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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

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over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Behave as if you have seen nothing, block her and never breathe a word. The fact that you don't like her is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

excellent lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Behave as if you have seen nothing, block her and never breathe a word. The fact that you don't like her is irrelevant."

Or that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You either tell your friend or you don't. I don't think that her being pretentious should matter. All that matters is your friendship with your friend and whether you think he would want to know.

In my opinion.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

If they were a good friend, I would feel obliged to tell them. I couldn't withhold secrets like that from somebody.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

I actually messaged her unknowingly and she replied. Then I saw her face pic. Now she either cannot make me out or is pretending so or may be she just doesnt give a toss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Do you know for sure she is cheating? if not it could be "their thing" for her to be on here....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our lass was contacted by a friend of mine a bit back.....I didn't know he was on here, neither does his Mrs as far as I know and he's down as single.

He sent face pics and it's him, name alludes to his place of birth, from the same town, same age, face pics clearly him.....he obviously didn't know I'd see his message either.

I've done nothing in the end...it isn't my business...though I did consider telling her to arrange a meet here and sitting here when he arrived just to see his face

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

excellent lol

Trust me, i never disliked her. The fact we had to watch our language in her presence and all that is what makes me use that description.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

I actually messaged her unknowingly and she replied. Then I saw her face pic. Now she either cannot make me out or is pretending so or may be she just doesnt give a toss!

He might know and approve. He might know but prefer to know nothing about the details. He might know nothing. Until and unless you know the situation stay out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You either tell your friend or you don't. I don't think that her being pretentious should matter. All that matters is your friendship with your friend and whether you think he would want to know.

In my opinion.

-Courtney"

Totally agree with this.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

excellent lol

Trust me, i never disliked her. The fact we had to watch our language in her presence and all that is what makes me use that description. "

But you describe her as sly and pretentious, how do you describe people you don't like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for the fall out if you do say something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our lass was contacted by a friend of mine a bit back.....I didn't know he was on here, neither does his Mrs as far as I know and he's down as single.

He sent face pics and it's him, name alludes to his place of birth, from the same town, same age, face pics clearly him.....he obviously didn't know I'd see his message either.

I've done nothing in the end...it isn't my business...though I did consider telling her to arrange a meet here and sitting here when he arrived just to see his face "

This!!! Perfect!

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Be prepared for the fall out if you do say something

hmm, I have not been to theirs for 2 wks now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On principal I disagree with people using this to cheat but personally I'd just keep quiet

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Op: pretend she's not here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

excellent lol

Trust me, i never disliked her. The fact we had to watch our language in her presence and all that is what makes me use that description. "

Oh , well in that case send a carefully worded message asking if she takes it up the shitter , and that you have a cock like a donkey , and can fuck like a freight train . Just think how good you will feel

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Can I borrow the high horse when you've finished with it OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to respect her privacy and block her and pretend you have not seen her.

Remember you would have to explain what you are doing on here to know that she is

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Mind my own business, block her and forget all about it.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Behave as if you have seen nothing, block her and never breathe a word. The fact that you don't like her is irrelevant."

Exactly!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Behave as if you have seen nothing, block her and never breathe a word. The fact that you don't like her is irrelevant.

Exactly!!!"

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Be prepared for the fall out if you do say something

My dad always said don't get involved in wife and husband business as my mother was a gossip and lost a few friends sticking her beak in.

Never forgot and probably the only advice I've listened too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

I actually messaged her unknowingly and she replied. Then I saw her face pic. Now she either cannot make me out or is pretending so or may be she just doesnt give a toss!

Could be your mate just playing games with you or testing you!

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I think you need to respect her privacy and block her and pretend you have not seen her.

Remember you would have to explain what you are doing on here to know that she is

My mate knows I do 'stuff' and been trying to convince me to stop the lifestyle and so its all hush hush when the wife is around. May be I am not painting the picture right. You cant even cough when she is in the house. Not literally but I hope you get what I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to respect her privacy and block her and pretend you have not seen her.

Remember you would have to explain what you are doing on here to know that she is

Keep out of other people's marriages

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Mind your own business.

You don't like her, that's plain, so you want to give her a lesson ?

