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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I had the worst meet ever tonight I honestly shit myself why would anyone use someone else's photos Surely they must realise that wen you get their you will notice they aren't who they said they were I got to her home and she wasn't who she was suppose to be and she was totally d*unk and cheeky as he'll I was shitin Myself ended up making an excuse to get away I'm scared for life never again will I meet on here I'm fibnished

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is why I always have a social meet first.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

On here or generally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I always have a social meet first."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One person who used fake pics makes you scared for life?

-Courtney

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I had the worst meet ever tonight I honestly shit myself why would anyone use someone else's photos Surely they must realise that wen you get their you will notice they aren't who they said they were I got to her home and she wasn't who she was suppose to be and she was totally d*unk and cheeky as he'll I was shitin Myself ended up making an excuse to get away I'm scared for life never again will I meet on here I'm fibnished "

Was it the domme dog?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you go to a total strangers house? You didnt even check her out on webcam first?

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I am scared lol you never smell here it was awful and she had veryfications on her profile I Spock on the phone to her so I knew she was female but didn't think for one minute some one who is going to meet you would use someone else's photos and it was the way she spoke to me cause she was d*unk I felt so uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Improve your judgment and go for a social first in future then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report her profile if she's using different pics to who she really is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I am scared lol you never smell here it was awful and she had veryfications on her profile I Spock on the phone to her so I knew she was female but didn't think for one minute some one who is going to meet you would use someone else's photos and it was the way she spoke to me cause she was d*unk I felt so uncomfortable "

Op I'm really sorry this happened to you and made you feel this way.

But use it as a lesson. We've met people that were using other pics. We've seen profiles using our pics. You have to consider that this might happen and act accordingly in the future.

I hope you are able to see past this and have fun meets in the future.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah I am scared lol you never smell here it was awful and she had veryfications on her profile I Spock on the phone to her so I knew she was female but didn't think for one minute some one who is going to meet you would use someone else's photos and it was the way she spoke to me cause she was d*unk I felt so uncomfortable

Op I'm really sorry this happened to you and made you feel this way.

But use it as a lesson. We've met people that were using other pics. We've seen profiles using our pics. You have to consider that this might happen and act accordingly in the future.

I hope you are able to see past this and have fun meets in the future.

-Courtney"

Thank you Courtney I certainly have learned a lesson and won't make that mistake again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if she looks alot better than her puctures

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"I had the worst meet ever tonight I honestly shit myself why would anyone use someone else's photos Surely they must realise that wen you get their you will notice they aren't who they said they were I got to her home and she wasn't who she was suppose to be and she was totally d*unk and cheeky as he'll I was shitin Myself ended up making an excuse to get away I'm scared for life never again will I meet on here I'm fibnished

Was it the domme dog?"

Pardon?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Don't sweat it OP.

Bad meets are frustrating but a fake profile isn't end of the world is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have ended far worse James. What would you do differently next time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you leave her a veri?

Sorry to hear that OP, of course we only have one side of the story and as with most things there might be a different perspective from her side.

But if she was indeed not who she said she was and using false pics then use the report function to raise your concerns to admin!

And chalk it down to experience - you'll look back and laugh at this in a few weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the reason why we always have a 5mins skype chat before we meet for a social or play meet.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Sorry to hear about your unpleasant experience, OP.

Suggest you see see doctor about your sphincter, though. Soiling yourself twice is not normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting up in a neutral place first may have helped - with the option to move on - everybody has a local pub/coffee shop nearby - dont let it put you off just think of it as a lesson learnt - oh and report the profile to admin

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I met with a dude a while back whose photos were all real.... except his cock pics...... Lol

I was too amused to be mad. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You literally shit yourself?

I guess that wouldn't have gone down to we'll with her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a feeling it might be this mornings meet, just about everything the guy has said since i agreed to meet him is putting me off him.

Constantly asking if i'll turn up as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always meet socially first, that way it gives both parties the opportunity to see if we're actually what the other wants, and of course to see if there's any chemistry. However, we have had three nightmare socials here in about the past 3 months and like you have been put off. So it just goes to show that social meets can also have their own nightmare qualities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have told this storey a few times before ..... bt for sake of fresh thread I add mine;

My first wife and I knew a women off chat room (ex was on scene with me at that time and is bi) - we never met as my ex didn't fancy her - the chat room closed - I ended up here - after my divorce (nothing to do with lifestyle b4 you ask lol), I cam e here first time around, the women folloeed me here and started to chat, flirt and took things to another level, after a month of this, we agreed to meet at her place for sex - I had seen her pics, spoken to her on the phone, so was quite excited at prospect after near on 2 years of knowing her on chat - I drove to her place, pulled up outside what I can only describe as a Sh.... hole, she appeared at the door, looking horrid and dirty and looking past her I could see no carpets etc - so I just turned and got back in my car ..........

Why you ask after all this time ....well simple answer was the dressed and naked pictures she sent me were of a smart, size 16/18 pretty women - the reality was she was at least a size 26, looking filthy and no way was I interested .....

So she then proceeded to stalk me , pestering me at work, and bombarding me with texts and phone calls - eventually, I reported her and after 6 months of this she backed off

That was 3 years ago, since then I only ever meet socially first or at very least if meeting at someone's house agree its a meet and greet sort of meeting

J xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do a coffee meet first during the day, it means you can make a polite excuse to leave, as in you have to get back to work

It works without offending anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to have social meet first for a drink(soft or alcohol)& chat which I find it best for all meeting as it gives those meeting me the option to walk away too if the wish...

Most times when I am travelling on business I meet socially in bar at my hotel or one close to it and if all comfortable with each other then we might even move onto my room...

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