is beautiful (and I won't disagree I appreciate slim women as well as bigger ones ). Slim is what everyone should aspire to be. Your body type is plastered on billboards, in magazines, all over the telly, in movies, on adverts. Out culture glorifies slim women. And yet you feel the need to bash on every bbw thread that gives a bit of attention to fat women. Like you're not told in every aspect of your life every day that slim is beautiful. Give it a bloody rest woman and let us fatties have some attention for a few measly threads! "

I luv all of ya!!

And omg, what a thread.. Most amount of pointless bullshit I've heard in a while.. No offence op..I'm a massive fan of the curvy,or fat or big or chubby woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ima curvy woman size 18 and there is a lot of pressure I feel on being slim, Ive always been paranoid about my weight and hate clothe shopping but since joining fab my confidence has shot through the roof and just cant believe how many people prefer a curvy lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ima curvy woman size 18 and there is a lot of pressure I feel on being slim, Ive always been paranoid about my weight and hate clothe shopping but since joining fab my confidence has shot through the roof and just cant believe how many people prefer a curvy lady."

That's great!! I think the best bit of fab from a ladies point of view is the boost it gives to confidence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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That's great!! I think the best bit of fab from a ladies point of view is the boost it gives to confidence! "

Its a big confidence boost I tell all my friends regardless of their size. xxx

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By *eloneeWoman
over a year ago

York

Love em x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before I get blasted for hypocrisy on the above post - I had the debate I wanted on a thread I posted yesterday! Though not conclusive it was interesting and informative - and thankfully very few insults were passed around!

I still think the obvious answer is to have body types in the search/filter engines for all our benefit (but I've started a thread on that too - busy bee me! ) so as I've had my debate I'll leave you to enjoy your thread!

Have a lovely day peeps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a wonderful world of a feast / a showroom / a fun park / a winery / a library / a buffet - we are all so different - so glad some of the Fabbites Love the FABULOUS FULL SOFT US ..... X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a great admirer of big and busty women, but the last time I tried to "compliment" a beautiful female on here over her sexy body etc etc ......I was harangued by loads of women .....not in a good way ....for dare saying something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck "

I beg to differ x

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By *ickjones993Man
over a year ago

heathrow

this has been a sucessful thread !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hello absoloute mesmerising pictures beautiful lady do you need a understudy to show about Plz!! X

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over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!!

We live in a society where every single day, wether it's the media or other your body type (slim) is glorified and praised. Slim is beautiful (and I won't disagree I appreciate slim women as well as bigger ones ). Slim is what everyone should aspire to be. Your body type is plastered on billboards, in magazines, all over the telly, in movies, on adverts. Out culture glorifies slim women. And yet you feel the need to bash on every bbw thread that gives a bit of attention to fat women. Like you're not told in every aspect of your life every day that slim is beautiful. Give it a bloody rest woman and let us fatties have some attention for a few measly threads! "

+1

There is so much negativity in the media about 'fat' people that I say hooray to appreciation threads. As long as no one is getting blasted, fat or slim, well what's the issue??!

Men are always really lovely to me, it's woman that are plain nasty. Paul and I went to a spa today and a woman made a comment to her friend that I'm vile due to my size. Now if she had said I looked vile I would of shook it off and thought what a stupid cow but she said I was vile. So now it seems my size defines who I am not just how I look

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over a year ago

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Big boobs and curves here but not bbw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" - another BBW thread?

Men are always really lovely to me, it's woman that are plain nasty. Paul and I went to a spa today and a woman made a comment to her friend that I'm vile due to my size. Now if she had said I looked vile I would of shook it off and thought what a stupid cow but she said I was vile. So now it seems my size defines who I am not just how I look "

To state her opinion out loud in order for you to hear shows her intent, and with the meaning that belongs to vile, identifies that it was cruel and appeared intentional to belittle another human.

That is the moment to go up to them in

public and feedback what they said as loudly as possible and add that she and her friend obviously don't posses or have been taught good manners in order to belong in a civilised society in your opinion. (Others around will hear her words and if she thinks it is as fitting to say what she did she will stand by them - if not .....the chances are she will apologise and notice others looking at her with their own opinions)

I did this in a supermarket once after a similar comment from another and it worked a treat X

It does not define you as you know - what an uncouth cow - I wish her an itchy bum ... Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I too really love big busty women. Nothing better than getting my hands on a woman's curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just wobbly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I have always been into women with more meat on their bones. Anything from average to BBW is my personally taste. Skinny woman just don't seem to do much for me?

