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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do,you think it makes a difference whether people make an effort and dress up for meets, or just turn up however they feel ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes a big difference.

Dress up

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I always dress up for play meets. I'm like a Christmas present. They can touch and squeeze the packaging and depending on the mood slowly removing the wrapping or tear it off with gusto.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like a lady to have nice lingerie on. Couldnt care less how the guys dressed but if hes wearing a suit its an instant turn OFF

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Mrs N always dresses up for meets and aims to look at her very glamours and classy best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do,you think it makes a difference whether people make an effort and dress up for meets, or just turn up however they feel ?"

If I make an effort to shower, shave make myself smell nice, put on nice clean clothes then I would expect a lady to do the same. Nothing worse than meeting a lady with bad breathe and a fishy minge

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I make an effort as I think it adds to the ocassion. We often like playing games such as spin the bottle to get naked so always make sure I have a nice bra and knickers on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make the effort! If I feel and look sexy then I feel good in myself. So I'm gonna enjoy myself more.

I do like the men to make and effort. (99% do) But dont always get that in a dogging.

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

I like to dress up

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Ugh. Had a guy turn up in a tracksuit once. What a let down!

However, I love jeans. A suit might feel a bit too formal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would be turned off if a women or couple didn't make the effort, I love a woman in very sexy lingerie and a beautiful perfume.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

It makes a big difference, we always dress to impress for our meets as we want the other couple to feel they are special and important. Dressing up also helps us to feel sexy and slowly peeling away the clothes and admiring each layer is all part of the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress for a meet xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sabrina wouldn't dream of turning up to a meet without dressing up . Stockings , full make up , etc..... Disrespectful not to in our opinion .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress up and smell heavenly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alway dress up for a meet ....sexy frock ..stockings and a spritz of favourite perfume

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ugh. Had a guy turn up in a tracksuit once. What a let down!

However, I love jeans. A suit might feel a bit too formal. "

I had the same too. It was an instant turn off.

But a suit would be a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress up and make an effort, but I really can't be arsed with lots of lingerie! As little as possible is my moto! And get out of it as quick as possible hehe

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

Defo dress for a meet. Someone once came to meet me and he looked like he had just dragged himself off the sofa in the clothes he had been wearing all weekend and not even had a wash!!

Needless to say he didn't get very far!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart jeans and a shirt for me! Have worn my suit by request!

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

I once had a meet turn up in stockings, suspender belt, heels and a coat - now that's what I call dressing up for a meet, instant turn on!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I insist on me dressing up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a meet turn up in stockings, suspender belt, heels and a coat - now that's what I call dressing up for a meet, instant turn on!"

That's what I call dressed for a meet! Yummy

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By *ralpleaseMan
over a year ago

El Campello, Alicante

Somehow I get the feeling that anyone that does not bother to smarten themselves up and make effort so they dont look as though they have just come in from doing the gardening will not be posting on this forum. If they turn up unkempt just imagine how they spend the rest of their days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not just for meets .... you should always take pride in how you look ...."First impressions"... Simples x

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

I would go for smart casual, unless requested to wear something special.

I once dressed as a security guard for one meet, for a role play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I once had a meet turn up in stockings, suspender belt, heels and a coat - now that's what I call dressing up for a meet, instant turn on!"

Yes! This is something I am yet to do, hot! We met a couple in a restaurant a few years ago and whilst flirting and building up to what turned out to be an amazing evening they informed us they had invited another couple to join us which made us both feel a little uneasy since we hadn't discussed it beforehand. When the other couple arrived we hit it off and and were soon chatting away and having a laugh. When I asked mary why she was not taking her coat off she beckoned me to the ladies to reveal just heels and hold ups under her coat. God! We called a taxi and headed back to enjoy some rather horny experiences as a group. Great night

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I always dress up. For me it's part of the experience. For someone not to make an effort makes me wonder if they will make an effort during the meet.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I wear was I am comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shirts... there's something about unbuttoning a shirt that really does it for me. None of my meets have worn one though; despite me telling them it was a turn on for me.