Who made you Jesus Christ and judge and jury.

Leave them alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Be prepared for the fall out if you do say something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wholeheartedly disagree with everyone who's advised him to keep out of it.

Assuming you're good friends with her husband, then I'd advise you to mention it. After all, assuming he is in the dark, he has the right to make an informed choice about whether he deems this acceptable behaviour.

If he does know then he may turn a blind eye and you can discover her 'looser' side

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

"I think you need to respect her privacy and block her and pretend you have not seen her.

Remember you would have to explain what you are doing on here to know that she is

Maybe your friend is testing you out, setting it all up with his Mrs to see if you would take the bait and betray him?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Wholeheartedly disagree with everyone who's advised him to keep out of it.

If he does know then he may turn a blind eye and you can discover her 'looser' side

Really ? You think just because she's on here she will shag the O.P?

What if she gives up in a few days and their marriage goes from strength to strength? Will you still tell and destroy their marriage ?

What if she's given it up before you do tell and YOU ruin their marriage ?

What if her husband got depressed and did something irreversible ?

Mind your own business, is still my advice.

The messenger should always be shot. They don't care who they hurt as long as they think they are doing something they themselvs approve of.

Little Hitlers all of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wholeheartedly disagree with everyone who's advised him to keep out of it.

If he does know then he may turn a blind eye and you can discover her 'looser' side

Really ? You think just because she's on here she will shag the O.P?

What if she gives up in a few days and their marriage goes from strength to strength? Will you still tell and destroy their marriage ?

What if she's given it up before you do tell and YOU ruin their marriage ?

What if her husband got depressed and did something irreversible ?

Mind your own business, is still my advice.

The messenger should always be shot. They don't care who they hurt as long as they think they are doing something they themselvs approve of.

Little Hitlers all of them. "

And I thought all the single men were angry for being ignored 95% of the time

Hypothetical nonsense. As stated, if OP is a good friend he can't sit idly be whilst she's out on the prowl for fresh meat. Hardly seeking to police the world to a certain moral standard, just what I'd _iew as a duty deriving from friendship.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I agree that you are speaking hypothetically. Everything you suggest she is doing is hypothetical.

Odd that you say her being on here is 'out on the prowl for fresh meat '

I have no idea what the first line of your message means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever considered she may act pretentious around you for a reason....

Anyway that aside, I have a feeling you already know what you'd like to do but if I was you I'd leave them too it. The messenger usually gets shot for a reason imo.

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By *aughtyHOTWifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Bath

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Mind your own business.

You don't like her, that's plain, so you want to give her a lesson ?

Who made you Jesus Christ and judge and jury.

Leave them alone."

Totally Agree, leave them alone.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wholeheartedly disagree with everyone who's advised him to keep out of it.

If he does know then he may turn a blind eye and you can discover her 'looser' side

Really ? You think just because she's on here she will shag the O.P?

What if she gives up in a few days and their marriage goes from strength to strength? Will you still tell and destroy their marriage ?

What if she's given it up before you do tell and YOU ruin their marriage ?

What if her husband got depressed and did something irreversible ?

Mind your own business, is still my advice.

The messenger should always be shot. They don't care who they hurt as long as they think they are doing something they themselvs approve of.

Little Hitlers all of them.

And I thought all the single men were angry for being ignored 95% of the time

You know even less about what goes on in their marriage than he does.

And yes, before you ask I'd say the same if the person was a man.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

oh dear oh dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wholeheartedly disagree with everyone who's advised him to keep out of it.

If he does know then he may turn a blind eye and you can discover her 'looser' side

Really ? You think just because she's on here she will shag the O.P?

What if she gives up in a few days and their marriage goes from strength to strength? Will you still tell and destroy their marriage ?

What if she's given it up before you do tell and YOU ruin their marriage ?

What if her husband got depressed and did something irreversible ?

Mind your own business, is still my advice.

The messenger should always be shot. They don't care who they hurt as long as they think they are doing something they themselvs approve of.

Little Hitlers all of them.

And I thought all the single men were angry for being ignored 95% of the time

You know even less about what goes on in their marriage than he does.

And yes, before you ask I'd say the same if the person was a man.

