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By *ilthythanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

Apparently, the worst thing in the world is single males (according to those with the strongest opinions).

Now, we don't want to meet single males, so we block them. Seems fair.

But why do so many couples who don't want to meet single males NOT block them, and then complain about ALL single males when they are inundated with stupid messages?

Apparently the second worst thing in the world (according to the same people) is couples, where only the male is present. OK, granted, this is often because the female is either not interested or doesn't exist at all.

Any couple in the chatroom where only HE is present is assumed to be *cheating* in some way. This is not the case if only the female is present, because women are without fault in every way.

A couple where only the female is present seems to be favoured to a couple where both are present in fact, and almost as popular as single males.

So the question is, do a lot of couples believe that all males should be removed from the swinging lifestyle? (because many here seem to dislike them, whether they are part of a couple or not).

I write this as the male half of a couple (very real, check profile if you think i'm fibbing), who used to be a single male, and is only not NOT a single male because I got lucky.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Let the fun commence!

I guess a forum is all about opinions.

As a male on here I actually actively block single couples, I prefer couple couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes all males should be removed,with the sole exception of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the football thread may suffer tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know why they dont block, and on ours its mostly myself on the couples profile as Master only occassionally physically joins in the fun..

If you removed men from swinging wouldnt that kinda beat the point of swinging???

Katie.x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

first of all, well done you on being lucky and meeting a female and having a couple profile..

some of us don't want one, happy single.

have seen many single guys go up the ladders on the swinging board.. and some come a sliding down the snake back to singledom.

They usually have a changed _iew then

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be removing people on religious back ground next.

racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to the OP, do you now feel threatened by the other men on the site??? now your in a couple..

as you are now on here as a couple, not single...

Not suggesting you are, just musing..

Katie. x

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By *ilthythanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate


"first of all, well done you on being lucky and meeting a female and having a couple profile..

some of us don't want one, happy single.

have seen many single guys go up the ladders on the swinging board.. and some come a sliding down the snake back to singledom.

They usually have a changed _iew then

good luck"

Having swung as a single before, and taken all the knocks that it involves, i'm certainly not having a go at the single males, rather those that keep treating single males like shit and saying they have no place here.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Woohoo!!! Single females win the internets!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say’s the guy who was a single male and now has no time for other single men now that he’s part of a couple, quality, keep it coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there were no single men I would have no fun at all.. as I need them in pairs at least.. :D

Katie. x

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By *ilthythanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate


"to the OP, do you now feel threatened by the other men on the site??? now your in a couple..

as you are now on here as a couple, not single...

Not suggesting you are, just musing..

Katie. x"

I certainly don't feel threatened as I beleive we have a strong relatiionship. At the moment, Linds doesn't want to play with another guy (although she will if he is part of a couple). If she ever does want to though, I don't think would feel at all threatened.

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By *ilthythanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate


"Say’s the guy who was a single male and now has no time for other single men now that he’s part of a couple, quality, keep it coming "

Ah, you must be one of those couples who doesn't actually read what people write, but just make your own interpretation.

I have no problem at all with single males. We're just not looking to meet any at this time.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If single males were banned from the site I would delete my account

There is a place for everyone on here and the minute we start saying certain people are'nt allowed then I want nothing more to do with it

It won't happen though

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"If single males were banned from the site I would delete my account

"

Me too also! I like the boys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If single males were banned from the site I would delete my account

Me too also! I like the boys! "

Us too,we have met lots of lovely guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ban 'em

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ban 'em "

You're twisted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ban 'em

You're twisted! "

You love me though

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Ban 'em

You're twisted!

You love me though "

Deluded also! Bless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If single males were banned from the site I would delete my account

"

That makes me three.. I need the single guys.. or I would get no fun.

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ban 'em

You're twisted!

You love me though

Deluded also! Bless! "

Cheeky monkey

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

And me - I/we only meet single guys (or men from cpls where they also play solo)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The OP did bring up an interesting point though.

When we've "researched" potential new friends & noticed so many couples specifying "No single males under any circumstances" we've wondered why they just don't block them. Problem solved.

This isn't an attack on single guys, if our tastes changed in the future & we hoped a single guy would join us then we would welcome the right person.

It just seems odd...

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"The OP did bring up an interesting point though.

When we've "researched" potential new friends & noticed so many couples specifying "No single males under any circumstances" we've wondered why they just don't block them. Problem solved.

This isn't an attack on single guys, if our tastes changed in the future & we hoped a single guy would join us then we would welcome the right person.

It just seems odd...

"

many want to select single guys when they want to.

many want to organise socials, gangbangs etc and want to contact guys.

and

some want their egos stroked, cause if they blocked single guys, they might not get any mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The OP did bring up an interesting point though.

When we've "researched" potential new friends & noticed so many couples specifying "No single males under any circumstances" we've wondered why they just don't block them. Problem solved.

This isn't an attack on single guys, if our tastes changed in the future & we hoped a single guy would join us then we would welcome the right person.

It just seems odd...

many want to select single guys when they want to.

many want to organise socials, gangbangs etc and want to contact guys.

and

some want their egos stroked, cause if they blocked single guys, they might not get any mail "

They could always untick the box when they were looking for fellas.

It's so off putting to see negative stuff on a profile.

Nought as queer as folk heh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a single male myself i know there is a huge ammount of us on here however thats not a bad thing as it gives the couples and single ladies plenty of variety to choose from ,if i contact somebody and i get a reply saying im not there type i dont get arsey about it i say thanks for the reply and i move on,however i have been told by female friends that some guys wont take no for an answer and send constant messages asking why this and why that,now its these kind of guys that spoil things and give single guys a bad reputation!

my advice to all the single guys is NO means NO and its not our place to ask why,show some respect guys.

and to all the couples and single ladies all i ask is you dont tar all us single guys with the same brush,we are not all self obsessed maniacs x

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

In the 3 years we have been on Fab we have only ever met 1 couple. We meet a fair few single guys and except for a few they have all been great.

We would like to be able to block messages from couples now because the ones who message us, and we get 5 or 6 per week, tend to be the opposite of what we ask for in our profile, or if they do match (more or less) then once we reply to them we never hear another thing from them . . . . ????

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think filthyanet is the perfect example why men should not be banned-he was single-now hes not and fair play to him and his partner.choice is something for any individual to decide for themselves.i am a single male and its true it is difficult for some singlemen including me to get a meet but i will keep trying

excellent post

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow


"If there were no single men I would have no fun at all.. as I need them in pairs at least.. :D

Katie. x"

Would that be a couple, Katie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the boys, how boring life would be on these forums if it was all single women and couples - god forbid

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By *ilthythanet OP   Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

Very pleased to see people standing up for the singles on the site.

For a single it's far to easy to start believing that they aren't welcome here.

Thanks Fab, you have restored our faith in the community.

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

what would u do without us... were great...

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

All single males are a total waste if you ask me...

...oh, sorry...just saw the bandwagon and leapt on without checking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"All single males are a total waste if you ask me...

...oh, sorry...just saw the bandwagon and leapt on without checking!! "

Baaaaaaaahhhhh!

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