I dress smart casual for social meets and tend to go all out for subsequent meets!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear something nice and sexy, with hold ups or stockings and suspenders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wear was I am comfortable in."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you mean by dress up

I would never go to a meet with a short skirt on, stocking tops showing, cleavage on show and a face full of make up because that's simply not me and if that's the look a guy likes be best look else where

I wear very little make up and I always dress respectable and covered that does not mean I haven't made an effort though, it just means I don't feel I have to have half my body on show in public to look nice

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Best meet I had he opened the door in just a crisp white towel but he was freshly showered/shaved and smelt divine.

I always dress for a meet it's all part of it experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you mean by dress up

I would never go to a meet with a short skirt on, stocking tops showing, cleavage on show and a face full of make up because that's simply not me and if that's the look a guy likes be best look else where

I wear very little make up and I always dress respectable and covered that does not mean I haven't made an effort though, it just means I don't feel I have to have half my body on show in public to look nice "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to look good for Grey. His appreciation is always evident. He looks good in a suit but I don't care really what he wears (I've said no track bottoms though)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends what you mean by dress up

I would never go to a meet with a short skirt on, stocking tops showing, cleavage on show and a face full of make up because that's simply not me and if that's the look a guy likes be best look else where

I wear very little make up and I always dress respectable and covered that does not mean I haven't made an effort though, it just means I don't feel I have to have half my body on show in public to look nice "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make an effort with clothes, lingerie, hair and makeup, but I don't dress in what I consider to be slutty or trashy stuff. I'd be fucked off if someone looked like they'd just rolled out of bed into some stained trackie bottoms to see me.

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes


"Best meet I had he opened the door in just a crisp white towel but he was freshly showered/shaved and smelt divine.

I always dress for a meet it's all part of it experience."

Being clean and smelling good is the minimum standard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always dress up for play meets. I'm like a Christmas present. They can touch and squeeze the packaging and depending on the mood slowly removing the wrapping or tear it off with gusto. "

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Best meet I had he opened the door in just a crisp white towel but he was freshly showered/shaved and smelt divine.

I always dress for a meet it's all part of it experience.

Being clean and smelling good is the minimum standard "

Exactly though a shower together is always fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make an effort with clothes, lingerie, hair and makeup, but I don't dress in what I consider to be slutty or trashy stuff. I'd be fucked off if someone looked like they'd just rolled out of bed into some stained trackie bottoms to see me. "

This happened to me once. Amazing immaculate flat, man opened the door in track bottoms, unmade bed and the rest is not worth mentioning

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Best meet I had he opened the door in just a crisp white towel but he was freshly showered/shaved and smelt divine.

I always dress for a meet it's all part of it experience."

I've had that experience too! Love it when a guy makes an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i make an effort which i always do i wud expect the guy im meeting wud to. What annoys me is when you have made an effort in the dress and jewellery and chosen hot lingerie but the guy cant get it off quick enough !

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I would look dam funny if I didn't dress up for a meet, after all I would just be another bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She sometimes just wears her dressing gown over lingerie for a meet. Once she had the guy waiting in the living room with me and came down wearing just her knickers and bra. But I like it best when shes fully dressed watching the guy or couple undress her

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Em always wears nice lingerie and heels for a meet. She feels that we should make a nice impression for our visitor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kim loves to dress up, full make up, hair done, the whole shebang! But what should us guys do? Shaved, showered, deodorant, splash of aftershave all kind of a given, but you can only do so much dress wise as a bloke, any ideas ladies?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always ensure I shave and put aftershave on.

I can imagine nothing worse for a women, than meeting an un keprt man.

Its important I think to be clean, smell nice and present yourself well when going on a meet - certainly wine, maybe flowers for the women also etc

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By *ightyandLeftyCouple
over a year ago

Funtown

Always smart and clean, I love Nic dressing up but I'm a real sucker for sexy lingerie.

It depends on venue too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always try to make an effort to look nice when meeting, even with guys I have known a long time. I don't have expensive designer clothing but being clean, tidy and presentable goes a long way. I expect guys to make the same effort, but in my experience few ever d,o which is a shame!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Of course! Best foot forwards... No need to be a slob

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Ugh. Had a guy turn up in a tracksuit once. What a let down!

However, I love jeans. A suit might feel a bit too formal.

I had the same too. It was an instant turn off.

But a suit would be a turn on "

See I love jeans. Love to stroke thighs and other things through jeans!

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Makes a big difference.

