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By *upersexysue OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

scunthorpe

Hi well I am truly single and go swinging clubs regularly

And it has occurred to me that swinging for true single people male and female is a total different thing from swinging as a couple or an attached Pearson entering a club as a single. I would like to hear from other single people why they go swinging and if and if the club seen caters for single people in the way that you want. Please say what you would expect from a good night. I personally feel a lot of single people are missing out on the social side of swinging

Please give me your thoughts

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

I'll limit my comments to how I see the social side. It seems to me that many have the same problem, be they one of a couple or single. That is, they find it difficult to meet new people.

It is no different in any social situation. You have to put yourself out there. Try chatting to people and accept the risk of rejection. Hanging around waiting for someone to approach you, isn't the best strategy for success.

Engaging with others, helps put them at ease and gets you noticed. Clubs that encourage their members to mix and perhaps offer introductions, go a long way towards helping us all to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been single for about 18 months now, i swung with my husband before we split and carried on doing so after, i have noticed a few differences to be honest, the main thing ive noticed since meeting on my own is how much more pushier guys are towards me now i dont have a 6ft+ bloke at the side of me, be that on here or in club

When i was with the ex in clubs if i said no to guy, no ment no now days it seems to mean...oh your only a woman how can you stop me lol

I would say clubs cater for what im looking for, as a single woman its easy to get sex in clubs once you get started, getting started i find hard at times, i mean as a single how do you get going? if your a couple you can go in a room and play and people will join in but you cant do that if your alone

i know poeple say ask guys if they want to play but im really not confidant enough to walk over to a guy and ask him if he wants to play, so that side can be a little tricky, but once someone has made a move on me its easy as other will join in

not sure about the social side, i think its a case of getting yourself know, and its alwys going to be easier for women, i get loads of party invites, most i cant attand as i dont drive so traveling is a problem for me, i also go to social meets and im quite a chatty person so will and do talk to anyone and everyone in clubs etc so ive never had problems on that side lol

over all tho as someone whos swung as a couple and alone it is very different, both have their good and bad points

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, the local club is a lot more chilled out than that. normally everyones chatting downstairs, relaxing and having a laugh and then things progress. Never any pressure put on singles i've seen, and great fun has been had by all...

To answer the op's question though, I love the social side. Always chat away at the club and have a laugh, chat to people I have met and enjoy meeting them again, and like going out socially with some of them too...

after all, its all about fun as well as great sex (well, if you are really lucky!) lol

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By *odkaboy2Man
over a year ago

bristol

As a single but polite single swinger I find it quite difficult, both in terms of swinging itself and the social side. Taking the social side, I am a naturally friendly guy but engaging in conversation with couples in particular is tricky - the ground seems to have often spoilt by other pushy single guys so the couples tend to be very wary. Ref the swinging side, it's about trying to pick up on the signs - I've never had a couple actually walk up and ask me lol.

I'll caveat this by saying I've only ever visited The Office here in Bristol, and I have the feeling it's not the best example of such places!

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