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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

...is it possible to be too polite on here and therefore people become suspicious?

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By *eppersCouple
over a year ago

telford

ooooohhh yes just read some of the old threads,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...is it possible to be too polite on here and therefore people become suspicious?"

I don't get it ... if you're very polite, what do you think people might suspect you of? Wanting sex, without promising 'a relationship'? I think we all know that that is why we are members of Fab.

What do you think that people might suspect you of?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't tell me you sent a well crafted, polite, witty, personal message without attaching a picture of your knob?!!

You're a single fem really, aren't you?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

from experience people seem to be suspicious of politeness and articulateness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always polite to everybody its just the way i am if that makes anybody suspicious of me then thats their issue not mine,this is a site for meeting people for fun its not a site for finding out peoples life stories,so if people decide not to say much about themselves then that shouldnt arouse suspicion either,we are all here to have fun basicaly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats just it, i send courteous emails without a cock pic and get nowhere whereas blunt / straight to the point "can i fuck you" guys with cock pics seem to have all the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats just it, i send courteous emails without a cock pic and get nowhere whereas blunt / straight to the point "can i fuck you" guys with cock pics seem to have all the fun "

Ah, I get it now - it's the old 'women only like bastards' argument! By all means try it for a while if you like, but don't expect to be any more successful, because trust me - we don't really like bastards.

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By *upersexysueTV/TS
over a year ago

scunthorpe

I think it is best to be poite and what ever you say will not work every time you just got to be your self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thats just it, i send courteous emails without a cock pic and get nowhere whereas blunt / straight to the point "can i fuck you" guys with cock pics seem to have all the fun "

You can't possibly know what other men are sending! In my experience some men that do send polite, well crafted etc messages haven't read, or chose to ignore my preferences!

Doesn't matter how a message waxes lyrical: if the sender is a 5ft 4, 30 year old married man his message is deleted: unread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite, but some women don't like Mr Nicey Nice all the time, just like in real life.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"...is it possible to be too polite on here and therefore people become suspicious?"

Yes... especially when a previous post on the forum was "fuck kill die fuck kill bastard die shit die bastard kill die!!!!!!!"

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

btw... I didn't mean the OP had done that. It was an example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

politeness has got me diddly squat,lol,i think some peeps confuse politeness n manners with not been macho,n sexy,,could be wrong,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be a nice guy and you more likely to end up being on everyones friends list and no meets

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"...is it possible to be too polite on here and therefore people become suspicious?

Yes... especially when a previous post on the forum was "fuck kill die fuck kill bastard die shit die bastard kill die!!!!!!!""

damn, I missed that one....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damned if you do and damned if you don't. Just got to live with it.

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from experience people seem to be suspicious of politeness and articulateness

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Now if ever I read a statement that says people on here lack manners and are inarticulate this is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...is it possible to be too polite on here and therefore people become suspicious?"

suspicious of what?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

no inever think mannors is an issue . its the lack of them which is the problem on the site .

if you send polite messages and get no response it could be meny varied reasons . the person/cpl youve messages just arent that into you ,the message maybe polite but not spark interest ect ect .

personally id wonder why you went off site and now back and if that was gonna happen again once you had a cpl of meets .plus huge one for me is that you dont accomm. that always raises a question with me even though you may have very valid reason .unfortunatly most will think married guy and there for may refrain from getting back to you .

end of the day there are thousands of guys on here and its not easy for anyone to get genuine meets ,just takes time and patience .

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"...is it possible to be too polite on here and therefore people become suspicious?"

I often have a look at the sender's profile before reading their message. I'll be honest... I would read the title of your profile, roll my eyes, not bother reading any further, go back to your message and delete it without reading it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am polite, been on here a while, had a couple of meets, but more than anything, have had a laugh with some people who I am never going to meet, either due to distance or age or status, or prefferance, you have to be prepaired to put some effort in. You get out what you put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really sure about the point of your question!

But this from your profile, ""I was on here previously and had a great time, met some fantastic people and had a lot of fun on the way"" suggests you already know the score, so................??

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I dislike and delete and block anyone that sends me a message that is crude as a first message. If someones profile has a header about timewasters or fed up with being messed around... Then that wont be a profile that i would be interested in.

Give me politeness any time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"from experience people seem to be suspicious of politeness and articulateness

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Treat people how you wish to be treated so if your a polite person in general then why change? I would rather have a lovely polite message anyday over one asking to see me cock! Heres hoping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats the point in being impolite when you don't get your way? Just move on. If someone is rude they are not worth it.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

batman can I see your cock please lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As you said please the answers yes, see manners get you everywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself as others have said.

I'm always polite, (not done me any harm on here) - manners cost nothing.

Its true that not every girl will like you being too polite, but its also true that those ones that do will probably be on your wavelength and threfore more compatible with you and you'll have more fun!

GOOD LUCK!

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

am polite & yes some people like it some dont but dont change yourself just to be liked by some pepopl there are loads of verry nice people on here good look

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By *avfavMan
over a year ago

south lincs north cambs

Have manners be polite and if there is a couple involved and your a single man think how lucky you may be to be invited into someone elses personal space

There is nothing wrong with being nice in fact just as long as your honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the comments everyone - now any tips on getting meets, I am failng miserably!

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Thanks for all the comments everyone - now any tips on getting meets, I am failng miserably!"

Close the wardrobe door and use the timer on the camera!

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By *ax the gentle GiantMan
over a year ago

birmingham

manners cost nothing its not worth changing for the sake of satisfiying somes ego if people do not like manners there not worth talking to regardless of looks

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