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single men,would you share your Mrs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oxymoron?

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

If your single how can you share your Mrs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what we have been gold by the majority of single guys we have met , the answer would be no they wouldn't . Hypocritical by their own admission .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's one of those...Zen like questions?

If a tree falls in the woods with no one around to hear it, does it make a sound?

What is the sound of one hand clapping?

Would a single male let his partner swing without him...?

You have much to learn grasshopper...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oxymoron?"

Not really, I'd say it is pretty obvious what we mean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oxymoron?"

also the word "would" should be swapped for the word "will" if it was to be an oxymoron

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Oxymoron?

Not really, I'd say it is pretty obvious what we mean. "

It's not pretty obvious but it is insinuated,so you would like to know if I "single" were not single would I share my partner,the answer is yes but it would have to be beneficial to all involved.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

The majority of single men I have met have made it very clear they would not want to share their wife/gf, even had one tell me if i continued to meet him, he would want me to delete my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of the questions we pose to single guys before deciding whether or not to meet them, needles to say the hypocrites don't get much further.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's usually pretty obvious the ones who wouldn't want their partners to be involved in swinging with them, they often have a fairly low opinion of the men in couples and an even lower one of the women in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oxymoron?

also the word "would" should be swapped for the word "will" if it was to be an oxymoron "

Well not really I mean it's still an oxymoron because taken at face value the question is still incompatible with it's premise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure would just need a gf lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fact, the girl I'm seeing is in bed with another female now.

And I'm not invited!!! FML

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a swinger. Therfore with that in mind, if I ever meet someone I'd want them to accept me for me. That means I'd want them to swing too. So for me the answer is....... oh God yes it's sexy as hell x

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Yes as I think I getting the idea now

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Yes as I think I getting the idea now "

well apparently when it comes to sharing Dan Wood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does seem a strange question though, maybe just poorly worded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would, if I had one...

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

I share my misses, i love seeing her getting fucked hard! And always fuck her cum filled pussy afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would they be swinging if they had a g/f?

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I share my misses, i love seeing her getting fucked hard! And always fuck her cum filled pussy afterwards "

but you are not a single dude and there in itself is the tear in the fabric of the space time continuum

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By *exy hot wife 84Couple
over a year ago

Stevenage

Oh yeah!!!! Shit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have enjoyed group sex with 3 different partners (2 of whom were longterm serious relationships) with no qualms whatsoever. And my enjoyment of group sex has always been as much if not more about seeing my partner fucked than me fucking other men.

But weirdly , the girl I'm seeing now, not a chance Id share her and I have no idea how or why that change has occured

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Have enjoyed group sex with 3 different partners (2 of whom were longterm serious relationships) with no qualms whatsoever. And my enjoyment of group sex has always been as much if not more about seeing my partner fucked than me fucking other men.

But weirdly , the girl I'm seeing now, not a chance Id share her and I have no idea how or why that change has occured"

cos you're whipped... now get back to those dishes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I realise I'm going to get stickfor this...... But I'd hate it and wouldn't want to share. The person I love being touched by someone else would crush me.

And I don't think it's hypocritical as people say on here, it would be hypocritical if I pretended that I'd be cool with it then wasn't!

It obviously works for couples on here, so good luck to them. It wouldn't work for me.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"I realise I'm going to get stickfor this...... But I'd hate it and wouldn't want to share. The person I love being touched by someone else would crush me.

And I don't think it's hypocritical as people say on here, it would be hypocritical if I pretended that I'd be cool with it then wasn't!

It obviously works for couples on here, so good luck to them. It wouldn't work for me. "

Fair enough. Would you continue to meet though?

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By *reindlyguy69Man
over a year ago

dagenham

surely that is for the female to decide and as it's a swinging site I asume most would as I have done with a partner

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By *iguyforyourpleasureMan
over a year ago

west Yorkshire

If I had a partner I would share her with another man because wouldn't she be sharing me with another woman and if partners are swinging together and know they are both swinging it just means they trust each other very much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's one of those...Zen like questions?

If a tree falls in the woods with no one around to hear it, does it make a sound?

What is the sound of one hand clapping?

Would a single male let his partner swing without him...?

You have much to learn grasshopper..."

The voice of reason strikes again...

I love your posts babe,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I'm going to get stickfor this...... But I'd hate it and wouldn't want to share. The person I love being touched by someone else would crush me.

And I don't think it's hypocritical as people say on here, it would be hypocritical if I pretended that I'd be cool with it then wasn't!

It obviously works for couples on here, so good luck to them. It wouldn't work for me.

Fair enough. Would you continue to meet though?"

