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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does people think my profile real or fake all opinions are welcome feel free to ask any questions also .

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Why do you think you might be fake?

Come now, elucidate your thoughts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 meet in person verifications makes me think you're probably real..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I have had a few people say because I hide my pics that's makes me fake I know am not and that should put the question to bed but am intrigued if that's why the people I message don't reply back majority of the time I understand they won't be interested but other times it might because they think am some kind of catfish .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems real enough. Obviously if you're a hottie then i'm gonna become skeptical.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" oh dear "

Intrigue me with this comment lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems real enough. Obviously if you're a hottie then i'm gonna become skeptical. "

Lol that's only for the individual to judge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" oh dear

Intrigue me with this comment lol x"

I can't really because I am unsure if you are a fake a mirage or a hologram

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what way are they thinking your fake though? could mean anything that really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a fake.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" oh dear

Intrigue me with this comment lol x

I can't really because I am unsure if you are a fake a mirage or a hologram

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Haha I am real I asure you X but thanks for your comment x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what way are they thinking your fake though? could mean anything that really. "

Like in don't think I would meet etc,mainly because I work away and there's huge gaps between my meets I'm in the forces I have to go away sometimes that's why .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely a fake."

Appreciate the response sorry that you feel that way maybe I should just start taking random pics of my eyes,mouth separately and I might win people over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have verifications from well verified profiles. That's enough for me.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Seems kosher?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems kosher?"

Please explain .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney"

Thanks Courtney i appreciate your comment and was waiting for someone to say about hiding I'm just like couples and women on here that choose not to show just as well who I show them to l. And I understand why should you chase people with no pics when your getting plenty of messages from guys with pics. But it's different for us men we don't sign in and have 100 messages we have to browse for a meet lol but thanks for the message xx

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"Does people think my profile real or fake all opinions are welcome feel free to ask any questions also ."

If you where not verified I would be suspicious but only because you are not Photo-Verified, but otherwise seems a normal profile to me

Though you might be guilty of setting up a "Look at me Thread"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Does people think my profile real or fake all opinions are welcome feel free to ask any questions also .

If you where not verified I would be suspicious but only because you are not Photo-Verified, but otherwise seems a normal profile to me

Though you might be guilty of setting up a "Look at me Thread" "

Damn you caught me no but I genuinely do seem to come across people thinking am fake but I'm putting that down to people wasting there time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney

Thanks Courtney i appreciate your comment and was waiting for someone to say about hiding I'm just like couples and women on here that choose not to show just as well who I show them to l. And I understand why should you chase people with no pics when your getting plenty of messages from guys with pics. But it's different for us men we don't sign in and have 100 messages we have to browse for a meet lol but thanks for the message xx"

Just for the record, we don't talk with women and couples that have shadow profiles either

The only shadow profiles I message are those from people I know through chatting on the forums and whose profiles I had seen before pictures got hidden.

Your comment on number of messages isn't really pertinent. It might explain why we, as a couple, could have a shadow profile, but it actually makes it more difficult to understand why a single guy would have a shadow profile. I know it's not fair, but it is what it is.

-Courtney

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Real?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney

Thanks Courtney i appreciate your comment and was waiting for someone to say about hiding I'm just like couples and women on here that choose not to show just as well who I show them to l. And I understand why should you chase people with no pics when your getting plenty of messages from guys with pics. But it's different for us men we don't sign in and have 100 messages we have to browse for a meet lol but thanks for the message xx

Just for the record, we don't talk with women and couples that have shadow profiles either

The only shadow profiles I message are those from people I know through chatting on the forums and whose profiles I had seen before pictures got hidden.

Your comment on number of messages isn't really pertinent. It might explain why we, as a couple, could have a shadow profile, but it actually makes it more difficult to understand why a single guy would have a shadow profile. I know it's not fair, but it is what it is.

-Courtney"

Thankyou Courtney does make me realise a little now xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform "

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x"

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.pics .... no comment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x"

Shame there's no way round it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x"

I know x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x"

Does it let you message me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ? "

Ah but no profile pic, so I won't

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

I wouldn't message, simply because of the shadow.

I mostly message people I've seen about on the forums admitted

The forums give a clearer picture of who I'd get on with and who I wouldn't. Stimulate mind first thing

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ? "

You are beginning to sound desperate now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely a fake.

Appreciate the response sorry that you feel that way maybe I should just start taking random pics of my eyes,mouth separately and I might win people over"

Yep, because that's all I have on my profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ?

Ah but no profile pic, so I won't "

I would send you a few on the reply there all in private x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ?

You are beginning to sound desperate now "

Might seem but soldiers I must admit I love a fan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ?

Ah but no profile pic, so I won't

I would send you a few on the reply there all in private x"

And break my rules, no, sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ?

Ah but no profile pic, so I won't

I would send you a few on the reply there all in private x

And break my rules, no, sorry "

Shame why are rules made to be tested and broken haha no I understand x

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ?

