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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was wondering out of all the meets you had what percentage have you met a second time?

In a direct meet as opposed to meeting them again at a party or a club.

Should you ever go back?

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

About 40% have been repeats. Some aren't worth going back for seconds and with some the timing has never been right or I would have

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I've met some people regularly for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ain't broke keep riding it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of them I think unless it's way too far away.

Still hang about with my first meet from a couple of years back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0%

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Was wondering out of all the meets you had what percentage have you met a second time?

In a direct meet as opposed to meeting them again at a party or a club.

Should you ever go back?

"

Should you ever go back? What a bizarre question.

If I like someone I'll meet them again. My other half prefers one off meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Some. I don't know.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

about half I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few now I come to think about it but no idea what %age. I'd have to have a very good think.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I prefer repeat meets. I find it easier to get naked with someone I know a little about.

I'm not looking for love or anything serious on here, but prefer to have a repeat meet (although very rarely regular as I have a very hectic life)

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington


"If it ain't broke keep riding it "

Yeeha

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By *andkCouple
over a year ago

Wisbech

100% so far, first encounters no one really knows the lay of the land 2nd and 3rd your all more confident

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Most of mine have been repeats. One offs can be fun but I prefer to get to know someone a little bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only one guy that I haven't met again and that was due to his hygiene, or lack there of.

It's nice to see people again, more relaxed & can really enjoy each other

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Most of ours are repeats....the sex is better when you know how the other person works and what they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had very few repeat meets x maybe about 5% of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've gone back for more than just seconds

So far I would say unless logistics wise it ain't going to be possible that most of my meets have been more than one offs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering out of all the meets you had what percentage have you met a second time?

In a direct meet as opposed to meeting them again at a party or a club.

Should you ever go back?

"
all except the ones I didn't fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2%, the longest I saw was 3 times lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been back for seconds with two of my meets! Much prefer first meets but if they have something worth offering I will gladly have them back for round two. Only one has managed a round three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i enjoy the last meet we had i'm always gonna say yeah to another meet with that person. Don't see why you wouldn't really.

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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago

Darlington

Mine are mostly repeats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 95 %

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By *its The Spot AlotMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Most I've played with again if not lots of times I think only some far away has it been a one off ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was good, why wouldn't you want more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes seconds is good as you have already broke the ice so to speak, and you can me more and more adventurous and we think it's better for regular meets with the same

People

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes seconds is good as you have already broke the ice so to speak, and you can me more and more adventurous and we think it's better for regular meets with the same

People "

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By *estsideukMan
over a year ago

Hatfield area


"Most of ours are repeats....the sex is better when you know how the other person works and what they like "

This.

Virtually 100% for me - I think it's also a sign you found the right person, you both did something you like, etc. Still seeing one person after at least 7 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was good, why wouldn't you want more?"

Indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was good, why wouldn't you want more?"

I think for us its because that first time is the thrill. Funny Thing is we often bump into people we have played with but it rarely turns into round 2.

For me when I met on my own I always preferred one meet only. No matter how good . Broke my own rule with Mr and many years later here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not how many you have sex with, its how many want to have sex with you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of ours are repeats....the sex is better when you know how the other person works and what they like "

We need round three

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it was good, why wouldn't you want more?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends who i have fucked on and off for nearly 10 years x yet others who are 1 off's x i have one who i would like to be more regular but due to the fact we live in different countrys only happens when im home xx repeats are good as you learn more about the person x

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

This had never occurred to me til I eat this forum post... But I've re-met quite a few of my meets... And sometimes its great... Sometimes its diff... Sometimes is been more than a one time repeat.... If its great sex n you birth wanna meet again then why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love going back for seconds with a good meet nothing like learning from the first time then hitting those buttons harder and faster xx

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By *reindlyguy69Man
over a year ago

dagenham

always go back if there is good chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80% of the guys I've met over the years I've met quite regularly.. Still meet a couple of them as friends and for fun.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I prefer repeat meets and if I had a good time I will play with them again.

Unfortunately there aren't many I would meet again, it was a waste of time 1st time so I'm not prepared to give them a 2nd go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer regular meets and some of those lovely people I have met over the years, I see still off and on either sexually or just as friends

Not apposed to one off's as they can be fun, but that's rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not how many you have sex with, its how many want to have sex with you again "

All of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say 70% of mine have been repeat meets and its always good catching up with friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best sex I have is from people I've met before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not how many you have sex with, its how many want to have sex with you again

All of them "

Confident. Like it

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

About 95% I'd happily meet again and play.

But saddly timing and location have meant there are those I have yet to have the pleasure of a repeat with!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 I have met more than once. Out of the God knows how many I've met. Only do repeat meets with 1 at the moment.

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By *anfiona2Couple
over a year ago

ramsgate

I can't think of anyone we only saw as a one off, love repeat meets

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Most of ours are repeats....the sex is better when you know how the other person works and what they like

We need round three "

Ready when you are......I love playing with you

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"It's not how many you have sex with, its how many want to have sex with you again "

All of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when i meet people who i want to see again and again. One off meets have their uses but in my opinion it gets better the more you get to know each others hot spots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The best sex I have is from people I've met before "

See we found the opposite in general.. few exceptions obviously... But first one was great...2nd .... Well we decided not to meet a 3rd... Then you have the delicate situation of trying not to offend but not give false hopes too x

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I prefer repeat meets. One offs can be fun, but I you feel more comfortable and confident with repeats. Probably 85% are repeats for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly, yes.

Generally goes on the last performance!

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

About half I'd say, I think it is true that the Alex can improve the more you get used to each others bodies and how you big react etc

Always nice to see someone new mind to keep things fresh but once you find you click with someone it is nice to see them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All but one have been repeats. And that one was something intentionally different as a one-off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering out of all the meets you had what percentage have you met a second time?

In a direct meet as opposed to meeting them again at a party or a club.

Should you ever go back?

"

Of all the meets that i've had sex with only 2 of them i haven't met again. I didn't have much fun with them. But i don't show repeat veris either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the meet was good enough for a second meet then keep going the sex only gets better!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All but one have been repeats. And that one was something intentionally different as a one-off! "

Just writing that, I don't like the word "repeats".

I only meet ladies who I really like, so I'd always want to see them again where possible.

(that's better)

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Probably 50%

The other half get cast to the bin of wangs.

Usually because they've bored me silly or been selfish. It's a 50/50 split effort wise round these parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much all of them tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a third. I've intended to meet more a second time, but circumstances often get in the way so it's not happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn I thought this thread was about sloppy seconds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was wondering out of all the meets you had what percentage have you met a second time?

In a direct meet as opposed to meeting them again at a party or a club.

Should you ever go back?

"

About 10%

Rarely is a second meet as good as the first , unless it's a completely different scenario .

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