Nope, if I was in a relationship it's monogamy for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I'm going to get stickfor this...... But I'd hate it and wouldn't want to share. The person I love being touched by someone else would crush me.

And I don't think it's hypocritical as people say on here, it would be hypocritical if I pretended that I'd be cool with it then wasn't!

It obviously works for couples on here, so good luck to them. It wouldn't work for me.

Fair enough. Would you continue to meet though?

Nope, if I was in a relationship it's monogamy for me. "

I agree!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I'm going to get stickfor this...... But I'd hate it and wouldn't want to share. The person I love being touched by someone else would crush me.

And I don't think it's hypocritical as people say on here, it would be hypocritical if I pretended that I'd be cool with it then wasn't!

It obviously works for couples on here, so good luck to them. It wouldn't work for me. "

Same here

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Oxymoron?

also the word "would" should be swapped for the word "will" if it was to be an oxymoron

Well not really I mean it's still an oxymoron because taken at face value the question is still incompatible with it's premise."

It is compatible. Worded as...would men who are single now, share any future partner with other men?

"Will" makes no real difference either, if interpreted as such.

Funny how some took it as a dig at "single" men on her though.

Personally, I am not sure. Depends on how we met and how serious. Would love to be mature enough to say yes...but I am not immune to the green eyed monster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the questions we pose to single guys before deciding whether or not to meet them, needles to say the hypocrites don't get much further."

we do this

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Happily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's one of those...Zen like questions?

If a tree falls in the woods with no one around to hear it, does it make a sound?

What is the sound of one hand clapping?

Would a single male let his partner swing without him...?

You have much to learn grasshopper...

The voice of reason strikes again...

I love your posts babe, "

Thankyou Elf, though if I'm the voice of reason, it's the voice of reason dressed as a carrot - no one knows why the voice of reason dresses as a carrot, but because it's the voice of reason, you just assume it has a good reason to.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Dose the lady not get a say in this she might not want this life style at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have many single guys shared their previous partners and become single as a consequence?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"surely that is for the female to decide and as it's a swinging site I asume most would as I have done with a partner "

Finally! Yes it would be for the woman to decide if she wanted to have sex with other men not for the man to decide if he wanted to "share" her. Ultimately it's for both partners to decide but that's another story.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"If I had a partner I would share her with another man because wouldn't she be sharing me with another woman and if partners are swinging together and know they are both swinging it just means they trust each other very much "

Yes and it isn't sharing because you can't own your partner but I get what you're saying.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?"

I don't know I've often wondered. Maybe one of the men who wouldn't swing with a partner can enlighten us. I'm interested in a non cynical way, I'd just like some insight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its not a question id ask as id wouldnt expect others to have the same kinks as us but to hear someone say they wouldnt would be a mood killer imo so dont like the answer dont ask the question.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?"

I'd agree with this. The number of fellas I have spoken to that want to pair up and the female leave fab...

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?"

I like the lifestyle...a lot. I just haven't met the right person and I haven't got the confidence to believe that it could be normal part of my life.

But I hope that lady does come along.

I respect and envy couples that live the lifestyle. If that is a dampener then I am sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?"

I'm not looking for a girlfriend on here. As mentioned above, if I was in a relationship Id want it to be monogamous on both sides.

Yeah, 'the lifestyle' isn't for me, I couldn't term myself a swinger. As I'm not in a relationship this site is excellent. I enjoy sex, I enjoy sex with people on here, the people on here enjoy sex with me........ It's a win win!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to see some honest replies here. I would like to point out that there are actually some quite natural reasons why the average male would find it more difficult to share their partner than the other way round.

So I wouldn't personally start shouting about hypocrisy. However, as some have noted, it often accompanies a lack of respect for 'the lifestyle' (horrible term) and hence we wouldn't meet someone that thought like that.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"The majority of single men I have met have made it very clear they would not want to share their wife/gf, even had one tell me if i continued to meet him, he would want me to delete my profile."

This. And it is surprising the number of genuinely single men that use this place as a dating site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course....just dont puncture her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This. And it is surprising the number of genuinely single men that use this place as a dating site "

I don't think the using as a dating site is reserved to single men, there some equally misguided ladies on here.

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By *ames79Man
over a year ago

lennoxtown

I'm not single, but yes I would share my Mrs. Would love to watch her sucking another guy off. Or suck me off as she gets fucked from behind.