Ah but no profile pic, so I won't

I would send you a few on the reply there all in private x

And break my rules, no, sorry "

You stick to your guns and the right man with a pic will come along soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ?

Ah but no profile pic, so I won't

I would send you a few on the reply there all in private x

And break my rules, no, sorry

You stick to your guns and the right man with a pic will come along soon "

Haha they won't come along if she's blocked all men so that's a bit of a silly reply have you not been reading lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look real, you have good verifications from well verified profiles. However, and I do occasionally look at single guy profiles, I wouldn't message purely on the basis of a lack of pics, nor would I reply to any message unless there were pics attached to the first one.

But i do love a man in uniform

Is that a hint for me to drop you a message lol x

Haha you wouldn't be able to message me, then damn filters lol x

Shame there's no way round it x

I know x

Does it let you message me ?

Ah but no profile pic, so I won't

I would send you a few on the reply there all in private x

And break my rules, no, sorry

You stick to your guns and the right man with a pic will come along soon

Haha they won't come along if she's blocked all men so that's a bit of a silly reply have you not been reading lol x"

I have blocked men yes, and I do have a uniform I can look at whenever I wish x

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land

Filters take 3 seconds to deactivate & as long as the profile you are messaging accepts a wink/message from you, any filters are then opened to that profile.

Filters stop randoms messaging only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters take 3 seconds to deactivate & as long as the profile you are messaging accepts a wink/message from you, any filters are then opened to that profile.

Filters stop randoms messaging only "

That is correct ues, but within the time scale should I do that for the Op, I'd probably get 20 other guys message me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney"

However the flaws in your point are that for some poeple it can be a confidence thing as to why the do not have public pics up and for others its a professional matter who are school teachers care workers things like that where private or friends only pics is the only option for them to enjoy there time on here and not worry about someone shouting in the street i recognise you fron a swingers site. But thats just my opinion. He has photos and verifications to know he is real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney

However the flaws in your point are that for some poeple it can be a confidence thing as to why the do not have public pics up and for others its a professional matter who are school teachers care workers things like that where private or friends only pics is the only option for them to enjoy there time on here and not worry about someone shouting in the street i recognise you fron a swingers site. But thats just my opinion. He has photos and verifications to know he is real.

"

First, I never said he wasn't real. I actually noted that his verifications would indicate that he is real.

And I disagree about flaws in my argument. I spoke specifically about why I wouldn't message a shadow profile. If someone has confidence issues, then that is something they need to deal with. If they have a job where they don't want to be recognized, they can join the club along with the majority of the people on fab.

The fact of the matter is, the OP isn't getting messages. I explained why. All the good intentioned reasons in the world won't change that. Public pictures might, to an extent. The OP is free to not have them. But then the results will be obvious, from my point of view.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney

However the flaws in your point are that for some poeple it can be a confidence thing as to why the do not have public pics up and for others its a professional matter who are school teachers care workers things like that where private or friends only pics is the only option for them to enjoy there time on here and not worry about someone shouting in the street i recognise you fron a swingers site. But thats just my opinion. He has photos and verifications to know he is real.

First, I never said he wasn't real. I actually noted that his verifications would indicate that he is real.

And I disagree about flaws in my argument. I spoke specifically about why I wouldn't message a shadow profile. If someone has confidence issues, then that is something they need to deal with. If they have a job where they don't want to be recognized, they can join the club along with the majority of the people on fab.

The fact of the matter is, the OP isn't getting messages. I explained why. All the good intentioned reasons in the world won't change that. Public pictures might, to an extent. The OP is free to not have them. But then the results will be obvious, from my point of view.

-Courtney"

Ok i more than agree with what your saying but i dont think it is a shadow profile if there is pics there just not for public view this could go on forever as there is alot of pros and cons on both sides to this and maybe im slightly bias as my profile is very similar but my partner is on here and she will speak to anyone who can connect with her on a level shadow profile or not but only because she never starts talking to someone with the intension of meeting but more to find out if there is a connection there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You have 4 in person verifications. Would I think you're fake? No.

However, we generally don't talk to what I call "shadow profiles." These are profiles that have no public pics. Why not? Because (1) there are plenty of people who do have them and it's not worth the hassle of getting them from you; and (2) it makes me feel like you have something to hide. Now, I don't expect a public face pic, but there are other pics someone can have public that won't give their identity away.

Everyone is free to run their profile as they want. So this isn't a criticism. I'm just explaining how I would view your profile, because you asked.

I hope you find what you're looking for here, though.

-Courtney

However the flaws in your point are that for some poeple it can be a confidence thing as to why the do not have public pics up and for others its a professional matter who are school teachers care workers things like that where private or friends only pics is the only option for them to enjoy there time on here and not worry about someone shouting in the street i recognise you fron a swingers site. But thats just my opinion. He has photos and verifications to know he is real.

First, I never said he wasn't real. I actually noted that his verifications would indicate that he is real.