Speaking as a bi sexual male, the comical thing is with men or tgirls, I like then to be skinny!

Again this is my personal choice and that's the beauty of fab, you are allowed choice. For me, nothing sexier than curves or a big bum and/or big boobs.

I honestly believe that more and more men are moving over to the BBW or at least in my NW area of the U.K.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a big woman and i certainly dnt crave attention so that comment was a load of bull

and as some have already stated i want to meet guys who want to meet me for who i am and not my body shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a big woman and i certainly dnt crave attention so that comment was a load of bull

and as some have already stated i want to meet guys who want to meet me for who i am and not my body shape"

Hi FoxxyRed,

I also don't agree with the comment and I fully understand and agreed with your point that people should like you for you, not just your body.

Though without trying to sound too geeky, studies show that everyone makes a snap decision (2/6 seconds) about you due to the pictures we post and with a standard profile people Suggest that 15% of your profile worth is the text your write and 85% is our pictures. To be clear I got these numbers from a study, Ok Cupid recently did but I feel the numbers must tie in as this is a swinging site designed for more sexually open people.

That said personally, I enjoy reading someone's profile and having healthy conversations with them before I arrange a social.

Anyway, with trying to ramble too much, I guess I'm saying in a perfect world I feel that you are correct but sadly the world is based more around our base desires than mental attraction.

D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a big woman and i certainly dnt crave attention so that comment was a load of bull

and as some have already stated i want to meet guys who want to meet me for who i am and not my body shape

Hi FoxxyRed,

I also don't agree with the comment and I fully understand and agreed with your point that people should like you for you, not just your body.

Though without trying to sound too geeky, studies show that everyone makes a snap decision (2/6 seconds) about you due to the pictures we post and with a standard profile people Suggest that 15% of your profile worth is the text your write and 85% is our pictures. To be clear I got these numbers from a study, Ok Cupid recently did but I feel the numbers must tie in as this is a swinging site designed for more sexually open people.

That said personally, I enjoy reading someone's profile and having healthy conversations with them before I arrange a social.

Anyway, with trying to ramble too much, I guess I'm saying in a perfect world I feel that you are correct but sadly the world is based more around our base desires than mental attraction.

D x"

hi and you do have a valiant point there just i get peed up with some thinking that just because your a larger person then you are desperate for attention wich like i said is bull x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a big woman and i certainly dnt crave attention so that comment was a load of bull

and as some have already stated i want to meet guys who want to meet me for who i am and not my body shape

Hi FoxxyRed,

I also don't agree with the comment and I fully understand and agreed with your point that people should like you for you, not just your body.

Though without trying to sound too geeky, studies show that everyone makes a snap decision (2/6 seconds) about you due to the pictures we post and with a standard profile people Suggest that 15% of your profile worth is the text your write and 85% is our pictures. To be clear I got these numbers from a study, Ok Cupid recently did but I feel the numbers must tie in as this is a swinging site designed for more sexually open people.

That said personally, I enjoy reading someone's profile and having healthy conversations with them before I arrange a social.

Anyway, with trying to ramble too much, I guess I'm saying in a perfect world I feel that you are correct but sadly the world is based more around our base desires than mental attraction.

D x

hi and you do have a valiant point there just i get peed up with some thinking that just because your a larger person then you are desperate for attention wich like i said is bull x"

I know and I 100% agree that some people have the wrong impression and ideas about larger people in general. Don't get me started on the negative opinion people have about larger men.

Anyway, having been very nosey and checked out your profile, I am sure you have no end to suitors and I'll openly say very much my type

Anyway, happy swinging Rose xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a big woman and i certainly dnt crave attention so that comment was a load of bull

and as some have already stated i want to meet guys who want to meet me for who i am and not my body shape

Hi FoxxyRed,

I also don't agree with the comment and I fully understand and agreed with your point that people should like you for you, not just your body.