Problem is I'm the dirty one, she's the prude lol

Typical eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I share my misses, i love seeing her getting fucked hard! And always fuck her cum filled pussy afterwards "

Always handy to know those that don't practice safe sex, so you can avoid them (and those they've played with).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the woman was up for it yes I would would be more beneficial for me too finally I would get to meet some of those hot wives who only meet couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

course i would. would love a girlfriend who loves swinging in Blackpool. but would only share as couple.

must be someone out there near me who want a boyfriend

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

To be honest I feel that the subject matter is a moot point as asking single guys a hypothetical question cannot work due to the changes in mindset of the person if the scenario in question actually arose.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"course i would. would love a girlfriend who loves swinging in Blackpool. but would only share as couple.

must be someone out there near me who want a boyfriend"

Nope dude nobody wants you as a boyfriend,forever alone hahaha

OH SHIT WAIT!!!! That's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"course i would. would love a girlfriend who loves swinging in Blackpool. but would only share as couple.

must be someone out there near me who want a boyfriend

Nope dude nobody wants you as a boyfriend,forever alone hahaha

OH SHIT WAIT!!!! That's me "

wish i could find someone before Christmas. feel the samaratins number coming out again this year

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"course i would. would love a girlfriend who loves swinging in Blackpool. but would only share as couple.

must be someone out there near me who want a boyfriend

Nope dude nobody wants you as a boyfriend,forever alone hahaha

OH SHIT WAIT!!!! That's me

wish i could find someone before Christmas. feel the samaratins number coming out again this year "

wana buy each other puppies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"course i would. would love a girlfriend who loves swinging in Blackpool. but would only share as couple.

must be someone out there near me who want a boyfriend

Nope dude nobody wants you as a boyfriend,forever alone hahaha

OH SHIT WAIT!!!! That's me

wish i could find someone before Christmas. feel the samaratins number coming out again this year

wana buy each other puppies?"

a dogs for life not just Christmas

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

Half the so called singles ain't single anyway men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Half the so called singles ain't single anyway men and women

"

i genuinely single though. no one to buy presents for and treat to nice things

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"course i would. would love a girlfriend who loves swinging in Blackpool. but would only share as couple.

must be someone out there near me who want a boyfriend

Nope dude nobody wants you as a boyfriend,forever alone hahaha

OH SHIT WAIT!!!! That's me

wish i could find someone before Christmas. feel the samaratins number coming out again this year

wana buy each other puppies?

a dogs for life not just Christmas "

but dude PUPPIES!!!!!

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By *ssexguy69Man
over a year ago

thurrock Essex

Buy my own pressies too as I'm a single guy

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Buy my own pressies too as I'm a single guy"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_mr2JDuQFk

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

love being shared

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"love being shared

"

Get thee to a nunnery

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

How many of the "single" people on here are not sharing their other halves???

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"How many of the "single" people on here are not sharing their other halves??? "

26 of them the brats

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How many of the "single" people on here are not sharing their other halves???

26 of them the brats"

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By *awtymarkyMan
over a year ago

chester


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Too right I would it's just trying to find the right lady for me who is willing to do that. It is more easier to find gold in the river Mersey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest I feel that the subject matter is a moot point as asking single guys a hypothetical question cannot work due to the changes in mindset of the person if the scenario in question actually arose."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a thread asking single women the same question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there a thread asking single women the same question?"

start one up if you like. be interesting to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive asked my wife to but she wont

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I think if I was on here with a wife/partner I'd want to swing with other couples rather than single guys to be honest so we both had something new for a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your single how can you share your Mrs? "

my thought exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the 'single' men on here aren't really single so the question does make a sense a whole deal more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the 'single' men on here aren't really single so the question does make a sense a whole deal more "

Most of the 'single' men on here aren't really single so the question does make sense a whole deal more **

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If my other half was into this lifestyle and wanted that then yes. My third wife was and she fulfilled a MMMF fantasy when we were together same as I fulfilled my MFF one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "
no I wouldn't not if I loved her but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm yes,with some one better,but yes

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By *juk69Man
over a year ago

Glossop

Hello I would to share my wife, but last time we were meeting people as a couple she had to cancel

meets due to chronic pain. She is now even more

disabled

and not getting better. I

have a single male profile because of all the emails we had from guys asking about my wife. A lot of the time I feel damned if you and damned if you don't with this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?"

I had an experience when I was younger where a male friend of mine joined myself and my girlfriend... It hurt to see her have so much fun with her and it didn't feel good to watch. So for that reason I think I wouldn't want to share.

But I love to be with another woman/couple when THEY are comfortable with it.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Yes.

