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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People who have taken part in group sex/MFF,

I have never taken part in a group situation 3 - 4 Women and I assume that when going between Women a new condom is used, But do the same principles apply in a MFF, I know there isn't really a difference but in a group when you move from one Woman to another usually the first Woman will pair up with another Man etc etc changing condoms as they go, But when there is just the three of you, Do you have sex with one change condom then start again, It does seem like a passion killer and a lot of used condoms, I always imagined moving from one to the other or is that just a porn thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know everyone will probably be different, But I was just after people's experiences in these situations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why wouldn't you swap. Or in our case put one on with the other woman as we obviously don't use condoms together.

Whether it's one extra woman or more we would change a condom for each swap of person x

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

You would not get anywhere near me with the same condom on you've used with someone else.

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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago

shefiield


"You would not get anywhere near me with the same condom on you've used with someone else.

"
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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"You would not get anywhere near me with the same condom on you've used with someone else.

"

It's hardly safe otherwise... Just common sense really.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why bother with a condom at all then? Or do you only worry about your own sexual health when having sex?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Change condoms

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"You would not get anywhere near me with the same condom on you've used with someone else.

"

^^ this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to ask why it would be different in a mff to group sex? Are you saying it's women who are transmitting diseases so men cover up to help prevent catching something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was just interested to know,

Changing condoms it is then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would not get anywhere near me with the same condom on you've used with someone else.

"

Nor me.... Eeek!!!!

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

I remember my first time in a club - Xtasia years ago. I watched a chap with a wrinkly condom hanging from a semi erection lurch from woman to woman being rebuffed and rejected. Not only was it sad it was a huge eye opener to the swinging world. Thank goodness for change...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sign of a bloody good orgy is the multiple condom pick up afterwards yewwwww

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A simple solution is to load up fully prepared for the switch.

If it's yourself and three women, layer up three condoms and just whip one off when you're ready to move on.

Saves on all the hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A simple solution is to load up fully prepared for the switch.

If it's yourself and three women, layer up three condoms and just whip one off when you're ready to move on.

Saves on all the hassle "

I'm assuming you're having a joke. Condoms rubbing together can damage them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a bloody good question .

If fingers and tongues are being used on both women , I doubt mouthwash and rubber gloves and hand wash are being used .

So all three parties are enjoying each other to the point of penetration bare .

Then it comes to fucking and it's condom on for sex with lady number one . Then take it off for the second one and put a new one on .

It certainly seems like the guy is protecting himself and the women who have shared fingers and tongues in each other's pussy are the risk .

Or maybe each party uses left hand for lady 1 and right hand for lady 2 ?

And mouthwash is used before licking the second ?

See what I'm saying here ?

Who of the posters who have said in a mff that the condom needs changing has actually done this ?

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

I always wear a full biological warfare suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The point about cross contamination risk is a good one (ie fingers and tongues) but there is still a much greater risk once full penetration sex is used.

We know that no one is going to stop and wash fingers in between but there is no way I'm letting a guy fuck me bare. It's not ideal but swapping condoms even after all that play before is still a good way to reduce risks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point about cross contamination risk is a good one (ie fingers and tongues) but there is still a much greater risk once full penetration sex is used.

We know that no one is going to stop and wash fingers in between but there is no way I'm letting a guy fuck me bare. It's not ideal but swapping condoms even after all that play before is still a good way to reduce risks. "

I'm not advocating bare here .

The op was a mff .

So the guy changing condoms for both women seems pointless unless he is protecting himself .

Presumably all parties have shared bodily fluids orally and on fingers .

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We mainly go to parties and if hubby has been playing with a lady, he will always go and wash his hands before he plays with another lady,it's only fair and respectful to the ladies

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"We mainly go to parties and if hubby has been playing with a lady, he will always go and wash his hands before he plays with another lady,it's only fair and respectful to the ladies "

What an epic body madam!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"We mainly go to parties and if hubby has been playing with a lady, he will always go and wash his hands before he plays with another lady,it's only fair and respectful to the ladies

What an epic body madam! "

Oh, thank you!

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

Greater London


"I remember my first time in a club - Xtasia years ago. I watched a chap with a wrinkly condom hanging from a semi erection lurch from woman to woman being rebuffed and rejected. Not only was it sad it was a huge eye opener to the swinging world. Thank goodness for change..."

Omg, how disgusting. Think that would of put me off clubs for a while if I had seen that on my first visit.

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"We mainly go to parties and if hubby has been playing with a lady, he will always go and wash his hands before he plays with another lady,it's only fair and respectful to the ladies

What an epic body madam!

Oh, thank you!"

The pleasure was all mine. Still having palpitations looking at your legs. Cold shower time!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Cold shower time it is then!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a bloody good question .

If fingers and tongues are being used on both women , I doubt mouthwash and rubber gloves and hand wash are being used .

So all three parties are enjoying each other to the point of penetration bare .

Then it comes to fucking and it's condom on for sex with lady number one . Then take it off for the second one and put a new one on .

It certainly seems like the guy is protecting himself and the women who have shared fingers and tongues in each other's pussy are the risk .

Or maybe each party uses left hand for lady 1 and right hand for lady 2 ?

And mouthwash is used before licking the second ?

See what I'm saying here ?