Though without trying to sound too geeky, studies show that everyone makes a snap decision (2/6 seconds) about you due to the pictures we post and with a standard profile people Suggest that 15% of your profile worth is the text your write and 85% is our pictures. To be clear I got these numbers from a study, Ok Cupid recently did but I feel the numbers must tie in as this is a swinging site designed for more sexually open people.

That said personally, I enjoy reading someone's profile and having healthy conversations with them before I arrange a social.

Anyway, with trying to ramble too much, I guess I'm saying in a perfect world I feel that you are correct but sadly the world is based more around our base desires than mental attraction.

D x

hi and you do have a valiant point there just i get peed up with some thinking that just because your a larger person then you are desperate for attention wich like i said is bull x

I know and I 100% agree that some people have the wrong impression and ideas about larger people in general. Don't get me started on the negative opinion people have about larger men.

Anyway, having been very nosey and checked out your profile, I am sure you have no end to suitors and I'll openly say very much my type

Anyway, happy swinging Rose xxx"

thank you and happy swinging to you to xRose? lol x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thick thighs thick ass thease ladys i have so much love for fantasy muchly wants to be fullfiled!!!.....hope that aint to much to ask for here thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks "
you fit the bill to perfection. ...body to die for as they say.....xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luv the curvy to much lush to do wiv they get me to that point its to high to cum bck down hope to do sum chats n then fun i hope hope they take notice if i pass there test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my ladies curvy too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love that S curve of Double Bubble Big Boobs & Booty....

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Who broke my seesaw?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Well this threads been an eye opener

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!!

We live in a society where every single day, wether it's the media or other your body type (slim) is glorified and praised. Slim is beautiful (and I won't disagree I appreciate slim women as well as bigger ones ). Slim is what everyone should aspire to be. Your body type is plastered on billboards, in magazines, all over the telly, in movies, on adverts. Out culture glorifies slim women. And yet you feel the need to bash on every bbw thread that gives a bit of attention to fat women. Like you're not told in every aspect of your life every day that slim is beautiful. Give it a bloody rest woman and let us fatties have some attention for a few measly threads! "

We have read this thread with great interest. We have also seen so called BBW threads appear and almost criticise slim women. We say if your slim your slim if fat your fat no big deal. However if as has been said a thread is started on slim women it will be torn apart. We have wondered if those who are truly happy being the so called BBW post here or is it the envious type. Is it some sort of political correctness. You can criticise the slim but not the big or fat. The reality is we are what we are and people like different types. Why not leave it at that. Instead we see this we should aspire to be slim stuff. We mean this in candid and honest way but there is a reason slim sells. It is sad but it sells. 90% of men if honest would choose a slim woman over a large one if out. It's just way of the world. Those guys won't post here because they don't care. They are indifferent to it. In summary we think live and let live but remember slim girls can get laid too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!!

We live in a society where every single day, wether it's the media or other your body type (slim) is glorified and praised. Slim is beautiful (and I won't disagree I appreciate slim women as well as bigger ones ). Slim is what everyone should aspire to be. Your body type is plastered on billboards, in magazines, all over the telly, in movies, on adverts. Out culture glorifies slim women. And yet you feel the need to bash on every bbw thread that gives a bit of attention to fat women. Like you're not told in every aspect of your life every day that slim is beautiful. Give it a bloody rest woman and let us fatties have some attention for a few measly threads!

We have read this thread with great interest. We have also seen so called BBW threads appear and almost criticise slim women. We say if your slim your slim if fat your fat no big deal. However if as has been said a thread is started on slim women it will be torn apart. We have wondered if those who are truly happy being the so called BBW post here or is it the envious type. Is it some sort of political correctness. You can criticise the slim but not the big or fat. The reality is we are what we are and people like different types. Why not leave it at that. Instead we see this we should aspire to be slim stuff. We mean this in candid and honest way but there is a reason slim sells. It is sad but it sells. 90% of men if honest would choose a slim woman over a large one if out. It's just way of the world. Those guys won't post here because they don't care. They are indifferent to it. In summary we think live and let live but remember slim girls can get laid too. "

I have read all the comments and I have chosen not to share until now. I am loving the Captain America outfit.

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!!

