FabSwingers.com forum: Trying to organise a gang bang... advice?

By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Don't know if this belongs in the "support" page, but here goes.

I have a day off and a hotel booked this Friday, and I want to basically fuck a ton of guys. lol.

Had a search of the forum already, and consensus seems to be:

- prepare for no shows

- go for guys you've been with before

- have condoms ready

- no, seriously, prepare for no shows

That about right?

Any other advice? I think I'm concerned about men being safe, I mean, I'm not averse to fucking strangers, but don't know how to go about ensuring safety...

I'm thinking of putting up a status and just start vetting messages - good plan, or will my work be cut out for me? lol.

I don't want to be entirely naive, but I really want this to happen. lol.

Thanks in advance for any advice! ^_^

xxxx

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules?

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules? "

Someone who's also a swinger? x

Or, like, a mate? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules? "

This.

I would be very very wary of being alone with complete strangers.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules?

This.

I would be very very wary of being alone with complete strangers."

*nodnod* Got it! Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend sounds like a grand idea a friend with benefits who likes to clean, would be a bonus

I've read that you should always, triple book men, as loads don't show. So if you're wanting lots you'll maybe have to triple the number you had in mind. As even a regular fb could change plans at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared that most won't show up!!

Have you somebody who can be there - not to fuck you but to keep an eye on what's going on. Making sure they are wearing condoms etc

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Sweet

Thanks!

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Be prepared that most won't show up!!

Have you somebody who can be there - not to fuck you but to keep an eye on what's going on. Making sure they are wearing condoms etc

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absolutely this, your safety comes first so don't be alone with them and a watcher for the sex is vital. YOu may also want to ask friend to photo it if that is something you want, good luck

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules?

Someone who's also a swinger? x

Or, like, a mate? lol."

Friend, family member, that sort of thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules?

Someone who's also a swinger? x

Or, like, a mate? lol.

Friend, family member, that sort of thing

I can see it over Sunday lunch...

OP. "Dad, what are you doing on Friday?"

Dad. "why do you ask, my precious daughter?"

OP. "I'm having a fuckathon, and need someone to make sure I'm safe"

Lol

But seriously, I hope you have a great experience OP

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules?

Someone who's also a swinger? x

Or, like, a mate? lol.

Friend, family member, that sort of thing

I can see it over Sunday lunch...

OP. "Dad, what are you doing on Friday?"

Dad. "why do you ask, my precious daughter?"

OP. "I'm having a fuckathon, and need someone to make sure I'm safe"

Lol

But seriously, I hope you have a great experience OP"

Well, I am seeing him later today.....

Thank you, love! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules?

Someone who's also a swinger? x

Or, like, a mate? lol.

Friend, family member, that sort of thing

I can see it over Sunday lunch...

OP. "Dad, what are you doing on Friday?"

Dad. "why do you ask, my precious daughter?"

OP. "I'm having a fuckathon, and need someone to make sure I'm safe"

Lol

But seriously, I hope you have a great experience OP

Well, I am seeing him later today.....

Thank you, love! xx"

Dare ya! Lol

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Have at least one guy you've met before and trust there if possible.

Over invite and expect drop outs in advance, on the day and not even to tell you!

Look for guys with veris where they've done similar situations, some guys get stage fright in front of a group if you know what i mean

Be clear yourself on what you want out if it (a fuckathon yes but anal, DP, DV, DA?). I wanted 5 in a specific way lol

Set out your boundaries clearly in a message before and probably remind them as they get there - if anyone breaches them calmly ask them to leave.

For mine last Christmas I had one hard limit, how hard can that be? Clearly too hard for one bloke as he left 10 minutes after arriving! So I still didn't get my 5 in a specific way but I'm sure there'll be another attempt at some point...

enjoy and have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can help you if you want but i cant message because of age filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be prepared for them to be demanding before hand. wanting to change the time of meet, wanting one on one before hand. wanting more couples there, wanting only bi men there too.

I had one today, told him what was on offer ect.He said yes, a few mails later he'd totally turned the meet around to suit his needs.

