FabSwingers.com forum: Why so many

By *andy muncher OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

why so many single guys bemoaning about the lack of meets for some of them who have only been on fab for a short while guys you have got to work at it

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By *upersexysueTV/TS
over a year ago

scunthorpe

yes well they think it will be easy and nothing is

you got to make an effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not only this site! I think there's a perception that sites like these are wall to wall women gagging for it: a relative smorgasbord as it were.

The realisation we're not an easy lay is, well simply devastating for the poor dears!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of them would do better if they stopped sending stupid, ignorant or disrespecful messages and read peoples profiles.

Masterq81, Katie will agree on this because I say so

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By *andy muncher OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

the worse thing is when you give them advice and they still come back to you moaning i cant get a meet

and why do you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not only this site! I think there's a perception that sites like these are wall to wall women gagging for it: a relative smorgasbord as it were.

The realisation we're not an easy lay is, well simply devastating for the poor dears!

More like wall to wall men gagging for it!

Check out the Introductions Forum, its like Spot The Couple on there.

Can't understand any single guy checking out that and also New Men and still thinking he's in with the chance of a shag any time soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I do agree with you all 100% as a single guy I just have to say that you do instantly get steriotyped because ur a single male, although I will agree that people sending nasty or offensive messages should be castrated. I think the reason so many guys complain is because you send soooooo many messages and because you lovely ladies can have your pick it gets a little frustrating when you never get any replies. In fact forget everything I've said guys are dicks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yer i see the same moans on club re_iews too. They forget its only guaranteed if you pay for it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha your not wrong there, there are some genuine and very nice single guys out there though . . . . . . Hi

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By *andy muncher OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

funny how the guys arent posting mmmm i wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hellooooooo? I'm posting and I'm a guy lol although I think I am . . . Hold on let me check

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the bottom line is if you get a meet you get a meet if you dont then you dont,this is a site for fun not fretting,just go with the flow

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"why so many single guys bemoaning about the lack of meets for some of them who have only been on fab for a short while guys you have got to work at it

It does get boring to be honest.

That said when you are all new to the site your still not sure of the basics it can be frustrating at first, some of the posts are polite and well meaning so I do try and help them.

Anything along the lines of:

"why am i not gettin n e pussy, r u bints all lezzers"

...is just asking for a good kicking on the forum.

(but I've stopped using that intro line now and moved on...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to only meet single men... and you would be amazed how many dont reply to us couples too.

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause most men expect meets to fall into there laps,I am excluded from this btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I think the reason so many guys complain is because you send soooooo many messages "

...and therein lies the problem!

I don't search profiles, the type of men that contact me seldom have "sub" anywhere on their profile, although it's possible to read between the lines.

If I were to search profiles I can assure you I wouldn't be sending out sooooooooooooo many messages that I'd become frustrated, and anyone that does, personally, you need a rethink.

There can't be soooooooooooooo many people within your required age range, location, on line within the last week, into the same sexual practices, fit within racial criteria etc. A couple sites I'm on they have really good advanced search facilities and 9 times out of 10 when I search no one meets what I'm looking for, that's why I wouldn't even look on FAB.

I'm sure if the men that complained were actually honest in what they were looking for, instead of reacting to the pretty pictures, and read the profiles, they'd save themselves a whole load of bother - but who am I kidding...read profiles?!!

Yeah...right!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why so many single guys bemoaning about the lack of meets for some of them who have only been on fab for a short while guys you have got to work at it

It does get boring to be honest.

That said when you are all new to the site your still not sure of the basics it can be frustrating at first, some of the posts are polite and well meaning so I do try and help them.

Anything along the lines of:

"why am i not gettin n e pussy, r u bints all lezzers"

...is just asking for a good kicking on the forum.

(but I've stopped using that intro line now and moved on...) "

You really are a hoot!!!

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By *ilthythanetCouple
over a year ago

ramsgate

"A lot of them would do better if they stopped sending stupid, ignorant or disrespecful messages and read peoples profiles.