We live in a society where every single day, wether it's the media or other your body type (slim) is glorified and praised. Slim is beautiful (and I won't disagree I appreciate slim women as well as bigger ones ). Slim is what everyone should aspire to be. Your body type is plastered on billboards, in magazines, all over the telly, in movies, on adverts. Out culture glorifies slim women. And yet you feel the need to bash on every bbw thread that gives a bit of attention to fat women. Like you're not told in every aspect of your life every day that slim is beautiful. Give it a bloody rest woman and let us fatties have some attention for a few measly threads!

We have read this thread with great interest. We have also seen so called BBW threads appear and almost criticise slim women. We say if your slim your slim if fat your fat no big deal. However if as has been said a thread is started on slim women it will be torn apart. We have wondered if those who are truly happy being the so called BBW post here or is it the envious type. Is it some sort of political correctness. You can criticise the slim but not the big or fat. The reality is we are what we are and people like different types. Why not leave it at that. Instead we see this we should aspire to be slim stuff. We mean this in candid and honest way but there is a reason slim sells. It is sad but it sells. 90% of men if honest would choose a slim woman over a large one if out. It's just way of the world. Those guys won't post here because they don't care. They are indifferent to it. In summary we think live and let live but remember slim girls can get laid too.

I have read all the comments and I have chosen not to share until now. I am loving the Captain America outfit."

Much appreciated. You have some amazing photos.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ..."

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ... "

Very true most of my slimmer friends all say they envy me for my confidence, they are all mainly very self conscious with very low esteem, by their own admission they need the compliments to thrive. Some friends that were slim but are now bigger say they have more confidence in themselves and their bodies that they ever did slim so are at their most confident. Of course this is based on my experience I'm sure there are many confident slimmer ladies too I'm just yet to meet one

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Sexy is as sexy does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy is as sexy does. "

Dam ryt hunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ...

Very true most of my slimmer friends all say they envy me for my confidence, they are all mainly very self conscious with very low esteem, by their own admission they need the compliments to thrive. Some friends that were slim but are now bigger say they have more confidence in themselves and their bodies that they ever did slim so are at their most confident. Of course this is based on my experience I'm sure there are many confident slimmer ladies too I'm just yet to meet one "

I think you definitely have a point Hun!

Out of interest, have these friends of yours had children? I asked this only because I think the after effects of childbirth can be more obvious on slim women that on curvy/larger ladies - and I'm referring to myself here! Pre babies I was pretty confident with my body - post baby I feel I need to list all my bodily faults in my profile (which I try to do amusingly) because - although I look pretty good dressed - when my clothes come off I have masses of thread veins, my tummy is full of loose skin after loosing (some of) the baby weight, and my boobs have lost their firmness (my nick-name for them is squidgy tits!). Only my arse has been left unimpaired - hence my profile name!

I'm not going to 'bang on' about the lack of threads for other body types again - it's been done (by me I know) but once 'slim ladies' have had kids - many of them (me especially) don't match society's ideal model either - so they can be just as much as seething mass of insecurities as any woman!

My confidence lies in my personality - not my body type!

And for what it's worth - quite a few of my male friends genuinely do find beautiful larger ladies very attractive - they certainly don't see them as second best!

Have a lovely day everyone - and merry Christmas! (Eight more sleeps - eeeek!)

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ...

Very true most of my slimmer friends all say they envy me for my confidence, they are all mainly very self conscious with very low esteem, by their own admission they need the compliments to thrive. Some friends that were slim but are now bigger say they have more confidence in themselves and their bodies that they ever did slim so are at their most confident. Of course this is based on my experience I'm sure there are many confident slimmer ladies too I'm just yet to meet one

I think you definitely have a point Hun!

Out of interest, have these friends of yours had children? I asked this only because I think the after effects of childbirth can be more obvious on slim women that on curvy/larger ladies - and I'm referring to myself here! Pre babies I was pretty confident with my body - post baby I feel I need to list all my bodily faults in my profile (which I try to do amusingly) because - although I look pretty good dressed - when my clothes come off I have masses of thread veins, my tummy is full of loose skin after loosing (some of) the baby weight, and my boobs have lost their firmness (my nick-name for them is squidgy tits!). Only my arse has been left unimpaired - hence my profile name!

