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 please get in touch as I would find it a huge turn on | |||
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"How can you dress as one for the night? Isn't that just a fancy dress night, like a lot of men do? Being a tgirl/transgender. isn't a matter of just dressing up, it's about identity and how one recognises themselves. " Well said | |||
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"So I expressed something I wanted wrong, chill the fuck out " Yeah, that's going to get you reeeeally far. Good luck with that  | |||
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" Being a tgirl/transgender. isn't a matter of just dressing up, it's about identity and how one recognises themselves. "  | |||
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"So I expressed something I wanted wrong, chill the fuck out " Just do a little research over issues that could be potentially sensitive first. It's cool to enjoy crossdressing and to want to find someone to cross dress with you. But asking to be made into a t-girl for the night just shows rather a bit of ignorance that you don't even know what you're asking for. | |||
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 . Start the thread again but say you want to dress up like a girl, not a Transgirl. | |||
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"So I expressed something I wanted wrong, chill the fuck out " I was pretty chilled when I wrote it. I was just informing you being a tgirl and dressing up as a women for the night are 2 completely different things. | |||
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"So I expressed something I wanted wrong, chill the fuck out I was pretty chilled when I wrote it. I was just informing you being a tgirl and dressing up as a women for the night are 2 completely different things. " Also most of the 't-girls' or transwomen I know just tend to wear jeans and t's when they're out and about. Which seems kind of boring thing to dress up in for sexual purposes.  | |||
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"So I expressed something I wanted wrong, chill the fuck out I was pretty chilled when I wrote it. I was just informing you being a tgirl and dressing up as a women for the night are 2 completely different things. Also most of the 't-girls' or transwomen I know just tend to wear jeans and t's when they're out and about. Which seems kind of boring thing to dress up in for sexual purposes. "Very true. Some I see tend to wear make up too, that may be a bit different. I did watch some of those trans and gay programs and those who identified as transwomen were mainly wearing jeans and ts. | |||
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"Tgirl hahaha ..... "Little boy" in a frock who has a terrible attitude .... The offers are going to come pouring in "Not sure there's any need for this. He just wants dressing up and to submit. At 31 he's hardly a little boy either. Certainly not to a 32 yr old anyhow. Fair enough he would have been better entitling his thread 'dress me like a girl'. | |||
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"Tgirl hahaha ..... "Little boy" in a frock who has a terrible attitude .... The offers are going to come pouring in
Not sure there's any need for this.
He just wants dressing up and to submit. At 31 he's hardly a little boy either. Certainly not to a 32 yr old anyhow.
Fair enough he would have been better entitling his thread 'dress me like a girl'.
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"A fine example of an innocent post where the pedants jump in and suck out the joy." | |||
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"Wow, that was like a pack of lions pouncing on an injured gazelle!!! Phew, bet he is glad he never asked how he would go about hiding his cock while wearing aforementioned frock! " I hide mine in my lovers mouth  | |||
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"Wow, that was like a pack of lions pouncing on an injured gazelle!!! Phew, bet he is glad he never asked how he would go about hiding his cock while wearing aforementioned frock! I hide mine in my lovers mouth " | |||
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"How can you dress as one for the night? Isn't that just a fancy dress night, like a lot of men do? Being a tgirl/transgender. isn't a matter of just dressing up, it's about identity and how one recognises themselves. " What she said! | |||
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"How can you dress as one for the night? " Why can't he? Do i have to be ordained before i can go to a tarts and vicars night. Does my wife have to actually turn tricks before hand so as not to offend real prostitutes? Get a grip. Swinging is all about fantasy. If you can't cope with that i suggest you join a specialist forum. | |||
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"How can you dress as one for the night? Why can't he? Do i have to be ordained before i can go to a tarts and vicars night. Does my wife have to actually turn tricks before hand so as not to offend real prostitutes? Get a grip. Swinging is all about fantasy. If you can't cope with that i suggest you join a specialist forum." I think the problem is that a "t-girl"(or the more polite name - a transwoman) is someone who is just living their life as a woman. If you're dressing up as a transwoman, then you're either taking the piss out of the fact that you think transwomen don't look like women, or you're using the wrong word and you actually mean you want to dress up as a woman (or more likely, a sexualised verion of a woman). I don't think anyone on this thread believes that the OP shouldn't be able to wear bras, knickers, dresses, high heels and so forth. Rather the objection is in the (almost certainly unintentional) comment that transwomen are some weird sexual fantasy rather than just people who are women. | |||
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"How can you dress as one for the night? Why can't he? Do i have to be ordained before i can go to a tarts and vicars night. Does my wife have to actually turn tricks before hand so as not to offend real prostitutes? Get a grip. Swinging is all about fantasy. If you can't cope with that i suggest you join a specialist forum. I think the problem is that a "t-girl"(or the more polite name - a transwoman) is someone who is just living their life as a woman. If you're dressing up as a transwoman, then you're either taking the piss out of the fact that you think transwomen don't look like women, or you're using the wrong word and you actually mean you want to dress up as a woman (or more likely, a sexualised verion of a woman). I don't think anyone on this thread believes that the OP shouldn't be able to wear bras, knickers, dresses, high heels and so forth. Rather the objection is in the (almost certainly unintentional) comment that transwomen are some weird sexual fantasy rather than just people who are women." So with that in mind he's well within his rights dress up like a tgirl for a night of fun. | |||
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"How can you dress as one for the night? Why can't he? Do i have to be ordained before i can go to a tarts and vicars night. Does my wife have to actually turn tricks before hand so as not to offend real prostitutes? Get a grip. Swinging is all about fantasy. If you can't cope with that i suggest you join a specialist forum. I think the problem is that a "t-girl"(or the more polite name - a transwoman) is someone who is just living their life as a woman. If you're dressing up as a transwoman, then you're either taking the piss out of the fact that you think transwomen don't look like women, or you're using the wrong word and you actually mean you want to dress up as a woman (or more likely, a sexualised verion of a woman). I don't think anyone on this thread believes that the OP shouldn't be able to wear bras, knickers, dresses, high heels and so forth. Rather the objection is in the (almost certainly unintentional) comment that transwomen are some weird sexual fantasy rather than just people who are women. So with that in mind he's well within his rights dress up like a tgirl for a night of fun." Sure. But as I said, if he's intending to taki the piss out of transpeople by saying that then it's not suprising he's got a negative reaction. Dressing up "like a t-girl" makes you a bit of an asshole for the reasons I've laid out above. If he's just used the wrong word then I'm sure nobody minds his mistake because he simply will use the correct word next time. | |||
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"Any women or couples out there wanna dress me up as a tgirl for the night and use me please get in touch as I would find it a huge turn on "There is a place called Transformations near Euston station, treat yourselve and get a make over, then nip into a taxi to Sweet Wednesday to be shagged senseless by admirers | |||
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"Tgirl hahaha ..... "Little boy" in a frock who has a terrible attitude .... The offers are going to come pouring in
Not sure there's any need for this.