It was my meet and my fantasy not his, he was invited as the guest.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

I know its been mentioned already but no shows will be the usual. If you want 3 guys to show up ask 15

Security, when I have done hotel meets we (usually meet alongside Missy, female kink buddy) usually have a guy we trust fully at the meet - I dont really think any of the guys we have met would get lairy but you never know.

If you cant find someone like that to join you then have a contact you can message easily and who knows which hotel and which room.

The nice thing about having someone you trust there means you can really go with the flow and dont worry when the bed restraints and cuffs come out

Good luck with it, hope you have a good time.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

with this type of thing - if you are booking a hotel - it doesn't really matter what time they show up. Whether they show up on time or show up on time or an hour late, you are still going to have blokes come, as blokes finish. You wont have to leave the bed for people letting people in. The only thing you'll have to contend with is opinions of what guys think they he can get away with.

You'll have had a chat with a few at the start about boundaries but for those that show up late, they wont know these, so wont know how hard or how soft you want them to be. You are really going to have to dictate things, by either turning away or telling people if they are being too rough as and when they are. With multiple other guys in the room, it is unlikely they will flip out.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Awesome. Thank you all so much for this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe have someone you trust along to make sure everyone is following the rules?

Someone who's also a swinger? x

Or, like, a mate? lol.

Friend, family member, that sort of thing

I can see it over Sunday lunch...

OP. "Dad, what are you doing on Friday?"

Dad. "why do you ask, my precious daughter?"

OP. "I'm having a fuckathon, and need someone to make sure I'm safe"

Lol

But seriously, I hope you have a great experience OP"

I practically pissed myself reading this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club, guaranteed guys and less stress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't a hotel notice streams of men heading to a particular room like a production line and start asking questions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you OP and others. We put a similar post up in here earlier but you've answered out questions

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Maybe ... have more respect for your self. ..

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Maybe ... have more respect for your self. ..

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!

Your question is a little confusing...

You see, I have masses of respect for myself, lol, and I don't understand how anything in this thread suggests otherwise...?

Lol.

I certainly respect myself enough to recognize my desires and wants, and take steps to act on them...?

So... is your comment really about how much resurrect *I* have for myself, or......?

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Thank you OP and others. We put a similar post up in here earlier but you've answered out questions

NP! Glad it's been useful for you!

"Wouldn't a hotel notice streams of men heading to a particular room like a production line and start asking questions?"

Would they...? Hm...

I'll cross that hurdle when it comes. Lol.

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By *my-blackTV/TS
over a year ago

Poole

streams of blokes......

not that likely to happen, and if its only 3-5 guys staggered over a half hour maybe most hotels wont even notice.

best kind of hotel to use is one of the generic chain hotels. over several floors, nice big reception where the guys can just walk in and go straight to lifts and so on.

most hotels wont be worried about a visitor or two anyway and you would be surprised how they are used to this sort of thing, they have seen it all before and provided 7 people dont spend the night in a room for 2 and other guests dont complain about the screams/moans/banging headboard you will probably find no hassle.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"streams of blokes......

not that likely to happen, and if its only 3-5 guys staggered over a half hour maybe most hotels wont even notice.

best kind of hotel to use is one of the generic chain hotels. over several floors, nice big reception where the guys can just walk in and go straight to lifts and so on.

Awesome.

Yeah, that's the set up I'm going for. Big hotel, accessible lifts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've thought about this, seems to be so much hassle to organise it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gangbangs are notoriously difficult to make happen. But I think the OP's straight forward approach might work.

If I was going to be in Reading..........

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Gangbangs are notoriously difficult to make happen. But I think the OP's straight forward approach might work.

If I was going to be in Reading.........."

You'd come fuck me...? :D

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"Gangbangs are notoriously difficult to make happen. But I think the OP's straight forward approach might work.

If I was going to be in Reading..........

You'd come fuck me...? :D"

Definitely

Good luck with the arrangements I think your best bet is a club event where location and security is taken care of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell family you where you gonna be if traveling and take someone with , double booking if at home usefull but sometimes they all do turn up sometimes no one does it hit and miss , dont make an open invite , try pick right blokes , there no right or wrong way just commen sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done a couple of gangbangs.it prob best to find a group that organises them with varifications.ours was awesome. We could pass u the details on.take someone with u.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"We have done a couple of gangbangs.it prob best to find a group that organises them with varifications.ours was awesome. We could pass u the details on.take someone with u."

