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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We met our first single guy in over a year he had loads of verifications spent time talking to pixy and me has something that if you could bottle you would make a mint what is it some guys have others wish that had

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

my cock.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

& glad you meet went well .. please for ya

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No! My cock.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yeah, I agree. Meet him again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's nice to see some couples giving the benefit of doubt. There will always be idiots who spoil it for the rest, one only has to look at closing time outside just about any pub. Some of us are genuine and easy to get on with, given the chance. glad it worked for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So the trick for a single male to meet people on here is to have meet people before and been verified by them?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So the trick for a single male to meet people on here is to have meet people before and been verified by them? "
no im guessing its to put the time in or of cause ask the guys themselves how thay charm others so wel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My gladiator body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought this was a tip? :/

It's a question...

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Glad to hear a cheer for all single guys. But to be fair (at the risk of bragging) most single guys like myself are happy to meet, socialise and interact with both halves, however not all. Sometimes there are idiots, sometimes its just a personality clash.

I've met couples that only wanted to meet me socially, just so they could get a verification and then move on to meeting couples.

I've known couples that swear that single guys "bring nothing to the table" (ie, another woman for the male half to shag.. to me that sounds as if his partner is no more than a tradeable bargaining chip)

But then I;ve met couples that, even if the preferences work against me, everyone is not only treated with the dignity and respect as a fellow person, but you end up making good friendships, even if you never play. I have a lot of respect for those couples

And for the couples and single females I've played with... yum! More I say!!

As for verifications, I try to be discreet, but let my summary do the talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand what your point is?

I'm rather confused with your opening paragraph

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"We met our first single guy in over a year he had loads of verifications spent time talking to pixy and me has something that if you could bottle you would make a mint what is it some guys have others wish that had "

so there's no actual "tip" you're just saying you had a good meet with a single guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing (Mr) I find to be quite common with single guys who contact us, is that as soon as they realise it's not Mrs they'e talking to, they stop messaging. On our profile, it's me who does pretty much all the chatting, messaging etc as Mrs has her own profile. So when guys realise it's me chatting, rather than engaging in conversation regardless, they stop, which will get them nowhere in our books.

Although they may be straight, engaging both halves of an MF couple is important. Glad you've had fun and found a good meet OP. X

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I thought this was a tip? :/

It's a question...

"

It is a tip. Can't you smell the landfill?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought this was a tip? :/

It's a question...

It is a tip. Can't you smell the landfill?"

We're calling it landfill now are we?

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I thought this was a tip? :/

It's a question...

It is a tip. Can't you smell the landfill?

We're calling it landfill now are we? "

As the Mohel said "All tips welcome"

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"My gladiator body "

Thought you were a hot Swedish Viking....mmmmmm xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing (Mr) I find to be quite common with single guys who contact us, is that as soon as they realise it's not Mrs they'e talking to, they stop messaging. On our profile, it's me who does pretty much all the chatting, messaging etc as Mrs has her own profile. So when guys realise it's me chatting, rather than engaging in conversation regardless, they stop, which will get them nowhere in our books.

Although they may be straight, engaging both halves of an MF couple is important. Glad you've had fun and found a good meet OP. X"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The tip for the guys is look at the ones that get meets see what others say the good points are maby even ask the ppl them selfes how that do it

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway


"The tip for the guys is look at the ones that get meets see what others say the good points are maby even ask the ppl them selfes how that do it "

OK I have looked so now all I gotta do is figure out how to transform myself into a 6'1 tanned guy with an 8 inch willy that lives near central London,well I guess I better get cracking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The tip for the guys is look at the ones that get meets see what others say the good points are maby even ask the ppl them selfes how that do it "
I have looked too, but not prepared to travel 50+ miles lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My tip for single guys is dont waste your time on here. Get out there and enjoy life. Meet people, join a dating site,whatever,,but dont sit wanking on here and chasing shadows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My tip for single guys is dont waste your time on here. Get out there and enjoy life. Meet people, join a dating site,whatever,,but dont sit wanking on here and chasing shadows."
I like that saying you said there "chasing shadows".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My tip for single guys is dont waste your time on here. Get out there and enjoy life. Meet people, join a dating site,whatever,,but dont sit wanking on here and chasing shadows."

Why are you still on here then?

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Its different for everyone, we don't generally go for single guys as they don't generally float the Mrs boat.

But to all rules there is an exception.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"The tip for the guys is look at the ones that get meets see what others say the good points are maby even ask the ppl them selfes how that do it "

Good point.

It seems the great majority of the "I-can't-get-any-meets" threads aer specifically addressed to women in the hope and expectation of some very personal attention and a possible meet, whereas they should really be addressing the more successful guys on here to find out how they do it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing (Mr) I find to be quite common with single guys who contact us, is that as soon as they realise it's not Mrs they'e talking to, they stop messaging. On our profile, it's me who does pretty much all the chatting, messaging etc as Mrs has her own profile. So when guys realise it's me chatting, rather than engaging in conversation regardless, they stop, which will get them nowhere in our books.

Although they may be straight, engaging both halves of an MF couple is important. Glad you've had fun and found a good meet OP. X"

When I have chatted to couples on here(not that often I know) in most cases you can tell if it's either the Male of Female chatting by what they say, Women usually complement you on your pictures and ask about questions about me/my life,

The Male is usually more direct, Where do you live, Can you accommodate, Can you meet on this date usually in the first few messages, I know most couples have a "swinging window" when meeting but it can be of putting,

I'm not a cock for hire I have my own desires/fantasies as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thing (Mr) I find to be quite common with single guys who contact us, is that as soon as they realise it's not Mrs they'e talking to, they stop messaging. On our profile, it's me who does pretty much all the chatting, messaging etc as Mrs has her own profile. So when guys realise it's me chatting, rather than engaging in conversation regardless, they stop, which will get them nowhere in our books.

Although they may be straight, engaging both halves of an MF couple is important. Glad you've had fun and found a good meet OP. X"

I think this is the dynamic many single males forget. If you approach a couple you interact with both of them. Both males may be straight, but if the male of the couple feels excluded he isn't going to want you playing with his wife! Besides I would feel it impolite not to include the male in any discussion. If not downright rude.

There are probably many males on here who look at the site as instashag and don't get anywhere. But there are also those that quietly go about their business....

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


"One thing (Mr) I find to be quite common with single guys who contact us, is that as soon as they realise it's not Mrs they'e talking to, they stop messaging. On our profile, it's me who does pretty much all the chatting, messaging etc as Mrs has her own profile. So when guys realise it's me chatting, rather than engaging in conversation regardless, they stop, which will get them nowhere in our books.

Although they may be straight, engaging both halves of an MF couple is important. Glad you've had fun and found a good meet OP. X"

My experiences can be quite varied. Usually am not bothered who am talking to (the male or female), I just chat randomly and try to get to know them ie do they have a sense of humour. Eventually the stop chatting or responding to emails. Sometimes when they do respond the response is "I;m female and you were chatting to me like one of your male mates.. you didn't even try to chat me up" or words to hat effect. Or the male half going "tell me what you'd like to do to her".

So either way, seems I can't win

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