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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

does any body have trouble/concerns about meeting people in their locality, and does it worry you if you get recognised?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must admit I (Lynne) do not like playing with anyone to close to where we live as everyone seems to know each other, Andy on the other hand couldn't care less

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit I (Lynne) do not like playing with anyone to close to where we live as everyone seems to know each other, Andy on the other hand couldn't care less

Could be embarressing if it was someone you knew very well and nither kn ew eachother was swinging, or a relative!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to make it that they dont live in the exact town I am in.. lol

A few miles either way and it is fine. If I have met them and I spot them elsewhere then I dont mind.. its more after a cam show if someone then recognises me that I worry..

Katie. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wont meet anyone whos to close to me, i dont want to be bumping inot people off here while im out with my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must admit I (Lynne) do not like playing with anyone to close to where we live as everyone seems to know each other, Andy on the other hand couldn't care less

Could be embarressing if it was someone you knew very well and nither kn ew eachother was swinging, or a relative!!!"

We got approached a while back by a couple who luckily used their real names and realised they are both friends and very close neighbours of our daughters!!! Now that really could have been embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does any body have trouble/concerns about meeting people in their locality, and does it worry you if you get recognised?

I don't worry about MEETING people who recognise me/I already know. After all, if we've got to the "meeting" stage, then they've adopted the same lifestyle as me, and they can't expose me as a swinger without exposing themselves at the same time.

I do, however, worry about the 'window-shoppers' on here - the ones who enjoy perving the pics/cams with no intention of ever meeting. They are the ones who, if they worked out my 'real life' identity, might whisper and gossip about me, encouraging others to judge me. That's why I protect my privacy very fiercely on my profile and in the chat room.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it could be quite awkward but on the other hand quite exiting as seeing somebody shopping in tesco who was sucking your cock only hours earlier is quite funny,yes that is talking from experience,but as discretion is always assured by me we just exchanged a slight smile and carried on shopping,so it doesnt have to be an issue only if you were to make it one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having already seen a couple i was at university with, an old fb, someone i used to work with, and an old boss of mine...very much so, but that's why we always ask for face pics first! Blocked the people i know so no worries of them recognising me thankfully! Faye xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

from 4 doors down... anything is game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really not that worried- but then again, I'm single and don't particularly care about other peoples opinions. Both my Mum and best friend know I'm on here, and if they don't care.... it has nowt to do with anyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does any body have trouble/concerns about meeting people in their locality, and does it worry you if you get recognised?

No trouble or concerns at all, the nearer the better, it saves on fuel,lol.

There are much more serious things in life than worrying about something as trivial as what people might think of your sexual shenanigans.

Besides which, whoever you meet and play with will recognise you thereafter, as you will them.

Therefore, both parties are in the same boat, once you've played with someone they don't slip into a parallel universe,

they're still out there somewhere and know who you are and vice versa.

So it's not worth worrying about.

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

We dnt mind genuine people knowing wot we do, it s the none genuine swingers that just come on here to look we dnt like. as a rule of thump we try not to meet the couple down the road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We dnt mind genuine people knowing wot we do, it s the none genuine swingers that just come on here to look we dnt like. as a rule of thump we try not to meet the couple down the road. "

Why......whats wrong with the couple down the road?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally find it an advantage, and has never been an issue. Met a guy last year from another town and bumped into him at a charity event with several of my work colleagues. Could have been very difficult, but thankfully wasn't a problem. Doesn't always matter where they live.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

i am not that bothered... but it is fun seeing a fair few taxi or bus drivers aboot...

heck.. we are all here for fun, and like others have said, they can't really out you without outing themselves.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There generally aren't many women on here from the South West, I lived in Glos for a while and a search would be about 2 pages long with half of them not having logged on for months...

I dont want to be recognised but I guess they must be on here too to recognise me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a party miles away and ended up meeting a woman I work with a bit of a shock for both of us!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my playmates lived so close we caught the same train to work. We even bumped into each other in Sainsbury's.

It's a matter of respect and boundaries. Neither of us acknowledges the other apart from a wry smile. It's a matter of time and place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

everybody on here is in the same boat like i said earlier its not a problem bumping into somebody you have met unless you make it one,its not as though you have to run up to them and give them a big kiss in tesco just because they sucked your cock a few hours earlier,personally i think the closer the better less time travelling means more time playing and on that note im in tameside,greater manchester wink wink lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we used to go to La Chambre,I asked the owner if he got many locals in.

He said not really because they go down to a Birmingham club so that no one recognises them.

We had visions of all these swingers from Sheffield going all the way to Birmingham, to avoid being recognised, then meeting up with loads of friends and relatives. Priceless.

Why should they worry about anything? If they'd all payed £25 entrance fee its obvious nobody's there by accident FFS.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I have trouble finding people who know what local means!

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

We've played with local people and have bumped into them out and about,never a problem and we've all stopped and chatted and caught up,ive been out for lunch dates with fem playmates,most people can behave appropriately outside of a play environment

As for clubs and parties if we ever bumped into people we know from outside of swinging at one then it would'nt be a problem,after all they can't say they found themselves there by accident can they?

As someone else said in another post,I have more problems with the window shoppers on here that just want to be nosy which is why our face pics are kept private

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