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

We get what you're saying.... Lots of single guys ask for fun with good girl, they all just think she's a whore that is here for thier pleasure, bit I bet if they were in a relationship...... Would they just let guys treat thier g/f as a whore.... I bet most of them wouldn't.... Ours works because we love and trust each other if they're single now.... They probably would never share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty it would depend on the partner ive been with girls that have shared me on their own violition but at the same time some girls id of shared some i wouldnt and ofc depends on the guy but id at least give him a chance to get to know us both before we decided

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, with committed partners(not fuckbuds)...it was them them that had the problem with other women(or the prospect of) though....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I share my misses, i love seeing her getting fucked hard! And always fuck her cum filled pussy afterwards

but you are not a single dude and there in itself is the tear in the fabric of the space time continuum "

#barebackalert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your single how can you share your Mrs?

my thought exactly "

is it a misconception that even 'actual' single guys havent had a gf?..or met one from this scene?????????????...ooh..isnt there threads about fab couples who met as singles...and wow! have been together since?

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over a year ago


"If your single how can you share your Mrs?

my thought exactly

is it a misconception that even 'actual' single guys havent had a gf?..or met one from this scene?????????????...ooh..isnt there threads about fab couples who met as singles...and wow! have been together since?

"

Are you.....trying to make sense?! I can't see it catching on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We get what you're saying.... Lots of single guys ask for fun with good girl, they all just think she's a whore that is here for thier pleasure, bit I bet if they were in a relationship...... Would they just let guys treat thier g/f as a whore.... I bet most of them wouldn't.... Ours works because we love and trust each other if they're single now.... They probably would never share "

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

If I had a girlfriend that was into swinging then yes of course but it would have to be another couple as I would get really turned On being inside another while watching her .... But seeing as my last long term partner was not into swinging then I wouldn't be even on this site and would keep my fantasies in my head as I'm very disciplined in that respect ( got 14 yrs of marriage to prove it but it's now over ) ... So yes is my answer too that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would. In an ideal world I don't believe either party in a relationship should deny the other pleasure, provided it does not detract from their feelings towards each other.

In fact I would actively encourage her to indulge... I think a woman is much more desirable when she shakes off the ridiculous shackles of convention that she should deny herself pleasure merely because of what mainstream public opinion deems suitable. A woman having the freedom to enjoy prolonged sexual ecstasy with whomever she pleases makes me want her more.

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

It would be up to her.

I have been in monogamous relationships, and didn't swing while they lasted.

If I met a woman who wanted to play, I'd be up for sharing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If your single how can you share your Mrs?

my thought exactly

is it a misconception that even 'actual' single guys havent had a gf?..or met one from this scene?????????????...ooh..isnt there threads about fab couples who met as singles...and wow! have been together since?

Are you.....trying to make sense?! I can't see it catching on.."

a poster above and below my comment didnt seem to think so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?"

Good point,

I am looking for a highly sexed Women among other qualities not necessary on here but in the real world, Would I share her ? Would she share me ? Time will tell I guess,

I do like the lifestyle, The socials/clubs/flirting etc, Typical male answer would be I would love to have MFF meets then move on to couple meets but am not sure about MFM at this moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't like her yes

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?

I don't know I've often wondered. Maybe one of the men who wouldn't swing with a partner can enlighten us. I'm interested in a non cynical way, I'd just like some insight."

I'll answer you. As I've stated on a few occasions over the years I am not a swinger.

In the past I've participated in a gang bang and a bukkake, both of which left me feeling grubby. The men participating in these events see the women they are using as a convenient receptacle. I'm not mind-reading, I've witnessed not a few of these events and hear the conversation of the men waiting their turn, and after they've had their go.

I use this site to have one-on-one sex as that is my preference*, if a husband wants to look on whilst his wife and I are enjoying each other then he's quite welcome.

If and when I find myself in a relationship then I won't be using this site as as far as I'm concerned that relationship will be monogamous*. If she wanted to "swing" then there would be no relationship. Well, not in the sense of she would be my 'partner'.

In response to one of your earlier posts on this thread, I don't look down on the husbands or wives of swinging couples, it's just something that would be diametrically opposed to my idea of a marriage/partnership. I do acknowledge that others are more than happy in this lifestyle, it's just wouldn't be for me.

*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah for sure if she was up for playing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?

I don't know I've often wondered. Maybe one of the men who wouldn't swing with a partner can enlighten us. I'm interested in a non cynical way, I'd just like some insight.

I'll answer you. As I've stated on a few occasions over the years I am not a swinger.

In the past I've participated in a gang bang and a bukkake, both of which left me feeling grubby. The men participating in these events see the women they are using as a convenient receptacle. I'm not mind-reading, I've witnessed not a few of these events and hear the conversation of the men waiting their turn, and after they've had their go.

I use this site to have one-on-one sex as that is my preference*, if a husband wants to look on whilst his wife and I are enjoying each other then he's quite welcome.

If and when I find myself in a relationship then I won't be using this site as as far as I'm concerned that relationship will be monogamous*. If she wanted to "swing" then there would be no relationship. Well, not in the sense of she would be my 'partner'.