I'm not going to 'bang on' about the lack of threads for other body types again - it's been done (by me I know) but once 'slim ladies' have had kids - many of them (me especially) don't match society's ideal model either - so they can be just as much as seething mass of insecurities as any woman!

My confidence lies in my personality - not my body type!

And for what it's worth - quite a few of my male friends genuinely do find beautiful larger ladies very attractive - they certainly don't see them as second best!

Have a lovely day everyone - and merry Christmas! (Eight more sleeps - eeeek!) "

2 of my friends I was referring to have had children, but one can't have them for medical reasons. They still always struggled with their self esteem and it's worsened since the plight of the mummy tummy and stretch marks made an appearance

Irregardless of size there's a lot to be said for having confidence, it's a very attractive quality in a person for many people.

Merry Christmas to you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a fattie, don't think my boobs are that big but my man seems to like me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey up u curvy queens

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

I have all these attributes.

There is definitely someone for everyone on fab, it wouldn't work if everyone fantasised about the same sort of woman. You can look stunning at size 10 & size 30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kirsty is defo this! So fucking hot!

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

From experience and what ive seen on here you sexy peeps love a bit curve and i know there's the same who yearn for the more svelte frame diversity in all its forms

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By *200daveMan
over a year ago

weymouth

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By *200daveMan
over a year ago

weymouth


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck "
not busty or curvy? miss special k you are stunning

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

So did they have children or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh - another BBW thread?

You don't see many of those on fab!!

Ah wtf!! Merry Christmas lovelies!!

Big busty and curvy isn't necessarily BBW! You seem to have a real resentment of these threads...if you don't like, why not just ignore?

I think perhaps I'm not keen because only twice in my nearly 2 years on fab have I seen a guy dare to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic women! On both occasions they were immediately lambasted and called shallow, fickle and a whole lot worse - instant fabicide!!

However - if a guy posts a preference for larger ladies (when a lovely lady above pointed out that she was 'big' rather than busty and curvy the op replied along the lines of 'big is beautiful ' so yes - this is essentially another BBW thread!) then that's fine and lots of other guys agree with him - and lots of lovely larger ladies come on to be appreciated and - who knows - chat and arrange meets?

However - I'm very happy to note that, unusually, no-one has felt the need to insult slim/athletic ladies in order to make their point!

This make me smile (honest - I'm smiling as I type )

But the fact still remains that it's perfectly ok to post almost daily threads of large/curvy/bbw appreciation but it's NEVER ok to post a thread in appreciation of slim/athletic ladies (please feel free to run a forum search).

It's this inequality that irks me - not the topic itself!

And for what it's worth - I'm with the lovely Miss innocent on this one anyway! I want a man to meet me because I'm ace - not because I'm a particular body shape!

And before I get accused of hypocrisy - if there were 4 threads a week extolling the virtues of slim ladies and one a year on BBW's - anyone who knows me will know that I'd be the first to point out how unequal and how unfair that is!! "

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By *unkmasterxMan
over a year ago

Oakham

I love a bigger girl,big tits and arse are a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ...

Very true most of my slimmer friends all say they envy me for my confidence, they are all mainly very self conscious with very low esteem, by their own admission they need the compliments to thrive. Some friends that were slim but are now bigger say they have more confidence in themselves and their bodies that they ever did slim so are at their most confident. Of course this is based on my experience I'm sure there are many confident slimmer ladies too I'm just yet to meet one "

You've never met a confident slimmer woman?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ...

Very true most of my slimmer friends all say they envy me for my confidence, they are all mainly very self conscious with very low esteem, by their own admission they need the compliments to thrive. Some friends that were slim but are now bigger say they have more confidence in themselves and their bodies that they ever did slim so are at their most confident. Of course this is based on my experience I'm sure there are many confident slimmer ladies too I'm just yet to meet one

You've never met a confident slimmer woman? "

No met plenty that portray confidence on the surface but when I get to know them and look deeper they rarely are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ...

Very true most of my slimmer friends all say they envy me for my confidence, they are all mainly very self conscious with very low esteem, by their own admission they need the compliments to thrive. Some friends that were slim but are now bigger say they have more confidence in themselves and their bodies that they ever did slim so are at their most confident. Of course this is based on my experience I'm sure there are many confident slimmer ladies too I'm just yet to meet one

You've never met a confident slimmer woman?

