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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Ive just woke up an thought whilst i was awake i would log in fabswingers, to my horror i come across an email on my fab account that asked me to be a guys gf an he wants to worship me :-

it certainly woke me up. Im happy being single an esp after a difficult an trying divorce an im now fully divorced newly just over a month ago. I choose after my divorce to be single an im loving the nsa life style its freedom an ive had so much fun since being on the site i do not want a bf nor do i want to be worshipped as a gf. I cant see me changing my mind at the mo to have a bf in my life. Im happy in my life esp the freedom not to be chained to a guy again i love my freedom of not having a guy permanent in my life.

Has anyone else had some one ask them to be their gf/bf on fabs om curious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...they will say anything to try and get into your knickers! Lol x

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Yes...they will say anything to try and get into your knickers! Lol x"

he got told no. I dont want a guy in my life permanent

thats not the way to get into my knickers lol

by him wanting to be my bf lol he will get no where

its a good way of him peeing me off lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time. Sick to death of it!

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"All the time. Sick to death of it!

"

this is why i joined fabs as i enjoy the nsa life style an im tired of guys wanting a relationship with me on fabs. Ie they will say i want you as my gf blah blah

I dont want a relationship with a guy an he is my bf nor do i want to date. No thank you

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!"

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

"

Although in an attempt to even this out a little... There was a thread on here a few weeks ago from a woman trying in fairness to convince herself it was a good idea to leave her marriage for a guy from here who she had met about three times and may I add had already told her it was never going to happen. So its not just men who get confused on here, it is those that either already have relationship issues or forget this is a swingers site not e-harmony (there are other dating site available )

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

Although in an attempt to even this out a little... There was a thread on here a few weeks ago from a woman trying in fairness to convince herself it was a good idea to leave her marriage for a guy from here who she had met about three times and may I add had already told her it was never going to happen. So its not just men who get confused on here, it is those that either already have relationship issues or forget this is a swingers site not e-harmony (there are other dating site available ) "

i think it gets complicated when people confuse it an see it as a dating site. It isnt. Its a swingers site an people who seek others for nsa sexy fun. An i think it ruins the site when people confuse it. I see it as a swingers site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could think of worse messages that i would be horrified at receiving. That wouldn't be one. Unless we filter to the Max and Stop all contact you will get weird and wonderful messages. It's not worth getting your knickers in a twist or trying to work out the reasoning behind them. There are people looking for all sorts on here. The best thing is to ignore those that don't interest and or block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had this also and in no way do I want a relationship.

Nor do I wan't to be 'worshipped'. Unless it's in the bedroom

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"I have had this also and in no way do I want a relationship.

Nor do I wan't to be 'worshipped'. Unless it's in the bedroom "

i agree with that worshipped in an out the bedroom sexually lol

same here i dont want a relationship they get far too complicated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes many times but not just their gf but to live with them and not meet others. Some men got very possesive.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

[Removed by poster at 11/12/15 07:38:36]

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

Although in an attempt to even this out a little... There was a thread on here a few weeks ago from a woman trying in fairness to convince herself it was a good idea to leave her marriage for a guy from here who she had met about three times and may I add had already told her it was never going to happen. So its not just men who get confused on here, it is those that either already have relationship issues or forget this is a swingers site not e-harmony (there are other dating site available )

i think it gets complicated when people confuse it an see it as a dating site. It isnt. Its a swingers site an people who seek others for nsa sexy fun. An i think it ruins the site when people confuse it. I see it as a swingers site. "

I use this site as a dating site. I don't think it causes confusion or crosses a line. I wouldn't ever date or have a relationship again with someone that wasn't on the swinging or fetish scene. Not that I'm looking for a relationship but if one was to happen, I'd want it to be with someone that understood the scene. I also find swingers and fetishists more fun to go on a date with as I can be myself and discuss stuff that I'd have to filter with a vanilla date.

A lot of messages that directly ask me to be their girlfriend are often from cuckold makes trying to find a cuckold/Hotwife relationship. They want a girlfriend that will continue playing with others. I get that request a lot.

Don't judge how others use the site. It's a great place to find a one off fuck, a fuck buddy, a FWB, a fetish play partner or a bf/gf. If someone contacts you and they are looking for something different, just ignore and move on.

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

[Removed by poster at 11/12/15 07:42:25]

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By *helbee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Nuneaton


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

Although in an attempt to even this out a little... There was a thread on here a few weeks ago from a woman trying in fairness to convince herself it was a good idea to leave her marriage for a guy from here who she had met about three times and may I add had already told her it was never going to happen. So its not just men who get confused on here, it is those that either already have relationship issues or forget this is a swingers site not e-harmony (there are other dating site available )

i think it gets complicated when people confuse it an see it as a dating site. It isnt. Its a swingers site an people who seek others for nsa sexy fun. An i think it ruins the site when people confuse it. I see it as a swingers site.

I use this site as a dating site. I don't think it causes confusion or crosses a line. I wouldn't ever date or have a relationship again with someone that wasn't on the swinging or fetish scene. Not that I'm looking for a relationship but if one was to happen, I'd want it to be with someone that understood the scene. I also find swingers and fetishists more fun to go on a date with as I can be myself and discuss stuff that I'd have to filter with a vanilla date.