Hence why I haven't commented on the marriage, merely advised the OP to enable his friend to make an informed choice.

The reasoning of the majority appears to be based on 'turning a blind eye' and 'not wanting to be the shot messenger'.

OP, do what you think is best for your friend. I've said my piece so I'm out now

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Wholeheartedly disagree with everyone who's advised him to keep out of it.

If he does know then he may turn a blind eye and you can discover her 'looser' side

Really ? You think just because she's on here she will shag the O.P?

What if she gives up in a few days and their marriage goes from strength to strength? Will you still tell and destroy their marriage ?

What if she's given it up before you do tell and YOU ruin their marriage ?

What if her husband got depressed and did something irreversible ?

Mind your own business, is still my advice.

The messenger should always be shot. They don't care who they hurt as long as they think they are doing something they themselvs approve of.

Little Hitlers all of them.

And I thought all the single men were angry for being ignored 95% of the time

You know even less about what goes on in their marriage than he does.

And yes, before you ask I'd say the same if the person was a man.

Hence why I haven't commented on the marriage, merely advised the OP to enable his friend to make an informed choice.

The reasoning of the majority appears to be based on 'turning a blind eye' and 'not wanting to be the shot messenger'.

OP, do what you think is best for your friend. I've said my piece so I'm out now

I would say that you saying she is out on the prowl for fresh meat is commenting on their marriage and in no way contributing to an informed choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

excellent lol

Trust me, i never disliked her. The fact we had to watch our language in her presence and all that is what makes me use that description.

PMSL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd defiantly try to Fuck her like a proper slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You either tell your friend or you don't. I don't think that her being pretentious should matter. All that matters is your friendship with your friend and whether you think he would want to know.

In my opinion.

-Courtney"

This

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

If they were a good friend, I would feel obliged to tell them. I couldn't withhold secrets like that from somebody."

I was in this position a while back and after weeks literally losing sleep over it I quietly confronted the lady in question. It ended up ok her her, her partner and our friendship.

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By *onesal20Couple
over a year ago

North East England

Fuck all to do with you. How would you feel if she told all of your loved ones you were swinging?

As for your mate he is very likely to know anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with many of the others, mind your own business and forget you've seen her on here.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I disagree with the mind your own business thing. If you are a true friend, you would make him aware of the facts.

I would be very upset if my friends knew something like this about my partner and never said anything.

I would however broach the subject in a very delicate matter.

You never know, he might be hiding in the wardrobe watching her play...lol

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By *lderlady888Woman
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

If yr prepared to tell...then be prepared to be told on....

This site is for adults who have an agreement that the site stays its own entity...

You may not like her but thats no reason to out her. Everybody has their own reasons for being here, but we all agree to respect them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I'd just block n forget. What goes on in other people's relationships is nothing to do with me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Our lass was contacted by a friend of mine a bit back.....I didn't know he was on here, neither does his Mrs as far as I know and he's down as single.

He sent face pics and it's him, name alludes to his place of birth, from the same town, same age, face pics clearly him.....he obviously didn't know I'd see his message either.

I've done nothing in the end...it isn't my business...though I did consider telling her to arrange a meet here and sitting here when he arrived just to see his face

This!!! Perfect!

Didn't I tell you about that?

I'll text you the Goss tomorrow

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By *umslut jannineTV/TS
over a year ago

nottingham

"Wholeheartedly disagree with everyone who's advised him to keep out of it.

If he does know then he may turn a blind eye and you can discover her 'looser' side

Really ? You think just because she's on here she will shag the O.P?

What if she gives up in a few days and their marriage goes from strength to strength? Will you still tell and destroy their marriage ?

What if she's given it up before you do tell and YOU ruin their marriage ?

What if her husband got depressed and did something irreversible ?

Mind your own business, is still my advice.

The messenger should always be shot. They don't care who they hurt as long as they think they are doing something they themselvs approve of.

Little Hitlers all of them. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is he your friend? Do you think he would know about her being on here?

If it was my friend, and I knew that their partner was cheating on them behind their back for no reason other than sex, I would broach the subject with them.

