FabSwingers.com forum: All talk?

By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

Are people messaging others and hearing what they wanna hear then when you ask to see them it's always soon? Or a week later? Or is that just me? ??

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

I don't understand what your asking

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you saying that people aren't meeting soon enough or that they say they want to meet then just string you along?

We find it difficult to meet without a lot of planning for various reasons and I suppose it might appear that we're all talk but it isn't so.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Famous line i hear on here too.."we will meet soon.."... soon never happens mate. Move on

Good luck

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

What I'm getting at is, people are all talk no action? They say stuff that sounds good enough but never back it up

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'm telling people I'll meet them next year.

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

Haha yeah man I know I hear that a couple of times ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm getting at is, people are all talk no action? They say stuff that sounds good enough but never back it up "

That's life in general...did you think it would be different here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What I'm getting at is, people are all talk no action? They say stuff that sounds good enough but never back it up "

Go through ppls verifications love...should inform you of them.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"What I'm getting at is, people are all talk no action? They say stuff that sounds good enough but never back it up "

Some do yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol you can also reply with, lets meet in 5 weeks time

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

Haha what makes me laugh aswell lasses asking for a verification and that and I've never met them ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotta agree with you with some people I have chatted to, I don't mind messaging to find some common ground and to get the horniness going but some people do take the biscuit.

Caught somebody out a treat the other day so blocked them for lying as its one thing I can't stand.

Rant over.

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

Haha I bet that was a right laugh

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

"I'm telling people I'll meet them next year. "

This

....xxxxx

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Some people will meet sooner if you actually talk to them more than once or twice...Most people hold back on setting a meet if they don't know you...

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

I do talk to them asking them how you are and that I've been talking to someone for like 2 week and they keep saying soon and that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as they don't string me along I don't mind chatting with people even if I know it wont lead to anything more, But I get were you are coming from,

"Oh I would love to meet you if only" type comments

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

I'm getting videos of lasses and pictures and then say it's wrong for me to ask when we're gunna meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I do talk to them asking them how you are and that I've been talking to someone for like 2 week and they keep saying soon and that "

It might be a case of realising when you're flogging a dead horse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do talk to them asking them how you are and that I've been talking to someone for like 2 week and they keep saying soon and that "

Two whole weeks??!! Wow! I some times chat for months before I can get round to meeting and I'm far from 'all talk'.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've got two meets arranged for next year. Is that all talk and no action?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm getting videos of lasses and pictures and then say it's wrong for me to ask when we're gunna meet."

You absolutely sure it's a woman sending the pictures and videos?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting videos of lasses and pictures and then say it's wrong for me to ask when we're gunna meet."

Are you sending videos a pics back? Do you speak on the phone or see them on cam?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm getting videos of lasses and pictures and then say it's wrong for me to ask when we're gunna meet.

You absolutely sure it's a woman sending the pictures and videos?"

Or what she said

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Crikey, don't ask me then... Coz I really am saying next year... December is my busiest month of the year at work haha

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

No no I'm it sending anything back to her but I suppose I don't know if it's a lad or a lass but she's sending photos and videos and stuff but you never know do ya

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

Well your not stringing no one along are you? You've told them straight

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"No no I'm it sending anything back to her but I suppose I don't know if it's a lad or a lass but she's sending photos and videos and stuff but you never know do ya "

No you don't.

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

I couldn't message you anyway I'm too young for you it says ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you've been chatting to guys, so many men posing as women on the Internet for reasons beyond me. If a women can't Skype or send a live Kik photo doing a certain pose etc then I assume it's a fake. I don't know why people get so uppity about having to prove they are real. Takes two seconds to take a photo and I'm always happy do it even though we have loads of verifications.

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

But that's just one saying I'll meet you ha

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"I couldn't message you anyway I'm too young for you it says ha "

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By *kindofmagicXXXMan
over a year ago

Bristol

Been chatting to some for ages. Have a laugh but meets don't seem to happen so know what you mean OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm telling people I'll meet them next year. "

Me too stevie boy!

Too busy with the vanilla Xmas shite!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'm always surprised about the messages I get that say 'wanna meet tonight' Do they really think I am easy or have no preferences? So if I say I want to get to know you better does that mean I am stringing you along? Or does it mean I am just doing things my way?

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

Well yeah I'm gunna keep that in mind now

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sounds like you've been chatting to guys, so many men posing as women on the Internet for reasons beyond me. If a women can't Skype or send a live Kik photo doing a certain pose etc then I assume it's a fake. I don't know why people get so uppity about having to prove they are real. Takes two seconds to take a photo and I'm always happy do it even though we have loads of verifications."

I won't use Skype or kik....Does that mean I'm fake???

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

No because your not saying I want to do this to you or I wanna see you soon your letting them know you want to get to know them a bit more than just jumping into bed with someone

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

But why is that?

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I won't use Skype or kik....Does that mean I'm fake???"

Same.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Well yeah I'm gunna keep that in mind now "

Just a helpful tip. If you click reply+quote we can see who you're replying too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

To.

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By *amesdavjow OP Man
over a year ago

cleckheaton

"Well yeah I'm gunna keep that in mind now

Just a helpful tip. If you click reply+quote we can see who you're replying too.

Haha I'll keep that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've got two meets arranged for next year. Is that all talk and no action?"

Wow you will be busy with two meets for whole year lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't use Skype or kik....Does that mean I'm fake???

Same.

I just don't understand why you wouldn't when it's so simple but everyone has their own ways of doing things. If I was chatting to a girl who wouldn't then I wouldn't continue to plan any meets etc. Perhaps we are missing out this way but because I see it as something simple and easy to do to reassure both sides, I would be suspicious of anybody who wouldn't . Been caught out in the past and trying to avoid that again as it's a waste of our precious time. Not saying you are wrong not to do it but I am saying we wouldn't continue chatting to someone who didn't .

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