Awesome! Thanks for that advice. Yes, can you pm me who you went with...?

xxx

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Just relax and have fun, mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope it all works out and your desires and fantasies are as hot as you hope. Stay safe have fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe ... have more respect for your self. ..

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha!

Your question is a little confusing...

You see, I have masses of respect for myself, lol, and I don't understand how anything in this thread suggests otherwise...?

Lol.

I certainly respect myself enough to recognize my desires and wants, and take steps to act on them...?

So... is your comment really about how much resurrect *I* have for myself, or......?

Yes, I thought the same as you in the reply. I love gangbangs and have loads of respect for myself. IfI didn't I get paid and do anything and any one for it!

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By *thwiltsmMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I have no advice to give or anything sensible to add to this discussion.

What I do have though is a penis that could find you on Friday X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only advice I can give is invite me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only advice I can give is invite me

And me too!

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Damm. I wish you did not book the 11th

i am busy that day.

Oh well i would have liked to been one of the men in your gang bang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gangbangs are notoriously difficult to make happen. But I think the OP's straight forward approach might work.

If I was going to be in Reading..........

You'd come fuck me...? :D"

Yep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to arrange. But with planning and over subscription it should be doable. I've done a few and it's taken a lot of work with lots of drop outs.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Aw, you guys! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to lend a hand. Or fingers, or cock for that matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How's your plans going ? Have youfound someone to go with you?

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Pretty fantastically, I think.... Lol. Lots of interest so hopefully good numbers!

No.... Don't have a "glove monitor" yet.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty fantastically, I think.... Lol. Lots of interest so hopefully good numbers!

No.... Don't have a "glove monitor" yet..... "

Love to be of help X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty fantastically, I think.... Lol. Lots of interest so hopefully good numbers!

No.... Don't have a "glove monitor" yet..... "

Would love to hear how you get on. Tried to pm you but blocked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience, ( which isn't that vast on this subject ), having a lot of interest is still a long way from crossing the finishing line.

But being the Mr Positive Pants that I am, I'm sure the OP can make it happen.

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"In my experience, ( which isn't that vast on this subject ), having a lot of interest is still a long way from crossing the finishing line.

But being the Mr Positive Pants that I am, I'm sure the OP can make it happen."

Thanks Mr Positive Pants! I think I bought the same pants in last year's sale.

Yeah, have definitely read that particular piece of wisdom, so have done the suggested thing of only expecting 1/3 of people I invited to show up. x

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

If you want 5 guys to show up.... Book 250.... Of you want 10 to show up confirm with 1000.... It sucks we've Ben trying to do it for ages but they never show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you want 5 guys to show up.... Book 250.... Of you want 10 to show up confirm with 1000.... It sucks we've Ben trying to do it for ages but they never show. "

Bit of an exaggeration there. We used to organise them a lot. And on average could always get 10. But we had a regular group of guys.

Find guys that are on gang bang or gg profiles for verifications... As most drop out as they think its a sexy thing then get scared.

Or for the op.. how far is donkey dicks( think its in the club section) from you as although we haven't personally been we have heard good things from ladies who he has sorted gang bangs out for x

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By *r H and Good Pet OP Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

"If you want 5 guys to show up.... Book 250.... Of you want 10 to show up confirm with 1000.... It sucks we've Ben trying to do it for ages but they never show.

Bit of an exaggeration there. We used to organise them a lot. And on average could always get 10. But we had a regular group of guys.

Find guys that are on gang bang or gg profiles for verifications... As most drop out as they think its a sexy thing then get scared.

Or for the op.. how far is donkey dicks( think its in the club section) from you as although we haven't personally been we have heard good things from ladies who he has sorted gang bangs out for x"

Ooh, I'll take a look.

Things are pretty sorted now, for tomorrow. I'm hesitantly optimistic, think I'll get a few...

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By *astard and goodgirlCouple
over a year ago

Near Exeter

How did it go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's going on now!

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