And I disagree about flaws in my argument. I spoke specifically about why I wouldn't message a shadow profile. If someone has confidence issues, then that is something they need to deal with. If they have a job where they don't want to be recognized, they can join the club along with the majority of the people on fab.

The fact of the matter is, the OP isn't getting messages. I explained why. All the good intentioned reasons in the world won't change that. Public pictures might, to an extent. The OP is free to not have them. But then the results will be obvious, from my point of view.

-Courtney

Ok i more than agree with what your saying but i dont think it is a shadow profile if there is pics there just not for public view this could go on forever as there is alot of pros and cons on both sides to this and maybe im slightly bias as my profile is very similar but my partner is on here and she will speak to anyone who can connect with her on a level shadow profile or not but only because she never starts talking to someone with the intension of meeting but more to find out if there is a connection there."

You call it whatever you want.

If I see a profile, and all there is visible to me is a shadow, then I call it a shadow profile. And I don't think I'm alone here. Shadow profile does not, for me, indicate that someone is fake. It is just what it says it is...a profile with the only image being a shadow.

You and the OP can do what you want with your profiles. And I will view them as I see fit.

People do things on fab for all sorts of reasons, whether they are good reasons or not. But they seem to forget that their actions will affect how others act. For example, we don't have face pics on the site. We won't send them (especially Marc) on site. If someone wants to see our faces, they will need a different medium. Some people don't like this. And understandably so. We have missed out on meets because of this. But we have what we think are good reasons for this. So, do I moan about not getting to meet these people and give endless excuses for how we choose to conduct ourselves? Nope. I just accept that our choices have consequences.

-Courtney

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

As Courtney has said, a silhouette profile pic (no pic) and no public images would mean that you will be completely ignore by the vast majority of people on this site. We are not looking for single guys, but if your profile was a couples profile we would ignore it.

In fact we click the button that says "has public images in display" when we search, so you wouldn't even show up if we searched.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does people think my profile real or fake all opinions are welcome feel free to ask any questions also ."

Fake? No. Asking questions of you or conversing? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics no hook. No second look

You can be creative with your pics and still not give your identity away.

However due to your veri's I would not think you were fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters take 3 seconds to deactivate & as long as the profile you are messaging accepts a wink/message from you, any filters are then opened to that profile.

Filters stop randoms messaging only

That is correct ues, but within the time scale should I do that for the Op, I'd probably get 20 other guys message me too "

Or alternatively the Op could put a pic up fora few minutes, I could then look and decide whether to message or not, and then he could take it down again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does people think my profile real or fake all opinions are welcome feel free to ask any questions also ."

I am going with you being one of the escaped sentient fake profiles, simply because that is easier to understand than either posting an "am I real" thread, or wondering why men out numbering women 10+ to 1 would need pictures to get meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and i agreed with some of your points but for some self conscious people it is not an option for public pictures unlike your self. For some it takes time and trust to be able to freely post pics of them selves.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Yes and i agreed with some of your points but for some self conscious people it is not an option for public pictures unlike your self. For some it takes time and trust to be able to freely post pics of them selves. "

I understand that, but a single guy, with no pics at all, not a bum pic, a back pic, and arm pic, does not have a snowballs chance of getting a meet on here, in my opinion anyway. Maybe I'm wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Filters take 3 seconds to deactivate & as long as the profile you are messaging accepts a wink/message from you, any filters are then opened to that profile.

Filters stop randoms messaging only

That is correct ues, but within the time scale should I do that for the Op, I'd probably get 20 other guys message me too

Or alternatively the Op could put a pic up fora few minutes, I could then look and decide whether to message or not, and then he could take it down again "

Sorry babe how ever much I would love to I just cannot it wouldn't hurt you messaging me you could block me if you don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Filters take 3 seconds to deactivate & as long as the profile you are messaging accepts a wink/message from you, any filters are then opened to that profile.

Filters stop randoms messaging only

That is correct ues, but within the time scale should I do that for the Op, I'd probably get 20 other guys message me too

Or alternatively the Op could put a pic up fora few minutes, I could then look and decide whether to message or not, and then he could take it down again

Sorry babe how ever much I would love to I just cannot it wouldn't hurt you messaging me you could block me if you don't like "

You do like being chased don't you

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City


"Yes and i agreed with some of your points but for some self conscious people it is not an option for public pictures unlike your self. For some it takes time and trust to be able to freely post pics of them selves. "

If people are too self concious to add a couple of non identifiable pics, then god help them on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and i agreed with some of your points but for some self conscious people it is not an option for public pictures unlike your self. For some it takes time and trust to be able to freely post pics of them selves.

If people are too self concious to add a couple of non identifiable pics, then god help them on a meet."

I have pictures i happily send with confidence but that is to a person of my choice not just out there for anyone to see. And i have tried to take a few non identifiable photos but therebare not many bodies out there like the figure im rocking haha

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