Masterq81, Katie will agree on this because I say so

It's not just single guys. We also get friend requests from lots of verified couples and the odd female, despite the fact our profile says they won't be added unless we have had some form of contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In everyones experiences do married/attached men acting as single guys have the same hurdles getting a meet as unattached singles? While not really interested in the ins and outs about why anyone uses this site be they married/attached, single, couples etc.. I am after NSA and would rather meet single men, than married/attached ones playing without their partners knowledge purely because they can get out to play on a more spontaneous basis. If the attached want extra then they will get it and it's a waste of time taking moral high ground if this offends anyone. Its the way of the world. But I did have a giggle at a married blokes reply to my decline when he replied that I had to admire his honesty at him revealing his status openly as "you have no idea how many liars there are on this site!" Ah so in his eyes much better he lie to his wife than to lie to strangers on the internet? Again Im not judging his status or how he goes about getting what he wants, just bemused at him denouncing fellow members of the site as liars while believing himself to be honest...

Does anyone truly seeking nsa want to know much about the people they have sex with apart from the very basics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In everyones experiences do married/attached men acting as single guys have the same hurdles getting a meet as unattached singles? While not really interested in the ins and outs about why anyone uses this site be they married/attached, single, couples etc.. I am after NSA and would rather meet single men, than married/attached ones playing without their partners knowledge purely because they can get out to play on a more spontaneous basis. If the attached want extra then they will get it and it's a waste of time taking moral high ground if this offends anyone. Its the way of the world. But I did have a giggle at a married blokes reply to my decline when he replied that I had to admire his honesty at him revealing his status openly as "you have no idea how many liars there are on this site!" Ah so in his eyes much better he lie to his wife than to lie to strangers on the internet? Again Im not judging his status or how he goes about getting what he wants, just bemused at him denouncing fellow members of the site as liars while believing himself to be honest...

Does anyone truly seeking nsa want to know much about the people they have sex with apart from the very basics?

Some do some don't,I like to get to know the person beforehand that why I always suggest a dinner. I like regular meets not ones off.but thats me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not only this site! I think there's a perception that sites like these are wall to wall women gagging for it: a relative smorgasbord as it were.

The realisation we're not an easy lay is, well simply devastating for the poor dears!

A Bloke wrote to me and said lets cut to the chase - just ask me if you can meet fuck me and walk away... I said no thanks Im not that crass. He sent an email back saying - Sure you're not hun, thats why you're on a site like this. I think some blokes need to get into the minds of progressive women of the 21st century and how they go about getting laid... it might help their efforts!

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"We also get friend requests from lots of verified couples and the odd female"

The friends request we can live with, however, should we decide to acknowledge a wink, for some strange reason, they decide to ignore us

wtf that's all about?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I get as bored with the moaners saying they get none as I do with the braggers who need to tell all about how many they get.

all a tad sad really

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

"I get as bored with the moaners saying they get none as I do with the braggers who need to tell all about how many they get"

We find attention seekers are best avoided

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I get as bored with the moaners saying they get none as I do with the braggers who need to tell all about how many they get

We find attention seekers are best avoided

dam, dam double dam... forgot to pop my 'meet today' up before posting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone truly seeking nsa want to know much about the people they have sex with apart from the very basics?

Yes, if it's going to affect how I play and enjoy myself.

Also, I like to know more than the name of the person I'm going to invite into my home, otherwise I'd go to the clubs and dogging - both of which are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone truly seeking nsa want to know much about the people they have sex with apart from the very basics?

Yes, if it's going to affect how I play and enjoy myself.

Also, I like to know more than the name of the person I'm going to invite into my home, otherwise I'd go to the clubs and dogging - both of which are not for me."

Yes by the basics I mean we need to know the playing field we are on... do we move in same circles might we have mutual aquaintances or share in laws! I didn't mean to sound cold and clinical. I love to know of a persons tastes, books music (and in our region what team they support!)and would rather conversation and level of intimacy goes no further. I just don't want to be in on their intimate private family life stories that they should be relating to friends not their fb because if that starts to sound real and familiar to me its in danger of becoming more than NSA..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you mean that sending "wnt sexc time LOLZ" doesn't work?

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