And to the people going "would you like it if she told your loved ones", dont be silly. Hes telling one person - the person she is cheating on. He isnt proposing telling her family and friends.

I bet the majority of the people on here saying "Keep quiet" would have a different opinion if they saw their friends partner out in a pub cheating on them. I cant see what difference it makes if its on Fabs. If they are cheating on your friend, thats the only criteria you need to make your judgement on. The location is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a close friend I would definitely tell, if he knows and approves then all is good. However, if he didn't know then at least he is now in a position to make a clear decision on whether he wishes to stay or leave. If you're in a relationship in which you have both agreed to br exclusive to one another you should both respect each others wishes, if someone cannot be faithful then tbe the other person deserves the right to be free to find someone who can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If yr prepared to tell...then be prepared to be told on....

This site is for adults who have an agreement that the site stays its own entity...

You may not like her but thats no reason to out her. Everybody has their own reasons for being here, but we all agree to respect them x"

I never made any such agreement that what happens on this site stays on this site... Not to my knowledge anyway.

We don't agree to respect other peoples reasons for being here at all. I certainly don't respect the reasons that lots of people are here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you need to respect her privacy and block her and pretend you have not seen her.

Remember you would have to explain what you are doing on here to know that she is

Dilemma and a half, and as all these kind of posts we're only hearing a small version of the facts to make an informed decision.

Still don't get what you mean about her. So is she all disproving about the lifestyle? However here's the thing he might already know about what she's upto and could be why wants you to stop the lifestyle as he knows that at some point you'd find his partner. Maybe she does know that it's you and for her shagging his mate is something she wants even if he doesn't.

You could tell him, could tell her that you know who she is and ask does her hubby know or just block and stay out of it. It's your decision to make and none of us here can make that decision for you.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

So, assuming he already knows, and I go ahead and tell him only to find out he already knows; no harm done, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the other side of it tell him and he don't know you break up a family by telling him and probably loose a friend as well but it's your call

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So, assuming he already knows, and I go ahead and tell him only to find out he already knows; no harm done, right?

Possibly not no. Before you do tell your friend what you know question your own motives for doing so and if there's any element of trying to take either of them down a peg because they're either pretentious, sly or have tried to talk you out of doing this then think again. However if you sincerely want to help and support both of them through what might be a difficult time in their marriage then do it but choose your words and your time very carefully.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I would have to tell the friend I'm afraid

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By *orders2forUCouple
over a year ago

Hawick

Actually has anyone considered that the friend in truth knows?

Block the profile and keep mouth zipped it is none of your business frankly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Actually has anyone considered that the friend in truth knows?

Block the profile and keep mouth zipped it is none of your business frankly.

L2"

Yes lots of us have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not really your problem, so probably best to put the spoon away

Alice

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over a year ago

I'd tell him. My best friend saw my husband on here. A single profile and told me. In the end it has ended our marriage. But that's what he deserved for cheating on me. It's horrible to know others know your partner is cheating and said nothing. I'm glad my friend did tell me otherwise I'd still be married to a man that thinks cheating is acceptable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol a year or so ago we had a reply from a admittedly gorgeous couple from the same village. They having met them the most pompous stuck up couple I have ever worked for on a building job.They sent us a message and we asked for face pics and we sent them some back of us in masquerade masks .

His Mrs was in a pic with a BBC,fem to fem and group and he was des ribbed as sub cuckold husband .Nothing wrong with any of it but just brought a little smile h ow they looked f own on the preserved like while bedding those further away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion and take it or leave it your choice.

Does the lady know it's you?

If not then send her a PM. Do not reveal your true identity but drop enough info to let her know you are familiar with both her and her husband on a personal level.

Wait for the reaction.

If she is on here with his knowledge she will come clean, she is the rabbit caught in the headlights looking to run and hide.

If he doesn't know and going by his attitude to you being on then it's highly unlikely he is aware of her extra marital playtime.

Let her know anonymously you know her and what she is doing.

If she has any sense she will delete her profile

If not the. It's down to you and your conscience what you do

Personally I would stay well clear but be prepared to clear the train wreck when he finds out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd tell him. My best friend saw my husband on here. A single profile and told me. In the end it has ended our marriage. But that's what he deserved for cheating on me. It's horrible to know others know your partner is cheating and said nothing. I'm glad my friend did tell me otherwise I'd still be married to a man that thinks cheating is acceptable! "

This is the downside of it all .