Who of the posters who have said in a mff that the condom needs changing has actually done this ?

"

I've read that using mouthwash directly before or after play actually increases your chances of contracting an std through oral. Have I been misinformed?

-Courtney

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"Cold shower time it is then!! "

In a minute, having some private me time first!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Cold shower time it is then!!

In a minute, having some private me time first! "

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By *aa-tongueMan
over a year ago

Manchester

If you can get two ladies to play with you at the same time, then well done to you sir. I take my hat off to you. But yes. New condoms every time you switch. Safety first!

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By *aywalton1Man
over a year ago

Walton on the Hill


"Cold shower time it is then!!

In a minute, having some private me time first!

"

Inspired by you I failed to add!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Cold shower time it is then!!

In a minute, having some private me time first!

Inspired by you I failed to add! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point about cross contamination risk is a good one (ie fingers and tongues) but there is still a much greater risk once full penetration sex is used.

We know that no one is going to stop and wash fingers in between but there is no way I'm letting a guy fuck me bare. It's not ideal but swapping condoms even after all that play before is still a good way to reduce risks.

I'm not advocating bare here .

The op was a mff .

So the guy changing condoms for both women seems pointless unless he is protecting himself .

Presumably all parties have shared bodily fluids orally and on fingers ."

No even in an mff I'd still expect separate condoms as I don't want my partner bare inside a lady or another guy Bare inside me so I do not think that just because I've been fingered that I wouldn't use a condom. As yes it's still a risk but not as much as having full sex with a guy Bare and with other women I wouldn't trust them with contraception either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The point about cross contamination risk is a good one (ie fingers and tongues) but there is still a much greater risk once full penetration sex is used.

We know that no one is going to stop and wash fingers in between but there is no way I'm letting a guy fuck me bare. It's not ideal but swapping condoms even after all that play before is still a good way to reduce risks.

I'm not advocating bare here .

The op was a mff .

So the guy changing condoms for both women seems pointless unless he is protecting himself .

Presumably all parties have shared bodily fluids orally and on fingers .

No even in an mff I'd still expect separate condoms as I don't want my partner bare inside a lady or another guy Bare inside me so I do not think that just because I've been fingered that I wouldn't use a condom. As yes it's still a risk but not as much as having full sex with a guy Bare and with other women I wouldn't trust them with contraception either x "

I have been totally misunderstood here .

I don't say bare , I say changing condom is pointless in a mff .

I can see why it's been taken this way , but I really don't see the point in changing the condom in this scenario .

I also,asked those who said they had done this mff whether they had changed condoms and why .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a bloody good question .

If fingers and tongues are being used on both women , I doubt mouthwash and rubber gloves and hand wash are being used .

So all three parties are enjoying each other to the point of penetration bare .

Then it comes to fucking and it's condom on for sex with lady number one . Then take it off for the second one and put a new one on .

It certainly seems like the guy is protecting himself and the women who have shared fingers and tongues in each other's pussy are the risk .

Or maybe each party uses left hand for lady 1 and right hand for lady 2 ?

And mouthwash is used before licking the second ?

See what I'm saying here ?

Who of the posters who have said in a mff that the condom needs changing has actually done this ?

I've read that using mouthwash directly before or after play actually increases your chances of contracting an std through oral. Have I been misinformed?

-Courtney"

I'm not sure if this is a joke or not , but no that isn't the case .

Our gum clinic recommend corsodyl after oral , and to be fair it makes sense .

And with the amount of cock Sabrina has had , it certainly works for her .

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!

I would stop play immediately (and have done in the past) if I thought a guy was going to use the same condom on me as he had on someone else.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I guessing you all rubber up your toys too. The nurse at our clinic said that ANY skin to skin contact with an unknown partner carries a risk. The only safe sex is a full body condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Common sense!! You expect to use the same condom with two women? That is protecting only you and has total disregard for both women's sexual health and is selfish and irresponsible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a bloody good question .

If fingers and tongues are being used on both women , I doubt mouthwash and rubber gloves and hand wash are being used .

So all three parties are enjoying each other to the point of penetration bare .

Then it comes to fucking and it's condom on for sex with lady number one . Then take it off for the second one and put a new one on .

It certainly seems like the guy is protecting himself and the women who have shared fingers and tongues in each other's pussy are the risk .

Or maybe each party uses left hand for lady 1 and right hand for lady 2 ?

And mouthwash is used before licking the second ?

See what I'm saying here ?

Who of the posters who have said in a mff that the condom needs changing has actually done this ?

I've read that using mouthwash directly before or after play actually increases your chances of contracting an std through oral. Have I been misinformed?

-Courtney"

Not sure about mouthwash but vigorous teeth brushing and flossing is a big no no due to the increased exposure to blood.

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By *aisyDoandDaisyDontWoman
over a year ago

little old town of Reading!


"I guessing you all rubber up your toys too. The nurse at our clinic said that ANY skin to skin contact with an unknown partner carries a risk. The only safe sex is a full body condom."

Yes, of course I would put rubber on, and would expect rubber on the toys of others.

Any sexual contact is a risk for sure, some of it more risky than others. But taking steps to reduce that risk is the sensible thing to do, no? Rather than just saying "ah the hell with it" and not playing safe at all?

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