No met plenty that portray confidence on the surface but when I get to know them and look deeper they rarely are "

Maybe you're looking too deep and seeing something that's not actually the case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot of it stems from the underlying belief that larger women, however you want to label them, need that constant reassurance and have to be told they are beautiful. Whereas slim women have self esteem. I am going to post this without letting on which category I fall into ... but rest assured, the assumption that bigger women need to be patronised and made to feel better by compliments from strangers could not be further from the truth, in my opinion. Many are confident and able to thrive on their own without such charity ...

Very true most of my slimmer friends all say they envy me for my confidence, they are all mainly very self conscious with very low esteem, by their own admission they need the compliments to thrive. Some friends that were slim but are now bigger say they have more confidence in themselves and their bodies that they ever did slim so are at their most confident. Of course this is based on my experience I'm sure there are many confident slimmer ladies too I'm just yet to meet one

You've never met a confident slimmer woman?

No met plenty that portray confidence on the surface but when I get to know them and look deeper they rarely are

Maybe you're looking too deep and seeing something that's not actually the case "

so what makes the thinner woman think she has anything more or better than a larger woman ? because alot of the thinner women find themselves in a more attractive zone , , as long yr kind yr beautiful what ever the sex , iv been with zeros and a 20 stone girl with one of the prettiest faces and personalitys

i love everything a large and petite woman can offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck "
nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any north west ouuussshhh!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bbw n proud x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm big but not busty or curvy but good luck nice "

Wow! I thought this thread had been put to sleep ages ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger is always better on my books too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bigger is always better on my books too "

Fair enough! That's not me! Great body though Hun! You must put a lot of work into it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bbw n proud x"
awsome love it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bigger is always better on my books too

Fair enough! That's not me! Great body though Hun! You must put a lot of work into it! "

No really...I'm lucky I burn a lot of calories... You are in a good shape too..

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By *avebabeWoman
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And another sexy contestant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy and busty here proud to be BBW xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat and therefore have big boobs.

I don't like being fat so I'm trying to lose weight.

I don't care if my boobs shrink.

I'm a lot more than just a pair of boobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy and busty here proud to be BBW xxxx "

And very sexy too

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"Curvy and busty here proud to be BBW xxxx

And very sexy too "

Resistance is futile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bbw and curvy women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy and busty here proud to be BBW xxxx

And very sexy too "

Awww thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bigger is always better on my books too

Fair enough! That's not me! Great body though Hun! You must put a lot of work into it!

No really...I'm lucky I burn a lot of calories... You are in a good shape too.."

Thanks Hun! I'm just lucky too!

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By *heorgasmaddictMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm fat and therefore have big boobs.

I don't like being fat so I'm trying to lose weight.

I don't care if my boobs shrink.

I'm a lot more than just a pair of boobs."

Exactly. Good on you and good luck in losing the weight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well being big and beautiful isn't such a bad thing. I'm big and beautiful on the inside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any lovely big women from north east

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of curiosity ladies and gents - have many meets been arranged off the back of this type of thread? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Out of curiosity ladies and gents - have many meets been arranged off the back of this type of thread? Xxx"

I wish haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know about meets but gets me perving at profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm fat and therefore have big boobs.

I don't like being fat so I'm trying to lose weight.

I don't care if my boobs shrink.

I'm a lot more than just a pair of boobs.

Exactly. Good on you and good luck in losing the weight.

"

Thank you xxx

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By *ikeDeltaMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Definitely my favourite type of woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Helllooooo Mr Holme flaunting Mrs Time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm Curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a hard on just reading the thread title

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great to see this has been a positive thread ......

It's down to confidence with regard to how we see ourselves and it's encouraging to see guys who are not swayed by public "norms" and enjoy us soft Marshmallow types as well.

Mwah

X

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By *ere to please321Man
over a year ago

lincolshire

To right curves all the way

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By *haremoreMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Love a ladies curves.

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By *aughty cpl for funCouple
over a year ago

chester

We're so much fun. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love chat ot play with her, busty or curvy its nice and they are lovely

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