Yes we are all here for NSA sex .

Yes it can be a secret life .

Yes I am sure there are lots of cheaters on here .

Yes we have played with quite a few .

But can NSA sex really be that simple ?

We certainly don't intentionally hurt anyone , nor do we engage in anything other than the sexual thrill of a meet . We don't want to know anything more about those we play with , other than that we are sexually compatible .

We certainly don't want to know if they are in a relationship , but on the other hand we definately don't want to encourage cheating .

A dilemma .......

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

If she's as uppity as you say, they could be in a D/s or cuckold situation?

Personally, if you were a good pal of mine, I'd want to know. There are plenty of yays and neighs on here but only you can make the decision.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, assuming he already knows, and I go ahead and tell him only to find out he already knows; no harm done, right?

Why the winky face?

Seems to me that you may have a hidden agenda.....

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"You either tell your friend or you don't. I don't think that her being pretentious should matter. All that matters is your friendship with your friend and whether you think he would want to know.

In my opinion.

-Courtney"

This!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's none of your business as you don't and can never know the full facts, no matter what you think you might know and what he or she might tell you.

No one ever knows fully what goes on in some one else's relationship.

Move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because she's on here does it mean she is actually cheating???

Does she have veri's to say she has?

She might well be one of those lovely time wasters we all love so much!!

Just on here for some attention that she doesn't get at home?

Unless you know absolutely everything about their marriage then stay well out of it.

Were all on here for NSA sex, that to most of society is deemed to be immoral so why take the moral high ground over someone being married?

If this type of lifestyle was classed as morally acceptable why hide it from your families and 'vanilla' friends.

Get off your moral high horses!

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple
over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

It's really none of your business, you don't know what goes on behind closed doors, it could well be an agreement that they have between the two of them.

Block her and forget that you've seen her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's your good friend I'd show him the profile and say do you know about this? If he does, no harm done, if he doesn't he can decide what to do with that information.

I can only advise based on what I would do in the same situation and if I was in a relationship and a friend saw my fella on here without my knowledge, I would want to be told.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's really none of your business, you don't know what goes on behind closed doors, it could well be an agreement that they have between the two of them.

Block her and forget that you've seen her profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regardless of what you think of her, if he's truly your friend you can't keep it from him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Regardless of what you think of her, if he's truly your friend you can't keep it from him"

I'm sorry but this is utter nonsense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't get involved.

don't block.just keep an eye on her and check her photo updates and have a good wank haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, assuming he already knows, and I go ahead and tell him only to find out he already knows; no harm done, right?

A he won't fuck you, if you dob her in though will she?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, assuming he already knows, and I go ahead and tell him only to find out he already knows; no harm done, right?

A he won't fuck you, if you dob her in though will she? "

She*....silly auto cucumber,

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Message him saying "didn't realise you pair were on fab's too, what's your user names"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

I love this comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block. Move on.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Message him saying "didn't realise you pair were on fab's too, what's your user names"

I think I can handle this. Sounds good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was your mate id want to know and i know my closet friends would want me to tell them personally i have more respect for someone who tells me the truth than hiding or lying about it. It does hurt more at first but i tend to make a effort and try not to burn bridges with people who have lied or try hide somthing "protect my feelings" tend not to bother with then after that my advise tell him but everone is diffrent

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

You two are so deliciously bad!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

"
. How she runs her private life is no one else's businness . Why are you bothered ?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore...move on... Myob

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By *aughtyHOTWifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Bath

What bothers me is you emphisize more about your dislike for this women than your friendship for her partner & probably why the majority advise blocking and ignoring!..

I would let her know you know & never worry about minding your language in front of her again; .

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"What bothers me is you emphisize more about your dislike for this women than your friendship for her partner & probably why the majority advise blocking and ignoring!..

I would let her know you know & never worry about minding your language in front of her again; . "

I was trying to give a flavour of the atmosphere in the household. I never said I disliked her. Pretentious, yes! Sly, yes! The moral high ground she occupies in their house is spectacular. If you saw your vicar on here I am sure you will have a lot to say.