In response to one of your earlier posts on this thread, I don't look down on the husbands or wives of swinging couples, it's just something that would be diametrically opposed to my idea of a marriage/partnership. I do acknowledge that others are more than happy in this lifestyle, it's just wouldn't be for me.

*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine "

the * sounds a bit

cant she be pleasured by both?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine

the * sounds a bit

cant she be pleasured by both?

"

Sorry, it's late and I'm tired, can't she be pleasured by both what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine

the * sounds a bit

cant she be pleasured by both?

Sorry, it's late and I'm tired, can't she be pleasured by both what?"

the husband to look on...I just find it strange that he cant join in...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't like her yes "

That made me snort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not. And it's pretty hypocritical of me, but when I'm in a relationship I kind of turn all this stuff off and am completely committed to that. This is a single thing for me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Probably not. And it's pretty hypocritical of me, but when I'm in a relationship I kind of turn all this stuff off and am completely committed to that. This is a single thing for me.

"

This isn't a criticism or intended to start an argument with you I'm genuinely interested.

Do you feel that your sexual needs and preferences are different when you're with a partner or do you feel that threesomes, swingers clubs etc are something to experience once before you settle down? I know some men wouldn't want a partner who's interested in these things, they prefer her to be monogamous, is it that?

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"

This. And it is surprising the number of genuinely single men that use this place as a dating site

I don't think the using as a dating site is reserved to single men, there some equally misguided ladies on here. "

I don't think either are 'misguided' but as I message men I encounter that

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Purely a guess but maybe a single guy who says they wouldn't swing with a future partner is probably on here looking for a highly sexed girlfriend and is not really into the lifestyle at all?

I don't know I've often wondered. Maybe one of the men who wouldn't swing with a partner can enlighten us. I'm interested in a non cynical way, I'd just like some insight.

I'll answer you. As I've stated on a few occasions over the years I am not a swinger.

In the past I've participated in a gang bang and a bukkake, both of which left me feeling grubby. The men participating in these events see the women they are using as a convenient receptacle. I'm not mind-reading, I've witnessed not a few of these events and hear the conversation of the men waiting their turn, and after they've had their go.

I use this site to have one-on-one sex as that is my preference*, if a husband wants to look on whilst his wife and I are enjoying each other then he's quite welcome.

If and when I find myself in a relationship then I won't be using this site as as far as I'm concerned that relationship will be monogamous*. If she wanted to "swing" then there would be no relationship. Well, not in the sense of she would be my 'partner'.

In response to one of your earlier posts on this thread, I don't look down on the husbands or wives of swinging couples, it's just something that would be diametrically opposed to my idea of a marriage/partnership. I do acknowledge that others are more than happy in this lifestyle, it's just wouldn't be for me.

*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine "

Thanks . I think we've had this conversation before you're clear and honest in your reasoning it just different to mine and we all know that as a woman on fab that makes me right and you wrong

Xx

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By *drenaline rushMan
over a year ago

Burnley

If I was lucky enough to to meet so so e who was into swinging and she wanted to continue yes I'd agree and encourage her to be nUghty, but would be her that would choose if she wanted to to be shared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having swung with several partners (female) both with single guys and couples then I can say YES!

However, in my / our experience most single guys are a bit on the 'Jack' side.

They like to play with other people's toys but don't share theirs.

Btw the term ' toys' is meant purely as an analogy ...

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine

the * sounds a bit

cant she be pleasured by both?

Sorry, it's late and I'm tired, can't she be pleasured by both what?

the husband to look on...I just find it strange that he cant join in..."

Ahhhh, gotcha... It's just that when I'm doing what I'm doing, I don't want to have another male and his appendages getting in my way.

Plus, as you know, there are many couples where the male is happy to take a backseat.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Thanks . I think we've had this conversation before you're clear and honest in your reasoning it just different to mine and we all know that as a woman on fab that makes me right and you wrong

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine

the * sounds a bit

cant she be pleasured by both?

Sorry, it's late and I'm tired, can't she be pleasured by both what?

the husband to look on...I just find it strange that he cant join in...

Ahhhh, gotcha... It's just that when I'm doing what I'm doing, I don't want to have another male and his appendages getting in my way.

Plus, as you know, there are many couples where the male is happy to take a backseat."

yeah...he might sit back and be watching your arse as you bang away

I prefer a participating hubby and a non directing one...and usually I'll enjoy being able to see his focus is more on his partner than me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably not. And it's pretty hypocritical of me, but when I'm in a relationship I kind of turn all this stuff off and am completely committed to that. This is a single thing for me.

