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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx " Mummy tummies or menopausal spare tyres are not attractive. | |||
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"I never understood why women feel this way about their belly. Personally I love womens bodies... so sensual and a curvy belly is bliss to explore. love yourself. " I am always getting my kit off......Luv to be naked xxxxx | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx Mummy tummies or menopausal spare tyres are not attractive." yes well that will be why they don't feature in many pics | |||
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"weve met a few females now and most are fearful of showing their naked body.why..?" For me its' because I don't wont them to know I have a cock | |||
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage " I like the 'sit on his face' stage | |||
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage " thats very true | |||
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage I like the 'sit on his face' stage " I've tried to incorporate it into 2nd base but I'm just in denial, def 3rd base stuff thee ol cheeks on the face | |||
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"weve met a few females now and most are fearful of showing their naked body.why..?" Hides the bits they don't like.. Bellies, love handles, arms (hate my arms) | |||
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"Probably because of the creeping insidious hype from the media of how, unless your body is perfect, courtesy of Photoshop of a fucking good team of makeup artists, you are not a fit human being ...shit that the media play towards and it rubs off on us lesser mortals " does this apply to men also ? | |||
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"Probably because of the creeping insidious hype from the media of how, unless your body is perfect, courtesy of Photoshop of a fucking good team of makeup artists, you are not a fit human being ...shit that the media play towards and it rubs off on us lesser mortals does this apply to men also ?" Me slightly although it's more of a continuing healthy living And getting fit routine rather this being impressed by so called celebs. They can fuck off for all I care. | |||
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage " wise words. | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx Mummy tummies or menopausal spare tyres are not attractive." Maybe not to you. But I like my mummy tummy. It's a reminder of how lucky I am to have carried my babies. Doesn't matter how much weight I lose or gain I'll always have a mummy tummy & I'm proud of it. And so should every other woman who has one. if we all had the same body the world would be a boring place. | |||
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"Not at all worried about showing my body!" If I had a body like yours I wouldn't worry either | |||
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"Because if a woman isn't comfortable and confident with a part of her body , that will take the focus away from the fun for all parties . Simple really " this! It's that fear that you look good with clothes on and the person will be disappointed once you get naked! Paranoia. I am mostly at ease with my body, but ultimately I've had 2 children, 2 csections and have breastfed both of them. There will always be a bit of nervousness for me when I'm with someone new. | |||
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"weve met a few females now and most are fearful of showing their naked body.why..?" "most"? Surely this should read "some". I'm a bit chunky, and there's no denying I have wobbly bits rather than a six-pack, but if I'm turned on, the clothes come off. | |||
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"I guess because everyone is different. For example on here there are some who are happy to pose naked virtually but not in reality. " Indeed everyone is different xxx But attitudes can change, I met a larger lady last year who hated seeing herself naked and others seeing her xxx We met a few times and i was able to give her enough of a confidence boost that i unintentionally made her a nudist she loves being naked indoors and out now at nudist beaches as well xxx Last time i met her was on a nudist beach a few months back and she looked great and more confident than when i met her first xxx Well proud of her | |||
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"Some look better with clothes on and from that, they feel more confident." This is so very true.. If only i could always have a strategically placed hand......shame i don't give a Fuck once I'm getting down And dirty | |||
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"Some look better with clothes on and from that, they feel more confident. This is so very true.. If only i could always have a strategically placed hand......shame i don't give a Fuck once I'm getting down And dirty " At least it would be a well manicured hand | |||
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage I like the 'sit on his face' stage " I never sit on a face. Just in case they don't survive | |||
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"It's all about the first kiss, get it right and the clothes just magically disappear and she's so into it you get her to that 'fuck it I may as well sit on his face' stage I like the 'sit on his face' stage I have to pray they can breathe through their ears...im a BIG woman lol!!..but yeah its hard to get naked at first....when u know if yr playmates comfy its different x I never sit on a face. Just in case they don't survive " | |||
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"weve met a few females now and most are fearful of showing their naked body.why..?" How do you know they are 'fearful'? Perhaps they just don't want to be naked. Why not respect their wishes. | |||