Anyway, opinions are like noses....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

excellent lol

Trust me, i never disliked her. The fact we had to watch our language in her presence and all that is what makes me use that description.

Best advice ever! Genius Glos!

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford

"What bothers me is you emphisize more about your dislike for this women than your friendship for her partner & probably why the majority advise blocking and ignoring!..

I would let her know you know & never worry about minding your language in front of her again; .

Anyway, opinions are like noses....

"
. Why would anyone be bothered if they saw their Vicar on here . It would be none of their businness .

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By *rsFine-MrBallsCouple
over a year ago

markinch

Im glad you explained pretentious lol.

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By *urlyshirleyCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

Any married woman on here without her husband's knowledge is risking her marriage anyway. It's only a matter of time. You can be the catalyst, or shut up. People only ask for advice when they know what they want to do, and only listen to those who agree with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Behave as if you have seen nothing, block her and never breathe a word. The fact that you don't like her is irrelevant."

Exactly what they said.

Very few people on here can afford to throw stones so I reckon we all owe it to each other to keep each other's secrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your'e treading a dangerous path with this.

do yourself and your friend a favor, block her then never think about her again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Don't send her a face pic , turn up , fuck her and then remove the mask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

Behave as if you have seen nothing, block her and never breathe a word. The fact that you don't like her is irrelevant.

Exactly what they said.

Very few people on here can afford to throw stones so I reckon we all owe it to each other to keep each other's secrets. "

This is so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a close friend then I would tell, and would expect them to do the same if it was the other way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep out of it and move on.

If it doesn't affect my life then I have no right to stir up a potential hornets nest.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Your friend already knows that you are a swinger

Next time you meet him, pull out your iPhone/iPad and show him her profile and photographs. He will then decide what he wants to do

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I don't get involved in other people's dramas so I would leave well be...

unless asked, I wouldn't lie

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"If you saw your friend's pretentious wife on here, what would you do? By pretentious I mean somebody who likes to preach and to show people the way and very upright and perfect and all that.

Serious dilemma here so please treat as such.

If the situation was in reverse and you were the husband, what would you want your friend to do. I personally would want to know.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Say nothing and keep her in your Wank Bank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling a tad sorry for the OP. He was genuinely looking for advice, not to be ripped apart!

I personally would prefer to be told. It would allow me to take control of my own future. Sadly the messenger can get it tight but the reality is if it's all above board no one will be hurt. If it's 'cheating' it's out in the open and has to be dealt with.

I would be heartbroken if my pals knew this information and didn't tell me.

That's my opinion only, it's not right or wrong. OP, you will come to your own decision for whatever reasons. Good luck

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By *urlyshirleyCouple
over a year ago

Costa del Sol

That's my opinion only, it's not right or wrong. OP, you will come to your own decision for whatever reasons. Good luck

Interested in what the OP decided. Share?

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Trust me, i never disliked her. The fact we had to watch our language in her presence and all that is what makes me use that description. "

In that case, the only thing you have to do is just warn us if she's in the forum. We have to watch our language, grammar and spelling.

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By *inytitsbigcockCouple
over a year ago

glos

tell him hes my friend

Had a m8 in the past where his wife was

on a site and she was barebacking at meets .when he found he sent her packing

but was to late gave him a S.T.D in the end he had to have a ball removed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each time you see her tell her she looks fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well question is would you want to fuck her

Many people have different sides..

I would arrange a meet..

Once I found someone I worked with on here.. His partner knew and just all about it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure people use the word discretion on here.

Happens on fab, stays on fab. Having had to deal with an ex partner who talked to others we had meet, discretion is a requirement and not a word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder if shes read this thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, assuming he already knows, and I go ahead and tell him only to find out he already knows; no harm done, right?

Why the winky face?

Seems to me that you may have a hidden agenda....."

Glad I'm not the only one thinking this!

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"You either tell your friend or you don't. I don't think that her being pretentious should matter. All that matters is your friendship with your friend and whether you think he would want to know.

In my opinion.

-Courtney"

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