A lot of messages that directly ask me to be their girlfriend are often from cuckold makes trying to find a cuckold/Hotwife relationship. They want a girlfriend that will continue playing with others. I get that request a lot.

Don't judge how others use the site. It's a great place to find a one off fuck, a fuck buddy, a FWB, a fetish play partner or a bf/gf. If someone contacts you and they are looking for something different, just ignore and move on. "

You see it confuses guys when you want the cuckold scenario others like me dont want that an i just want nsa fun without the complications an i dont want a cuccuckold relationship im happy being single

Guys dont know who is up for that cuckold relationship. An if someone like me gets fed up of guys asking to be my bf it gets frustrating. Im not judgeing others im simply saying im happy not being tied down to a guy is that so bad

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"I could think of worse messages that i would be horrified at receiving. That wouldn't be one. Unless we filter to the Max and Stop all contact you will get weird and wonderful messages. It's not worth getting your knickers in a twist or trying to work out the reasoning behind them. There are people looking for all sorts on here. The best thing is to ignore those that don't interest and or block."

Yep I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

"

So you think a proposal of a relationship or marriage from a stranger is ok on a dating site? Really?

It's just damn freaky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

Although in an attempt to even this out a little... There was a thread on here a few weeks ago from a woman trying in fairness to convince herself it was a good idea to leave her marriage for a guy from here who she had met about three times and may I add had already told her it was never going to happen. So its not just men who get confused on here, it is those that either already have relationship issues or forget this is a swingers site not e-harmony (there are other dating site available )

i think it gets complicated when people confuse it an see it as a dating site. It isnt. Its a swingers site an people who seek others for nsa sexy fun. An i think it ruins the site when people confuse it. I see it as a swingers site. "

Generically it's a dating site, like it or lump it. People arrange a date to meet, sometimes socially, sometimes sexually, sometimes both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

Although in an attempt to even this out a little... There was a thread on here a few weeks ago from a woman trying in fairness to convince herself it was a good idea to leave her marriage for a guy from here who she had met about three times and may I add had already told her it was never going to happen. So its not just men who get confused on here, it is those that either already have relationship issues or forget this is a swingers site not e-harmony (there are other dating site available )

i think it gets complicated when people confuse it an see it as a dating site. It isnt. Its a swingers site an people who seek others for nsa sexy fun. An i think it ruins the site when people confuse it. I see it as a swingers site.

I use this site as a dating site. I don't think it causes confusion or crosses a line. I wouldn't ever date or have a relationship again with someone that wasn't on the swinging or fetish scene. Not that I'm looking for a relationship but if one was to happen, I'd want it to be with someone that understood the scene. I also find swingers and fetishists more fun to go on a date with as I can be myself and discuss stuff that I'd have to filter with a vanilla date.

A lot of messages that directly ask me to be their girlfriend are often from cuckold makes trying to find a cuckold/Hotwife relationship. They want a girlfriend that will continue playing with others. I get that request a lot.

Don't judge how others use the site. It's a great place to find a one off fuck, a fuck buddy, a FWB, a fetish play partner or a bf/gf. If someone contacts you and they are looking for something different, just ignore and move on. "

Totally this

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Yes, oddly I've been asked several times, mainly by complete strangers that insist I'm never to meet anyone else again.

Even more oddly, I've been proposed to a couple of times. Weird!!!!

They confuse the site an think its a dateing site, bless them. But fabswingers i thought was for like minded people who enjoy nsa an the life style an hook up just for sexy fun etc

This guy was a stranger ive never met him nor has he contacted me before

i think guys who ask marriage etc on the site are well deluded an should go else where as this is certainly the wrong site

Although in an attempt to even this out a little... There was a thread on here a few weeks ago from a woman trying in fairness to convince herself it was a good idea to leave her marriage for a guy from here who she had met about three times and may I add had already told her it was never going to happen. So its not just men who get confused on here, it is those that either already have relationship issues or forget this is a swingers site not e-harmony (there are other dating site available )

i think it gets complicated when people confuse it an see it as a dating site. It isnt. Its a swingers site an people who seek others for nsa sexy fun. An i think it ruins the site when people confuse it. I see it as a swingers site.

I use this site as a dating site. I don't think it causes confusion or crosses a line. I wouldn't ever date or have a relationship again with someone that wasn't on the swinging or fetish scene. Not that I'm looking for a relationship but if one was to happen, I'd want it to be with someone that understood the scene. I also find swingers and fetishists more fun to go on a date with as I can be myself and discuss stuff that I'd have to filter with a vanilla date.

A lot of messages that directly ask me to be their girlfriend are often from cuckold makes trying to find a cuckold/Hotwife relationship. They want a girlfriend that will continue playing with others. I get that request a lot.

Don't judge how others use the site. It's a great place to find a one off fuck, a fuck buddy, a FWB, a fetish play partner or a bf/gf. If someone contacts you and they are looking for something different, just ignore and move on. "

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