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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thoughts ladies and gents. I'm in the building trade and my hands are fucked basically,rough,always cut, dry ect. A lady who I was seeing for a bit hated them and didn't like me touching her with them. I always thought a woman liked a guy with real mans hands or am I a bit behind times.

Any thoughts?

Is it time for me to start moisturising?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure what you mean by real man's hands. But perhaps the roughness of them due to your job irritated her skin or something like that.

Personally I like to be touched so slightly softer hands are nicer for me as I get sensitive skin but it is entirely up to you what you like and if it bothers you.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

'Real man' hands.....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"'Real man' hands.....

"

It reminds me of my action man that had real gripping hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"'Real man' hands.....

It reminds me of my action man that had real gripping hands. "

That made me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha you know what I mean it's a saying iv heard before. No offence to any men with nice hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thoughts ladies and gents. I'm in the building trade and my hands are fucked basically,rough,always cut, dry ect. A lady who I was seeing for a bit hated them and didn't like me touching her with them. I always thought a woman liked a guy with real mans hands or am I a bit behind times.

Any thoughts?

Is it time for me to start moisturising?

"

Leaving aside the 'real man' bit...

I couldn't think of anything worse than being touched by someone who had hands like sandpaper. Buy some hand cream and look after them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Other women must come across this if there men work in the building trade

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"'Real man' hands.....

It reminds me of my action man that had real gripping hands. "

With a Kung Fu Grip lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Exactly her words I have hands like sandpaper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If hands are really rough put moisturiser on and pair of gloves for bed .wake up all soft smooth .

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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago

Southend


"Exactly her words I have hands like sandpaper "

I'd use hand cream at night. I started taking care of myself a since we started swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did try that for a week or so it didn't seem to do alot any thoughts on a good moisturiser ta

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I did try that for a week or so it didn't seem to do alot any thoughts on a good moisturiser ta "

Nivea for men - the night time stuff and slap it on often. Wear gloves for work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing worse than rough hands and sharp dry skin and nails around my lady parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did try that for a week or so it didn't seem to do alot any thoughts on a good moisturiser ta "

Try it for longer than a week. You've been damaging your hands for 30 years - takes more than a week to fix them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Other women must come across this if there men work in the building trade "

Your first mistake was to assume that all women like the same things.

I like a man with strong slightly rough hands myself but as I said not all women do.

You should use moisturiser anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Other women must come across this if there men work in the building trade "

Mr is a builder and depending on his job his hands can be in a right state... We have not had anyone comment really although sometimes he will ask me how they feel and if they are too rough before we meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All builders should put vaseline moisturiser in there van and wear gloves .Women don't like there skin exfoliated with rough hands .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All builders should put vaseline moisturiser in there van and wear gloves .Women don't like there skin exfoliated with rough hands . "

Wearing gloves isn't possible for many jobs... And this woman personally never notices. If a man works hard then his hands will show it. And it doesn't mean it is rough when used on delicate parts x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"f a man works hard then his hands will show it. "

Nah, not every man who works hard does a job that makes his hands rough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blimey depends how rough your hands are - i dont wear stockings but i bet you would piss off some here that do - snagging an expensive pair wouldnt go down well at all

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Hemp hand cream from bodyshop does wonders for builders hands...use it often and especially after a shower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the dishes more

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. THE MOORLANDS. BARMOUTH.


"Do the dishes more "

Wouldn't need a scourer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I let the texture of my skin affirm my masculinity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am an engineer/welder ,my hands are rough, mildred seems to like it makes her skin tingle when I touch stroke her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All builders should put vaseline moisturiser in there van and wear gloves .Women don't like there skin exfoliated with rough hands . "

I actually had a giggle at the last line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do the dishes more "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All builders should put vaseline moisturiser in there van and wear gloves .Women don't like there skin exfoliated with rough hands .

I actually had a giggle at the last line "

Lol saves using exfoliating mitts .

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By *ackspopCouple
over a year ago

Wymondham

Neutragena Norwegian formula handcream or (assuming you're not allergic to lanolin) try getting some Stokolan handcream. Both of them are incredible

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Vain man confess hand cream

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"blimey depends how rough your hands are - i dont wear stockings but i bet you would piss off some here that do - snagging an expensive pair wouldnt go down well at all "

I was just thinking that!!

I use aldis own one in the white and blue tube. I have quite sensitive skin on my hands and it's one of the only ones that doesn't irritate it. You should probably put loads of vas on and sleep with cotton gloves on for a while to

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I like rough hands.....even better if you are digging your fingers into my skin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like rough hands.....even better if you are digging your fingers into my skin "
oooh is than an invite ?? X

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

i have rough hands the size of shovels.. amazing what a pair of pvc gloves can hide

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I like rough hands.....even better if you are digging your fingers into my skin oooh is than an invite ?? X "

Maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All builders should put vaseline moisturiser in there van and wear gloves .Women don't like there skin exfoliated with rough hands .

I actually had a giggle at the last line

Lol saves using exfoliating mitts . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been working in engineering for thirty years and still have "office workers" hands, always looked after my hands but the building trade is entirely different. Use a hand moisturiser containing Lanolin, superb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Neutragena Norwegian formula handcream or (assuming you're not allergic to lanolin) try getting some Stokolan handcream. Both of them are incredible

"

I use Neutragena and find it very good. Because of my job i wash my hands endlessly each day and they would otherwise be very rough and sore.

Another good hand cream is Elizabeth Arden hand cream, it doesn't smell feminine and is excellent however it's expensive but worth it. Buying it online is a good cheaper way

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By *abcouple11Couple
over a year ago

Truro


"Hemp hand cream from bodyshop does wonders for builders hands...use it often and especially after a shower "

Exactly this. Hemp hand cream. Also, no cracked bleeding finger-ends in winter (along the line of where the nails would continue to the finger-ends).

Have a tube in your tool-box. Rub in a bit every time you return to work after washing hands. Doesn't need a lot. Hemp hand cream is also a good barrier cream. If you end up dealing with oil. grease, etc, washes off with soap - as can't get into skin already with what you have put into it - the hand-cream.

Also...

Finger-nails! Not your question, but another important issue. Ask female of couple! Keep finger-nails trimmed short and smooth frequently. Check for sharp edges and cracks - typically run across cheek sensing for anything sharp before jumping in on that group sex scene which is starting-up.

Now the good part...

Manual workers and hands-on trades tend to have good hand and finger-actions. Hopefully you have a good following of ladies and couples who especially like the attentions they can get from you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent years working as a plasterer until my body gave up. Plasterers notoriously have rough hands. Mine stayed relatively ok but I used working hands moisturiser twice a day every day. It can be found in most builders merchants.

its worth it for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also barrier cream is definitely worth using

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

You masturbate I take it, in which case, do you prefer an abrasive fanny, you know, one that offers you a fuck to match the wank?

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