FabSwingers.com forum: surely

By *eznhannah OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If you get a message from a single lady, and her profile is set to single, but then she goes on to say, in the message and profile, she will only meet with her male f buddy,............well surely that lady should have a couples profile, had a few of these lately and find them a bit dishonest, if your gonna play as a couple then ffs have a couples profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on whether he has his own profile and/or uses this site. Some people do have regular fuckbuddies though we prefer "friends with benefits"

and then prefer to play with them and another, or pefer him to come with them to a meet for protection but i see your point, each to his/her own and not dishonest, just i suppose annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps the lady in question showed your profile to her "friend with benefits" & they thought you would be wonderful for them to meet as a couple.

It all depends on how it was worded.

Take it as a compliment, you might make some lovely new friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This type of thing has been mentioned before.

If a profile states "Single" then the owner of the profile should play as a single.

Sometimes a couple will advertise as a single bi-woman just to get another bi-woman to play with........its basically a con.

Bottom line is, if the profile says single but they tell you its a couple, report it to admin!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This type of thing has been mentioned before.

If a profile states "Single" then the owner of the profile should play as a single.

Sometimes a couple will advertise as a single bi-woman just to get another bi-woman to play with........its basically a con.

Bottom line is, if the profile says single but they tell you its a couple, report it to admin!

XXXX"

i have to agree its a form of deception.

your a couple or your single.

if you want to meet and include your fb then you are a couple.

no ifs or buts. profile is misleading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deception is when they don't tell you their intentions. This person clearly does.

It might piss you off, but at the end of the day is it any worse than bi people with straight profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deception is when they don't tell you their intentions. This person clearly does.

It might piss you off, but at the end of the day is it any worse than bi people with straight profiles?

true. good point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often wonder about the multiple profile thing. Some people have single profiles and then a couples one together. Now I can understand why and have no problem with people doing exactly as they want.

But for example if I messaged a guy with a single profile, but I was also aware he had a partner, is it awkward saying we just want one of you

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

and don't call me shirley

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By *eizvollWoman
over a year ago

in my own little world :-)

But for example if I messaged a guy with a single profile, but I was also aware he had a partner, is it awkward saying we just want one of you

I would have thought not if his single profile says he plays alone....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Deception is when they don't tell you their intentions. This person clearly does.

It might piss you off, but at the end of the day is it any worse than bi people with straight profiles?

Probably no worse but just as bad, both use duplicity to get what they want.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or she can add to her profile now playing with fuckbuddy just a thought.

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By *it of fun cplCouple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We have our normal profile but MrsH does have her own single profile. She clearly states she has a partner and that she uses that profile to arrange surprise meets for us, or for her own meets.

I think a single profile as part of a couple is fine as long as you are honest in it.

Just our opinion.

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By *eznhannah OP Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"We have our normal profile but MrsH does have her own single profile. She clearly states she has a partner and that she uses that profile to arrange surprise meets for us, or for her own meets.

I think a single profile as part of a couple is fine as long as you are honest in it.

Just our opinion."

ha anything you and mrs higgi do is cool by us xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have both a singles profile and couples..

But as I meet guys without my Master there then I think its perfectly acceptable.. the only thing they have to accept is that its always on cam.

If we play as a couple then we use the couples profile to find people. :D

Although I think some women are right in insisting that for first meets there is a 2nd person there.. even if he just sits downstairs..

Katie.

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