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"i hide my belly because its too fat and ugly" Sounds like you need some adoring tummy-stroking!!! | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx " It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with! The lucky ones look like they've never had kids. Some loose their once pert boobs (me) Some get a little loose tummy skin (me) Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?). Some get lots of stretch marks Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift! Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!! (If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! ) | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with! The lucky ones look like they've never had kids. Some loose their once pert boobs (me) Some get a little loose tummy skin (me) Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?). Some get lots of stretch marks Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift! Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!! (If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! ) " Visible wise I was left with a 'mummy tummy' and invisible wise, well let's not go there! However, the older I've got I now just think 'fuck it' I'm late 40's it is what it is!! And going to a naturist spa helped my confidence too,seeing people off all shapes, sizes, types & age chilling out & having fun, which is what it's all about imo.. | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with! The lucky ones look like they've never had kids. Some loose their once pert boobs (me) Some get a little loose tummy skin (me) Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?). Some get lots of stretch marks Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift! Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!! (If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! ) " But all men don't think that women have to look perfect. Men can have body issues too. x | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with! The lucky ones look like they've never had kids. Some loose their once pert boobs (me) Some get a little loose tummy skin (me) Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?). Some get lots of stretch marks Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift! Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!! (If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! ) But all men don't think that women have to look perfect. Men can have body issues too. x" Very true Hun - and as I think we all know I'm far from being a man-hater - but I thought I should explain why perhaps more women have body issues than men! Personally I WILL get naked with men - after I've made them aware I'm far from perfect without lingerie and hold-up's! | |||
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"Because if a woman isn't comfortable and confident with a part of her body , that will take the focus away from the fun for all parties . Simple really " Very true, I also agree the media has a lot to answer for with this. Personally we haven't met any women that have not been happy to get naked with us. That may be because we are not perfect but enjoy being naked for naughty fun. In fact I am very comfortable naked. I have stretch marks and a baby belly for a reason It is also visible on my photos. If guys have a problem with it, then we won't be their kinda couple. Nita | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with! The lucky ones look like they've never had kids. Some loose their once pert boobs (me) Some get a little loose tummy skin (me) Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?). Some get lots of stretch marks Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift! Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!! (If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! ) " And some women who don't have children also have all of these things. | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with! The lucky ones look like they've never had kids. Some loose their once pert boobs (me) Some get a little loose tummy skin (me) Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?). Some get lots of stretch marks Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift! Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!! (If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! ) But all men don't think that women have to look perfect. Men can have body issues too. x Very true Hun - and as I think we all know I'm far from being a man-hater - but I thought I should explain why perhaps more women have body issues than men! Personally I WILL get naked with men - after I've made them aware I'm far from perfect without lingerie and hold-up's! " If you think men expect and want perfection you are meeting the wrong guys. I've never had to or felt the need to explain that I'm not perfect or point out my trouble areas before getting my kit off. | |||
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"Because they are out of shape but we all have things we don't like about our bodies or taking pics of them ,let's face it we take the pics that show us off at our best xx It's not as simple as being 'out of shape'. - not for women who've had children anyway! It's a lottery every time a woman gets pregnant. - you've no idea what body you'll end up with! The lucky ones look like they've never had kids. Some loose their once pert boobs (me) Some get a little loose tummy skin (me) Some get thread veins or varicose veins (me again - lucky cow aren't I?). Some get lots of stretch marks Some get a LOT of loose skin or excess 'mummy tummy' they find hard to shift! Men - you don't have that problem! You see women on TV who've had children, passed them to nannies as spent all day every day getting their figure back asap with a team of professionals - then finishing the job off with surgery - and expect the average woman on the street to look the same!! (If any mums out there feel I've missed something - please feel free to add to it! ) But all men don't think that women have to look perfect. Men can have body issues too. x Very true Hun - and as I think we all know I'm far from being a man-hater - but I thought I should explain why perhaps more women have body issues than men! Personally I WILL get naked with men - after I've made them aware I'm far from perfect without lingerie and hold-up's! If you think men expect and want perfection you are meeting the wrong guys. I've never had to or felt the need to explain that I'm not perfect or point out my trouble areas before getting my kit off." I've had 4 children and have few if any body issues - I just choose not to reveal all to the entire site. I always start in sexy lingerie, stockings and heels but am quite happy to strip off in front of the guys I meet. Nor do I ever feel the need to point out any tiger stripes or less than firm areas...they're usually too distracted by the awesome bits to notice those anyway! | |||
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