Dress up "

Totally agree, we make the effort and are only interested in others that do the same

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

When we meet for a social or play ,we make the effort . Smelling and nice and looking nice make the right impression . It will make the meet start well rather than coming to a no thanks and good bye .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress up for meets, full make up, hair done, sexy lingerie and dress or outfit! Had one fella turn up looking like he had been dragged through a hedge backwards!! Wasn't impressed!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

When I meet for a social, I like to make the effort - although its generally toned down for a social, and a bit more sexy for other meets.

Never had any complaints so far anyway...

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By *ollymopWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Do,you think it makes a difference whether people make an effort and dress up for meets, or just turn up however they feel ?

If I make an effort to shower, shave make myself smell nice, put on nice clean clothes then I would expect a lady to do the same. Nothing worse than meeting a lady with bad breathe and a fishy minge "

Do women turn up for meets like this?

I'v had a few men do this but I can't get passed bad breath big turn off an a tara from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone actually turned away anyone who turned up looking a scruff? I didn't meet someone again after a very quick social coffee due to something similar. He turned up in unironed and stained clothes, days old stubble, bad bed hair, didn't look young and fresh like his pics and to top it off, he kept spitting his cake crumbs which landed all over my front every time he spoke! .

Guys making an effort is impressive to me and would go along way. Put the effort in, you get the effort out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress up, hair lippy and nails done, hubby clean shaven and well turned out. Personal hygiene attended to. We make the effort and would hope for the same from those intending to play with us! C xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I make an effort but I don't do all the stockings & suspenders stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make an effort to look smart, clean shaven, aftershave etc. Would never turn up without making an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I make an effort, did the suspenders thing once, got on my nerves if I'm honest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would dream of meeting someone without full sexy works... Makeup, hair, outfit, heels, perfume.....

And V makes a bit of an effort too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why you wouldn't want to make an effort?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"I make an effort but I don't do all the stockings & suspenders stuff."

Thats everyday for me, so not an effort, but I do wear them for meets too.

And I have refused a second meet with someone who turned up scruffy, and smelled odd. And no I did not verify them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I make an effort but I don't do all the stockings & suspenders stuff."

I don't either. Hate the bloody things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C always looks fabulous. I'm, well im me !! I try but rarely with a positive outcome !! C nearly always ends up telling me to put a better shirt on lol !! I always bath and shave what else is a guy supposed to do lol

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By *ich400Couple
over a year ago

pembrokeshire

Alot of meets the guys say will you wear stockings and suspenders........ no I won't for a coffee meet if we decided to meet again I will wear again what makes me feel comfortable and go on how much effort the guy made on initial meet.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

We always make an effort, we want to make a good impression after all.

If the meet didn't bother it wouldn't get past the social stage.

I would probably make excuses to leave if they turned up in tracksuit bottoms

Nita

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to find out what the woman I'm meeting wants me to wear.

Last meet I answered the door in just my dressing gown and tight boxers on underneath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always freshly showered and shaved, jeans and a nice shirt plus aftershave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALWAYS dress up! In stockings, heels little black dress or schoolgirl uniform, whatever the meet has requested. I wouldn't dream of turning up with the full works! I can't believe somebody wouldn't!!!!xx

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I dress for me. Sometimes they get a bit of a show, sometimes they don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ALWAYS dress up! In stockings, heels little black dress or schoolgirl uniform, whatever the meet has requested. I wouldn't dream of turning up without the full works! I can't believe somebody wouldn't make the effort!!!!xx"

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Met Mr as a single fem after being shopping all afternoon and waiting in the drizzle .... he was in his civvies also, although when we go clubbing, he likes to wear his cop gear. I can't stand getting dressed to impress ... if people can't accept me for who I am, I am not interested in them. I don't need to pretend to be someone I am not. I am not a big make up wearer and prefer the natural look all around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not that bothered....although i appreciate it if the guy makes a little bit of effort. I like to dress up and make an occasion of it. It gets me in the mood. I just don't feel sexy in my normal everyday wear.....i guess it's all part of the little bit of escapism that meeting is for me. I don't like to feel like dreary old mum like i do most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to see my partner with sexy underwear, full makeup and hair done so for a meet I would make twice as much effort! A man who smells good is always a massive turn on and while a suit is sexy, a clean pair of jeans and a casual shirt would do the trick for me. Minx

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