This isn't a criticism or intended to start an argument with you I'm genuinely interested.

Do you feel that your sexual needs and preferences are different when you're with a partner or do you feel that threesomes, swingers clubs etc are something to experience once before you settle down? I know some men wouldn't want a partner who's interested in these things, they prefer her to be monogamous, is it that?"

In my mind and no matter how great sex is from things like this and in clubs. It doesn't really beat being committed to one person and the monogamous sex that is shared between two people. So maybe the relationship just occupies the space that I might otherwise fill with swinging stuff while single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

If she'd let me!!

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"*Here's the hypocrite in me: more than one female, preferably bi, and me is fine

the * sounds a bit

cant she be pleasured by both?

Sorry, it's late and I'm tired, can't she be pleasured by both what?

the husband to look on...I just find it strange that he cant join in...

Ahhhh, gotcha... It's just that when I'm doing what I'm doing, I don't want to have another male and his appendages getting in my way.

Plus, as you know, there are many couples where the male is happy to take a backseat.

yeah...he might sit back and be watching your arse as you bang away

I prefer a participating hubby and a non directing one...and usually I'll enjoy being able to see his focus is more on his partner than me..."

He can watch my arse all he likes, he won't be touching it . . . There is no directing. Just silent watching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've taken a back seat and watched many a black guy have my wife. And it's fun for all. But when I've been told that's what I'm expected to do. It hasn't happened. It's still my train set. You play on my terms.

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By *encarolCouple
over a year ago

Tyneside

If your single, you wont have a GF or a Wife !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Erm. As a single man I don't have a wife or gf? Or is this another of those 'all single guys are really married or in a relationship and are therefore cheating bastards' thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

Erm. As a single man I don't have a wife or gf? Or is this another of those 'all single guys are really married or in a relationship and are therefore cheating bastards' thread? "

I read it as,if you ever got a wife or gf would you share. I thought it was obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

Erm. As a single man I don't have a wife or gf? Or is this another of those 'all single guys are really married or in a relationship and are therefore cheating bastards' thread?

I read it as,if you ever got a wife or gf would you share. I thought it was obvious "

It's not just me thinking "for fuck sake!" then...

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By *he-Hosiery-GentMan
over a year ago

Older Hot Bearded Guy


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

If I had a girlfriend, no way.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

Erm. As a single man I don't have a wife or gf? Or is this another of those 'all single guys are really married or in a relationship and are therefore cheating bastards' thread?

I read it as,if you ever got a wife or gf would you share. I thought it was obvious "

people are just being pedantic methinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

Erm. As a single man I don't have a wife or gf? Or is this another of those 'all single guys are really married or in a relationship and are therefore cheating bastards' thread?

I read it as,if you ever got a wife or gf would you share. I thought it was obvious

people are just being pedantic methinks"

No no, they are being pedants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the 'single' men on here aren't really single so the question does make a sense a whole deal more

Most of the 'single' men on here aren't really single so the question does make sense a whole deal more **"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the questions we pose to single guys before deciding whether or not to meet them, needles to say the hypocrites don't get much further."

Do you ask single women the same question?

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

if she wanted to try it I would have no qualms at all.....

if she didn't want to try it... i would stop swinging.....

i think the uneasy truth is that a lot of single guys look down on the man of couples and think there must be something missing for them to want to do this....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

if she wanted to try it I would have no qualms at all.....

if she didn't want to try it... i would stop swinging.....

i think the uneasy truth is that a lot of single guys look down on the man of couples and think there must be something missing for them to want to do this...."

a few guys used to message us(my x fab gfs)in messages or chat, saying theyd be better than me...I just laughed it off and told them to find a meet..as they didnt appear to have any.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely if they had a wife or gf they wouldn't be a single male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"surely if they had a wife or gf they wouldn't be a single male?"

GAH!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

Erm. As a single man I don't have a wife or gf? Or is this another of those 'all single guys are really married or in a relationship and are therefore cheating bastards' thread?

I read it as,if you ever got a wife or gf would you share. I thought it was obvious

people are just being pedantic methinks

No no, they are being pedants."

But you let "methinks" slide as a real word

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"surely if they had a wife or gf they wouldn't be a single male?

GAH! "

Thankfully some people also notice that

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

I think they mean, if and when you get one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

This. And it is surprising the number of genuinely single men that use this place as a dating site

I don't think the using as a dating site is reserved to single men, there some equally misguided ladies on here. "

Misguided my arse. Perhaps we just know what we want and have a different perspective to you. Which, funnily enough, is permissible.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I think they mean, if and when you get one? "

But the problem is peoples mindset changes as part of a couple so what they may think now they might not think as part of a couple so the question is moot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Share makes it sounds like shed be some piece of property I'm loaning out like a lawn mower.

