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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I class myself as a Bi Male though my personal sexual needs are Women, Bi/None Bi Couples & TGirls.

Sexually I've no real interest in one on one with a man.

Anyway, I have a few questions for the forum.

Does anyone else identity the same way?

Why do women and/or couples have issues with Bi Men even though they maybe bi themselves?

Anyone interested in my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might want to update your profile to state that you're not looking for single guys. It will stop them from bombarding you with messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He also describes himself as straight. A little bit at odds with his post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He also describes himself as straight. A little bit at odds with his post."

My username is BoltonBi. Kinda hard to be confused but anyway, I've amended my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You might want to update your profile to state that you're not looking for single guys. It will stop them from bombarding you with messages. "

I have no issue with men messaging me?

What I'm asking in the forum, are the people out there that understand my sexual choices ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually class myself as straight because i have no interest in people of my gender who have no cock. Have tried female on her own and female for a 3sum, not interested in trying either again as they don't do much for me and i can get what i actually want - which is people with a penis.

I don't exactly understand why you identify as bi but labels are often confusing.

Am ok with bi or straight men, either is fine with me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you finally

I agree that labels mean nothing at all to me and I personally don't see myself as bi but I thought I'd use that label as it seems most people get confused.

I'm glad a woman replied though and someone who doesn't have an issue with men like myself

Thank hon xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can identify with this. I'm Bi very bi, I will play with a fem if they are at a meet. But I do not like just a fem / fem play. I'm not a lesbian and do need a cock. I have NO problems playing with Bi males and love my bi MMMMf meets. where all the men are bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you finally

I agree that labels mean nothing at all to me and I personally don't see myself as bi but I thought I'd use that label as it seems most people get confused.

I'm glad a woman replied though and someone who doesn't have an issue with men like myself

Thank hon xxx"

You're welcome. Yeah no problems at all here. I'd possibly do a ffm 3sum again if the circumstances were right but it's not what i'm interested in seeking.

Labels often give other people an idea of what you are but can also be misleading, even when you try to explain yourself what's been written can be read wrong by the other person also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can identify with this. I'm Bi very bi, I will play with a fem if they are at a meet. But I do not like just a fem / fem play. I'm not a lesbian and do need a cock. I have NO problems playing with Bi males and love my bi MMMMf meets. where all the men are bi. "

It seems your the femal version of me thank god! I'm glad you replied and shared your understanding, doesn't make me feel so alone.

Where all the bi men. Up north and it seems most woman that like bi men are down south??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm completely bi, as in been in relationships with women. I'd rather a 1 to 1 meet with a woman than a ffm.

On the flip side, my ex bf described himself as bi curious for Fab purposes only. Like, he'd be happy to play with a man in a group setting, like orally bi, though he did meet a guy off Grindr for a 1 to 1 oral once. But to the vanilla world he's straight.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Another great post and if you ever fancy a FFM or a MMF I'm more that interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It seems there is no limit to what people wanna call themselves or think/feel about their sexuality.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Prefer bi chaps. Tend to be more fun.

Longest relationship was with a woman. Most vanilla chums consider me to be lesbian which I've always protested.

I enjoy sex with all types of people. I'm pansexual, queer, human

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Prefer bi chaps. Tend to be more fun.

Longest relationship was with a woman. Most vanilla chums consider me to be lesbian which I've always protested.

I enjoy sex with all types of people. I'm pansexual, queer, human "

I've recently learned there is a whole spectrum of sexualites though I feel you summed it up better. I'm Human! And that is all it boils down too. I feel we still have a large amount of sexual shyness as a nation.

Side note, loving your hair, so 1920's - Very yummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He also describes himself as straight. A little bit at odds with his post.

My username is BoltonBi. Kinda hard to be confused but anyway, I've amended my profile "

Accepted. Of course if it was only a label why didn't you put that in the first place?

No offence you sound like an honest up front guy but fab is absolutely full of bi/gay guys lying about their sexuality - to others and even to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He also describes himself as straight. A little bit at odds with his post.

My username is BoltonBi. Kinda hard to be confused but anyway, I've amended my profile

Accepted. Of course if it was only a label why didn't you put that in the first place?

No offence you sound like an honest up front guy but fab is absolutely full of bi/gay guys lying about their sexuality - to others and even to themselves.

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I have been swinging on and off for 9yrs and using fab for nearly 4. Fab and the swinging scene has always had a large amount of fantasists, if we are all honest I think that's part of the appeal. I get messages daily from "straight" men asking to me. Do I hold that against them, no. Fab can be a little lonely a bi man or at least in my experience. Straight and Bi women don't seem to like Bi men and couples can be hit or miss so I get why some men want to only promote themselves as straight. An sex aside some people either haven't come to terms with there sexual desires and still feel shame (which is not fair)

Is it an excuse for them, No but I'm saying I can understand

Sorry for ranting

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