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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A girl we play with sometimes says it hurts when starting to penetrate. Shes had some play and shes wet, were both lubed up but sometimes the first few minutes shes tight and hurts inside. Is this normal?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she is tense and nervous then yes she could feel pain upon penetration. My advice take things really slowly upon trying to penetrate, tease her pussy lips with the head of your cock. Gradually introduce it to her to your full length and width.

I find this helps tremendously and good luck

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If it's not medical then I'd say tension/nerves.

I always found sex painful, even went to the the GP about it. Once I'd left my horrible ex I was fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If she is tense and nervous then yes she could feel pain upon penetration. My advice take things really slowly upon trying to penetrate, tease her pussy lips with the head of your cock. Gradually introduce it to her to your full length and width.

I find this helps tremendously and good luck

Thanks, we usually play etc before penetration. She's not keen on too much play as she isn't keen on the feel of things on her clit, and doesn't enjoy any toys being inserted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this helps tremendously and good luck

Thanks, we usually play etc before penetration. She's not keen on too much play as she isn't keen on the feel of things on her clit, and doesn't enjoy any toys being inserted."

Tons of other foreplay options.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find this helps tremendously and good luck

Thanks, we usually play etc before penetration. She's not keen on too much play as she isn't keen on the feel of things on her clit, and doesn't enjoy any toys being inserted.

Tons of other foreplay options.

As I say she isn't massively keen on foreplay, she prefers a little playing with her clit, maybe a bit of fingering and a bullet on her clit. She doesn't enjoy a lot of foreplay or toys inserted, licking, etc. Prefers to go straight into it really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im sure she,s a lovely girl, but cant be much enjoyment for you guys either knowing she finds things uncomfortable :-/

Maybe time for a new playmate possibly :-/

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

have you considered discussing it with her rather than discussing it on a public forum ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Im sure she,s a lovely girl, but cant be much enjoyment for you guys either knowing she finds things uncomfortable :-/

Maybe time for a new playmate possibly :-/"

Lol

She's just petite, and very tight, and I'm average guy with a 7.5" penis, she's ok with foreplay but she prefers a bit of porn or kissing, with some play, then she prefers to pleasure me, blowjob etc and then sex.. Just asking if it was normal for it to hurt at the start a little. Do a lot of women get that or not really..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"have you considered discussing it with her rather than discussing it on a public forum ?"

Yes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op do you think she actually enjoys sex? As it sounds like there is very little of it she likes or finds pleasurable?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

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"Im sure she,s a lovely girl, but cant be much enjoyment for you guys either knowing she finds things uncomfortable :-/

Maybe time for a new playmate possibly :-/

Lol

With the right amount of the correct foreplay, never .... the right amount is not a definable quantity, it depends on the mood, etc. I dont like anything inserted, but I love all other types of foreplay, maybe any clitoral play has not quite hit the spot correctly or with the right amount of pressure, op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times yelling at people gets things moving. Try having an argument with her and escalate it into a full blown shouting match. Then try again.

If that doesn't work, remind her you have options. Leave her in no doubt that there's a mile long list of lovelies waiting to play bouncy bouncy on your magic mike. Then maybe do a little dance to entice her. Perhaps with your pants on your head?

Then try again.

If that doesn't work. Maybe a kiss before just plundering this woman might help.

Who knows. Perhaps it's a compatibility thing.

It just happens that way sometimes, apparently. Don't be too hard on her or yourself.

Perhaps a stunt cock could step in?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A girl we play with sometimes says it hurts when starting to penetrate. Shes had some play and shes wet, were both lubed up but sometimes the first few minutes shes tight and hurts inside. Is this normal? "
change from the sandpaper condoms and try to pot the brown rather than the pink

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