If she wanted an open sexual relationship like swinging where it's just sex and fun then maybe I've been swinging with a partner in the last but that was only with other women as she wanted to explore her bi side.

Not sure how I'd cope with the woman I love with another man.

If she wanted an open/polyampurus relationship then no I don't think I'd cope well with that so probably would let her go her own way.

However I think more relevant would be if the other half wanted it as let's face either it's unlikely given swinging is a minority action

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I think they mean, if and when you get one?

But the problem is peoples mindset changes as part of a couple so what they may think now they might not think as part of a couple so the question is moot."

When I was meeting single guys as a single fem many would openly state that they would not let their wife or girlfriend do such a thing, when they got one. I do agree though that when you are a couple, things change. We met here as singles and now rarely go beyond soft swing, unless it is Mr with another man. So many couples come to swinging from a vanilla relationships but at the moment it seems like ours is going the other way. We love the social aspect of the scene .... but that's where it is for now. Not sure if this is because we are a couple .... Mr has no problems with me meeting any other guys, but I am not feeling any desire for that.

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"I think they mean, if and when you get one?

But the problem is peoples mindset changes as part of a couple so what they may think now they might not think as part of a couple so the question is moot.

When I was meeting single guys as a single fem many would openly state that they would not let their wife or girlfriend do such a thing, when they got one. I do agree though that when you are a couple, things change. We met here as singles and now rarely go beyond soft swing, unless it is Mr with another man. So many couples come to swinging from a vanilla relationships but at the moment it seems like ours is going the other way. We love the social aspect of the scene .... but that's where it is for now. Not sure if this is because we are a couple .... Mr has no problems with me meeting any other guys, but I am not feeling any desire for that."

exactly,everyone is different and will look at things from different viewpoints depending on circumstances,some guys might meet a girl who likes to swing and be ok with it others may not there is no definitive answer to the OP's questio as the human mind can swing one way and the other.(no pun intended)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From what we have been gold by the majority of single guys we have met , the answer would be no they wouldn't . Hypocritical by their own admission ....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the questions we pose to single guys before deciding whether or not to meet them, needles to say the hypocrites don't get much further."
I certainly would, you cannot have your cake and eat it ... So to speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the questions we pose to single guys before deciding whether or not to meet them, needles to say the hypocrites don't get much further."

How would it make them hypocrites though?

Or is it a case of in your relationship the desicion to swing is purely the man's and the woman is just forced to agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Duh

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oxymoron?

Not really, I'd say it is pretty obvious what we mean. "

When I have been in a relationship I have done so happily, it turns me on

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Good question.

We find many single guys are very open minded,and very willing to be promiscuous,within other people's relationships.

Not quite so,within their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly I don't think I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

if she wanted to try it I would have no qualms at all.....

if she didn't want to try it... i would stop swinging.....

i think the uneasy truth is that a lot of single guys look down on the man of couples and think there must be something missing for them to want to do this...."

Absolutely nailed it!

As I said before I have swung with previous partners...

And I know the guys do think there is something wrong with any guy who lets other guys fuck his GF...

Uncomfortable truth....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the questions we pose to single guys before deciding whether or not to meet them, needles to say the hypocrites don't get much further.

How would it make them hypocrites though?

Or is it a case of in your relationship the desicion to swing is purely the man's and the woman is just forced to agree?"

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Yes - no question. But she's not interested in sex - so bit of a moot point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had partners who I would never have considered sharing.

The one I love like no other though; yes.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

if she wanted to try it I would have no qualms at all.....

if she didn't want to try it... i would stop swinging.....

i think the uneasy truth is that a lot of single guys look down on the man of couples and think there must be something missing for them to want to do this....

Absolutely nailed it!

As I said before I have swung with previous partners...

And I know the guys do think there is something wrong with any guy who lets other guys fuck his GF...

Uncomfortable truth....

"

Firstly...not all guys are the same. I, for one, have a healthy respect for the emotional security that these couples demonstrate and I always sing the praises of swinging to my vanilla friends.

Secondly, if a guy does think this, how do you know? Do they make it obvious with every thrust or just call you a name to your face ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell yes after meeting couples id be well up to if she was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have shared my GF's. Encouraged them to fuck other men, but never forced or insisted they did if it didn't turn them on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes . And have done more than once . Great fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

if she wanted to try it I would have no qualms at all.....

if she didn't want to try it... i would stop swinging.....

i think the uneasy truth is that a lot of single guys look down on the man of couples and think there must be something missing for them to want to do this....

Absolutely nailed it!

As I said before I have swung with previous partners...

