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right to refuse to cum in Lady's rear entrance??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Of course. You always have the right to refuse to do anything you don't want to

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??"

If it was something you didn't want to do yes, you were right to refuse.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Yes, definitely

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??"

She believed babies are born out of her arse.

Teach you to fuck Labour party candidates.

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

Why would she want you to fuck her ass in the first place with a condom but then wants you to cum in her ass at the end? Doesn't make sense

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah if we,d have started without any condoms and she'd said at the beginning it may have been different.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Ive removed posts. The guy is new to the forums and theres not really any need for the snidey comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive removed posts. The guy is new to the forums and theres not really any need for the snidey comments "

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Yeah if we,d have started without any condoms and she'd said at the beginning it may have been different."

How?

Why is unprotected penetration OK from the start but not OK to change to later on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You always have the right to refuse anything that's makes you feel uncomfortable. If she got the hump then put it down to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??"

She from this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah if we,d have started without any condoms and she'd said at the beginning it may have been different.

How?

Why is unprotected penetration OK from the start but not OK to change to later on? "

Without pointing out the bleeding obvious... Because unprotected from the start means they had agreed it and were both comfortable with it. If a meet asked me to take a condom off I'd be out the door no questions.

If she asked him, you can bloody well believe she's asked others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, anyone on here has the right to refuse anything if they're not comfortable with it.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

That is totally uncalled for . not every man does every thing he is told

Go bully some one your own size

Wasn't he joking!!!"

It's getting hard to tell on this thread...

Fact and fantasy seem to have got mixed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

Is this meant to be ironic? "

You spelt moronic wrong mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

I'm sure in your head this sounded funny

I read it 5 times even said it out loud in a yoda , frank spencer , Shakespeare actor voice , I still didn't find it funny

That's because some people never see the funny side of things."

Maybe a "lol" or an emoticon would have helped in the absence of tone of voice and body language on the forum?

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

That is totally uncalled for . not every man does every thing he is told

Go bully some one your own size

I think he was trying to be funny "

Sadly that is the thing with writing, it can be read several ways.

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By *ittenbutnotshyCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

Is this meant to be ironic? "

Of course it was!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

That is totally uncalled for . not every man does every thing he is told

Go bully some one your own size

Wasn't he joking!!!

It's getting hard to tell on this thread...

Fact and fantasy seem to have got mixed up."

I presumed he was joking,presuming gets us into trouble at times though doesn't it

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

I'm sure in your head this sounded funny

I read it 5 times even said it out loud in a yoda , frank spencer , Shakespeare actor voice , I still didn't find it funny

That's because some people never see the funny side of things.

Maybe a "lol" or an emoticon would have helped in the absence of tone of voice and body language on the forum?"

It would stop a lot of upset would n't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was funny, however sense of humour needed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you were willing to go bareback from the start then why would taking your condom off and finishing off be any different ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op everyone on this site has the right to say no! And if someone got into a huff with me for saying no, then that speaks volumes about who they are.

She should know better, if there was a particular aspect to play she was wanting, she should have made it clear from the start!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Great to wake up with a row I am no involved with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame the condom

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By *oopy097Man
over a year ago

east mids

i would have just fired it in the hole from a distance... everyones a winner

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

This is the exact reason I would never let another guy fuck me without a condom....dangerous, no condom = no play .....simples xxxx

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"You selfish twat you fuck her ass and when she want something for you ya say no typical man only thinking about your self

That is totally uncalled for . not every man does every thing he is told

Go bully some one your own size

I think he was trying to be funny

Sadly that is the thing with writing, it can be read several ways."

He was joking,but he has a 3 day ban so he said from the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??"

That makes no sense at all

Why bother using a condom at all if you want them to take it off and finish inside you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??"

Plus your 42 year old and you need to ask for approval on what you do sexually

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??"

Did you therefore ignore the request and carry on or did the action stop there and then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??

She believed babies are born out of her arse.

Teach you to fuck Labour party candidates."

what a bizarre non-sequitur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is the exact reason I would never let another guy fuck me without a condom....dangerous, no condom = no play .....simples xxxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just picked up on this

100% your choice - only thing I would add, is that's its a lovely feeling when you do lol

Anal sex is like all sex really, its all about the preparation - but it is defiantly your choice

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Good for you OP. You stick to your guns

*pow*pow*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you was right and smart too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met a girl at the weekend and the sex was amazing.we had anal sex in several positions but when I was about to cum she wanted me to whip the condom off and finish up inside her but I said no and she took the huff. Was I right to refuse ??

She from this site?"

Wasn't me, i don't like anal.

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