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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

So we've a few couples want a social before we play. Fair enough we like a drink & a chat, perhaps a hot tub. But lately we've have people want to go to dinner with them etc, which is not for us, mainly here for sex.

So how does this dinner work?

When we have dinner in a restaurant we can't move for the rest of the day, let alone have sex lol x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Sex before dinner is the best way round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thats my concern with "dating"!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I never see it as dating, just socialising

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Have you never had sex after eating? Just don't make pigs of yourselves

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Sex before dinner is the best way round "

Yeah but they want dinner first

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a meal in a hotel with a couple once. I got left with the guy on my own for about 10 minutes and I wanted to say 'thanks for letting me fuck your wife' but instead I said 'thanks for lending me your knife' to butter the roll.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Have you never had sex after eating? Just don't make pigs of yourselves

"

It's not the amount, I think it's the diet were on, we don't eat out too often anymore and get mega full too easily xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Have you never had sex after eating? Just don't make pigs of yourselves

It's not the amount, I think it's the diet were on, we don't eat out too often anymore and get mega full too easily xx"
well suggest doing something different then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just don't do socials , it works for us .

As soon as talk of dinner , drinks at so and so come into the messages we simply say we aren't on here for that .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We used to go to a single guys house we saw fairly regularly for a meal, it was very enjoyable. I could dress as I pleased, flirt outrageously over food and wine then we could all three retire to the bedroom. It was great.

We have also done the same with couples.

It's like extended foreplay with refreshments

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd be tempted to combine pudding and sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex before dinner is the best way round "

absolutely this

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd be tempted to combine pudding and sex "

I think you need a three rosette restaurant for that.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester


"We used to go to a single guys house we saw fairly regularly for a meal, it was very enjoyable. I could dress as I pleased, flirt outrageously over food and wine then we could all three retire to the bedroom. It was great.

We have also done the same with couples.

It's like extended foreplay with refreshments "

With the right people (which in our case means people we have met in eg a club) this can be great. Suggest nice food, nothing heavy etc.

Him

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd be tempted to combine pudding and sex

I think you need a three rosette restaurant for that."

Only tempted. I'm the epitome of the perfect guest.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

A party we attended started with a meal. I'm starting to see a pattern developing here

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Just don't do socials , it works for us .

As soon as talk of dinner , drinks at so and so come into the messages we simply say we aren't on here for that .

"

Yes we've been doing that, but the pile is adding up lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't do socials , it works for us .

As soon as talk of dinner , drinks at so and so come into the messages we simply say we aren't on here for that .

"

Same. Dont mind a coffee and chat before we play, or if they want a social meet a coffee at ours. But we dont meet anywere but ours. Certainly not for dinner I hate eating in front of strangers and neither of us drink so not for us at all.

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"Just don't do socials , it works for us .

As soon as talk of dinner , drinks at so and so come into the messages we simply say we aren't on here for that .

Same. Dont mind a coffee and chat before we play, or if they want a social meet a coffee at ours. But we dont meet anywere but ours. Certainly not for dinner I hate eating in front of strangers and neither of us drink so not for us at all."

Totally agree, but as I was saying this becoming more and more popular or don't you find that? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty nobody has ever asked us to go for dinner. Had one or two mention meeting for drinks and I point out we dont drink and only meet at ours as stated in our profile and they are happy to come for a coffee

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"I'd be tempted to combine pudding and sex "

I've some suggestions which you may find appetising lol xx

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend


"In all honesty nobody has ever asked us to go for dinner. Had one or two mention meeting for drinks and I point out we dont drink and only meet at ours as stated in our profile and they are happy to come for a coffee "

Yeah but your profile would stop people from messaging for dinner dates, for some reason people want to dine with us xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"In all honesty nobody has ever asked us to go for dinner. Had one or two mention meeting for drinks and I point out we dont drink and only meet at ours as stated in our profile and they are happy to come for a coffee

Yeah but your profile would stop people from messaging for dinner dates, for some reason people want to dine with us xx"

Why don't you write a profile expressing your likes and dislikes and say what you would like to do on a meet, that way everyone is clear as to what you all expect from the meet. We personally don't meet for dinner with anyone, we are there for sex. If, however, we got on socially, outside of swinging, we may then enjoy a meal together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a woman pretty much tell me i was taking her for dinner from here, was quite flattered she thought i was dating material and i'm sure she wasn't just trying to get a free dinner. I even gave her my number but i guess the reality of it all must have scared her off!

Where's the middle finger emoticon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all honesty nobody has ever asked us to go for dinner. Had one or two mention meeting for drinks and I point out we dont drink and only meet at ours as stated in our profile and they are happy to come for a coffee

Yeah but your profile would stop people from messaging for dinner dates, for some reason people want to dine with us xx"

So theres your answer, change your profile. It works for us

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By *etzPlay OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southend

No one reads profiles and we've had more meets when we shorted ours to two words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't do socials , it works for us .

As soon as talk of dinner , drinks at so and so come into the messages we simply say we aren't on here for that .

"

Coffee with someone counts, if your getting a blow job at the same time...I know, I've tried

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just don't do socials , it works for us .

As soon as talk of dinner , drinks at so and so come into the messages we simply say we aren't on here for that .

Coffee with someone counts, if your getting a blow job at the same time...I know, I've tried "

Ah....the ol' 'frothy coffee' routine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just don't do socials , it works for us .

As soon as talk of dinner , drinks at so and so come into the messages we simply say we aren't on here for that .

Coffee with someone counts, if your getting a blow job at the same time...I know, I've tried

Ah....the ol' 'frothy coffee' routine.... "

Or 'the americano' as Fabio calls it...probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't get it either

At the end of the day people join fab to meet interesting people, have a laugh and fuck each other daft

We get that people should get on with each other and we're all for having a drink and a chat before playing but why the need for a 'date'?

Some folk take it all too seriously, it's supposed to be fun FFS!

And ending on that note any couples fancy a 'date'...ahem!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't get it either

At the end of the day people join fab to meet interesting people, have a laugh and fuck each other daft

We get that people should get on with each other and we're all for having a drink and a chat before playing but why the need for a 'date'?

Some folk take it all too seriously, it's supposed to be fun FFS!

And ending on that note any couples fancy a 'date'...ahem! "

All in your opinion of course .

We choose to do things differently but that doesn't make either of us wrong. We wouldn't find your way of doing it fun and clearly you wouldn't find our way of doing it fun either.

Vive la difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair point, well made

It wasn't particularly a criticism, like you say, different strokes for different folks

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