And I know the guys do think there is something wrong with any guy who lets other guys fuck his GF...

Uncomfortable truth....

"

There's something wrong with any guy who sees women as a kind of possession or trophy or object

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over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

if she wanted to try it I would have no qualms at all.....

if she didn't want to try it... i would stop swinging.....

i think the uneasy truth is that a lot of single guys look down on the man of couples and think there must be something missing for them to want to do this....

Absolutely nailed it!

As I said before I have swung with previous partners...

And I know the guys do think there is something wrong with any guy who lets other guys fuck his GF...

Uncomfortable truth....

Firstly...not all guys are the same. I, for one, have a healthy respect for the emotional security that these couples demonstrate and I always sing the praises of swinging to my vanilla friends.

Secondly, if a guy does think this, how do you know? Do they make it obvious with every thrust or just call you a name to your face ? "

How would anyone know what they really think? Unless they said it in which case that's rude.

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I think this is imposible to answer as although I would happily share this future partner may of course not be interested. But to put things in context I have swung with my ex and would again.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man?

if she wanted to try it I would have no qualms at all.....

if she didn't want to try it... i would stop swinging.....

i think the uneasy truth is that a lot of single guys look down on the man of couples and think there must be something missing for them to want to do this....

Absolutely nailed it!

As I said before I have swung with previous partners...

And I know the guys do think there is something wrong with any guy who lets other guys fuck his GF...

Uncomfortable truth....

Firstly...not all guys are the same. I, for one, have a healthy respect for the emotional security that these couples demonstrate and I always sing the praises of swinging to my vanilla friends.

Secondly, if a guy does think this, how do you know? Do they make it obvious with every thrust or just call you a name to your face ? "

Firstly...how do you find the guys with the healthy respect.

On the Internet you can be,the guy with the healthy respect.

In reality you could be the guy,Who's looking to get his dick sucked,by some sad wankers wife.

On the Internet,you just have to be the person,Who's most likely to get dick sucked.

No honesty required.

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By *arah_11TV/TS
over a year ago

Yeadon/Leeds


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "

Yes. If she wanted to see others for sex then I would let her - however honesty would be vital as if kept secret somehow seems more like cheating to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single bloke but I think if I had a woman and she wanted to swing with me or on her own yes I would share obviously? bit hypocritical otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by share.do you mean a 3some or a longer term fuck buddy arrangement.we prob would consider a longer term fuck buddy providing it was always horny and fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what the OP mean't and I'd say HELL NO personally. Although I'm not a swinger per se, just an oppurtunist taking advantage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I'm guessing the op meant if I had a gf would I share her.

The answer from me would be no. Personally I could not share her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I'm guessing the op meant if I had a gf would I share her.

The answer from me would be no. Personally I could not share her "

Sooo what do you feel about the guys who do share?

If you purport to be a swinger how can you take that view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realise I'm going to get stickfor this...... But I'd hate it and wouldn't want to share. The person I love being touched by someone else would crush me.

And I don't think it's hypocritical as people say on here, it would be hypocritical if I pretended that I'd be cool with it then wasn't!

It obviously works for couples on here, so good luck to them. It wouldn't work for me. "
but what if the other person was female?

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Well I've played as a couple when in a relationship - so I guess that's a yes!

Oh and to answer the next question - it was separate rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I'm guessing the op meant if I had a gf would I share her.

The answer from me would be no. Personally I could not share her

Sooo what do you feel about the guys who do share?

If you purport to be a swinger how can you take that view? "
I did not say I was a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep I'm guessing the op meant if I had a gf would I share her.

The answer from me would be no. Personally I could not share her

Sooo what do you feel about the guys who do share?

If you purport to be a swinger how can you take that view? "
and answer to your question is. Its there business not mine if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So the single guys on here.

Would you share your gf/wife with another man? "
I've thought about this time and time again overnight and my answer is no because he would be disappointed coz I don't have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it would have to be that we both got something out of it. I don't get much out of a MMF threesome so a bit hypocritical I suppose. MFMF would be a different matter

Mr Yahtzee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Blocked a few profiles on here,as we think if you wouldn't share a potential gf with others .why should we let you into our personal sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I definitely would and wgen when I was married I did. Turned me on no end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I don't much care if a single guy would be willing to swing with his girlfriend/wife. This stuff isn't right for most/many relationships.

What I don't like is any insinuation that a guy (or woman) looks down on Marc (or me) for swinging. If that were to evidence itself then I wouldn't get along well enough with the guy/woman to move on to play.

But I also don't much care. I don't generally ask people these questions before meeting them. If someone chooses to meet with us when they have such feelings then they are being hypocrites, not us.

-Courtney

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