He just wants dressing up and to submit. At 31 he's hardly a little boy either. Certainly not to a 32 yr old anyhow.
Fair enough he would have been better entitling his thread 'dress me like a girl'.
"Agree with this! The op's post was possibly badly worded - but I don't think he deserves to be thrown into the lion's den! And don't all of us wonder what it's like for the opposite sex during sex? I know I'd love to feel what a guy feels during sex and take the leading role - but unfortunately not even on the internet can you get a 'grow a real willy for a day' kit!!  | |||
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"How can you dress as one for the night? Why can't he? Do i have to be ordained before i can go to a tarts and vicars night. Does my wife have to actually turn tricks before hand so as not to offend real prostitutes? Get a grip. Swinging is all about fantasy. If you can't cope with that i suggest you join a specialist forum. I think the problem is that a "t-girl"(or the more polite name - a transwoman) is someone who is just living their life as a woman. If you're dressing up as a transwoman, then you're either taking the piss out of the fact that you think transwomen don't look like women, or you're using the wrong word and you actually mean you want to dress up as a woman (or more likely, a sexualised verion of a woman). I don't think anyone on this thread believes that the OP shouldn't be able to wear bras, knickers, dresses, high heels and so forth. Rather the objection is in the (almost certainly unintentional) comment that transwomen are some weird sexual fantasy rather than just people who are women. So with that in mind he's well within his rights dress up like a tgirl for a night of fun." Better still, let him dress up as a black man for the night, and I'll take him to a few clubs I know- hours of fun had by all  .x | |||
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" Good luck OP it's fun to dress up! Don't listen to the kill joys, people like to feel the empowerment of being offended. I remember wanting to dress up like a superhero once, God Spider-Man was so angry! And can really hold a grudge! . Start the thread again but say you want to dress up like a girl, not a Transgirl. "top guy | |||
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"Tgirl hahaha ..... "Little boy" in a frock who has a terrible attitude .... The offers are going to come pouring in
Not sure there's any need for this.
He just wants dressing up and to submit. At 31 he's hardly a little boy either. Certainly not to a 32 yr old anyhow.
Fair enough he would have been better entitling his thread 'dress me like a girl'.
Agree with this!
The op's post was possibly badly worded - but I don't think he deserves to be thrown into the lion's den!
And don't all of us wonder what it's like
for the opposite sex during sex? I know I'd love to feel what a guy feels during sex and take the leading role - but unfortunately not even on the internet can you get a 'grow a real willy for a day' kit!! " | |||
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"The guy is just trying to have fun and smash some fantasies,I think everyone knew what he meant !!!,I have noticed on this forum people like to ridicule others,how about if your not interested then don't post and hopefully some one will grant him he's wish,rather than read your negative replies x" .Cheers dude, we are only here for a bit of fun. Not to be trolled | |||
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"The guy is just trying to have fun and smash some fantasies,I think everyone knew what he meant !!!,I have noticed on this forum people like to ridicule others,how about if your not interested then don't post and hopefully some one will grant him he's wish,rather than read your negative replies x" And hopefully next time the OP posts he won't accidentally insult people because he hopefully understands the complexity of the subject a bit more. | |||
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"The guy is just trying to have fun and smash some fantasies,I think everyone knew what he meant !!!,I have noticed on this forum people like to ridicule others,how about if your not interested then don't post and hopefully some one will grant him he's wish,rather than read your negative replies x And hopefully next time the OP posts
he won't accidentally insult people because he hopefully understands the complexity of the subject a bit more."well at last someone hit the nail on the head, the O.P "accidentally" used the wrong terminology, no harm intended I'm sure. | |||
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"The guy is just trying to have fun and smash some fantasies,I think everyone knew what he meant !!!,I have noticed on this forum people like to ridicule others,how about if your not interested then don't post and hopefully some one will grant him he's wish,rather than read your negative replies x And hopefully next time the OP posts
he won't accidentally insult people because he hopefully understands the complexity of the subject a bit more.well at last someone hit the nail on the head, the O.P "accidentally" used the wrong terminology, no harm intended I'm sure."Waves
Me too. Been bashing nails all day here | |||
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